LadyTianna:
Men can be funny. When you take a girl to a restaurant, do you expect her not to order food?

Nuuu, we expect you guys to smell the food not order it

20k salary and he still has the mind to carry girl, some men like digging their own graves, why didn't he take her to local mama put that would sell that same food for N1000, he was broke and tried to play a rich man

Oturatetuala:


Must she eat rice and chicken? She can just order for something else like meat pie, burger or ice cream and story ends but anyways I still blame the both of them.

In that case, the guy should let her know his budget or order for her

hashtagged:


Nuuu, we expect you guys to smell the food not order it

Lol

James4bright:


We expect them to order moderately and not like thieves.

I usually order moderately when I'm on a date

LadyTianna:


In that case, the guy should let her know his budget or order for her

Exactly!!!

The Selfishness and level Of Entitlement mentality Nigerian ladies Display will never cease to Amaze me

Nigeria my country.
The poverty capital of the world.
Sometimes i wish i can just sleep and wake up in Canada or even S.A, Or even Mauritius or Seychelles sef.
Abeg how poor pesin fit escape from this Country sef aside Rapture or death?..

LadyTianna:

I usually order moderately when I'm on a date

how much is moderate to you

Some girls will just be ordering anyhow instead of cutting their ration according to their size

Tajbol4splend:
Why is it that broke ladies are expensive to date, aren't they supposed to be easy to date, awon omo oju o r'ola ri.

In Economics we have Diminishing Marginal Returns. In layman’s terms, at some point in production, you’ll peak and increasing other variables would have no significant effect on output. E.g, you are very hungry, seriously craving suya. You buy suya of N3000, but once your craving is satisfied- whatever is left of the suya would make no difference anymore. Just like when you cum and come to your senses.

Why are broke ladies expensive to date? They haven’t peaked in basic enjoyment.

The first time I saw Horlicks in my life, I kept staring at it. Them no give me o, I carry my longthroat go house. First time I ate pizza, I finished that small one alone. First time I took Coldstone ice cream? Shawarma nko?

With frequent consumption of these things, I began to appreciate them less. I don’t take them anymore sef, I see them as fattening. An evening stroll or drive around town would be better appreciated than food now (well, except it is afang soup) and I am still broke as fck. Just done with the basics...

As you are growing, your definition of enjoyment will keep changing. At a point you might have so much money that you have done it all. That is why you see rich people doing silly things. They know what they are doing is silly, but they don’t know what to do with the money again.

Sixfeetbelle:


Meat pie and ice cream is still food, I agree, but ordering it depends on the date herself and the venue. At a restaurant, she can order what she wants since it's already on the menu, however, her choices would be limited at an 'eat-n-go'. And since the man can't control what would be ordered, he should have taken her to a place where ordering a plate of rice and chicken wouldn't hurt his pocket.

My two kobo.

but she's not the one spending

Liposure:
but she's not the one spending

If he tells her the amount he wants to spend, will he die? How will he take someone to an expensive restaurant and expect not to spend? If he wants shared bill, can't he talk?

But if it is to invite a girl to your house, e nor dey hard una to talk, yeye people.

Liposure:
but she's not the one spending

That's where wisdom and discretion should apply

If she's a new date, you have to gauge your pocket before going on the date. A plate of rice and chicken isn't the same price at every restaurant. Which restaurant can you afford? That is the question here

LadyTianna:
Men can be funny. When you take a girl to a restaurant, do you expect her not to order food?

What about her paying for the food she ate?

Liposure:
Some girls will just be ordering anyhow instead of cutting their ration according to their size

It's not about ration. It's about the affordability. What can you afford?

If you were to take me shopping to go buy a gown and you only have 20k on you, wisdom should tell you not to take me to a high-end boutique store where one pair of earrings is costlier than your budget. Instead you'd take me to a local boutique where I might even get 3 gowns for that amount.

Use this psychology when taking someone out on a date next time. Ciao

Next time you take a girl out, never ask her to place orders unless you have enough cash on you that can cover whatever she orders for.

If you're on a low budget, call the waiter and make the orders yourself, after all you didn't go there to eat but to hangout and gist.

pocohantas:


In Economics, we have Diminishing Marginal Returns. In layman terms, at some point in production, you’ll peak and increasing other variables would have no significant effect on output. E.g, you are very hungry, seriously craving suya. You buy suya of N3000, once your craving is satisfied- whatever is left of the suya would make no difference anymore.

Why are broke ladies expensive to date? They haven’t peaked in basic enjoyment.

The first time I saw Horlicks in my life, I kept staring at it. Them no give me o, I carry my longthroat go house. First time I ate pizza, I finished that small one alone. First time I took Coldstone ice cream? Shawarma nko?

With frequent consumption of these things, I began to appreciate them less. I don’t take them anymore sef, I see them as fattening. An evening stroll or drive around town would be better appreciated than food now (well, except it is afang soup) and I am still broke as fck. Just done with the basics...

As you are growing, your definition of enjoyment will keep changing. At a point, you might have so much money that you have done it all. That is why you see rich people doing silly things. They know what they are doing is silly, but they don’t know what to do with the money again.

Poco, have you considered doing comedy?

So because of food you concluded she can't be the one for you? So, when you marry her, you are not going to feed her? Mtchew...

Nwaotu10:


What about her paying for the food she ate?

But you're the one who asked her to go on a date with you. Therefore it should be your treat. If I take you out, its my treat

Liposure:
how much is moderate to you

Depends on the place. 2k seems reasonable to me for an eatery

Wetin concern me if you spent all your salary?
The babe didn't hold a gun to your head neither did she now we're a broke guy. I know how guys can lie about what they have when they have nothing.
He asked them to meet in a bus restaurant giving her the impression that he could afford a meal there. They should have met in church compound or at a primary school play ground where he won't spend anything.
That's how a guy will spend his live savings on a girl them go home to cry as if the girl forced him
Let a girl like you for who you are no cos of the lies you tell baout what you have simply because you think money is what activates a girl's brain. Some girls will know you are broke and still chop your money expecially when they want to just punish you.

LadyTianna:


But you're the one who asked her to go on a date with you. Therefore it should be your treat. If I take you out, its my treat

Quite illogical!

She's damaged and hungry.

Sixfeetbelle:


It's not about ration. It's about the affordability. What can you afford?

If you were to take me shopping to go buy a gown and you only have 20k on you, wisdom should tell you not to take me to a high-end boutique store where one pair of earrings is costlier than your budget. Instead you'd take me to a local boutique where I might even get 3 gowns for that amount.

Use this psychology when taking someone out on a date next time. Ciao

Na true you talk
There are times you yourself would want to hangout with yourself and you know that what you have will determine where you will go to
I won't go for cold stone ice cream when I have just 1k. There are other things I cold get with my 1k and still be happy. But when you have money for cold stone and shawarma, you know where to go to. Sometimes sef might just hang out for a bottle of Fanta if and I'm.okay. not when you have 1k you will now hangout where a bottle of coke is 500 and a snack you would get for 100 is sold 700

MhisTahrah:
Poco, have you considered doing comedy?

I never consider am...

LadyTianna:

Na them them. Always broke and lamenting

Why don't you go and make money yourself. why relying on guys to feed your bottomless stomach

Fahdiga:
Why don't you go and make money yourself. why relying on guys to feed your bottomless stomach

I'm not relying on anyone to feed me oga. The thread is about someone who took a lady on a date. If you don't want to spend money, don't take women out simple.

LadyTianna:
Men can be funny. When you take a girl to a restaurant, do you expect her not to order food?

Order but not like ur life depends on it..

SweetCunt97:
Because she no get water for house naw. Stingy things. What's sooo difficult in telling the person your budget for the date and see if she'll work around that budget? You let her know how much you have and simply watch her disposition, then you'll know if to continue or not.

If she orders a little or buy for herself, will she die?

Nazgul:
Next time you take a girl out, never ask her to place orders unless you have enough cash on you that can cover whatever she orders for.

If you're on a low budget, call the waiter and make the orders yourself, after all you didn't go there to eat but to hangout and gist.

Sense no go kee you.

The best place for guys like you to order is from the car or near a Park like Love Garden.

If she is hungry, give her what you can afford. On her way to order, give her money for water or so for you.

Surprise! She will order within that budget and still keep some change. Then give you your bottle water.

Se you get?