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Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by frozen70(f): 1:45pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: If you can stay with out him then try and pull out, but you will feel it more because you like his swag likewise you he too You can still go ahead with the relationship but bearing in mind that he is married and most likely not going to marry you You also never can say how and where he can be of help to you The issue with such relationship is that he will make you not give your heart to another man Meaning you may not have a chance to look for another man especially a Batchelor |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Nobody: 1:46pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
manontree: Any normal person would miss someone that was good to them. I believe that is what makes us human, except you are an ingrate. You can unfollow the thread, it is better than you getting triggered 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by joyandfaith: 1:46pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: He is a bad and wicked man!! |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by stayclearofme: 1:48pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
daewoorazer:Why not shut up if you don't have any sensible thing to say. 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by gregyboy(m): 1:48pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
shortgun: He is, probably a teenager who is yet to understand life nairaland should be showcasing peoples age on every moniker so we can diagnose some People madness daewoorazer 5 Likes |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Kokaine(m): 1:49pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl:she wanted to have sex with you lol. Deleting the number from your phone wouldn't prevent her from reaching out to you if she already took your number I understand life from his point and from your point though. I understand the fact that a man whose family is abroad will actually want a relationship. But with someone he has no tendencies to settle with. And then again, not a sex worker. Its that difficult. Maybe something like friends with benefits. Along the line he must have just discovered you were not the type he would want to do that with. He discovered you to be more respectable than that. You didn't discover it after all, he disclosed it. I understand him sha. Its difficult been a man. Trust me it is 2 Likes |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Originalsly: 1:49pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: Thanks for sharing.... hopefully others learn from this and more importantly.... you should review the whole relationship .... find the many signs you missed.... the mistakes you made and how to avoid being lead astray again. Should you or the man really be blamed? Quotes above.... first one shows you judge a book by its cover. The organization is reputable therefore everyone in the organization is reputable. The same line of thinking will go over to relationships.... judge a man by his outward appearance and what he does.... that's the cover... but what is really in the book? You need to pay attention to little signs. Second quote... what difference did it make if he deleted her number from your phone when the 'bad' person has your number? Would that prevent her from calling you?...and you regaining her number? She may have very well been a bad person .... do you know if she sleeps around with the directors and other executives?... or such can't happen because "the organization is a reputable one"? That is not a sign you missed. Many have gone through this... and many more will. Consider yourself one of the very lucky ones to run into a married man that told on himself. Most will not... and even if you find out will deny it until his back against the wall before saying he is fed up of your wild accusations and call it quits ... never admitting. This is what men do... it is in our DNA .... you can't change that. Life goes on... just another big pothole you dropped in on the road of life... many more on the journey... are you going to brake and stop?... or proceed with caution? Only you can decide for you. |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Ubanz: 1:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Most married men like ur man are very responsible. As far as am concerned u guys didn't break any heavenly law by loving each other. It's not un-african to date or marry an already married man. Just that today's women coupled with our borrowed way of life.are either too greedy to share their Men or shying away out of peer pressure. Many ladies crying chai on this thread hv dated married men @ one point or the other and some are still dating married men Madam dey out of the country so Oga go continue to be single until whenever madam decides to come back? Nature abhors vacume. Tall fellow. live ur life, don't allow people and the norms railroad u. Was it not a stunch catholic father that ruined ur relationship with ur fianee? The blanked the Catholic Church doctrine on marriage and disparity of cult. They were Catholic christians yet they did that to u. That's y I believe only in God, not all these yeye religion people re practicing today. Same religion that wants to consume the world today, especially Nigeria. Follow ur heart my dear. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by uncleck: 1:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Chii59:baby oma, If you note only the last line you will understand it out of context. Now let me explain it. If the man had told her the truth, being that she already liked and was attracted to him, she could still stay as long as she's enjoying it. She may resent at first, but you know women don't mean what they say and they actually like what they hate. But telling her much later was viewed by her as deception 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Pharmjossy(m): 1:51pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: Heartbroken girl: I suggest u choose a better tag. U. Do not let his niceness make u list for him. U are just a lucky pawn. Most girls were "comsumed" in the line of duty. Ur not been eating was just a narrow escape. Another guy is lurking to eat the forbidden fruit. That the life we live in. In any case u might need his services tomorrow. Just keep him in the loop for the rainy day. No abuses, no blaming, just thanks him for being nice. I like the fact that u allowed the readers on nairaland reach their individual conclusion while u keep urs. He might be reading ur thread here, u know. Just the storey tells him ts u and that HE hurt u. Welcome to the world of insecererity |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
femi4: Didn’t I compliment him too? Have you seen my physique? It just happened that he was almost perfect. Ugly people do what he did too. It doesn’t make it right. I wasn’t carried away, I had my suspicions and showed them sometimes. When he kept saying he can’t tell me what is worrying him, I made three guesses jokingly. One was that he is married. You can say I didn’t snoop, but it has never been my nature to snoop. 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Maobichek: 1:52pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: I mean no harm nor insult OK, stay strong , your own man will come sooner than you think, thank you. |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Odingo1: 1:54pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Ok sorry |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by chi4ik(m): 1:55pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: Dear, do not bother explaining your to them, sorry for what you went through and God will surely heal you. People will always want to talk you down. It's not your fault to fall in love, it's just so unfortunate that this happened to you but then, you have more than one billion beautiful years ahead. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 1:55pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl:why are you responding to idiot people.? 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by 79733139(m): 1:56pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl If you both didn't have sex (with each other) and he didn't ask you to be his girlfriend after months of seeing each other, then it's was not really a relationship, it was a just friendship with added emotions. |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by hothuntee(m): 1:57pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Cleaned up men doesn't necessarily mean bad. Don't spoil my market abeg... *Laughs Next time, when getting to know people, snoop pls. Even if it is a female friend or someone working for you. Many people have gotten themselves raided on or into trouble by just going with the flow. This world is not innocent. Be the sheep who has the wings of a dove and the cunningness of a serpent. Lolzz. Also, you have to find a way for wanting all the niceties and looking beyond them at the same time. It is blinding and all it takes to use it as a weapon is to have careless money. La blind, la fall. Make e enter your ear. Lastly, to be sincere. Way more than half of cleaned up and watered men are married. Why is that, Most single men may not know how or simply do not have spare time for themselves. When i say clean, it goes beyond dress and completion and mobility. It is more of a countenance thing. Lots are single too however, you will have to probe to know if a woman polished him or he polished himself. Final lolzzzzz 2 Likes |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Domain12: 1:57pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
@heartbrokengirl sent you a PM. Please reply |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by NdigboWorldwide: 1:57pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl:If you want your sanity remain intact, never you bring a personal issue to NL, I have read a lot of posts of people who do, and just shake my head from the replies. |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by banmee(m): 1:59pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: Anyway, shit happens. You did nothing wrong. These are the experiences that build you up as a person. One thing that I have learnt over time is as long as you continue doing the right thing in whatever actions you take, good things will eventually happen to you. The problem is having the perseverance to continue doing the right without taking short cuts. Life is like a dice roll. You will never hit 7 every time but as long as you keep chucking that dice 7 will keep showing up at random. You just have to be prepared when it does show up so you don't waste the opportunity. You met a guy, you had fun, you found out he was married, you ended it. That's a great experience in my book. Just don't go back. No matter what he does or says. Even if he divorces his wife. Guess what risk you run into if you go into a relationship with a man who cheats on his wife and marries the person he left his wife for? Same shit will happen to you. 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by mrjojo: 1:59pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
A Comfortable, Intelligent, introverted working-class lady who isn't afraid to admit to her mistakes and "shortcomings", hmm, and did you say you are pretty and model like? Very Very interesting, If all you said is actually true then you almost a unicorn. Please don't let this change you, |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Oyiboman69: 2:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
uncleck:I guess you didn't read where she stated where he gives her head... |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Nobody: 2:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
chi4ik: I don’t know why people are like this. This is someone that kept policing my movement. He is always seeing men staring at me. At a place we went to eat, he saw a man gisting with me and almost broke his leg where he was rushing to come whisk me away. He was that possessive. I never took a dime from him and he hated it. All I did was love and trust blindly... 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by manontree: 2:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
This whole thing infuriates me. So his sole sin is cos he is married. Who are we to judge him and who is she to even judge him She may well go on to meet other singles who would act like they arw God's gift to a woman, even including those that do marry them, who treat women like trash Here is a noble and nice man. In my profession I treat loads of emotionally and physically abused women daily. Good men are so scarce You don't do married men, simples. You have left him. Ok. Hopefully someone else who wld value him comes along if polygamy is his choice. He is after all entitled to that. He hasn't committed any crime. The only person that can judge him is his God and his wife He is the one wearing the shoes and knows his pains Enough already |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by CsRockefeller(m): 2:01pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Heartbrokengirl: Unfortunately, my post was deleted and I was banned. In summary was trying to say that, stop trusting people on face value especially guys, give everyone d benefit of the doubt but let them earn your trust against your initial doubt (that doubt must always be present) Trusting blindly is akin to living in a fools paradise. I perfectly understand your persona and temperament, fact is people like you make d best partners but there's a thin line that if crossed by meeting d wrong party/partner everything can go haywire, then you move from being that sweet gentle lady to an angry bitter one. Don't worry too much, everything will be fine. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by timstone(m): 2:01pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
yemmit90: Hmmmmn |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Princedapace(m): 2:01pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Christains mumu! Dating married men is bad but gossiping, hatred, stealing, fornication, etc are not bad! Marry more than one woman if u can afford it! Nothing is there! |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Sagefromtheeast: 2:02pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
suzzyboss:God didn't say that. |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by Anaerobi(m): 2:04pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
it's just too hurtful Sha. take heart and b strong... |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by ojuu4u(m): 2:05pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: What about single guys that Bleep you girls, what is the outcome? As if polygamous is not part of African culture, any lady that is independent, if she sees married man who truly want to marry her. I beg her to jump to the offer. If you you don't knw by now that girls are far outnumbered guy you are not doing urself good o. Even the few guys that available how many ready to settle down? Meditate on my opinion i wrote above and answer them correctly within you. |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by PrinceMajestic: 2:05pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
how some foolish adults believe this girl was not banged is surprising. no girl is descent, I m not a descent guy but I'm very principled but I never hid the fact that I love bitches who re sincere and proud of themselves. not you coming to tell adults a married man sucked u without f*ckin you. it takes foolishness to believe huge load of cum wasn't deposited in you regarding this Indecency story 1 Like |
Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by toolate2fail(m): 2:06pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Eyah I feel ur pain, you will get urs soon just be very careful and listen to silent voices coming from your mind in every relationship this voices make you to be more careful above involve God in all ur nee relationship from onset it will guide u I see a good person in you dear. Heartbrokengirl: |
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