Bodyodour:
haaa!! She don clock menopause without marrying?? Not possible. In one of her comments she was mentioned of her "oga"

Nah lie

tppzzy01:

In fact, I was just monitoring how the thing will end. At a point, I was about to lost interest, then, something again will come up. like Cali trying to put fire again. lol.
I also lost a dearest friend 3 months ago in person of my wife and I was just alone thinking a lot. So the topic was just giving some kind of free mind. Those two are just something else. Lol
Sorry about the lose. May God grant the person eternal rest

Me I was following with keen interest, I really want to know the end as well before my curious thought proved to be wrong.

The Pocohantas lady has really end the discussion only if Calli was ready to listen and not been emotional, although a woman would always behave like one.

At the bolded, that is where the young man Daf didn't thread carefully and read between lines, I was even expecting a summary of what transpired (even though if he wanted to reply to justify himself) and finally lockup and never show face with his comment again. By so doing he would have won the discussion. For me, mehnn as Cali brought the discussion out here, I have finally taken full control of that relationship.

Please you guys should just work somethings out, and remember times you have shared. Because I know you have feelings for eachother.
Wish you guys the very best...

The thread really carry away my boredom as i was devastated, thanks to them for making me smile today .
Sorry for your loss as well, thanks a bunch. May their Souls continue to rest in peace.

Bodyodour:
this forum never believes they is anyone good here. They just generalise and call each other "leeches" and "hoodlums"

Lol

Calli dear what's up. Thanks for cheering me up this evening.

Michdaf:
Calli dear what's up. Thanks for cheering me up this evening.

Lol

See cruise

omooba969:

Lol
See cruise

Na serious cruise. I didn't know I had a beauty in her

Michdaf:
Calli dear what's up. Thanks for cheering me up this evening.

you don start again, hope you won't Usain Bolt this time?
lol, wishing you the best.

dontai:
you don start again, hope you won't Usain Bolt this time?
lol, wishing you the best.

Usain Bolt ke.

Michdaf:
Usain Bolt ke.

Give us the full gist na.
I'll always be checking on this thread to read updates.
Cali, how far?

[quote author=Michdaf post=96260678]Calli dear what's up. Thanks for cheering me up this evening. [/quo

..

pozehnani:


You're welcome.

Told you I was banned because I insulted one guy here.

Hope you've called this night to know how baba is faring. Try and do midnight prayers for him, please.

Be like say na Cali be dis o.

Michdaf:
Na serious cruise. I didn't know I had a beauty in her

Your 2nd cumming coming would be intense , just make sure you use raincoat or else 2sec everywhere burst.

pozehnani:


You're welcome.

Told you I was banned because I insulted one guy here.

Hope you've called this night to know how baba is faring. Try and do midnight prayers for him, please.

Yeah i called. I didn't know this moniker.

Michdaf:
Yeah i called. I didn't know this moniker.

Sorry wrong mention.

olaife80:


Me I was following with keen interest, I really want to know the end as well before my curious thought proved to be wrong.

The Pocohantas lady has really end the discussion only if Calli was ready to listen and not been emotional, although a woman would always behave like one.

At the bolded, that is where the young man Daf didn't thread carefully and read between lines, I was even expecting a summary of what transpired (even though if he wanted to reply to justify himself) and finally lockup and never show face with his comment again. By so doing he would have won the discussion. For me, mehnn as Cali brought the discussion out here, I have finally taken full control of that relationship.

Please you guys should just work somethings out, and remember times you have shared. Because I know you have feelings for eachother.
Wish you guys the very best...

The thread really carry away my boredom as i was devastated, thanks to them for making me smile today .
Sorry for your loss as well, thanks a bunch. May their Souls continue to rest in peace.

In fact, the thread is something else.
Thank you

CrazyMan:

You might actually not need anything from him, but in Nigeria today the worst test you can give to a single man in an early stage of a relationship is indirectly telling him your problem. Believe me more than 85% would take off. Reason being that greedy girls have abused the gesture of generous guys. Some guys are naturally generous but past experiences with the wrong people have made them wiser.

Therefore it's always advisable to keep your personal problems to yourself in the early stages of a relationship so that the relationship can grow.

I'm not blaming you tho...the guy himself didn't do well by showing concern about your business and neglecting your health. He should have at least inquired. I myself I'm an inquisitive person. If I claim to care about you and you tell me you haven't eaten I'll ask you why, if you tell me you're broke it's now left for me to ignore or reply you. He should have questioned you till he gets to the root of the matter. At least that's what caring means...let her ask for the urgent 2k before ghosting her.

This is gold!

Let us tell ourselves the truth. there's nothing good that will come out of this government, is like waiting for a ship to arrive at the airport, is that really possible. this government is a total failure, those that called themselves leaders are so selfish, brainless, murderers, grand theft, vampires, liars, criminals, tricksters. they should continue killing innocents people to save their own heads, but let them know that it will all end one day.

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WE ALL ARE NOT SAME!THIS GUY LOOKS MORE OF A GOLD DIGGER TO ME!RUN FOR UR LIFE!!

Bola146:
I have met a lot of guys in Angel's image and I have met some useless, insane, kids, lazy guys here on nairaland, so I'm not surprised. I think he is looking forward to know much about you financially and materially. Just don't expose all your life to him, he is a pretender looking for sugar mummy ( they are many here especially those kids ) he knew you couldn't be hungry , just play along with him.

... Word! This your post cracked me up real hard. You seem to be wiser and more ruthless with age.

Afam4eva:
I've come to realize that when people ask you "How are you?"/ They're not asking because they care or wan to help if you have any issues. They're asking because they feel it's a courtesy to do so. And they expect you to answer that you're fine.

True but l don't think it is the right thing to do. Some people general say they are fine to avoid long talk.

enemyofprogress:
Must you come here to talk about us?must you? I was only trying to test you but you have failed my test? What do you want to eat that I cannot afford? You brought our private issues here for everyone to discuss, I hope you would be bold enough to tell them everything. Please go ahead and tell them everything before I open up to them. Mtcheeeeeew

So you are the person asking her whether she don chop ?

AnonymousRebec:


So you are the person asking her whether she don chop ?

yes na me? Wetin happen?

enemyofprogress:
yes na me? Wetin happen?

Nothing oo. I just dey ask

AnonymousRebec:


Nothing oo. I just dey ask

you wan collect the babe from me abi?

enemyofprogress:
you wan collect the babe from me abi?

Not at all oo . I'm a lady . Na amebo I dey do

AnonymousRebec:


Not at all oo . I'm a lady . Na amebo I dey do

you are a lady? You fit be lesbian now

enemyofprogress:
you are a lady? You fit be lesbian now

I'm not a lesbian, abeg.

Sixfeetbelle:


Still doesn't answer my question.

Is now rich enough to turn maga or what?



If I'm the girl, since I didn't plan to bill him before but he jakpa on his own, his return will be filled with transaction up and down. Nonsense

Girls can bill anyone, both rich and poor.

CalliDora1:
Long post. Please bear with me.

This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me.

Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. So I sort of got trapped.

Now here's the issue. He would always want to know about my biz and job. If I went or not. So I decided to test him. He would always call and ask if I've eaten. So that day, I said no (was fasting) but didn't want to divulge it to him that I was fasting. He called later in the day and asked again, I said I've not eaten, he dropped. I now felt he prolly thought I wanted him to feed me huh??.. I observed he reduced his calls. Third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said "na wa o" I was like why, he said I'm sorry I can't help. Huh?? I don't remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I've not eaten ( cos I had not broken my fast then) and he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help. And since then he stopped calling only to chat after a week to ask if the biz I was pursuing was through. I ignored him and for two months no contact.

Just last night he chatted me up again asking if I've resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he's free to call me bla bla. And since last night hes been trying to keep up chats but I'm kinda cold towards him and he asked why I'm so cold. Acting like nothing happened.

Now, this is what I feel. so if someone is truly dying of hunger (God forbid) you'll abandon the fellow? or that they can't date someone who's biz is shaky or has not resumed work due to a global crises that affected everyone? I'm not saying anybody should carry someone else's burden ( there was really no burden anywhere as God has been faithful.) but I don't understand what actually played out there and why he's all of a sudden interested again after learning I've resumed work. I don't just understand because I don't want to be rude. Was that a right thing?

I'm really confused here because.. I mean.. I never asked you to help me with anything but being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me scale through the bordom I felt that period of compulsory break from work and biz but he went into Oblivion even when I never placed any demands on him.

I bow to men and the way they reason o.

haaaa, men like that plenty for Abuja. Using style to sniff out a lady with juicy pockets. They don't truly care. Omo tell the guy his silly fault and let him getaway cos he seems to be hopelessly broke sef

CalliDora1:


My dear. @bolded is my thoughts because he resumed the question this morning again.

Sugar what?.. this person I'm telling you is a MAN as in very mature guy and from all indications he's not a play boy. But why he pulled that stunt at the last minute was what got me upset and worried.

I'm thinking whether to download all he did to him and how I see it or just block him.

I don't want to appear wicked or rude but my interest is no longer there.

Download it to him. Him no get sense.

SweetCunt97:
haaaa, men like that plenty for Abuja. Using style to sniff out a lady with juicy pockets. They don't truly care. Omo tell the guy his silly fault and let him getaway cos he seems to be hopelessly broke sef

Really?
What is really happening? I mean, men now only want to a working class or a lady who's well to do and that thing is very common here. So who'll date those that are still struggling to get a job? No oo.. it's not right.

CalliDora1:


Really?
What is really happening? I mean, men now only want to a working class or a lady who's well to do and that thing is very common here. So who'll date those that are still struggling to get a job? No oo.. it's not right.

It's awful dear.