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Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by SweetCunt97(f): 10:24pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus:Stay there and allow guys who never see girl pant talk less of girl liking them fool you into believing nonsense. Don't be too quick to judge a person's character. Besides you ought to ask her if she's OK with d venue if not you change it. Simple. What she was before she met you shouldn't b ur concern but what she decides to be knowing u. 7 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by erico2k2(m): 10:24pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
BestAccessories:U want to take a girl out for the 1st time and you want her to choose a place,?and you say you got game really?? A date is meant to be a place she does not know to Introduce a wee element of surprise. asking her to chose is like telling her you gonna go dutch! 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by mickelkingz(m): 10:25pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
na olosho wey repent.. 4 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by 15ssDRIVE(m): 10:25pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Bennysam: Badoooooooooooo spotedddddddddd |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by MrTAnonymous(m): 10:26pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Since you said that she is a church girl, she might be scared of what people in the area might say when they see her going out with a man considering the fact that they know that she is a church girl. You know this 'silly church mentality'. Incase you don't know na me talk 4 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Dailyhappenings: 10:27pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Ogbeni, na the money she want...no be any cool place to hang out..just offer her say you go send money see the speed of light she go send acct details...oshi...wetin dey sweet my body this evening na how Davido pikin dey sing Jowo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YF9OU0wzZAA |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by stillmaticOG(m): 10:29pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
She don cast for that eatery. A bunch of niggas have probably took her there in the past so she's scared of bumping into one of her numerous boyfriends 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by ThEGodFaThEr101(m): 10:30pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Listen and listen good, that girl is definitely hiding something from you and that's the reason she's trying to avoid that particular area. Take her to another joint or allow her choose a place, but have it in mind that you're dealing with a runs or Parole chick. Do your own and free her with immediate effect. You're dealing with an "ABANDA". dont fu.....ck and stay, fu.....ck, refuck and leave for your own good. When it comes to women, dont swallow whatever they tell you "Hookline and Sinker", use your head and not your heart. Lastly, Op you be Original Mumu. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by DIVIPRO: 10:30pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Starz825:For sure. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by WilliamsDeGreat: 10:30pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: A girl I met today. I asked her let's see she said where am I taking her to. I told her shoprite to watch movie. She said no I should take her for shopping instead to buy clothes. Nigerian girls are useless o 6 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by MyPoint: 10:30pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: It shows she is a good girl. It is your first date for goodness sake. And you want to showcase her to your peers and neighborhood. What happens to her image if the friendship/relationship led no where? You have to invest some time and patience until the friendship gets a direction. She is smart. 1. She is thinking of her safety. Many young ladies have been kidnapped through this method. 2. Many young ladies have been raped by this method. By the way, Why do you have to call by 4pm after making your arrangement? Is it not enough to raise suspensions? 5 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by apache77(m): 10:31pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
You did the right thing jare. And i am sure the girl is a young girl, which can be excused. Mine was an old ass girl-29yr old woman fa, and i cldnt overlook it for any reason. We met once and after some days, i tried to fix a date-to take her one of the best places in our side of town. She was like, nooo- the place is always too busy- she diesnt want that kinda bottles set up and noisy music. She didnt call me when she was supposed to call me, so i come get her. So chinned up and let it slide. By the way, the place was near her work place, why i chose it in the first place to avoid getting stuck in traffic. Okay, following weekend, i said lemme take her out again. She asked, hope not that same place i wanted to take her last time, i said no. I now asked her what she likes. She said dinner (am sure so she would be doing snapchat on my bill), movies and stuff. I said ok, no p, with the intention to take her to a cozy alfresco bar/ restaurant in her side of town. Very sleek place, one of the best in the city, meaning one of the best in Nigeria. She obviously didnt knw the place, which was neaer her side of town. When i mentioned it, like an hour before il come get her, this grown woman(not 16 or 23) said she is not interested. Surprised, i asked why? Do you know the place? She said no. Is it because its on this side of town? She said yes. I said no problem. Shame that you dont know the place, you cldnt even google it, and you decided against. No p il go on my own, i refused to change venues. Seems she now googled the place, was wowed and then hit me up, saying, her judgement about the place was quite hasty she shoulnt have concluded just like that. I said good, she knows, but i was gone. She was watching my snap as i was frolicking two other girls with buffet dinner. The peppering on my status was too much. I think she blocked me two weeks later. Stoooopid bitch. Becos u get big breast n big nyash. Nansense. How can you be condioning me, where to take you on my own bill. Because you get boutique? All these big breast, big nyash girls no dey get sense. They are like a tribe 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by ozueozue(m): 10:31pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
No b one no b two, she b palliative many guys for that place don loot her tire. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by juneman: 10:32pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Confirmed Guy! Guy you sabi. Person wey u neva marry... U don dey control BestAccessories: |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:32pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Cutehector: Tho badt gan |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:33pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: Well since you met her in church yiu should have allow her to pick venue just for her peace of mind. Then next time you take her to.your preferred location we live to learn i hope you've learn from this experience. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:33pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
BestAccessories: After all, two can play the game |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by hinere(m): 10:33pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Enjoy yourself jare. Life na once. You can't come and kill yourself. But wait o...wetin dey do some girls Afterall, na you go still use your money pay for meal and drink. Her job, na just to chop clean mouth That's why men need to look for how to double their income becos if care is not taken, you will finish all you have on top woman without knowing. You keep money in the Bank, bank too don turn SARS. They will keep deducting ur money telling you its for charges. Men need to INVEST. Men need to INVEST their money to Double it. Men need to invest in already thriving ventures. Right now, the best are Real Estate Investment and Agricultural Investment And I'm not talking about stressing yourself buying blocks to build house or carrying cutlass to enter farm...NO. I'm talking about investing in already thriving Real Estate and Agricultural Ventures. Agriculture is the Future. Real Estate is the Way. When you invest in Agriculture, you get 55% Profit in months. When you invest in Real Estate, you get 45% Profit in months. Men should think Wisely. Men should think Investments Men should think of Increasing their income than Saving. Saving never makes you rich. Investment does. To know more about this and how to invest, Click here https://www.nairaland.com/6235562/invest-agriculture-make-up-55 https://www.nairaland.com/6237567/invest-real-estate-make-up 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by friendl: 10:36pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Women are like smoke ,anywhere you notice smoke ,fire no far 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Akatta(m): 10:36pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Guy ,are you sure say no be for Blue Spot cafe u want carry her go? Because the way u describe the place want come be like Blue spot for morrocco junction. Samakus: |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
OK |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by kunle75(m): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Cutehector: You already have my response, I will que behind you on this. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by popefuse(m): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
probably she chop food for that eatery once and she japa she no pay |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Coldie(m): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Guys no dae chyke girls again o. Y are u wasting ur money 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Awoo88: 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
People know her with different men! Her matter don cast for that place, |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Alaganature(m): 10:41pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: The money wey you want go spend for her, I'll be glad if you can send me Airtel#500 from it... Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 10:42pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
erico2k2: Well, basically if we meet online and we are meeting for the first time, I give the lady the honour of suggesting a place she is comfortable with for a start. Maybe because I drive, it's convenient for me to navigate my way around and also remember I said First meeting. For girls I meet offline, I suggest the place we meet. Patapata, I will come pick you up at your apartment and drive you to the location/venue. Asking a girl I meet online to suggest a place we will meet for the first time allows me: 1. Understand if allow taste aligned. 2. The type of person you're truly are. 3. No strings attached, opportunity to japa if what I expect isn't what you got. It works for me. Asking her to suggest, doesn't mean I will accept the suggestion. It's a Suggestion, I asked for not Recommendation. 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Kokaine(m): 10:43pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: Please let's be talking about things we can do to move this country forward abeg. Not all these chin chin matter. Things like this, just discuss them with your close friends and allow real issues take the front page. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by jaxxy(m): 10:44pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: Actually alot of gals like to pick a convient place on the 1st date. It’s only gentlemanly to oblige being a 1st and even 2nd date until she’s comfortable or u know what and type of places she likes. Some gals like noisy places where u can barely hear urselves talk and some like quiet places where u have good conversation. Especially on a 1st date. I really don’t know what u expected or probably the time of gals uve been used to. Reminds me of my amazing ex remember our 1st date we meet at a quiet eatery jusy outside her estate and there were barely people inside just a handful. We had good conversation, shared experiences and it was simple bt good date. Her smile was like the sun rays in the night. I feel bad almost everyday that I let her go bt we move. Lol |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by WoundedLamb: 10:46pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Uzomacharles: Relationship? Is that what y'all call first date in Nigeria? Why do you let ego come in the way of logic? You walked up to a girl and convinced her to go out with you and then you turn around to start dictating where the meeting must be? The girl hasn't even accepted to be your girl and you're already fighting for who's in charge? Wow... 2 Likes |
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