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Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by hector: 8:35pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant. I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please.. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by IamD18: 8:37pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around. Travel out first bruv. You'll see classy women that you'll marry there. 393 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Arrrrrrrh I will advise you marry first. Make sure you trust her and make sure you both would be sincere to each other before traveling, after sometimes you can proceed her visa. If am were you!! 8 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by doggedfighter(f): 8:47pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
First thing first For someone that's sceptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. Focus on your abroad, Mr ![]() 207 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by parkervero(m): 8:48pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
IamD18:Meaning this is what you will do or that you are doing (i.e cheating on your man) that traveled? 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
you have not gotten visa nor do you have a girlfriend you want to marry yet. We know ya type. 43 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Harmored(m): 9:08pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
my uncle traveled to US at 32, almost married the year he traveled in Nigeria.... a year after he married an American at 33 now he has his green card.... no time ![]() 140 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by hector: 9:10pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Harmored: Wow 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by babakb: 9:17pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
parkervero: Who is this again, can't a lady express her opinion in peace again? Why all these hate for women here. She gave the OP a candid advice and you are turning it against her, pull your skirt down Niggga. 133 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by incogni2o: 9:42pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
IamD18: Story 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Goodman247: 9:48pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
I rec Kekereekun123: ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by YorubaMod(m): 10:25pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Oga, better not tie ur future down with these nigerian women, a word is enough. 65 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Twizzy30(m): 11:59pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
If you don’t want to use that money meant for traveling out for marriage expenses, better travel out now. Once you tie that knot, it will be harder to travel out. 71 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Fidelismaria: 12:45am On Dec 09, 2020 |
don't ever marry, just get yourself a baby mama. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by gudia3933: 5:24am On Dec 09, 2020 |
my uncle traveled to US at 32, almost married the year he traveled in Nigeria.... a year after he married an American at 33 now he has his green card.... no time |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Cousin9999: 8:31am On Dec 09, 2020 |
That's a tough question. Is there someone you're in love with in Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by sweetmelanin(f): 9:00am On Dec 09, 2020 |
You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind to tie yourself down at this point? Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you. This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage. 177 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by hector: 1:57pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
sweetmelanin: Oh...!! thank u so much. For this to come from a woman, I'm sure going to take this advice wholeheartedly. 60 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by hector: 1:58pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Cousin9999: No. |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by osamz007: 2:09pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
THEM NO DEY TELL PERSON 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Seyzcham91(m): 2:09pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Confirm! IamD18: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 2:09pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Never! Don't you ever get married. Never! Marriage ain't worth it. The cons far outweigh the pros. Trust me. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by BHUHARiE: 2:09pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Just marry her if you are satisfied with her behavior and you trust her 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Legalcriminal: 2:10pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Why is everyone fleeing?? Doctors, Teachers,engineers, others and you Who will fix this shit of a country chaii !! 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by atobs4real(m): 2:10pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
WHEN YOU TRAVEL |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by slawormiir: 2:10pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright... Tell her to take in na I mean get her pregnant and do some introduction before you discharge atleast with that she will reduce are whoring 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by Lexusgs430: 2:10pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Just remain a bachelor........ ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by BruncleZuma: 2:10pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Ogbeni go abroad first ooo... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by HeadShot: 2:11pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
![]() Marry overseas... Nigeria is full of olosho and destiny Killers chanting sai barber... Help your unborn children... Do All you can to run away from a country ruled by Buhari and supported by Yoruba Muslims... 15 Likes |
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