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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by osejie17(m): 3:58pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Omo no time for girl, the only girl friend dat is required now is money country hard o |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Dwiseone1: 3:59pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Na woman dey toast me 1 Like
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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by InvisibleB: 4:01pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
tollyboy5: Go for therapy. See a therapist. Instead of guessing what your issues are, a professional will tell you once you explain your problem. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by DonroxyII: 4:02pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Pierocash:Chaaaaaiiiiii .... it never fails .... Friendship, politeness and hospitality .... versatility, Humour, personal accomplishment , Intellectualism and sense of compliments !! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by emmyN(m): 4:02pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
cynthia500: I'm reacting to you sir! You copy a quote from the internet and litter threads with it . 1 Like |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Dwiseone1: 4:05pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by cynthia500(f): 4:07pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
emmyN: lolzzz wrong move Mr! you seems so bitter and wants a compensation. but sorry am even about to sign out now see you later
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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by DonroxyII: 4:07pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Alberttahir:What makes you guys a partner, any Official evidence you guys are partner |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by membranus: 4:09pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
kalufelix: You don cross border. So na ganja be your lovely bride? I pity your brain, always on fire. |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Xexza(m): 4:09pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Well, being an introvert, it's not easy to decide to try to socialize. I can see a lady I like, but I won't make a move. This isn't because I'm shy or anything of the sorts, but because I understand that you can't actually like someone you don't know. I prefer to be expressive to people I've come to know a few things about. Most times, I'm approached by ladies who find me attractive (yeah, I'm not ugly and I'm not a dullard). I think ladies have this thing for guys that are not all over the place but have a cool reputation. Some people people think being introverted is synonymous to being a simp and that's wrong. I've had many ladies try to take advantage of my quiet nature, hoping they'd have me in their palms. However, I'm even more principled than I am reserved. Like someone here said earlier, you basically need confidence, will, financial stability, sense (however you understand it) and good manners to attract people to you - whether you're an introvert or an extrovert. The hardest part for introverts (that meet the criteria in the paragraph above this), I think, is knowing how to keep ladies interested after they find you attractive. Many introverts are either too serious, lack experience, bad communicators or too formal. So a lady might be attracted to you and you like her too, but you spoil it real quick (let me not go into details). Bottom line is, it's not so difficult to enter a good relationship (if you're good ooo). If you're a good introvert, you'll find it easy; if you're a bad introvert (ambiguous, I know), you'll be played or taken for granted. In the same way, if you're a good extrovert, you'll find it easy; if you're a bad extrovert, you'll be a clown or an irritant. 27 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
mehn as an extreme intro, I hvnt been in a serious relationship. most times its the girls that start firstn in but both of us usually gets tired of it midway, after trying hard to change me my football kits, video game, ear piece, are more important than ladies. .....loolz |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by chatinent: 4:13pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
I bought stuff from their mall. |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by chris4gold(m): 4:15pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
falcon01: Even your mother? 1 Like |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by heayernu56(m): 4:19pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Lemme just post my own too. I currently don't have a girlfriend. I had one recently for few months till I felt like we are not that compatible. It all started with her. She came to visit a friend of hers staying in the same compound with me and was there for like two weeks. Didn't know the girl had an eye for me until like three or four days to when she left. Girl stylishly collected my number, then send about 2 or 3 love messages to me around 11pm that same night which I ignored. I thought maybe it was a mistake (because she never showed that side of her towards me... or probably I didn't recognise the greenlights like she claimed... Well, if you are not plain and clear I can'tunderstand because I really can't figure whether a girl is giving greenlight or not). The next morning she asked me about the message she sent, it was from there we started talking about the whole like and love thing. That same day girl told me she wants to fvck me (like really... that was strange to me, being the very first time we really sit and chat )... The whole story just went on like that, we eventually dated for few months and left each other... Back to my singularity now 7 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Pearly255(f): 4:20pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
falcon01: Your mama nah woman |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Asianjollof007: 4:21pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Tbh, i'm girlfriendless. No be to toast girl be the problem, what if she demands sth I can't afford. I'm fvcking broke and I don't wear expensive clothes, what if she wants to introduce me to her friends? Damn! 20 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by macphidel(m): 4:25pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
SpicyMimi:...Hmmmmm... |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Goddyj(m): 4:26pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
For introverts, the best way to gather girlfriends to your self is to always pretend like a saint when approaching ladies. It will make you to date ladies who have sworn never to have boyfriends until marriage. I've dated several virgin ladies to the surprise of Sharp guys who had approached them and returned with embarrassment 3 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by ReluctantAdult(m): 4:26pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
prince2pac:Bro how can you tell MJ strains in Nigeria? Is it by their street names? I've been looking for a particular strain that can give me a stimulating boost but all the ones I've tried are just making me sleep. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by emonis88: 4:28pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Chii59:Walahi if I see u in dream pha na 50 strokes of d cane u go chop. Person dey try correct u, u dey form. Na una problem b that u go dey form reach 65yrs with no husband n u go still dey form. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by collinometricx: 4:30pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Met in my school group chat.. ����� 1 Like |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Obedinho130: 4:36pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
i am the chairman of all introverts. Do you know that most ladies give me greenlight but i will just be paralised thinking about what to do when real niggars act immediately. Do you know that all of a sudden my introvertic nature disappears sometimes and i will chat with a stranger(real life not social media) as if she were my sibling, but after that moment, everything will be history. Do you know that sometimes i stay in my room from morning to night just for me not to talk to anybody that particular day. The only girl i ever loved with 100 percent heart, na whatsapp help me initiate am oh. After the girl started misbehaving and cheating i ran for my life and became more introvertic. Most introvertic guys are always cheated on because they dont talk too much and are always calm and cool cool 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
falcon01:woww your mum and sisters too? |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Divoc19(f): 4:38pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Xexza: Introverts don't know how to spice up a relationship but, they are naturally attractive especially male introverts. Though my introverted partner drives me nuts to quiet and obsessed with his me time... there's still strong chemistry though 3 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
We met at a bank....she was my account manager. |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by JeffSiberstein: 4:50pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Since I buy car I done block many numbers, bleep many punas both tight and slack and also save many girls numbers with male names because madam can inspect my phone but last year na God help us madam nor even they then. You see this call log na only one name there be man all the rest na girls na them Dey rush me na. My own advice is to hustle, I’m still waiting for the day I go gather mind stop girl for road ask her say “how are you” but with the car I Dey give them lift to my room! 4 Likes
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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by jaytii(f): 4:51pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
lkillbrokehoes: How is she ugly? I guess she said NO to you 1 Like |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by studentofTruth: 4:52pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Not easy o, especially for busy online soloprenuers like us. We don't even get to meet many of them. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Humanoid01(m): 4:55pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Pierocash:If you were not handsome, very few would care to pay attention to the other qualities. Being unattractive and introverted is a tough place to be. 10 Likes |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
anochuko01: That online thing takes too much time .and when it crashes you'd like regret wasting time on that one person 1 Like |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Humanoid01(m): 4:58pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Chii59:Heyy! I just want to say you look pretty, and those glasses look damn good on you. 1 Like |
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Pierocash(m): 4:59pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Humanoid01:even though I quite understand your point. But bro, sometimes it doesn't work that way. Nobody rejects courtesy, kindness, and neatness. Most of the ugly men I know all have very beautiful women in their lives. Therefore cast not away your confidence, which has great recompense of reward 1 Like 2 Shares |
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