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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Praktikals(m): 4:24pm On Dec 12, 2020
GodWrites:


My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.
Gbam! Valid advice.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Toktee(m): 4:24pm On Dec 12, 2020
femi4:
You chased money and you forgot your conjugal duty

Now, you want to bring your wife back cos you spent so much on her bride price.

You need to work on yourself, money seems to be a key in all your decision making
Forget that gospel, the same woman would have complain if the man continue bleeping her without bringing money...


If that's her reason to cheat, why not discuss it with ur husband?

And after cheating, why not stay and beg your husband stating above as a reason for your actions?


The woman was a dog before marriage, she only manifested.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Igolonwaanyi(f): 4:31pm On Dec 12, 2020
You need to go on your knees and pray. God will change her heart, and make her repent. Remember; the Bible frowns on divorce.


tongue tongue tongue
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by showafrica(m): 4:31pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,


You sound guilty... E be like u get side chik wey dey service you so na draw game una dey. Since its draw, there is no winner or loser. Just go bring her, tell am say you cheated too. Let her confidence come back at least guilty conscience no go kill her . You guys can relocate and start normal life.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by rolams(m): 4:32pm On Dec 12, 2020
If you can locate your head, use it!
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by ststyreal(f): 4:33pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Wunye gii wu nwanyi onye ukwu unu.... huuuhhhh, odi kwa risky, ikpo bata nwanyi onye ukwu nu nulo gii ozo, maka na onwere ike ibute re gii ori a na ela ha chi azu nihe gbasa ra ndu gii.
Che kwa ya eche well....
Udoooo!
Omo, i dey try for nigerian languages shaa, na hausa remain wey i go learn well....
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by adunade14786: 4:34pm On Dec 12, 2020
You need to go on your knees and pray. God will change her heart, and make her repent. Remember; the Bible frowns on divorce.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by fredoooooo: 4:34pm On Dec 12, 2020
You well so ? Take adulterous wife back ... send her and the bride price into an ocean.. .. grin
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Annitakome(f): 4:37pm On Dec 12, 2020
Bro, I know it's not easy o but forgive her if u can, if she's ready to be ur wife again, try to be pay more attention to her since u have now seen that it's not all about money, marriage is much more than u just providing for the family, she's Ur wife take care of her sexual needs and she does urs. God bless u and urs.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by toprealman: 4:38pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Just last week somebody was disturbing the cyberspace with details of millions spent during his wedding.
Follow your mind and ask for elders counsel.
Apart from the point about not playing your role well, forget the bride price and wedding cost.....it's gone for good.
The call is yours to make man.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by sweetyme001(f): 4:38pm On Dec 12, 2020
@OP, your Igala wife did that shit to you cos you are not an Igala guy. Let her try that shit with person from same tribe and watch her die a slow and painful. Next time when marrying from Igala tribe insist on them to give the bride "Kola" to eat and watch the gods fight your battle. Take heart Igala girls don't behave like your wife.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 12, 2020
Toktee:
Forget that gospel, the same woman would have complain if the man continue bleeping her without bringing money...


If that's her reason to cheat, why not discuss it with ur husband?

And after cheating, why not stay and beg your husband stating above as a reason for your actions?


The woman was a dog before marriage, she only manifested.
You are smart.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by DukeJoe17: 4:42pm On Dec 12, 2020
princefrank76:
na this kind stories make me d fear marriage!

to think that I have cought my current gf cheated on me in multiple occasions! but we are some how still dating.!



You are emotional weak or maybe you don't have strong will.
This is very bad for a guy like, how do cope with those memories?
Mind you she will never change until her body is slack to the lowest point of no attraction then she'll fall back on you.
ERROR ❌❌❌

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by dehi: 4:44pm On Dec 12, 2020
Kobicove:


Is it your neighbours that should pass judgement on your wife? undecided
Maybe you need to ask yourself why she ran away
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Nweike1: 4:47pm On Dec 12, 2020
hopeforcharles:
Guy. I am a married man, let me advise you from that perspective. You go out because of your family to make sure they don't lack atleast financially and to put food on the table, you wife should respect that and understand. But she cheated, well I would advice you don't take her back, count your losses and move on, but don't forget y OK ur kid, Nwa bu nke gi.
Very sound advice
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Kzcee: 4:52pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,




She must have saved you *old age heart attack. That man might be her son's father, go do DNA. As to pride price, God must surely restore it for. Meanwhile, make sure the fault was not from you, cos only God understands the whole thing.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by darlenese(f): 4:54pm On Dec 12, 2020
You are a mumu man;
My neighbour say ....


Go and find the truth
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Awoo88: 4:55pm On Dec 12, 2020
Ur head no correct!!! Bride price equate your happiness and safety!!
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by perryy(m): 4:57pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,


My friend use your head. That child is not yours., If you doubt me, go for DNA test.

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Pidginwhisper: 4:57pm On Dec 12, 2020
princefrank76:

my brother, I'm in a very state of confusion!

this girl has sacrifice a lot for me during our four years of dating, monetary wise, I'm an unemployed graduate and she is managing in a betting shop and she has been doing d spending and paying of her bills including mine during d course of our relationship. she wouldn't mind sacrificing her last cash just to make me happy.
I know we are both in love with each other. but this her promiscuous behavior is what I can't comprehend. whenever I catch her, she cries, beg and show remorse and promise never to go back. but on a long run I would catch her again maybe with another person.

as I type this, she has hand over 200k from her savings to me, she wants me to add up some amount and start up a business.

To be honest she really wants me to grow financially. but this her cheating habit is what I don't understand.

you need to see this girl whenever I caught her cheating.. very sober, teary, the other day she even attempted suicide when I told her it was over between us
Bro, Everything wey you talk here no be enough reason to stick with a hoe who keeps cheating on you, forget the financial favors you dey get. If na the thing wey make you still dey with her be that, then e no make sense.The cry cry stuff na emotional blackmail. No gamble with your life. You can’t make a wife out of a hoe

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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by efighter: 4:58pm On Dec 12, 2020
Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,


Only a useless nincompoop will take back an adulterous woman who will later kill him
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by sammycarz(m): 5:01pm On Dec 12, 2020
Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?
E shock me o
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by princefrank76: 5:03pm On Dec 12, 2020
Pidginwhisper:
Bro, Everything wey you talk here no be enough reason to stick with a hoe who keeps cheating on you, forget the financial favors you dey get. If na the thing wey make you still dey with her be that, then e no make sense.The cry cry stuff na emotional blackmail. No gamble with your life. You can’t make a wife out of a hoe
true talk! thanks
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by jasman1: 5:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
Your only concern is the high bride price you paid. You’re not even worried whether the kids you call yours are really your own. You’re not worried about HIV and other diseases but money. You’re not worried about living with a dangerous and deadly woman because that’s what they are once they start cheating. Money dude, that’s all you think that maters, think again. You’re not as smart as you think or made to believe. You’re dumb and ask dumb question. Good luck!
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by UltimateSpice: 5:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
It is time to move on.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Henri8: 5:09pm On Dec 12, 2020
Forget the expensive bride price and anything any so called church person will tel you.

Divorce her!!
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Be guided by these words from the almighty God. Pick up your Bible and read Hosea 1: 1-11
Therein two things played out.
Hosea was a prophet of God,
Gomer was a prostitute,
God commanded Hosea to marry Gomer the prostitute.
Where the intricacies of this scripture becomes too hard for you, I will eloborate more on it.
Read that scripture
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by princefrank76: 5:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
DukeJoe17:



You are emotional weak or maybe you don't have strong will.
This is very bad for a guy like, how do cope with those memories?
Mind you she will never change until her body is slack to the lowest point of no attraction then she'll fall back on you.
ERROR ❌❌❌
you have a point!
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by bizhop01: 5:15pm On Dec 12, 2020
The advantage of expensive bride price grin
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by mannyiyke: 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2020
GodWrites:
An adulterous wife will send you to your grave earlier than a bullet from an SKS.

In some traditions, her people will be mandated to pay back every dime you spent marrying her.

Adultery is not something you take lightly, not in Igbo land or Igala.

Get in touch with your people, so they will accompany you to see her people so they can do the necessary things.

Never accept her back, no matter the magnitude of tears and begging. If you give her a chance, she will poison you or probably kill you in your sleep.

Traditionally, the boy is yours. If she's to seek a legal divorce, you'll win custody on the ground that your wife is a hoe, irresponsible, and a bad influence on your son.

My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.

Shalom!

Do you want to tell me that baby mamas don't cheat?

Your earlier points made sense. However, I disagree with you on this one.

God didn't plan that we should have baby mamas. That's not good. Any woman can cheat, be it baby mama or not.
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Psych412(f): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


If a wife travels due to work and doesn't have sex with the husband for months/years, and the husband eventually goes to sleep with another woman, who do you think people will blame?

it's even disappointing this senseless post I'm replying to is coming from a female.
so, are you expecting the man to stay at home because of sex.

is sex more important than thier marriage

will sex bring food to the table

will sex pay thier child school fees.



because I'm a woman then I should support her.


please, I don't do gender war.

any gender that bleeps up, I give it to him or her
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by harmony75: 5:25pm On Dec 12, 2020
if you cheat on her too pls both of you should come together again and start afresh.

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