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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by LOVEGINO(m): 2:58pm On Dec 12, 2020
Die just dey hungry u

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by akaahs(m): 2:59pm On Dec 12, 2020
bestman09:

Take her back if you really love her and if she is sincerely remorseful for what she did, not because of the money you spent marrying her.

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know and the grass is not greener at the other side
is there any angel known to that is bad
?
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Angelfrost(m): 3:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
PIXSPEAKS:

This is one of the reasons why most married woman continue with their shameless sexual exploits..
She is cheating and you are still dating. angry

Well, the cookie jar must be sweeter and more valuable than his dignity!!! grin

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by juicethekid2: 3:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
Mariangeles:


I've seen it.

You're beginning to act suspiciously desperate....
sorry
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by DrFunmisticGlow: 3:01pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

go and look for your wife and work on your marriage. Pray for her. You allowed a strange man into your marriage.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by thatigboman: 3:01pm On Dec 12, 2020
Seyzcham91:
shocked
yes o. We have strict marriage laws.
Any child out of wedlock belongs to the woman's family. Even if the man then marries the woman, the one born out of wedlock will still remain with the woman's family.
If you chase ur wife and dont go and collect the bride price back, any child she gives birth to while away belongs to u.
Any child ur wife bears when legally married, wheather with other men or not belongs to you.
We dont use DNA to determine anything in my place.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by futurerex: 3:01pm On Dec 12, 2020
Quality20:
Oga just forgive am. who knows, it may have been that u strafed ppls daughters as an unmarried man previously? If that's d case, then this could just be payback time. Anyway, just forgive her n overlook it, try n b more romantic with her

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Mcslize: 3:02pm On Dec 12, 2020
cicikhemy:


I'm not married yet so forgive my advice to a married man.

Forbearance is one of the most important virtue in marriage because it shows your level of love and understanding. Check 1Cor 13: 4-8
As Christians, we ought to possess this virtue before thinking about marriage because the Bible doesn't support divorce.

I will advise that you forgive your wife, express how you feel to her and pray to The Holy Spirit to help and comfort you to forgive your wife totally.

The Bible support divorce on the basis of adultery. Why are you saying the Bible does not support divorce?
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Luckydubby7(m): 3:02pm On Dec 12, 2020
jimmychang:



Nigga don dey fear
My dear I see high price as a total waste ooo.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 12, 2020
kacglobal:


Bobo

That's if then son is even his to begin with. Do DNA test, even if u wanna take back the son.

I'm sure she knows he is not yours that why she took it with some properties.
Yea right. Knowing the paternity of the son is cool.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Boobysmith: 3:03pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

You already made up your mind. What advice are you asking?
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Dchampion65: 3:04pm On Dec 12, 2020
The story and my brother in law experience on sexual escapade of igala girls may prompt me to say please don't.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by mazizitonene(m): 3:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

if you don't mind dying early, you're free to bring her back........and mind you she will stick f oda dks even after ya death

So choose between peace of mind, life and death.....

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by chegbe1104: 3:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
Where in Igala land is your wife from that you paid so much bride price that you cannot let go?
Bride price in Igala land that I know is generally small and their ladies are very respectful and never adulterous.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Gase37: 3:06pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

this doesnt add up, i am an igala and bride price is not expensive
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by coolsegun2002: 3:06pm On Dec 12, 2020
LOVEGINO:
Die just dey hungry u

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by xtervaganza(m): 3:06pm On Dec 12, 2020
I have nothing to say to you. All I know is that Igbo people are not daft
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
sherifato:
Am not supporting a married woman who cheats because it's only shameless and irresponsible women that does that. But I came to think about it, a lot of useless and stupid men sleeping around anything in skirt are now plenty,but then their wives keeps forgiving them in the name of not leaving their home for another woman. Why is it like that? I think every body should be responsible.

It is cultural.

Women are regarded as having more self control than men.

So, when a man cheats, it is almost like society expects it. Men are regarded as very weak in that aspect.

But when a woman cheats, society is hardwired to find it difficult to forgive because she has broken a standard set for women.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Whois(m): 3:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
A wise man once said never marry out of pity

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by johnpepe1(m): 3:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

nothing destroys a man’s hustle faster than a cheating wife.nothing kills a man faster than a cheating wife. It’s has tremendous spiritual consequences. I don’t want to talk about STI and paternity fraud. I beg you ,run for your life.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by zedman1(m): 3:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
coolsegun2002:
because of bride price...dude wants to manage an adulterous woman.....na Sexually transmitted disease and paternity fraud go end am..
Money good, we know, but from my findings e be like money is the language everybody understands these days. The guy de bank on the money he spent, the girl banked on his money but she wasn't satisfied by money in the end. Oboy, money good but e no be everything.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Juliusmomoh: 3:08pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Igala woman ??
U are lying bro
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Wisedove(m): 3:09pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

I can not give any advice for now until you I am able to ascertain the fact and I think you should do that too before making any decision.

It was your neighbor that told you she left because she cheated you were not the one that caught her.
Is it only one person that caught her cheating or was there other witnesses?
How sure are you that what he/she told you was what really happened?
Have you taken your time to get in touch with your wife and asked her the reasons she left?
Get the fact right and answer these questions then you can go back to the advises you have gotten here.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Charleys: 3:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
TheKingIsHere:

First of all, what is the need for the bolded? What was your intention for bring it up here?

Seriously, the woman is not really at fault here, rather you are majorly to blame as you abandoned your sexual responsibility and now trying to play the tribal card with your wife here.

Before you bring here back to the house, go and learn to be matured and take full responsility of your actions.

I can't imagine you are saying this. If the woman wasn't satisfied with a sexless marriage, she should have requested for a divorce rather than cheat on him. Do you know what adultery even means?

Her womb has been adulterated that's what it means, and you are here saying it's not the woman's fault. Like seriously, she chooses the path, it would be hard to trust her again.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by RealAlubarika(m): 3:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,


The choice is yours to make, know that a cheating wife can infect you with STD and make you train kids that are not yours.
Please, make sure you go for DNA test for the baby to ascertain the paternity of the child.

We rise by lifting others

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by mkoabiola: 3:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
Baba de enjoy d pussy wella.

Bride prize ko.. Groom prize ni

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Ghostmode2two(m): 3:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Take your son back and let the woman with loose pants to go.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by coolsegun2002: 3:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
chegbe1104:
Where in Igala land is your wife from that you paid so much bride price that you cannot let go?
Bride price in Igala land that I know is generally small and their ladies are very respectful and never adulterous.

The guy is very stingy and calculative....it’s not only about letting this bride price go, he also doesn’t want to pay another one...so he’ll rather convince himself the adultery is his fault...

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by ceeceeuwa: 3:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Jazzafizzy:



E shock me oo Dem get better culture for marriage oo
Take this Op serious at your puerile! People wake up everyday creating demeaning threads about women on Nairaland, hoping it will get to front page. This forum has become a conglomeration of misogynistic men! Check the Op's profile, he has a history of creating threads to seek attention.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Dahreformer2666: 3:12pm On Dec 12, 2020
It never your fault man, if you were to be available to have sexual intercourse two for seven and you refused to performed your husband duty in terms of bringing home money for the family, I'm sure she would still cheat, it's in her blood
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by MyGeneration(m): 3:12pm On Dec 12, 2020
Take her back and make her life miserable
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by chegbe1104: 3:13pm On Dec 12, 2020
Luckydubby7:
Hmm
Igaha bride Price high?
Na there my baby from ooo
someone should lecture me here ooo.

Igala bride price generally never highland their ladies are not generally adulterous too.

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