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Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by streetsoldier1(m): 11:22pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: She has a lot to hide. Be thankful she didn't turn up with her friends to eat and take something home. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Dinho20(m): 11:23pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
“ʟᴏᴠᴇ ɪs ᴘᴀᴛɪᴇɴᴛ, ʟᴏᴠᴇ ɪs ᴋɪɴᴅ. ɪᴛ ᴅᴏᴇs ɴᴏᴛ ᴇɴᴠʏ, ɪᴛ ᴅᴏᴇs ɴᴏᴛ ʙᴏᴀsᴛ, ɪᴛ ɪs ɴᴏᴛ ᴘʀᴏᴜᴅ. ɪᴛ ᴅᴏᴇs ɴᴏᴛ ᴅɪsʜᴏɴᴏʀ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀs, ɪᴛ ɪs ɴᴏᴛ sᴇʟғ-sᴇᴇᴋɪɴɢ, ɪᴛ ɪs ɴᴏᴛ ᴇᴀsɪʟʏ ᴀɴɢᴇʀᴇᴅ, ɪᴛ ᴋᴇᴇᴘs ɴᴏ ʀᴇᴄᴏʀᴅ ᴏғ ᴡʀᴏɴɢs. ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴅᴏᴇs ɴᴏᴛ ᴅᴇʟɪɢʜᴛ ɪɴ ᴇᴠɪʟ ʙᴜᴛ ʀᴇᴊᴏɪᴄᴇs ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛʀᴜᴛʜ. ɪᴛ ᴀʟᴡᴀʏs ᴘʀᴏᴛᴇᴄᴛs, ᴀʟᴡᴀʏs ᴛʀᴜsᴛs, ᴀʟᴡᴀʏs ʜᴏᴘᴇs, ᴀʟᴡᴀʏs ᴘᴇʀsᴇᴠᴇʀᴇs. ʟᴏᴠᴇ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ғᴀɪʟs” (1 ᴄᴏʀɪɴᴛʜɪᴀɴs 13:4- |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Starzo: 11:25pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:and how exactly is seeing ur stinky pant an achievement ?? |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by iezeiyida(m): 11:27pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Bro, forget long story and continue with your game, if you really need yourown share of the city cake |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by erico2k2(m): 11:27pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
BestAccessories:What you are narrating is a total opposite of what the OP is saying, OP met her in a church, Online you both, meet in a safe place neutral to both of you somewhere you and her feel safe not just her. After the link-up, you can now arrange the 1st date.it is at this point we are o n same page as OP. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 11:29pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
ume1000: Apparently you don't understand anything I have wrote so far. So there is no point engaging you in further discussion. So to you, because i date just any girl make me a fraudster. Lemme break it down for you or come down a bit your level. First, I don't go on date with students. It's a NO/NO for me. If you're still collecting feeding allowance at home, I can't date you. It's simple and straightforward. Second, I appreciate maturity, so I don't date anything below 25/27 year. Third, There is a difference between asking for suggestions and asking for recommendation. Go understand the difference. Fourth, I earn my living through legitimate means, so I can't afford to spend lavishly on anybody. I also have bills to pay and I don't work to get paid so that I can go and feed anyone's daughter at a place her father can't feed her. 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by luminouz(m): 11:30pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
gunners160: Your advice na DIE |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by luminouz(m): 11:31pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Mcslize: Slize and roll the dice!!! My nigga |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by luminouz(m): 11:32pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
StacyO:Stacy, why are you lying@number 1 point. You no 'por' anything naaaaa |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 11:34pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
erico2k2: You're right. I have clarified same with the OP in my other comments on the thread. Beside, going on a date with a babe you meet offline shouldn't be rocket science. He didn't play his card well. He could have asked her to meet him in a neutral place for a start, then take her to the eatery/bar/lounge instead of asking her to come directly there. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by ume1000: 11:35pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
BestAccessories: What's with you and this COME DOWN TO YOUR LEVEL a very big ego problem you got right there Nonetheless point noted THOUGHT YOU WERE A SIMP my apologies |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by MadeMan01(m): 11:36pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Preshmane: Be careful. Let her not take you to eko meridian. Let her price herself before enjoying bae privilege |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 11:40pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
ume1000: Brotherly, I am humble. No ego anywhere. Going on a date is an expense you need to control. Asking for suggestions, requires wisdom. You're making her thinks she is in control but instead you're just playing your cards. Before going on a date, you already had a budget, so asking for suggestions mean, you only accept venue/place that falls within your budget. At least now, we understand each other points of view better. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Christian07(m): 11:42pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: Am not ganna lie to you bro the truth of the matter is the place you say to take her to doesn’t seems friendly it sound like a place you take a girl to and end up at your house you should have considered other places like kfc, dominos to lick ice cream or mega chicken etc beside it’s ur first date and for er ppl not to see er is a place Nt meant for everyone Are you suppose to be drinking beer on ur first date am confuse 2 Likes
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Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by erico2k2(m): 11:44pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
BestAccessories:well, Im sure there was a build-up to this, however reasons given by the girl raises eye braw, stuff like my village people go there, is she going to date/marry the said village people or is she a teenager then I will take such person as immature or better still she got something to hide! |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by WoundedLamb: 11:44pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:Welcome to Nigeria. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by erico2k2(m): 11:48pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Christian07:1st date do not have to involve eating, it should be what you do not sit at home and prepare urself, We al eat at home so food is not all that wanting, going for a drink is more of a thing than eat n swallow. These are the difference between a girl and a lady! 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by MetalJigsaw(m): 11:48pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
czarr:best comment so far 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by erico2k2(m): 11:49pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
MadeMan01: |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 11:50pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
erico2k2: She either doesn't know how to express herself very well or got some secret she is hiding. The place might be a place she must not be seen by her parents or she is promiscuous lady forming holier than thou for him. Either way, the OP doesn't play his card well. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Preshmane(m): 12:06am On Nov 24, 2020 |
MadeMan01: It's about giving her the privilege of the first time.. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Decimus: 12:12am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Samakus:Invite her over to your place instead. And stop supporting Arsenal. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by erico2k2(m): 12:19am On Nov 24, 2020 |
BestAccessories:At the bolded, what should one be doing with such? if her parents control that part of her life then she ain't matured! |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by laplace19(m): 12:21am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Samakus: Firstly, I don't go to a crowded eatery. I hate it. Sometimes when I take people to where I eat, the first question will be how I discovered such a calm & nice place....that's by the way. Secondly, when I visit my hometown, I don't go to their shoprite on Sundays, cos I'm likely to see some of my village people there, I don't like any familiarity with them and the crowd too is a NO NO for me. However, she's is a lady and must've hung out there with other guys she's not even dating or perhaps, she knows someone that works there & don't want that familiarity when she comes there with a guy...for her own privacy. You should have been worried if the place has an hotel, but if it's just an eatery there's nothing there to be worried about. When I'm taking a girl out, I tend to ask which eatery will be convenient for her. I can only object if she chooses a crowded eatery. There's nothing wrong allowing her choose a place, it doesn't reduce your masculinity. I just hope you're not the type that takes a girl out and be telling her what to order(ebe o ga agbara gi cheap) 4 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by messenger4891: 12:25am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Samakus:Not all women like to be where every man like taking their dates to. 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Emepresh(f): 12:29am On Nov 24, 2020 |
The OP should also know that some people need their relationship to be a secret one. For example, I will not allow any guy no matter the chemistry in the relationship flaunt me around without doing the needful. Let's see it as the lady in question is protecting her image in case the guy didn't marry her. Some ladies are rumored dating guys who they hang out with even when nothing existed between them. For instance, my boyfriend invited me to his birthday party at night in his house. Unknown to me that he invited every Tom, Dick and Harry. So on reaching there, he told me how he invited many people. I was angry and stayed in the kitchen pretending to be cooking all through the party. And it turned out that my classmate and one aunty from my village attended the party from where I was peeping them. You can't spoil my name when you are not ready to do the needful. Forget about a skeleton in a cupboard, there should be an atom of secrecy in a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Antoeni(m): 12:34am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Come visit me sounds like sex to women, but send me your account number sounds like prophetic breakthrough |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Stellly02(m): 12:48am On Nov 24, 2020 |
I agree with you 100% BestAccessories: |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Sixfeetbelle: 1:02am On Nov 24, 2020 |
OgeFather: I don't know what you're on about guys becoming pathetic but all I see is a very considerate guy. Like me, for example, I don't drink alcohol so consequently I don't do parties. So when a guy suggested or rather insisted we meet at a bar for our first date, red flags flew up and I said no. Why? 1) At a bar, we won't have our private seating arrangement. I imagined us seating on bar stools and it would be hella uncomfortable. And would we be drinking alcohol all through? Like is he trying to get me drunk or what? 2) The distraction would be excess. I once visited a bar place on a friend's suggestion after final exams and the music was confusingly loud. Half the time I didn't hear what she was saying or what the conversation was about. At the end, the foolish music gave me a headache afterwards. 3) That place isn't a kind of place I'd love people to associate me with. If you ever have to see me there, let it be in the company of a very close friend and a guy on a first date isn't that. Suffice it to say the date got cancelled. And I'm glad it did cause it made me understand the kind of person he was without actually meeting him. So as a first date rule, it's best to choose a venue both parties are comfortable with. You don't want to go on a date and your partner is distracted the whole time. Okay, imagine having a date at a strip club just because the girl insisted? Haba nah 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by andycom(m): 1:14am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Samakus: Owerri people una no dey ever disappoint Sha. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by radna2: 1:27am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Use ur headpan |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 1:53am On Nov 24, 2020 |
gunners160: .I wonder how guys are jumping to foolish conclusions, because she gave excuse not to come to the venue for the very first time, guys are labelling her all sort of names. She might not ready 100% for OP yet, maybe indecision on dating Op is the reason. 1 Like |
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