GodWrites:


My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.

femi4:
You chased money and you forgot your conjugal duty

Now, you want to bring your wife back cos you spent so much on her bride price.

You need to work on yourself, money seems to be a key in all your decision making

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Toktee:
Forget that gospel, the same woman would have complain if the man continue bleeping her without bringing money...


If that's her reason to cheat, why not discuss it with ur husband?

And after cheating, why not stay and beg your husband stating above as a reason for your actions?


The woman was a dog before marriage, she only manifested.

princefrank76:
na this kind stories make me d fear marriage!

to think that I have cought my current gf cheated on me in multiple occasions! but we are some how still dating.!

Kobicove:


Is it your neighbours that should pass judgement on your wife?

hopeforcharles:
Guy. I am a married man, let me advise you from that perspective. You go out because of your family to make sure they don't lack atleast financially and to put food on the table, you wife should respect that and understand. But she cheated, well I would advice you don't take her back, count your losses and move on, but don't forget y OK ur kid, Nwa bu nke gi.

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

princefrank76:

my brother, I'm in a very state of confusion!

this girl has sacrifice a lot for me during our four years of dating, monetary wise, I'm an unemployed graduate and she is managing in a betting shop and she has been doing d spending and paying of her bills including mine during d course of our relationship. she wouldn't mind sacrificing her last cash just to make me happy.
I know we are both in love with each other. but this her promiscuous behavior is what I can't comprehend. whenever I catch her, she cries, beg and show remorse and promise never to go back. but on a long run I would catch her again maybe with another person.

as I type this, she has hand over 200k from her savings to me, she wants me to add up some amount and start up a business.

To be honest she really wants me to grow financially. but this her cheating habit is what I don't understand.

you need to see this girl whenever I caught her cheating.. very sober, teary, the other day she even attempted suicide when I told her it was over between us

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

Pidginwhisper:
Bro, Everything wey you talk here no be enough reason to stick with a hoe who keeps cheating on you, forget the financial favors you dey get. If na the thing wey make you still dey with her be that, then e no make sense.The cry cry stuff na emotional blackmail. No gamble with your life. You can’t make a wife out of a hoe

DukeJoe17:



You are emotional weak or maybe you don't have strong will.
This is very bad for a guy like, how do cope with those memories?
Mind you she will never change until her body is slack to the lowest point of no attraction then she'll fall back on you.
ERROR ❌❌❌

GodWrites:
An adulterous wife will send you to your grave earlier than a bullet from an SKS.

In some traditions, her people will be mandated to pay back every dime you spent marrying her.

Adultery is not something you take lightly, not in Igbo land or Igala.

Get in touch with your people, so they will accompany you to see her people so they can do the necessary things.

Never accept her back, no matter the magnitude of tears and begging. If you give her a chance, she will poison you or probably kill you in your sleep.

Traditionally, the boy is yours. If she's to seek a legal divorce, you'll win custody on the ground that your wife is a hoe, irresponsible, and a bad influence on your son.

My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.

Shalom!

TheKingIsHere:


If a wife travels due to work and doesn't have sex with the husband for months/years, and the husband eventually goes to sleep with another woman, who do you think people will blame?

it's even disappointing this senseless post I'm replying to is coming from a female.