Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

sherifato:
Am not supporting a married woman who cheats because it's only shameless and irresponsible women that does that. But I came to think about it, a lot of useless and stupid men sleeping around anything in skirt are now plenty,but then their wives keeps forgiving them in the name of not leaving their home for another woman. Why is it like that? I think every body should be responsible.

Donspicey:



Nawa ooooooo.......


From ur quotes and comments e come be like say na you the woman cheat with....

TheKingIsHere:

First of all, what is the need for the bolded? What was your intention for bring it up here?

Seriously, the woman is not really at fault here, rather you are majorly to blame as you abandoned your sexual responsibility and now trying to play the tribal card with your wife here.

Before you bring here back to the house, go and learn to be matured and take full responsility of your actions.

BluntTheApostle:


This is the type of advice I don't like.

How can you give such advice that blames the victim for the injustice done against them?

Are you saying that the woman is not responsible for her own infidelity?

Even if he never satisfied her, is cheating the only option?

Why is communication essential in relationships?

If you can't share your grievances with your husband, then share it with at least someone else who can talk to him on your behalf.

What stopped her from drawing her husband's attention to the problem she was having in the marriage?

Please, stop blaming the victim here.

If there is anyone who needs prayer, it is the victim.

Because he really needs it to make the right decision for the sake of their child.

If he wants to continue with her, he needs serious prayer to help build back his trust for her. Because without trust, he is going to suffer even more, and their child would suffer too.

Bestinstinct:


Stop trying to make sense out of nonsense! If the man doesn’t provide, she will still get banged for money. As long as the OP didn’t state anywhere she complained of sexlessness, she has no damn excuse. The OP is free to make peace with her but you justifying her action is damn unpleasant. Peace

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

hashtagged:


She kidnapped the kid

Psych412:
you must be high on Codeine.


why are you blaming the man for his wife sins



cheating is a choice.


stop blaming the innocent man who was just trying to provide for his family not knowing his wife was cheating with another man.

femi4:
You chased money and you forgot your conjugal duty

Now, you want to bring your wife back cos you spent so much on her bride price.

You need to work on yourself, money seems to be a key in all your decision making

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

Kobicove:


Is it your neighbours that should pass judgement on your wife?

Blackdisciple:




Well oga tho am not married but I vividly know that you go out to hustle and discomfort yourself to bring money home so your family will not be lacking that was a good one.



The only thing was that you got married to a cheating woman without you knowing even if due to things like time you weren't having it to perform your matrimonial thing at home .


Baba dnt fault yourself go and get your child..I JUST HOPE THE CHILD IS YOURS.


As for her dump her sorry Ass let her keep sharing it outside for other pussyAss licking niggarrs cos that is who she is a sharer and a thief cos she's a thief for stealing some of una properties.

femi4:
You chased money and you forgot your conjugal duty

Now, you want to bring your wife back cos you spent so much on her bride price.

You need to work on yourself, money seems to be a key in all your decision making

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

poseidon12:


Too many stupid people around here.

Fatale:
E don reach woman mata, see name make dem dey call her

What the woman did was very bad, oga self tink say money na evritin 4 wia woman dey.

Cheating hurts both partners
No sex would be happy if their partner cheats on dem

If na man cheat nah, he go be odogwu, why d woman dey suffer in silence.

As 4 ya wife, make una 2 talk una matter

But a man or woman that cheats on their partners are just a walking time bomb

Note: Karma is a bitch. Whatever you sow years ago, will certainly come looking for you

To the odogwus and slay punas
Make una retrace una steps


FATALE

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,