Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Go and sterilise yourself (vasectomy)

Is she the one footing their bills?

You want us to delegate someone from nairaland to help you impregnate her or contribute money so you can be getting fresh packs of condoms every week

thesicilian:
Go and sterilise yourself (vasectomy)

hmm

yomi007k:
Is she the one footing their bills?

No na...we are both running our home, but the problem is she wanting another baby

JidennaJason:
Who is the "MAN" of the house?

This your question eh..are you married?

I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

RoyalRoy Lalasticlala please fp!

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and vasectomy

She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

All our female associates were once not the bitching type until they bitched on us

Like I said I'm just saying

internationalman:

All our female associates are not the bitching type until they bitched on us
Like I said I'm just saying

No cap.

Wow! so people can still get erection at this season.

TheRealProphet:
This your question eh..are you married?

If you're truly the MAN of the house, stamping your authority shouldn't be a big deal to you.

TheRealProphet:
No na...we are both running our home, but the problem is she wanting another baby

If she is footing bills well, she wont be asking for another baby.

JidennaJason:
If you're truly the MAN of the house, stamping your authority shouldn't be a big deal to you.

Lol...

yomi007k:


If she is footing bills well, she wont be asking for another baby.

she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

children are gift from God, remember the bible said we should go to the world and multiply. so i believe your wife is right

Asquare84:
children are gift from God, remember the bible said we should go to the world and multiply. so i believe your wife is right

multiply with your senses....don't breed almajiri's

gift2xl:
Wow! so people can still get erection at this season.

most underrated comment so far

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This is not the time that people should be expanding their families. You have not two but there ! You have both sexes (male and female) The economy is so unpredictable. Even the world is unpredictable now with a second wave of the virus. This request seems so strange that I suspect that she is already pregnant... Is she an only child? The fact that you can be so confused as to how to handle this matter shows there is a big problem in your marriage. You may not realise it but your wife is on to something...

Chiquitq:

This is not the time that people should be expanding their families. You have not two but there ! You have both sexes (male and female) The economy is so unpredictable. Even the world is unpredictable now with a second wave of the virus. This request seems so strange that I suspect that she is already pregnant... Is she an only child? The fact that you can be so confused as to how to handle this matter shows there is a big problem in your marriage. You may not realise it but your wife is on to something...

Well, she can't drag me into it.

– Start using condoms
– Practice withdrawal (Pro Max)
– Get a vasectomy

These are the options available to you until that spirit has departed from her.

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and vasectomy

online manager...try and get small sense.

crackhaus:
– Start using condoms
– Practice withdrawal (Pro Max)
– Get a vasectomy

These are the options available to you until that spirit has departed from her.

Hey I'm stalking your comments...lolz

crackhaus:
– Start using condoms
– Practice withdrawal (Pro Max)
– Get a vasectomy

These are the options available to you until that spirit has departed from her.

Condom sorry, I don't use that with my WIFE.

Withdrawal - I do that often.

Vasectomy - will try that if she don't calm down.

Try to have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her understand that the family can not shoulder the financial responsibility of another baby. Be polite and gentle with her. Let her feel that your decision is in the best interest of the family.

If after explaining to her and she is still being stubborn, you might want to involve someone that she listens to (can be her mum or a mentor).
May peace reign in your home.

ahnie:

Hey I'm stalking your comments...lolz

Uhmm, okay...

faithugo64:
Try to have a heart to heart talk with her

done that....will try talk to her when I get home.

crackhaus:
Uhmm, okay...

I saw your pm....my phone is misbehaving. whassupu kwa nu?

TheRealProphet:
Condom sorry, I don't use that with my WIFE.

Withdrawal - I do that often.

Vasectomy - will try that if she don't calm down.

Whatever you choose, sha do everything possible to NOT cum inside her because once she gets pregnant, she go born the pikin and there will be nothing you can do.