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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by enonche85(m): 4:51pm On Nov 28, 2020
Goodghoxt:
You need to fill your mind with new interest. It's not gonna be easy but a step at a time. You need to give your mind new things to think about, meditate, read books and listen to music. Remember, only God can save so talk to Him also. You will be fine

One of the most sensible response I've read so far.
God bless u.

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 4:51pm On Nov 28, 2020
Truvel:
What Advice Do U Want Again 4 Godsake? Get A Lady Or A Wife. I'm Even Astonished Dat U Posted Dis Here. Haba!!

You're a compound idiot.

If you didn't have anything sensible to say, just STFU!!

Someone who was raped by a lady since childhood came out to narrate his ordeal, and here you are spilling trash angry

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by aikyg(m): 4:51pm On Nov 28, 2020
It's a normal thing for a man to want to have sex or think about having sex. The problem is that you are no longer willing to spend some time in knowing and spending some quality time with the person you want to have sex with. Sex and relationship goes hand in hand. As we get older, we tend to want to have sex to people who share the same interests and are willing to key into their dream of a future life.

Bottom line just make some changes and realise that sex is an important part of life. However, also realise that life is not all about sex. There are more important things in life than sex. Good luck!

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 28, 2020
Carchoice:
I’m in the same shoe, but mine is complicated, it seems I’m surrounded with Hot ladies. If I don’t want sex, I get wooed to sex.


I think there’s something out there possessing both genders. The urge is so strong that nothing can stop it until you satisfy the urge. It’s not normal to me, I have no answer yet.


But what you should know is this, your life challenges is what you are facing. It’s left for you to manage it yourself. We are not completely free from problems, temptations and obstacles must come in your way to slow you down and in your case, sex is the obstacle you must learn to manage and tame. You can’t escape it, also try to understand that this is just the beginning, you still have a lot of years to face this and even after Marriage the battle still continues.

O boy this one na curse you dey curse the guy ooo, this one no be advice anymore ooo

Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Judolisco(m): 4:52pm On Nov 28, 2020
U need a good job oh... Or a new hobby try football anything that will make u really tired
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 4:53pm On Nov 28, 2020
Zzor:
This one pass my power lol,make he go marry

Is this what you will say if it was the other way around?

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 4:54pm On Nov 28, 2020
aikyg:
It's a normal thing for a man to want to have sex or think about having sex.

Oga, read again.

His predicament was caused by a woman(neighbor) raping him when he was just 8 years old
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Brawlscartel(m): 4:55pm On Nov 28, 2020
Masturbate



I have the solution Sha just invite me to the state I will help you
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by princemartinsG(m): 4:56pm On Nov 28, 2020
Take it or leave it

Today anyone cannot imagine the kind of decadence, vices and corruptible acts prevalent amongst many of our young people

Both our boys and girls are grossly into sexual recklessness and drunkenness
Due to economic difficulties our society is gradually reaching point where we justify immorality such as doing runs, yahoo yahoo, yahoo plus and many other vices all for the sake of making ends meets

If you find yourself inside a depth
It is of no use crying
The next right thing is to decide how to crawl out of the hole
Only your palm will not deceive you

RIGHTEOUSNESS UPLIFTS A NATION

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by bayelsaowei(m): 4:56pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:



Hmmm
Even after marriage ?
yes after marriage..infact the fight gets tougher in marriage.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Eagba(m): 4:56pm On Nov 28, 2020
Funkyswagzz:


Just talk to her in a matured way she will understand u.. besides she shud be in a better position to advice u
accident dey your head
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed
stop complaining n move on.

b acting like a Disney super hero that complain bout their abilities for one full season making d series boring
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 4:57pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


She is way older than I am and am sure she must have married by now and have kids by now.
Like I said she is older that me that is why she sends me errands and allow me keep the change

Thanks alot yours was useful, I will re-establish contact and talk things through but I may awake hidden emotions

She is a rapist that should be rotting in jail.

Get her ass to jail, seek justice and save other victims/potential victims
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Yada01(m): 4:57pm On Nov 28, 2020
Only Jesus can save a man's soul. Your soul is tied to sex. Just pray and fast and talk to people (true men of God) who can help you
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by KingDash: 4:57pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


She is way older than I am and am sure she must have married by now and have kids by now.
Like I said she is older that me that is why she sends me errands and allow me keep the change

Thanks alot yours was useful, I will re-establish contact and talk things through but I may awake hidden emotions
go and find her, she must finish what she started oh brother..

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 4:58pm On Nov 28, 2020
musicproducer:
stop complaining n move on.

b acting like a Disney super hero that complain bout their abilities for one full season making d series boring

So, a victim of rape should not complain?

NL is filled with idiots!!
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 28, 2020
fati2001:

ZZOR!!!!








COM SEE, AND GIVE ADVICE.

Shut up angry
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 4:59pm On Nov 28, 2020
Bro u are in the wrong proffession, switch to the one that will allow u have it abundantly since it is your main hobby. What are your likes and dislikes?
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 5:00pm On Nov 28, 2020
Yada01:
Only Jesus can save a man's soul. Your soul is tied to sex. Just pray and fast and talk to people (true men of God) who can help you

His soul is not tied to sex, rather, he is a victim of rape.

Why do people act so f0olish when a boy child gets raped by a woman?

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by harmony75: 5:00pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed
you need to come off it..since you know where your problem is so with prayers and determination you can... so that it won't mess up your marriage �
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by orgylover: 5:00pm On Nov 28, 2020
please what is her adress let me get my share
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by cocolacec(m): 5:00pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

You dont need any deliverance my brother.It is a normal feeling for men once you have tasted the forbiddenn fruit.
I will advice you to seek for a long term relationship like marriage.Never patronise olosho.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Yada01(m): 5:01pm On Nov 28, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


His soul is not tied to sex, he is a victim of rape.

Why do people act so f0olish when a boy child gets raped by a woman?

It seems you are ignorant of spiritual things. Don't talk about what you don't know

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Zayd007(m): 5:01pm On Nov 28, 2020
Get yourself Source of income and get married to an attractive lady. Fullfil your sexual desires with your wife.

It isn't as difficult as you're making it look

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Lightangel65: 5:01pm On Nov 28, 2020
orgylover:
please what is her adress let me get my share
This is insensitive and it proves u don't have sense at all

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by BabaCommander: 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


If It will help me maintain the right frame of mind and stop desiring why not. Though I will still visit pharmacy later tonight to know if there is any drugs reducing desires for sex
You could be suffering from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so drugs could actually help. However, Anti depressants should not be taken on self medication basis.

The dude who advised you go to a pharmacy has good reason, but it would be better if you would go to the hospital for proper diagnosis and treatment.
Above all, cry to God for help and He will set you free.
If you need more counsel and prayers, connect on WhatsApp. It's absolutely free.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Mutemenot(m): 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2020
Find yourself a girl that likes to fvck who is readily available to give it. That was how I used one Kwale girl cure mine.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Emmagggg: 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2020
I may not be too psychological, but what I will tell you is that I have seen most people in this situation, even me but not as serious as yours, my advice to you is that you cling to Jesus, not just going to church but holding unto the word of study it, even in your spare time fill up your mind with the word of God. You can start with Matt. 11:28.
It is well my bro.

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TheKingIsHere: 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2020
Yada01:


It seems you are ignorant of spiritual things. Don't talk about what you don't know

Spiritual things? Stop being foolish.

He was raped!!

If a girl was raped at 8 years by a man, will you say it is spiritual?

Haven't you seen several young girls that became sex addicts due to child rape experience?

Idiot!!

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Nov 28, 2020
Judolisco:
U need a good job oh... Or a new hobby try football anything that will make u really tired

You think football is the panacea, right?

Then you haven't met my pal- my childhood friend.

We were teammates in a serious football team- training for and playing in serious matches but it didn't change anything. That guy was a serious maniac. I am sure he hasn't changed a bit up until this very minute.

It takes more than football for sure.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by costandi(m): 5:03pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


Middle twenty's.....
Have you been having regular sex since you left her?
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Nov 28, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


You're a compound idiot.

If you didn't have anything sensible to say, just STFU!!

Someone who was raped by a lady since childhood came out to narrate his ordeal, and here you are spilling trash angry
What Did I Say? Who Was Raped By A Lady Since Childhood Dat Came Out To Narrate Her Ordeal? U Don't Even Know What U Are Saying. U Can Now See How Empty Ur Coconut Head Is.

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