Zzor:
haaaaaaaaaa,wonders shall never end ooooo,its good to be careful in this life oooo.

lkillbrokehoes:

Zzor:
so you are a married man, hmmm na wa ooo

tppzzy01:

It's a gift I have. When my mind tells me something, I should not doubt it. Coming together is what I see. Peace
Thank God you have calm down. I can't imagine how happy he will be for you to pick his call. You are doing well. Lol

You can't believe I followed this topic from page 1 to the end before I make my comment. I have never go this far in a topic b4. Am alone and the topic amused me and kept me busy.���

lkillbrokehoes:
See dis one oh? I have the most beautiful, sedulous, amazing woman filled with huge sense of humour and lastly not a gold digger like 80% of Nigeria ladies and we are blessed with a cute kid, if she wasn't worth it I wouldn't have made her my woman

olaife80:


Honestly I followed as well and was monitoring what transpired between them even when I lost a dearest person that I was full of thought.
Just that I have learned not to put mouth for relationship talk why I didn't bother to reply but always read and pick tangible opinions.

My own advice (even though i don't want to shook mouth) is for both to learn how to keep secrets and sort their differences amicably without bringing it to public if eventually they date and married.

Madam Calli make una reduce your ego oo and Mr Daf learn how to lockup.

lkillbrokehoes:
She isn't, if Poco is married everyone will know here

Zzor:
Ofcourse I wouldn't expect you to type anything negative about her, but you never for once behaved like a married man here, you were open to meeting people, you are deceitful and cunny,you are wicked as well.

Bodyodour:
anyone that will marry will be lucky but age is not on her side.

CalliDora1:
Long post. Please bear with me.

This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me.

Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. So I sort of got trapped.

Now here's the issue. He would always want to know about my biz and job. If I went or not. So I decided to test him. He would always call and ask if I've eaten. So that day, I said no (was fasting) but didn't want to divulge it to him that I was fasting. He called later in the day and asked again, I said I've not eaten, he dropped. I now felt he prolly thought I wanted him to feed me huh??.. I observed he reduced his calls. Third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said "na wa o" I was like why, he said I'm sorry I can't help. Huh?? I don't remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I've not eaten ( cos I had not broken my fast then) and he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help. And since then he stopped calling only to chat after a week to ask if the biz I was pursuing was through. I ignored him and for two months no contact.

Just last night he chatted me up again asking if I've resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he's free to call me bla bla. And since last night hes been trying to keep up chats but I'm kinda cold towards him and he asked why I'm so cold. Acting like nothing happened.

Now, this is what I feel. so if someone is truly dying of hunger (God forbid) you'll abandon the fellow? or that they can't date someone who's biz is shaky or has not resumed work due to a global crises that affected everyone? I'm not saying anybody should carry someone else's burden ( there was really no burden anywhere as God has been faithful.) but I don't understand what actually played out there and why he's all of a sudden interested again after learning I've resumed work. I don't just understand because I don't want to be rude. Was that a right thing?

I'm really confused here because.. I mean.. I never asked you to help me with anything but being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me scale through the bordom I felt that period of compulsory break from work and biz but he went into Oblivion even when I never placed any demands on him.

I bow to men and the way they reason o.

lkillbrokehoes:
Oh shut up! the only person that's deceitful, cunny and wicked should be u not me

pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...

omooba969:


How do you know?

omooba969:


How do you know?

lkillbrokehoes:
Believe me I'm not the one, I hv a beautiful fiancée already and we have a lovely kid together, I just want to help u out that's all

Bodyodour:
she has mentioned her age on nairaland .

lkillbrokehoes:
See dis one oh? I have the most beautiful, sedulous, amazing woman filled with huge sense of humour and lastly not a gold digger like 80% of Nigeria ladies and we are blessed with a cute kid, if she wasn't worth it I wouldn't have made her my woman

CalliDora1:


Poco bia, I'm not guilty of anything you spotted up there. I already explained I don't like letting people know when I'm fasting that was why I kept it that way and expected him to stop asking the first time I didn't give tangible reasons and didn't request from him either.

Ok, why did he keep asking without offering anything? That alone in itself is annoying but I didn't count it. Yet he kept asking, which was why I decided to play him.

I don't know the angle you're viewing this from but let me tell you, it's not what you think.

Gracias.

omooba969:


Adonbilivit.

Zzor:
yeye, smooth talker, thank God I'm not easily carried away. Let me see you near any of my friends here again, I will expose you.

Bodyodour:
I don't believe its her real age. Maybe she doesn't want unnecessary DM's

Bodyodour:
I don't believe its her real age. Maybe she doesn't want unnecessary DM's

lkillbrokehoes:
Lolz u are crazy, the last time I checked u don't have any friends here, I've already warned dorin27 to stay away from u before u corrupt her

omooba969:


Share her pix let's see..

lkillbrokehoes:
It's her real age bro, so u think she's a small girl? pocohantas done open eyes since

Zzor:
when i warned dorin27 about you, she thought I was joking, I don't know how but I saw through you even when you start sounding convincing.Deceitful cunny man

Bodyodour:
lol. I dont see her as that small if you look at her profile picture

omooba969:


Because most of them don't necessarily have the skills to rap&roll, they miss out on a lot of stuff when it comes to relationship.

We have correct hardworking men and ladies on this forum.

lkillbrokehoes:
She's obviously 40

CalliDora1:
Long post. Please bear with me.

This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me.

Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. So I sort of got trapped.

Now here's the issue. He would always want to know about my biz and job. If I went or not. So I decided to test him. He would always call and ask if I've eaten. So that day, I said no (was fasting) but didn't want to divulge it to him that I was fasting. He called later in the day and asked again, I said I've not eaten, he dropped. I now felt he prolly thought I wanted him to feed me huh??.. I observed he reduced his calls. Third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said "na wa o" I was like why, he said I'm sorry I can't help. Huh?? I don't remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I've not eaten ( cos I had not broken my fast then) and he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help. And since then he stopped calling only to chat after a week to ask if the biz I was pursuing was through. I ignored him and for two months no contact.

Just last night he chatted me up again asking if I've resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he's free to call me bla bla. And since last night hes been trying to keep up chats but I'm kinda cold towards him and he asked why I'm so cold. Acting like nothing happened.

Now, this is what I feel. so if someone is truly dying of hunger (God forbid) you'll abandon the fellow? or that they can't date someone who's biz is shaky or has not resumed work due to a global crises that affected everyone? I'm not saying anybody should carry someone else's burden ( there was really no burden anywhere as God has been faithful.) but I don't understand what actually played out there and why he's all of a sudden interested again after learning I've resumed work. I don't just understand because I don't want to be rude. Was that a right thing?

I'm really confused here because.. I mean.. I never asked you to help me with anything but being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me scale through the bordom I felt that period of compulsory break from work and biz but he went into Oblivion even when I never placed any demands on him.

I bow to men and the way they reason o.

lkillbrokehoes:
So that u can mastúrbate with her picture abi? u this chronic randy he-goat..thunder fire u there