PataAlhajaKeji:


This Nigger here is a fellow of the Institute of Chartered Simps of Nigeria (ICSN).

BadBitch:


First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

Blitz888:


Should I take the higher ground and ignore this simpleton or give him a piece of my mind..

Some of una never even fit get woman wey loyal so tey she jettison her papa name to take on una name yet una go come for faceless forum dey run una soakaway of a mouth.

danilmo:


My dad racks in 700k+ monthly while mum brings in 100k..

so if they are talking of financial contribution now my mum of 100k should have adding responsibility voice?? lol..

wen we are talking of buying Car for him and his wife, buying land, build house, pay school fees, na from dad account o.

women will b bringing 10k to 50k profit and won't let us hear word.. nonsense responsibility..(meanwhile all d said income is for their wardrobe and makeup o)

as per chores ,the housemaid that do the job nko??

Most ladies just know how to chase stupid clout just to prove silly point..

Beverlyjean:


Whenever a woman doesn't agree with ur ideology, u say it must b a man..
U know the thing about all these, u will end up seeing how foolish ur ideology is ...it might take a decade or 2 but u will realise...u might not wanna accept it in front of people, but deep down inside, u will realise ur ideology is just the devils plan to ruin the society

Ikillbrokehoes:
The op isn't a female because she stated the fact? get out of here.

Psych412:
madam, she's married and a mother of two(girls).


FEMINIST

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

pansophist:
Op be careful, this mango tree that you're shaking so, if it fall eh?

Your writeup is an exercise in futility, as it requires the female demographic you're referring, to be something they can't be, and if you anything about female nature, it is that when a lady goes bad, she hardly go back. Good girl gone bad is real. Instead of these women to digest, make changes and move on, they will attack. They are like an aboki soldier, robotic to the core, can't think for themselves, and when you see one, you've seen all.

Everything you said made sense, but "cognitive dissonance" is woven deep into the fabric of their being, they are capable of coexisting harmoniously with two contradicting thoughts, and still emerge as survivors, noble, faultless, and of course, its always men fault. The delusion is real. So madam, let them be. If anything I learnt about life, it is that "you can deny the truth because it uncomfortable, but you can not run away from the consequences of denying the truth".

Life has evolved a perfect system of rewarding, or punishing us in accordance with our works. As for me, I'll be overseeing how things goes, praising the smart ones and laughing at the idiots who think they are smart because they are young and the attentions are coming.

pansophist:


Jesus.

So you're implying that common sense is not common within the female demographic anymore eh? To the extent that you're surprised a woman said something that make sense? In other words, to be smart is not a feature of many nairaland females ?

Which kind nonsense be this naw?

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

PataAlhajaKeji:


Sharrap! You are a Simp.

Accept your "L" and move on, Pussy-ass Nigger!

danilmo:


My dad racks in 700k+ monthly while mum brings in 100k..

so if they are talking of financial contribution now my mum of 100k should have adding responsibility voice?? lol..

wen we are talking of buying Car for him and his wife, buying land, build house, pay school fees, na from dad account o.

women will b bringing 10k to 50k profit and won't let us hear word.. nonsense responsibility..(meanwhile all d said income is for their wardrobe and makeup o)

as per chores ,the housemaid that do the job nko??

Most ladies just know how to chase stupid clout just to prove silly point..

BadBitch:


First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

Beverlyjean:


80% breadwinners ...haba...take it easy with the lies... how many known businesses do we women have in nigeria...how many parastatals , ministries, banks , oil , the agricultural sector, commerce do we head?? How many shops do women have in alabaster, ladipo, balogun?? How many women have car stands , filling stations , security outfits , TV stations or radio stations ... how many female uber drivers or taxi drivers do u know or keke and bike... how many woman have furniture business ... how many female entertainers do we hv or pastors ... how many women are ogas or in the military, navy police lasma, frsc,ncdc or inec ... men virtually control almost everything... so how are 80% of breadwinners women??

Saintmary:


No wonder you demean women.

Your Mom is less successful than your Dad.

This is a lesson to myself and women out there.

Hustle ooooo

JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

stanech:
The whole modern feminist thing is confusing, If you get close to them you will see they are just men haters and nothing more, Women are men are never and cannot be equal. There are incomparable differences between both genders and I actually think they were made to compliment each other. My thought though

Ogaonos:
ok buy Ur bf a Nokia smartphone or 30k worth Xmas gift.then we believe u

thedio:
hydrogen abi chlorine

survivor10:
Under 25s women won't agree to this topic. Over 25s women won't argue this post at all. Women and marriage are like 5&6

Blitz888:


Bozo, I guess you want to be unfortunate!
Stop coming on my mention trying to sound woke... When you piece your beleaguered life together then we can have some real men talk... At least the type your wasted forbearers didn't bequeath to you.
Anuofia rere ure!

Ogaonos:
my sister is only for abroad.ladies do support men.nigerian women dnt.only our old mama in those days do that.op is referring to Nigerian ladies.if u ask a Nigerian gf even feminist for cash na issue u don find.dating a Nigeria lady is like buying a ps5 Nd buying the cds.every year.dt why patronage of olosho is high.so pls try to be realist.op is nt refering to the world as u said but Nigeria women.

AuntRose:

You just ended up saying nothing, it's this same mindset that makes you men bash women all the time. Superiority complex I must say is a common disease found in all men.

Beverlyjean:


80% breadwinners ...haba...take it easy with the lies... how many known businesses do we women have in nigeria...how many parastatals , ministries, banks , oil , the agricultural sector, commerce do we head?? How many shops do women have in alabaster, ladipo, balogun?? How many women have car stands , filling stations , security outfits , TV stations or radio stations ... how many female uber drivers or taxi drivers do u know or keke and bike... how many woman have furniture business ... how many female entertainers do we hv or pastors ... how many women are ogas or in the military, navy police lasma, frsc,ncdc or inec ... men virtually control almost everything... so how are 80% of breadwinners women??

Regex:


The author composure too much. Only to find out she's married, with kids. Probably, drawing the common sense from her husband. Read from page 1 to this page, I'm the only one she responded to, only to clarify this particular post you quoted. Her husband masculinity no be here.

humilitypays:
No matter how you follow it, man can never be equal to women. Men out of compassion and empathy have done a lot to bring themselves at par with ladies to make ladies feel loved and great but the modern women are trying to take advantage of those priveleges and they need to be put to their place.


Religiously, man was created before woman.


Biologically, a man is created more physically rugged than a woman.


Psychologically, a man is more mature than a woman.


Check all the history of technology, science and engineering inventions from the beginning of the world, you can find no woman or very insignificant number of women, why


To enjoy this world as woman, be humble to a man that cherishes you and throw away every feminism or gender equality nonsense and don't even listen to ladies that do such or befriend any, just focus on your life and your man and be happy.


Men worship ladies who are loyal and respectful to them, but show that you are too wise and equal to your man and he will make life miserable for you.

Leshurr:


Thank you. Though I'm kinda underwhelmed by the criticism I've received so far.. actually expected far more vicious insults than women just saying I'm a 'man' pretending to be a woman. Lol.
Not surprised at all - most ladies know the truth but will never admit it and society has deteriorated so bad that everyone now assumes all women must act and think the same way (bash men, act rude and be on attack mode at all times)
I've said my piece sha.