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Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by ojuu4u(m): 12:55pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Immediately I meet a lady, I knw stuff she made of, just five mins talks is enough. The selfish and manipulative among them, I love them die. I will up my game, she must fall for my superior manipulation. But for few that good, I will do my best. 3 Likes |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Pierocash(m): 12:57pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
thinkmoney:it is you that have comprehension issue. There are help reserved for those that are part of your life which includes training a woman. The reason any man will train a woman is simply because she is your woman. What is the selfishness there? If you don't want to marry a man,don't accept his proposal don't accept his proposal with selfish and ulterior motives of using him and at the end you shifted from the relationship after achieving goal. Who is selfish here, the man who trained you,or you who got trained? Have you seen any man who will just go and start training a stranger of a woman in school if they aren't in any serious relationship? He trained you simply because you are his woman, what is selfish there. But if he refuses to train her,many of you will call him wicked,or call his love fake.Ewu. 8 Likes |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Martinez39s(m): 1:01pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
ojuu4u:Why are you telling me this? |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:15pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
.....Don't you ever train a lady who is not your blood relation in school. Una mumu never do? Chai. 1 Like |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:16pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Pierocash:.....Very correct |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by AsiwajuNdigbo: 1:32pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
tobechi74: The subject of marriage is separate from that of love. Marriage is always a contract for mutual gains from each other. It is constant for the lifetime of the contract. The parties may wish to modify it at any time. You need voluntary action to enter into marriage. Love is a emotional power that never remains contact, it is dynamic and always in movement. The act of love is involuntary, it can overpower you and compel you to surrender your will and spirit to its force. Sexual intimacy is voluntary act that binds and solidifies a contractual marriage, or a loving encounter, or both. There is nothing wrong in the man asking for marriage as an exchange of contract to fund a girl's education, or her material needs. There have been stories of girls who marry into wealth to help their parents survival or rescue them from hardship and sickness. It is not immoral for a girl that chooses that path for herself, nor for the man that seeks a girl for such beneficial exchange. To draw your imagination into how this works, certain societies have what is called temporary marriage arrangement for long term visitors to their society. They have men and women available for convenient contracts of intimacy and matrimony and at end of term you both amicably terminate the contract. Lets keep things easy and in perspective. Dont make things hard for people, no pressure. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by thinkmoney(m): 2:09pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Pierocash:You obviously haven't seen many well-to-do good people. Besides, I have only pointed out that you lack capability to comprehend what that writer was saying. He was giving advice against selfishness. 1 Like |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by authority2006(m): 2:21pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
tobechi74: Fahdiga: I think you people are confusing yourselves on the issue. What comes first, love or sponsorship? Love of course. He sponsor her because of the love he has for her, not that he wants to marry her because he sponsored her education. If he wasn't in love with her in the first place, he wouldn't have sponsored her education to begin with. Or, did the man say that he's doing charity work from the beginning? 3 Likes |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
IamPlato:Yes sir. I hear. |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by bizhop01: 2:29pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
I will rather sponsor my two dog's 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Ablechukwu(m): 2:32pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Jesus! what did i just read? |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Omokowa(m): 2:40pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
For those comparing agape love with aeros love, they are different. God's love shown to people is not selfish. I agree, but, for two to come together which is aeros kind of love is sacrifices we must pay in human nature. As a lady, if you are not going to be with the guy, don't collect beyond what can stress the guy to aquire for you. Because, you will pay someday and somehow. For the guys, please let your relationship be built on love and trust first of all before going beyond your limit to assist. I know a lot of ladies will say, you are stingy or... Please guys don't let them deceive you it is a way to smoke you dry rather than them helping you to grow |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Omokowa(m): 2:43pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
authority2006: If you claim he is sponsoring her because he love her, then what have you done for him too to show you love him. Remember sex is not love[left][/left] 2 Likes |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
tobechi74:Even your parents that sent you to school did it as investment. They are indirectly investing in their future and directly in yours. If they knew a child would waste their money by not reciprocating, they won't bother sending him to school. How much more a man that is not your blood. Can a lady train a man (a stranger) in school without expecting anything in return? Can you advise your father or brother to train a random lady in school without intension of marrying her? What you are doing is encouraging romance scam/love scam. You are worse than yahoo boys. Such ladies should be arrested for fraud. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by emmaodet: 3:17pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
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Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by emmaodet: 3:19pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
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Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by EduBrazil1991(m): 4:06pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
[quote author=cooooooks post=97119915]This one has chopped someone's money with a cake promise of marriage and is coming here to bleat. Guys, never expect anything from people without prior honest discussion. Honest discussion my foot, Juju discussion joor. If she betray me, she dies. |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by jaxxy(m): 4:57pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
tobechi74: This is about who unbalanced investment in relationships. One side starts to over play their advantage or misbehave. |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by LOVELYSKINZNEW(f): 5:13pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
after education she japa |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Verysmart101: 6:23pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
jimmychang:.dont mind her,its only simps that pay attention to such trashy writeups |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Verysmart101: 6:32pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
nautybride:See for saying d truth,God will forever bless u,ur future hubby ad ur kids 3 Likes |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by knightphoenix: 6:35pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
So if you love a woman you can't help help that's what it means... Pierocash: |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Pierocash(m): 6:37pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
knightphoenix:that is what the mumu op means. |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Franklydes(m): 7:00pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
tobechi74:But can i ask you a question? Were they not dating because he thought it wise to help her academically because he saw something great in her? |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by DedeNkem: 7:03pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
It is stupid to make a big investment on a woman you're yet to marry! 1 Like |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Nadoson1(m): 7:40pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
We men commenting here that the poster's ideology is very poor should think or see it the other way round, I put to them nailing the poster that they will never take it lightly when they are used by this set of people. emerging you spending a whole lot of money on a girl hoping to have her as your partner tommorow and she comes after graduation that you are no longer good for her but you were good when she was gulping Dow your wads, wicked set of people. thinking it the other way round, how can a guy see a girl, liked her and decides to sponsor her through school without having any intention of coming closer to her, is he a father Christmas? truth must be told, e dey pain 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by authority2006(m): 8:26pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Omokowa: I'm not sure you understand my post before you quoted me |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by armadeo(m): 8:52pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Martinez39s: I swear down. Nigga about to be shocked as F @op never give excuses for agreeing to a contract. If they say marry me I'll train you and you decide to deceive the guy to be trained. When he comes for your head dont complain oh. I honestly dont know what is wrong with some of you. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by armadeo(m): 9:08pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
mrdharkchild: Why pay a lawyer.? Why delay the wedding? Just marry her, let her drop one and start school. By year 3 drop second one. No wahala for that matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Sterope(f): 11:59pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Some people are very greedy. That investment is too much of a burden and power for both parties. pocohantas: |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by timesup234: 6:07am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Education, education, education. Education is bullshit. There are more educated people suffering than illiterates who didn't go to school. Education is stupidity and foolishness cos you think getting a bullshit papers makes you a superman when in reality you are less than a rat 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by Bellotelli: 7:17am On Dec 18, 2020 |
jimmychang:The more u read these trash u get yourself confused. In reality someone don't invest in business if he can't gain from it. Even your biological parent can't invest in you if they think you'll be of no use. Idealism van make some people loose their sanity. 1 Like |
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