Good day nairalanders,
Is there any way to finally get a girl who says she has a boyfriend . I have this girl in my life right now . From the look of things she likes me as much as i like her . When i was woeing her , she was willing to accept but her problem is that she has a boyfriend she is dating currently . Pls do you know any way I can make her to bypass that excuse and accept me ?
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Please Go and make money crew should shift abeg I need genuine advice and tricks

Thebest12:
Good day nairalanders,
Is there any way to finally get a girl who says she has a boyfriend . I have this girl in my life right now . From the look of things she likes me as much as i like her . When i was woeing her , she was willing to accept but her problem is that she has a boyfriend she is dating currently . Pls do you know any way I can make her to bypass that excuse and accept me ?

go and make money, she will bypass that excuse.

fakessg:
Lol as you wan take person babe may someone also take anything that is yours babe,wife Say Amen

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No be person collect my own Last month ??

Thebest12:
Good day nairalanders,
Is there any way to finally get a girl who says she has a boyfriend . I have this girl in my life right now . From the look of things she likes me as much as i like her . When i was woeing her , she was willing to accept but her problem is that she has a boyfriend she is dating currently . Pls do you know any way I can make her to bypass that excuse and accept me ?

When a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, she's pre-informing you that she's most likely going to cheat if you date her.

And if you keep pushing her until she agrees to date you, don't blame her when she eventually does cheat on you cos she already told you right from the beginning that she was with someone, but you dated her anyway.

d only safer way is to plead to be just a friend...spoil her with love n care untill she get soo used to u and ask her to visit ur place....
wen she visits, dts wen u strike bt if she refuse, u dump her to avoid d extension of d friendzone contract..

Good evening, the truth is if u are not better than the present boyfriend (financially), your game can only get her laid, friends with benefits basis. But if u wan make she leave her guy for you, I no lie u ooo, u gat get moni pass d present guy.

Na dis type dey collect him people destiny.

See thread
Thunder where art thou

Yeye
Dey waste your time when babes reach like one million for your street.

I tell them I'm cool with it. So long as we remain FWBs.

Thebest12:
Good day nairalanders,
Is there any way to finally get a girl who says she has a boyfriend . I have this girl in my life right now . From the look of things she likes me as much as i like her . When i was woeing her , she was willing to accept but her problem is that she has a boyfriend she is dating currently . Pls do you know any way I can make her to bypass that excuse and accept me ?
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Please Go and make money crew should shift abeg I need genuine advice and tricks

Leave her the hell alone

You're looking for trouble

If she dey bill you anyhow

If she dey ghost you or no dey call

Don't be surprised

You're just looking for heartbreak

Yes go and look for money

ReluctantAdult:
I tell them I'm cool with it. So long as we remain FWBs.

Go and marry ooh. This reluctant human rice, go and marry. There's nothing in all these fwbs oh. All of them na vanity

You wan know why I dey shout? Na because I don mark you along with a few other nairaland men who haff refused to marry. Today alone, I've seen you comment that marriage is not for you like 5 times and I don dey worry. Stop leaving our women unmarried. Our tradition is not in support of this thing you people have going on. As the ladies are single like this, e good for your eye?

Go and marry, Mr Reluctant.

Don't let me change it for you people on this forum. Heh

Original SIMP.

See this one.... . Na by force?

Sixfeetbelle:


Go and marry ooh. This reluctant human rice, go and marry. There's nothing in all these fwbs oh. All of them na vanity

You wan know why I dey shout? Na because I don mark you along with a few other nairaland men who haff refused to marry. Today alone, I've seen you comment that marriage is not for you like 5 times and I don dey worry. Stop leaving our women unmarried. Our tradition is not in support of this thing you people have going on. As the ladies are single like this, e good for your eye?

Go and marry, Mr Reluctant.

Don't let me change it for you people on this forum. Heh

believe u me
if a girl really likes u she will even deny dat she has a boyfriend if she has one
when a girl tells u to ur face that she has a guy what she is telling u indirectly is she does not want to go out with u
so dont bother forcing urself on her

Sixfeetbelle:


Go and marry ooh. This reluctant human rice, go and marry. There's nothing in all these fwbs oh. All of them na vanity

You wan know why I dey shout? Na because I don mark you along with a few other nairaland men who haff refused to marry. Today alone, I've seen you comment that marriage is not for you like 5 times and I don dey worry. Stop leaving our women unmarried. Our tradition is not in support of this thing you people have going on. As the ladies are single like this, e good for your eye?

Go and marry, Mr Reluctant.

Don't let me change it for you people on this forum. Heh

Damn commitment scare me. For the life of me, I can't just deal. For some of us though, we have come to terms with, and accepted who we are and therefore wouldn't bow to societal expectations. We go continue to flex life o. Marriage no be source of joy for men like me.

But madam, people dey throw wedding every weekend na, so no fear, who wan marry go see husband. No need to worry about people like us, we are not that many sef. Even as economy no dey smile some brothers are still taking the bold steps. I salute them o Well, that's where their joy lies though; I totally get it

Me eh, I remain reluctant and carefree o

She is already in love with someone,but if you up your game,she might consider you.
Upping your game means more attention, more benefit

Better let her be

See thread Thunder where art thou

lefulefu:
believe u me
if a girl really likes u she will even deny dat she has a boyfriend if she has one
when a girl tells u to ur face that she has a guy what she is telling u indirectly is she does not want to go out with u
so dont bother forcing urself on her

Wat of the one dat told me dat she has a bf only for her to start billing me??


Las Las we nack.....


She later introduced d bf as her brother to me......

Small time me and the guy come dey familiar wit each oda........


Na as the matter begin get K_Leg b dat...........




I fear who no fear women...

Thebest12:
Good day nairalanders,
Is there any way to finally get a girl who says she has a boyfriend . I have this girl in my life right now . From the look of things she likes me as much as i like her . When i was woeing her , she was willing to accept but her problem is that she has a boyfriend she is dating currently . Pls do you know any way I can make her to bypass that excuse and accept me ?
.
Please Go and make money crew should shift abeg I need genuine advice and tricks

Don't be a side guy, last last you ll end up in that popular zone

Donspicey:



Wat of the one dat told me dat she has a bf only for her to start billing me??


Las Las we nack.....


She later introduced d bf as her brother to me......

Small time me and the guy come dey familiar wit each oda........


Na as the matter begin get K_Leg b dat...........




I fear who no fear women...

this same thing happen to me some years back...the only difference be say i no dey give her cash, but i dey flex her. Whenever she wan ask me cash, i dey tell her make she go meet her boyfriend. She go come dey vex. She go come dey say shey na bcuz she tell me say she get boyfriend. Lol

I was once in same spot. When I met my fiancee she was with a guy. I ignored and continue being with her as if the other guy doesn't exist. After a while (when I know she has catch feelings for me), I told her I want us to be dating formally. She told me that she can't leave the guy unless we can only be friends. I told her No, there is no benefit being a friend. Na like so I take bone this babe o. I deleted her number and cut off all contact with her. For over three months me and this babe no talk/chat. To cut the long story, na she come tell me say she is ready to date me. I told her she can't double date. She said she is no longer with the guy. I made her delete the guy's contact and cut off every relationship with him. Na me de shine her Congo now.

Wonderful story, definitely she's the one barbing your head now.....Lol.....bad niggar...

ATankado:
I was once in same spot. When I met my fiancee she was with a guy. I ignored and continue being with her as if the other guy doesn't exist. After a while (when I know she has catch feelings for me), I told her I want us to be dating formally. She told me that she can't leave the guy unless we can only be friends. I told her No, there is no benefit being a friend. Na like so I take bone this babe o. I deleted her number and cut off all contact with her. For over three months me and this babe no talk/chat. To cut the long story, na she come tell me say she is ready to date me. I told her she can't double date. She said she is no longer with the guy. I made her delete the guy's contact and cut off every relationship with him. Na me de shine her Congo now.

Sundrus:
this same thing happen to me some years back...the only difference be say i no dey give her cash, but i dey flex her. Whenever she wan ask me cash, i dey tell her make she go meet her boyfriend. She go come dey vex. She go come dey say shey na bcuz she tell me say she get boyfriend. Lol

mehn the matter long oooooo.......


Girl wey get mind tell my bae say i don kpansh her.......

Nazgul:

When a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, she's pre-informing you that she's most likely going to cheat if you date her.

And if you keep pushing her until she agrees to date you, don't blame her when she eventually does cheat on you cos she already told you right from the beginning that she was with someone, but you dated her anyway.

Best advice on nairaland.. Op, follow this advice..

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If you really like her, continue. But if na to only bleep, my guy comon. Babes full everywhere now, throw stone in any direction, e go nack one fine girl for head. These generation get the most beautiful girls ever and them plenty yafu yafu looking very ripe

Thanks for all the comments . But pls I need more

ReluctantAdult:

Damn commitment scare me. For the life of me, I can't just deal. For some of us though, we have come to terms with, and accepted who we are and therefore wouldn't bow to societal expectations. We go continue to flex life o. Marriage no be source of joy for men like me.

But madam, people dey throw wedding every weekend na, so no fear, who wan marry go see husband. No need to worry about people like us, we are not that many sef. Even as economy no dey smile some brothers are still taking the bold steps. I salute them o Well, that's where their joy lies though; I totally get it

Me eh, I remain reluctant and carefree o

Commitment shouldn't scare you. Why? Cause you haven't done it before and so can't just conclude it isn't worth it.

Look at it this way. Does sex scare you? No. Because you've done it once and have realised there's nothing to it but someone who's never had sex before would be in their right capacity to be scared of it.

So instead of cancelling it out altogether, why not try it out once for size and see how it would go. That we have a lot of bad marriages today doesn't mean good ones are absent though.


Of course, I also respect that you already made your peace with 'not marrying'

Sixfeetbelle:


Commitment shouldn't scare you. Why? Cause you haven't done it before and so can't just conclude it isn't worth it.

Look at it this way. Does sex scare you? No. Because you've done it once and have realised there's nothing to it but someone who's never had sex before would be in their right capacity to be scared of it.

So instead of cancelling it out altogether, why not try it out once for size and see how it would go. That we have a lot of bad marriages today doesn't mean good ones are absent though.


Of course, I also respect that you already made your peace with 'not marrying'

Lol @you haven't done it before. Believe me, everything I write, I've experienced them. It isn't until you're married that you learn what commitment is. I've been with women and I know the responsibility that requires and the 'bondage' that relationship is.
I'm a free bird. So I knew this lockdown with one woman thing isn't for me and I accepted it and I'm never questioning myself anymore, and if I try it I will turn out to be the most unfaithful cheat ever

So we good this way