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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Danycrusoe(m): 8:17pm On Nov 30, 2020
People who don't buy into red pill will soon order for container, my last relationship has justified everything said here.

The same lady that walked up to me herself is out there saying she never dated me that I'm only spoiling her name.

Every good deed is not appreciated, the same lady that dare not look into my eyes then is now someone who sees me as not in her class.

Well, it hurts to learn the truth afterwards but never again will it happen like it has.

Interestingly, I was redpilled when we met but I never knew I was being one, I was carefree and not bothered about any body's thought about me.

Never make a woman bigger than urself, don't make her future of career ur priority, she is nice to u but she may be lieing to u and u may just be dating urself.


Self development started months ago, that's the best way a man can find love, in ur self.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Compguy: 8:23pm On Nov 30, 2020
Good day fellow TRP. Can anyone recommend personal development books for young lads. I'm in my very early 20s, I need books for boosting self confidence and better communication. Any recommendations would be appreciated.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tickles001(m): 9:36pm On Nov 30, 2020
Danycrusoe:
People who don't buy into red pill will soon order for container, my last relationship has justified everything said here.

The same lady that walked up to me herself is out there saying she never dated me that I'm only spoiling her name.

Every good deed is not appreciated, the same lady that dare not look into my eyes then is now someone who sees me as not in her class.

Well, it hurts to learn the truth afterwards but never again will it happen like it has.

Interestingly, I was redpilled when we met but I never knew I was being one, I was carefree and not bothered about any body's thought about me.

Never make a woman bigger than urself, don't make her future of career ur priority, she is nice to u but she may be lieing to u and u may just be dating urself.


Self development started months ago, that's the best way a man can find love, in ur self.

Only if men will hear.
Girls will suck up to you when they're nothing, you will pause your self development to push them up the ladder. Once they're up, you'll become chaff to them. And they'll make you feel sorry for yourself.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:40pm On Nov 30, 2020
Tickles001:


Only if men will hear.
Girls will suck up to you when they're nothing, you will pause your self development to push them up the ladder. Once they're up, you'll become chaff to them. And they'll make you feel sorry for yourself.
.
Lol...true words.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:51pm On Nov 30, 2020
@Danycrusoe

Your post was erased by a bitter mod. Post it again.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Etinosa1234: 10:00pm On Nov 30, 2020
Snow02:
Be cold and ruthless,

employ dark psychology when dealing with her

You may not like it but she loves it.
what's Dark psychology please
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by FRANKOSKI(m): 3:33am On Dec 01, 2020
JasperVII:

He finish the guy grin
HOW DID RENO KNOW THAT THEY WERE VIRGINS ? BECAUSE THEY JUST SAID IT ? HMMM BE A GOOD THINKER !

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:06am On Dec 01, 2020
Alphas are forgivable for same sins that made simps thrown into the dungeon.

Authority: Be virile.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:16am On Dec 01, 2020
"Resist the temptation to solve her problems. Empathize instead" –John Gray

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sweet7oyin(m): 9:22am On Dec 01, 2020
Why is she shit testing you

She is shit testing you because she has seen weakness in you

Immediately she starts shit testing you
Something surely happened or u let off a show of weakness that makes her that shit testing you in that area.

The girl you dont care about at all
Would never shit test you.

Because she knows if she tries it
Ofcuz she will lose.

Now love itself is a weakness
So Immediately you start "loving" you start showing weakness and she will shit test you.

It might be her heart
Beauty
Body

Anything
Immediately you show weakness in any of those areas she will shit test you.


So when a woman starts shit testing you
You probably have shown weakness.

I feel

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sweet7oyin(m): 9:26am On Dec 01, 2020
Danycrusoe:
People who don't buy into red pill will soon order for container, my last relationship has justified everything said here.

The same lady that walked up to me herself is out there saying she never dated me that I'm only spoiling her name.

Every good deed is not appreciated, the same lady that dare not look into my eyes then is now someone who sees me as not in her class.

Well, it hurts to learn the truth afterwards but never again will it happen like it has.

Interestingly, I was redpilled when we met but I never knew I was being one, I was carefree and not bothered about any body's thought about me.

Never make a woman bigger than urself, don't make her future of career ur priority, she is nice to u but she may be lieing to u and u may just be dating urself.


Self development started months ago, that's the best way a man can find love, in ur self.

So far a man loves he will make the woman bigger than himself

Thats why even in marriage
The man gives his money
The woman keeps hers

Immediately you start showing and loving her as she wants.


She just start seeing u as a burden

I dont even think its their fault
Thats how they are made

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:22pm On Dec 01, 2020
sweet7oyin:


So far a man loves he will make the woman bigger than himself

Thats why even in marriage
The man gives his money
The woman keeps hers

Immediately you start showing and loving her as she wants.


She just start seeing u as a burden

I dont even think its their fault
Thats how they are made
Then you make the rules of the game. Whatever so-called love you feel, show her you are still in charge.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sweet7oyin(m): 6:05pm On Dec 01, 2020
luminouz:

Then you make the rules of the game. Whatever so-called love you feel, show her you are still in charge.

yh absolutely

Was just saying as a guy
If u love the guy way

Which is with all ur heart and all

U Will never be in charge

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 8:28pm On Dec 01, 2020
A group of black women actually went to a restaurant and starting twerking incessantly. The owner actually came up to them and asked them to calm/quiet down. They refused. Then he told them to get out. I was watching the reaction video when I saw this comment.

Forget, this simp pandemic might be worse than Covid. At least 99.9% of people survive that. On twitter, Quora, YouTube and Reddit I see these type of comments. I won't lie I fear for the future of men.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by biggace(m): 9:08pm On Dec 01, 2020
Real men are doers,not passive consumers.

Take her off the pedestal and reclaim your masculinity.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 10:05pm On Dec 01, 2020

It's been a while guys...
Going through the thread from where i left off, i'm seeing lots of posts i would have disagreed with...
Maybe some people are just in a haste to contribute and be hailed...
judging by the posts i wont be wrong if i say most people are here, in Ubunj.a's words "Just for the pvssy" because only a few posts here talks about self-development which to me is the Key Thing in this Redpill stuff....
Anyways...kudos to all the contributors tho

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 10:11pm On Dec 01, 2020

Like i said earlier, there are some posts here i would have loved to know how the poster came about it but i dont have time for such...
But here's one of them i made sure to Note..
I'll really love if the poster of the image below or any of the 9 persons that liked the photo to explain to me what makes the guy in the photo an Alpha....
For easy accessibility, i'll repost the photo again..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mattfeuter(m): 11:36pm On Dec 01, 2020
sweet7oyin:
Why is she shit testing you

She is shit testing you because she has seen weakness in you

Immediately she starts shit testing you
Something surely happened or u let off a show of weakness that makes her that shit testing you in that area.

The girl you dont care about at all
Would never shit test you.


Because she knows if she tries it
Ofcuz she will lose.

Now love itself is a weakness
So Immediately you start "loving" you start showing weakness and she will shit test you.

It might be her heart
Beauty
Body

Anything
Immediately you show weakness in any of those areas she will shit test you.


So when a woman starts shit testing you
You probably have shown weakness.

I feel

The highlighted is wrong and can be quite misleading.

Anybody can be “shit-tested”, how you respond to it is what separates you from the “pack”.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sweet7oyin(m): 1:47am On Dec 02, 2020
mattfeuter:


The highlighted is very wrong and be quite misleading.

Anybody can be “shit-tested”, how you respond to it is what separates you from the “pack”.

You are right
Anybody can be shit tested
The way you respond to it separates you from the pack.

But she would shit test you in things she knows she can get through with.

Now for example

If you watch football and you often leave her to watch football.

She wunt have a problem with this

She might just say "you love football over me or something"

But when you stay with her during your football times more than twice ..three times.

The next thing is you guys start fighting because you watch football something she couldn't do earlier.

She starts saying
But you leave football to talk to me why js today different.



This might not be a 100percent scenario
But you get my drift.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:30am On Dec 02, 2020
If you want to know about the body study Medicine.
If you want to know about construction study Engineering.
If you want to know about software study Computer science.
If you want to know about numbers study Mathematics.

But if you decide to know about women through Marriage, you're one step away from destruction. So, to know about women, study and understand the redpill.

Authority: swallow the redpill.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BotafogoJunior(m): 7:29am On Dec 02, 2020
jrobbins:


Special lady? Lol
him dey disguise,you go know say him never learn anything from this thread,special lady ko,special bread ni.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dunmorris(m): 8:23am On Dec 02, 2020
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling - Which i later stopped, sometimes she doesn't blue tick my messages, I told the person that refer me to her, that I don't like the way she behaved, i was told that I should be patient with her - that's how they will start turning someone to simp, in which I won't waste time to give her distance.

But deep inside I don't mind dumping her and moving on to get another serious person.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:33am On Dec 02, 2020
if you dont mind dumping her,you would have done it instead of coming here to seek our opinions.

dunmorris:
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling - Which i later stopped, sometimes she doesn't blue tick my messages, I told the person that refer me to her, that I don't like the way she behaved, i was told that I should be patient with her - that's how they will start turning someone to simp, in which I won't waste time to give her distance.

But deep inside I don't mind dumping her and moving on to get another serious person.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 8:43am On Dec 02, 2020
dunmorris:
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling - Which i later stopped, sometimes she doesn't blue tick my messages, I told the person that refer me to her, that I don't like the way she behaved, i was told that I should be patient with her - that's how they will start turning someone to simp, in which I won't waste time to give her distance.

But deep inside I don't mind dumping her and moving on to get another serious person.
Thing is: you need to start seeing yourself as the prize. her window of shakara is within 18-25. las las her shakara go end by 28. while your own shakara as a man starts towards 30 till about 50 or so because that window is when things mostly falls in place for you and you can handpick from the young girls around. by then you start seeing the lady as evening newspaper.

if you're really busy improving yourself as a man, you wouldn't have time for someone that's treating you like an option whereby she doesn't respond messages fast or call you.

Authority: See yourself as the prize. women's hypergamic nature makes things hard for an unestablished young man. because of that, focus on yourself. focus!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 8:45am On Dec 02, 2020
dunmorris:
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling - Which i later stopped, sometimes she doesn't blue tick my messages, I told the person that refer me to her, that I don't like the way she behaved, i was told that I should be patient with her - that's how they will start turning someone to simp, in which I won't waste time to give her distance.

But deep inside I don't mind dumping her and moving on to get another serious person.
A month is too damn long to tolerate rubbish from that geh...........

You need to move on. The so-called referee must have misjudged her. Dont call,text or WHATEVER. Move on.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 8:46am On Dec 02, 2020
21cents:
Thing is: you need to start seeing yourself as the prize. her window of shakara is within 18-25. las las her shakara go end by 28. while your own shakara as a man starts towards 30 till about 50 or so because that window is when things mostly falls in place for you and you can handpick from the young girls around. by then you start seeing the lady as evening newspaper.

if you're really busy improving yourself as a man, you wouldn't have time for someone that's treating you like an option whereby she doesn't respond messages fast or call you.

Authority: See yourself as the prize. women's hypergamic nature makes things hard for an unestablished young man. because of that, focus on yourself. focus!
I concur

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 9:12am On Dec 02, 2020
Danycrusoe:
People who don't buy into red pill will soon order for container, my last relationship has justified everything said here.

The same lady that walked up to me herself is out there saying she never dated me that I'm only spoiling her name.

Every good deed is not appreciated, the same lady that dare not look into my eyes then is now someone who sees me as not in her class.

Well, it hurts to learn the truth afterwards but never again will it happen like it has.

Interestingly, I was redpilled when we met but I never knew I was being one, I was carefree and not bothered about any body's thought about me.

Never make a woman bigger than urself, don't make her future of career ur priority, she is nice to u but she may be lieing to u and u may just be dating urself.


Self development started months ago, that's the best way a man can find love, in ur self.

Haha, I can relate. But these happen when a woman thinks she is better than you (either by you lifting her up, she lifting herself up, or other people doing the lifting). Now look at the highest seats a woman can inherit in a kingdom (Queen), you can see that it is never above the king. That is the formula to a life long respect for a woman. The content of a woman's love is respect and adoration for things in a man that she lacks. I see as my woman looks and respect me, and when she talks, it is so clear that it is because I am always putting myself first, to become stronger and how other people respect me.

My first girlfriend then, she was so beautiful, with these badass curves that every man wanted to snatch her, and of course, they did lol, I was a loser then. Then she told me that I was not her level and that she was doing me a favor dating me. Mehn, I laughed but it pains me sha, and what's worse, I never knack am cry I be a church boy then grin But I learned something then. This was a girl that has to beg my best friend's sister to hook her up with me.

But I lost my frame, I do not even know about game sef. I was your typical boy that operates on the typical male idea that ''if you treat someone's nice, they should reciprocate it''. Doesn't work the same way with women. Treat them nice, and they would see it as an ego boost, and consider you unworthy. The treatment you give a woman is a building block of her sense of worth, esteem, and goddess status. It is seen as how a maid treats her, instead of her husband/king that commands her. Many ancient philosophers have said most of what trp said here, but back then, people were not so sensitive to the truth, no matter how distasteful.

And which brought me to my last point. To be able to fraternize and retain your value with a woman, you must be able to give her the stick if necessary, just as you give her the carrot. Treat her nice, but descend on her if she crosses the line. There is this old age philosophical idea that you can not be a good person, without being a bad person. You can not be respected if you do not have the ability to fukc shit up, and you cannot be valued if you cant seize being valuable. There has to be a balance. For example, people respect authorities because they reserve the power to make your life easier if you act right, but make your life miserable if you don't. It is the same formula for women or people, you must be both. To be a monster and kind. A kind monster. Because one thing a monster fears the most is another monster.

You should check out the Chinese ancient philosophy of ''ying and yang''. It shows clearly that feminine energy is chaos, passive, weak, dark, etc. A man that doesn't understands this, and how to act appropriately will be a victim of it, instead of to utilize it to his advantage.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BotafogoJunior(m): 9:15am On Dec 02, 2020
Vecto:
What most professing Simps or Nice guys do not understand is that any attempt to be Nice typically involves trying to eliminate or hide certain things about yourself. Like your mistakes, emotions and needs.

Nice guys do not understand that it is okay to be assertive and expressive about their desires, emotions and needs.
bro,you have killed me.....this is what I am going thru,but 2021 I am off the hook with blood in my eyes,no more Mr nice to a particular girl who feels she is special to me whereas na lie.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dunmorris(m): 9:25am On Dec 02, 2020
BotafogoJunior:
bro,you have killed me.....this is what I am going thru,but 2021 I am off the hook with blood in my eyes,no more Mr nice to a particular girl who feels she is special to me whereas na lie.
The earlier the better bro.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 9:34am On Dec 02, 2020
Compguy:
Good day fellow TRP. Can anyone recommend personal development books for young lads. I'm in my very early 20s, I need books for boosting self confidence and better communication. Any recommendations would be appreciated.

If you want to become intellectually formidable, that your so called woke idiots will avoid you like plague, that nothing humans do will surprise or behaviourally strange to you, then you need to have an interest in philosophy.

Personally, I do not read conventional books, I read philosophical books. Philosophy is the foundation from which every other book arose. The Bible is really philosophical if you understand it.

I will recommend people like Frederick Nietzsche, just start with him. If you understood all his work, then everything other philosophers said will be like a photocopy.

If you read my post as far back as 2015, you will see clearly that I write and talked about RP even before it goes mainstream on Nairaland. Personally, I do not identify with tags, I am all for truth and to understand the hidden knowledge the world is bed rocked on, and trp is even an easier aspect of it.

If you want to go mad and realize that you are utterly stupid, then start studying philosophy, then you will not even be surprised and understand why humans do the things they do, and why even your politician does not give a shit about Nigeria lol.

From modern writers such as Robert Groene, Jordan Peterson, and more, you will consider their work amateur as a refined version of philosophy, because really, philosophy does make a man goes mad, especially if you go really deep the rabbit hole.

I wished there was a philosophical forum here on Nairaland, I have a lot to say but oh well, I will stick here. I remember when I would argue with my postmodernist professors in uni then, they hated my guts but respects the fact that I challenged them on their beliefs, making them look like an amateur.

And they dare not give me a lower mark, because I will call them out on it, and escalate shit if needed. Knowledge is power. With the help of philosophy, I could destroy all their arguments that were bed rocked on post-modernist icons such as Michel Foucault, Jean Baudrillard, and co. School these days is so far left, hence, the mayhem humans face.

So yes, study philosophy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Danycrusoe(m): 9:45am On Dec 02, 2020
pansophist:


Haha, I can relate. But these happen when a woman thinks she is better than you (either by you lifting her up, she lifting herself up, or other people doing the lifting). Now look at the highest seats a woman can inherit in a kingdom (Queen), you can see that it is never above the king. That is the formula to a life long respect for a woman. The content of a woman's love is respect and adoration for things in a man that she lacks. I see as my woman looks and respect me, and when she talks, it is so clear that it is because I am always putting myself first, to become stronger and how other people respect me.

My first girlfriend then, she was so beautiful, with these badass curves that every man wanted to snatch her, and of course, they did lol, I was a loser then. Then she told me that I was not her level and that she was doing me a favor dating me. Mehn, I laughed but it pains me sha, and what's worse, I never knack am cry I be a church boy then grin But I learned something then. This was a girl that has to beg my best friend's sister to hook her up with me.

But I lost my frame, I do not even know about game sef. I was your typical boy that operates on the typical male idea that ''if you treat someone's nice, they should reciprocate it''. Doesn't work the same way with women. Treat them nice, and they would see it as an ego boost, and consider you unworthy. The treatment you give a woman is a building block of her sense of worth, esteem, and goddess status. It is seen as how a maid treats her, instead of her husband/king that commands her. Many ancient philosophers have said most of what trp said here, but back then, people were not so sensitive to the truth, no matter how distasteful.

And which brought me to my last point. To be able to fraternize and retain your value with a woman, you must be able to give her the stick if necessary, just as you give her the carrot. Treat her nice, but descend on her if she crosses the line. There is this old age philosophical idea that you can not be a good person, without being a bad person. You can not be respected if you do not have the ability to fukc shit up, and you cannot be valued if you cant seize being valuable. There has to be a balance. For example, people respect authorities because they reserve the power to make your life easier if you act right, but make your life miserable if you don't. It is the same formula for women or people, you must be both. To be a monster and kind. A kind monster. Because one thing a monster fears the most is another monster.

You should check out the Chinese ancient philosophy of ''ying and yang''. It shows clearly that feminine energy is chaos, passive, weak, dark, etc. A man that doesn't understands this, and how to act appropriately will be a victim of it, instead of to utilize it to his advantage.

Our cases are spectacularly similar, very very similar. At some point she started talking as tho she was doing me a favor, I was irritated.

I didn't know game too, I got played, I wasn't even trying to play,.

I don't know y I was banned by d mod sha.

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