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How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by mrex911(m): 10:18am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls. I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years. I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail. I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that; I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again. It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years. Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power. I always fill sad and empty afterwards. I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here. Pls help a brother. U advice will be appreciated. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Mozino007(m): 10:25am On Dec 11, 2020 |
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap. 167 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by mrex911(m): 10:32am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Thanks. |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by writetopoker2: 10:53am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Mozino007: Big lies 80 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Mozino007(m): 10:58am On Dec 11, 2020 |
writetopoker2:State your reasons sir. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by writetopoker2: 11:00am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Mozino007: Married people also masturbate too, thats the point 236 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by vonlogon: 11:02am On Dec 11, 2020 |
The number one cause for your problem is idleness, I've work with people that are worse off than you, try not to be idle at any point in time, if you notice that you get tempted easily when you are alone try being around people, if you are unemployed look for some business to do, no matter how small. Getting married may help, but I've heard of married people masturbating too. Secondly, learn to tell your inner man NO! 172 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Mozino007(m): 11:03am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by writetopoker2: 11:04am On Dec 11, 2020 |
vonlogon: 85% true and correct 83 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Mozino007(m): 11:07am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Getting marry wil solve ur problem by 95% but u worked out the remaining 5%...i masturbated for more than 20yrs n im out completely,thanks to the succulent punna! 62 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by jesusjnr2020(m): 11:08am On Dec 11, 2020 |
mrex911:Don't give up! You said you've prayed and fasted to no avail, but you're not telling the entire truth. I believe praying and fasting has helped you significantly, but you stopped thinking you had overcome it. Why stop? You don't stop. You never stop. Even when it appears the thing has left, because it would return when you do because the flesh is weak. Have you never heard the saying "pray without ceasing"? Don't worry about the ups and downs. The only thing is that you don't settle for being down or give up. As I said, don't stop till the point when you begin to see that it has left you. Even when it leaves, you still don't stop but continue to do the things that got you to that point to maintain the new level you're now walking on. Thanks and God bless. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by majemuoluwa45075: 1:21pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
: Big liesState your reasons sir. |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Of all 613 commandments in the old testament law https://www.gospeloutreach.net/613laws.html none on mastubation so the plain truth is that mastubation is not a sin. Jesus said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. Do not listen to all those telling masturbation is a sin they are all like the teachers of the law and pharisees that Jesus condemed. God created Adam and Eve naked it was sin that made them to feel unclothedness is a sin. The new testament was written 70 years after Jesus accended to heaven so we cannot validate all that is claimed that Jesus said. Those telling you to get married are the type of hypocrites Jesus was referring to. They want people to jump into marriage they are not prepared for, when married people end up masturbating when they find out marriage is about money and not free $ex. If there were camera phones and youtube during the time of Jesus these teachers of today would not have had the chance to say masturbation is a sin. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by DappaD: 9:28pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Three important Bible principles: Matthew 5:28 Colossians 3:5 Philippians 4:8 Meditate on each of them. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Of all 613 commandments in the old testament law https://www.gospeloutreach.net/613laws.html none on mastubation so the plain truth is that mastubation is not a sin. Jesus said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. Lust is just like being thirsty. masturbation is the best and safest way to quench that thirst. Masturbation is a life saver from rushing into a bad marriage or relationship and the punishment for a bad marriage or relationship is worse than hell. So please don't let anyone deceive you that masturbation is a sin. Do not listen to all those telling masturbation is a sin they are all like the teachers of the law and pharisees that Jesus condemed. God created Adam and Eve naked it was sin that made them to feel unclothedness is a sin. The new testament was written 70 years after Jesus accended to heaven so we cannot validate all that is claimed that Jesus said. Those telling you to get married are the type of hypocrites Jesus was referring to. They want people to jump into marriage they are not prepared for, when married people end up masturbating when they find out marriage is about money and not free $ex. If there were camera phones and youtube during the time of Jesus these teachers of today would not have had the chance to say masturbation is a sin. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by DappaD: 9:31pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
ThePlainTruth: Excuse you, OP asked an important question and is in need of help, is he not? Why not give advice you deem necessary in your own eyes while I give mine according to the Scriptures? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
@OP Lust is just like being thirsty. masturbation is the best and safest way to quench that thirst. Masturbation is a life saver from rushing into a bad marriage or relationship and the punishment for a bad marriage or relationship is worse than hell. So please don't let anyone deceive you that masturbation is a sin. Do not listen to all those telling masturbation is a sin they are all like the treachers of the law and pharisees that Jesus condemed. God created Adam and Eve naked it was sin that made them to feel unclothedness is a sin. The new testament was written 70 years after Jesus accended to heaven so we cannot validate all that is claimed that Jesus said. Those telling you to get married are the type of hypocrites Jesus was referring to. They want people to jump into marriage they are not prepared for, when married people end up masturbating when they find out marriage is about money and not free $ex. If there were camera phones and youtube during the time of Jesus these teachers of today would not have had the chance to say masturbation is a sin. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
@OP Lust is just like being thirsty. masturbation is the best and safest way to quench that thirst. Masturbation is a life saver from rushing into a bad marriage or relationship and the punishment for a bad marriage or relationship is worse than hell. So please don't let anyone deceive you that masturbation is a sin. Of all 613 commandments in the old testament law https://www.gospeloutreach.net/613laws.html none on mastubation so the plain truth is that mastubation is not a sin. Jesus said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. Do not listen to all those telling masturbation is a sin they are all like the teachers of the law and pharisees that Jesus condemed. God created Adam and Eve naked it was sin that made them to feel unclothedness is a sin. The new testament was written 70 years after Jesus accended to heaven so we cannot validate all that is claimed that Jesus said. If there were camera phones and youtube during the time of Jesus these teachers of today would not have had the chance to say masturbation is a sin. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Kobojunkie: 10:37pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
mrex911:The only way to get free of the chains of sin is obedience. If you read the Gospel of John, that is what Jesus Christ tells you in Chapter 8. You have to learn the New Covenant, the Truth that God Commands, Jesus Christ, and when you obey His Commandments, you seize to be a slave to sin and instead become a Child of God. Read what Jesus Christ said and do as He commands. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by DextrousDavid(m): 10:57pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
mrex911: My brother.. Only God can help one break free from masturbation. I used to masturbe and watch porn alot. Glory be to God i stopped in may 20th, 2020. After God revealed the below scripture to me. Study it well(everyday). It's the only true way out. James 4:7 King James Version It says. (step1)Submit yourselves therefore to God. (Step2)Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Kobojunkie: 11:42pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Mozino007:What about those who are married but still masturbate? ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 8:55am On Dec 12, 2020 |
mrex911: ThePlainTruth:[img]https://media./images/69f1f90b1782f02e0ce919ef56cc62d5/tenor.gif[/img] @mrex911 If this is a case of "masturbation and porn" addiction, then you're within the rights of calling them monsters (i.e. masturbation and porn) Meanwhile mrex911, consider that, if God had intended human beings not to masturbate, He would have made and/or designed us like a T-Rex (i.e. Tyrannosaurus), now, just imagine a T-Rex trying to masturbate Mozino007: Kobojunkie:Or what about those whose wife are frigid or for one reason or the other are penetration averse and/or what of husbands that aren't up to the task in making their missus sexually satisfyingly orgasmic? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 9:19am On Dec 12, 2020 |
ThePlainTruth: DappaD:ThePlainTruth already gave a Matthew 5:17 concise and succinct advice, so the floor is free for you, to come demonise masturbation, as a free-for-all, one size fits all, and do so according to you eisegeting Scriptures. |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Find some other things to do if you don't have other things to do apart from the things you have mentioned. |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Thattallgirl(f): 9:26pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Op, read this: Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:1, NASB Today, I want to talk about how you can have a victorious thought life. My friend, the solution to temptations, sinful desires and thoughts is found in the very first verse of Romans 8: “Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (By the way, some Bible translations, like the New King James Version, go on to say “who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” This was added by the later Bible translators. In the oldest manuscripts of the New Testament available today, the Greek simply states, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”) You may experience temptations and sinful thoughts from time to time, but right in the midst of that temptation, you need to know this: There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Notice that this verse is in the present tense. Right now, even if at this very moment, sinful thoughts are going through your mind, there is no condemnation because you are IN CHRIST JESUS! Are we then to sit still and entertain those sinful thoughts? Of course not. Sin cannot take root in a person who is full of the consciousness that he is righteous in Christ. You cannot stop birds from flying over your head, but you can certainly stop a bird from building a nest on your head. In the same way, you cannot stop temptations, sinful thoughts and desires from passing through your mind, but you can certainly stop yourself from acting on these temptations, sinful thoughts and desires. How? By confessing at the very moment of temptation that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus! The power of Jesus to overcome every temptation kicks in when you remain conscious that even at the point of temptation, Jesus is still with you and that you are righteous in Him apart from your works (Romans 4:6)! When you do that, you reject the condemnation for the temptation that you faced. You now have the power of Christ to rise above your temptation and to rest in your righteous identity in Christ apart from your works. That, beloved, is the overcoming life in Christ! 19 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by RedPanthar: 9:44pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Thattallgirl: Daughter of Zion ![]() Sin cannot take root in a person who is full of the consciousness that he is righteous in Christ. Claps ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Thattallgirl(f): 9:47pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Kobojunkie: 10:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
ThePlainTruth:While masturbation is not listed as sin the Old Covenant, Jesus Christ sort of changed the landscape when He basically defined lust as sin. And since Jesus Christ, the New Covenant, is the law as far as all those who believe in Him, any act that has to do with lust is sin. Now, this is not to say that those who are able to masturbate without lusting commit sin by their action. No, what is sin is lust itself. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Kobojunkie: 10:03pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
vonlogon:Idleness? Not everyone who is idle resorts to sinning, and by the way, idleness is not recorded as sin. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by RedPanthar: 10:07pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Thattallgirl(f): 10:16pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
RedPanthar:Yea ![]() |
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by KINGJAJA888(m): 9:18am On Dec 13, 2020 |
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