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Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by johnhood(m): 12:36pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
fati2001:Nope. Carry you wahala dey go |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by ProphetM0hammad: 12:39pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Ademoore07:Who is asking you about that? However if it's based on her words and expressions only, you might be in for a surprise. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:48pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
°°° My friend is about to make the same mistake, sleep with a guy she has only met once even after keeping herself while in a one year relationship.... Guys with the mentality of I must enter first to lay claim, bullshit... 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Bobxin(m): 12:57pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: How many ladies go into marriage as a virgin? Someone who doesn't even worth it will still disvirgine her before marriage. Only 5% are disvirgined by their husband. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by 1Gospelblog(m): 12:59pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
HELLO BRO FOR THINGS TO BE BETTER FOR YOU NOW AND IN THE FUTURE, DON'T ENGAGE IN PRE MATURE SEX WITH HER, ITS FORNICATION, GOD FORBIDS ANYONE WHO INDUDGE IN SUCH. GO TO SCHOOL, ADVICE HER TO KEEP HER SELF FOR YOU, OR WHO EVER WILL BE HER HUSBAND. REFRAIN FROM EVERY OTHER PROFANE ADVICE HERE. THANKS GOD BLESS YOU AS YOU HEED TO THIS ADVICE. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Meteng: 1:04pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:Rubbish. Even with Araldite, super glue, electric siren padlock, even magun sef, guys go still enter. No be vaginal again? |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Uzomacharles: 1:05pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Meteng: So? |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:07pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
overlord77:U Reason With Ur Ass Too Cuz, U Lack Manner Of Approach. I Didn't Read D Part. I Said So Because Since Both Of Dem Av Good Intention 4 Each Other. I Said So Again So Dat He Won't Lose Her To Anoda Guy. However, It's His Choice. Atimes In Life U Av To Make Sacrifices To Get Something U Cherish. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:09pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
stanisbaratheon:She Will Get Her Own Too. If He Truly Loves Her, He Will Help Her. Atimes In Life, 4 U To Get Something, Sacrifice Has To Be Made. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:13pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
UCHIHAmask:I Get Ur Point Too. She Will Continue Her Sch. If D Guy Truly Loves Her, He Will Help Her. I Know My Comment Sounds Weird But Atimes In Life, 4 U To Get Something U Cherish So Much Sacrifice Has To Be Made. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by stanisbaratheon: 1:13pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: Okay based on your analysis and advise to him, put your 18year old sister or daughter in the place of that young girl and advise him again let's see. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:15pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
fati2001:I Want To Ask U. Btw 2 Of Dem, Who Will Be Able To Wait? |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by NomzyJust(m): 1:22pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
She thinks sex is proof of love. I only pity the girl. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 1:23pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: BOTH WILL BE ABLE TO WAIT... IF THEY RESPECT THEIR BODY, GOD, DIGNITY NOT TO TALK ABOUT SELF CONTROL |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:24pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
stanisbaratheon:I Won't Be Able To Put My 18yrs Old Sister Or Daughter In D Place Of Dat Young Girl. Why? I Don't Know His Intentions 4 Her. Whether It's 4 Good Or Bad. I Only Gave Dis Advice Based On His Good Intentions He Has 4 Her. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:27pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
fati2001:Lol, U Know D Ans. Btw Dem D Girl Is Likely Not To Be Able To Wait. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Geofavor(m): 1:27pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:What an own goal! At the bolded, to expect men to think otherwise is an entitlement perpetuated by women like you who want to eat their cake and have it. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 1:28pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Bobxin:HOW MANY MEN GO INTO MARRIAGE AS A VIRGIN... ONLY 1 % MEN GIVE THEIR VIRGINITY TO THEIR WIVES ... NON VIRGINS SHOULD REMOVE THEIR EYES AWAY FROM VIRGINS .. BE IT MALE OR FEMALE. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 1:31pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: DON'T FAVOR ONE PARTY... BOTH ARE LIKELY TO STAY OUT OF 24H REGULAR PPLE (VICE VERSA). |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Eagleword14(f): 1:33pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Op pls flee fornication and concentrate on being a better person in life. For crying out loud! Fornication is a sin, why making it look like a normal lifestyle. May God have mercy on this generation! |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Codes151(m): 1:51pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Fornicator asking devil for advice. Well, my advice is, dm me her number lemme educate her |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Fairbanks(m): 2:02pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Donmoscojaja: I wonder who among the moderators could forward this teen's game to front page. imagine 18yrs and 21 yrs. A teen girl still struggling for her admission is on d verge of losing her virginity and a young boy still schooling intend to support her with cash earning from which source?. Why are we continuing promoting immoralities in this country ? |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by mkpurumma090(f): 2:13pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Don't deflower her... Tell her ways of avoiding woos from guys. But you people are too small for five star hotel ![]() ![]() Chisom you dey far oo ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by IAmTobore(m): 2:22pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Adebami895:My friend's "virgin girlfriend" called him one day to tell him that she has been raped. She claimed it happened when she went to a night party. And she doesn't want her parents to be involved. Well here's the thing. They're no longer together. The rape wasn't the reason why they broke up. They had a misunderstanding. Her character turned really bad that he had reasons to doubt if she was really raped. Now let me ask you. What are you planning for yourself? What are you planning for your future? I know you love her. But you should be ready for the inevitable. Have you even thought of the possibility of she not being a virgin? Alaye, live your life, but make sure you hurt no one. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by stanisbaratheon: 2:34pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: Okay |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Estherqueen50(f): 2:34pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Before reading this post, I still had doubt that immorality/Lust has taken over our youths and teenagers, but after the reading all the response I'm beyound shocked. People saying things with confidence based on experience and way of life. stooping so low as to advise a 21 yr old to indulge in pre marital sex. When have sex after marriage become something to be proud. No grown up to admonish him to focus on his academics, that when the right time comes and he is ready to get married, he will seek and shall find. What made you think that they are no more virgins? is it because of your wayward lifestyles, because you have never dated any girl you have not slept with and who isn't a virgin. May God help and deliver you. So you think because the ones you've met are non virgins then they are no virgins?. what a decayed society. You lie to our young boys and girls and make them indulge in sexual immorality may God forgive you. Young man I advise you to focus on your life, when the time comes to settle down God will bless you with your heart desires and his will for you. And if at that time she's still available and your relationship is still good, then go ahead do the right thing and marry her. But forget sexual immorality, it is a killer. You may not understand me now but tomorrow you will thank God for this. If you really a Child of God you will know that sex outside marriage is contrary to God's word. Be blessed, Be safe. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by John023(m): 2:46pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
My dear am a guy like u, just forget all those telling u to disvigil the girl, cos that is not a good idea biblical is wrong so why do u want to follow the crowd to do the wrong thing, since u guys are about going to school is not the best time to go into having s*x now, focus on ur education cos going into it now might distract u guys from study, although the campus is a place where immorality is rampad remains focus on academics for now..... |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Sixfeetbelle: 2:47pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Mikee19: Whether her husband gets to deflower her in the end or not isn't the point here. The point is: no man should tie himself down to that singular duty. It's because he thinks it's his that's why he's worried about deflowering her and whatnot. Otherwise tell my why this is his worry out of everything else to worry about. She may get admission into a university in another state and fall out of love with him, he may fall out of love with her after they get separated by educational stress, she may suddenly get married to a rich aristo this Christmas, she may even fall sick and die, all of these are viable worries for a relationship as young as theirs but no, deflowering her is his concern. Until young men in relationships stop expecting the hymen to be theirs, they will always be caught in useless worries like this and the foolish "betrayals" that may result if they don't get to deflower her. Now imagine after six months she says she's no longer a virgin, would his love for her hold faith or would he move on? 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Sixfeetbelle: 2:55pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Bobxin: That is not the point. The point is for young men to stop putting that burden upon themselves. I call it a burden cause it doesn't mean anything in the large scale of things as ladies who were deflowered by A have no idea where A is right now. But if he ties himself down to this duty, he runs the risk of being "attached", of being "betrayed". A lady chooses who she wants to deflower her, not the guy. She may let him deflower her and then go to the University and becomes a wild cat. Who suffers a heartbreak and whatnot at the end? Him! My advice: he shouldn't even be concerned about this issue at all. If it happens, good and fine, but scheduling on how to deflower this one person as if it's a sure sign of everlasting love is an action committed by a foolish boy. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Sixfeetbelle: 2:56pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Geofavor: Thank you for accepting that men have an entitlement mentality over a woman's body. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Sixfeetbelle: 3:07pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
humilitypays: I have issues with the bolded. Why does he have to regret it? Why does he have to tie his mind to her virginity? And you expect a guy who's tied to her virginity to be okay knowing she may have other guys? |
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