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| First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:05pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Hey guys. I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls. So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things. Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue  . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too 258 Likes 25 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Cutehector(m): 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
She Don cast for that area. Use your head bro, she is not who you think she is. 612 Likes 38 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Bennysam: 8:09pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
She have a boyfriend or someone around there that fucking her and she doesn’t want that person to see her 346 Likes 16 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Starz825(m): 8:11pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Cutehector:chai... nairalanders no dey disappoint op...use your head 302 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Cutehector: Exactly my belief. She's using church yo masquerade 146 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Bennysam: So clear 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Samakus: Oga, stop being a child. For first date, ask her to suggest a venue and location. It's takes two to tangle, if she doesn't like the place you suggested, you should have asked her where is comfortable and convenient for her. Up your game. 312 Likes 16 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by revived: 8:18pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
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| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:19pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
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| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by WoundedLamb: 8:19pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
The way you described the place, it seems like somewhere men normally take their catches to before devouring them later at night. If that is the case, her concerns might be genuine cause any girl seen entering such places with a man is already considered a LovePeddler. Like some already said it's also possible she's well known there and therefore is trying not to give out her history. But wait, you asked her out and she agreed and you want to dictate the location? Lol 199 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by iceybux(m): 8:21pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Just for being an arsenal fan..even if the useless team dey fup... Just let go thT chic... She's. Got some skeletons 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by peacekante: 8:22pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Lol 2 Likes |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Preshmane(m): 8:25pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
you should have let her decide the venue as it's the first date ... 46 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Uzomacharles: 8:31pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
BestAccessories: Are you the one in charge of the relationship or the girl? 58 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:35pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
WoundedLamb: Nah. It's a place everyman likes taking his woman to. 1 Like |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:36pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
 iceybux: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 8:37pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Uzomacharles: Asking for suggestion doesn't make you weak. Beside I said suggestions not recommendation. Beside it's a relationship and like I said earlier, it takes 2 to tangle. Beside it works for me. Although I set boundaries when I asked for suggestions. Example, I am based on the mainland in Lagos, if I am going on a date with a babe based on the island,I asked for us to find a middle ground and she suggests venue that's convenient for her. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:37pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
BestAccessories: I won't do that, sorry. I would rather 'down' my game. Now, run along sir 101 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 8:40pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
BestAccessories: Don't use Lagos to set a bar. Where I am is a close circuit emerging town. It takes 5 to 10 minutes to get to anywhere you're going to. Hope you grab. And,, there's no 'relationship' here yet. 31 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Uzomacharles: 8:51pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
BestAccessories:Ur example is another dimension |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 8:55pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Samakus: I only used Lagos as an example sir. You see, you still have to meet her at place that's convenient for her for the first date. If it's church, make it work there. After the initial first meeting, you can move to your next plan. If she isn't comfortable with the place your suggest for the first time meeting,find a compromise that's both comfortable for both parties. If you insist that it had to be the place you recommend and she doesn't like it, forget her and go fish for another gal. Ciao 57 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Uzomacharles: Thanks. Relationship is about what and what you're ready to compromise on and when. If a girl insist I must come to the island for the first time, she had better agreed that the next date is on the mainland and she is coming. 3 Likes |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 9:01pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
BestAccessories: The bolded has been activated already. Thanks for your advice all the same 10 Likes |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Reminds me of one of Brad Paisly"s love song waiting on a woman dude sat on a bench in a train station waiting on a chick that promised to see him but the babe stood him up and that got him messed up Actually said it was a real life event in his life that inspired him to make that song OP forget about the girl she is just not into u 17 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by czarr(m): 9:07pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
OGA it depends on what you are looking for, are you looking for a wife or you want to release tension in your balls? if it's that latter then it shouldn't bother you if she has skeletons in her cupboard. change venue and continue parole. But if you are already Catching Feelings and you want something serious with her then stop and reconsider because from her actions you can tell she is not only from the street, she is from the Galactic highway. 48 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by stacyadams: 9:07pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
 me no d lik sun day parole or weekend parole, cum be lik dem release all d dick,harry, philo,alaba boiz,ladipo boiz, olosho,danfo drivers,maruwa drivers from cage.....all d joints go dey filled up,loud music Every where,...we chill on week days in a calm lodge,, if u give girl Real rap na straight to ur room 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by WrittyWritter(f): 9:10pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
D babe dey disguise..she may have a good reason wen she said 'village people'..she probably did not mean her town people but some people dat must not see her there with a guy..it can be her bf..customers  ..or family members or friends..  40 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by tnerro1(m): 9:16pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
I know that feeling, there are some areas I no Dey waka pass for day or nite make persin no throw stone for my head 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by baralatie(m): 9:18pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Y WrittyWritter:Meaning she is well known person and would definitely have someone she might be seeing! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by baralatie(m): 9:19pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Summary You are chasing the wrong woman And you are using the wrong protocol 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Mcslize: 9:20pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Samakus: I had same experience with a girl sometime ago. But mine I invited her straight to my house. I no longer take girls to fast food. So she asked for my place and immediately I told her she said she won't come again. I was surprised. So I started asking her what the issue was. Why she suddenly changed her mind? But she was just beating around the bush how boys in my areas are play boys so and so and that. I simply told her, that can't be the reason why she changed her mind. I started pressing forward trying to know why. After so much back and forth talk, she finally opened up to me that she has an ex in my area. So I asked if she was still seeing the guy so she said no. I tried making her comfortable by convincing her that she shouldn't see that as an issue. When a girl refuses to come over to a place you suggested, there is 100% possibility that she has someone in that area or she has some skeletons she is trying to hide away from in that area of which she doesn't want anyone that knows her in the area to see her. 63 Likes 6 Shares |
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