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| Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 3:56pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: The clown even added a laughing emoji to something that wasn't really funny. The average male don't have their mind engaged in a lot, hence, don't know the value of their time and attention given to women. It's bigger than just being busy. Attention to women is almost as equal as money. Even though they won't openly admit it, a girl who steps out a day without getting cat-called, stares and any other form of undue attention, from the male folks is always worried. Not advising guys to act stoic or "too serious" with women, but sometimes learning to ignore them and not giving undue attention is what a lot of guys need to learn to do. It's quite hard for them. Women are good at this, being cautious of open attention they give to men and can always say NO when they really mean it. Females admire humour and playful teasing as they themselves, are boring, but some guys don't know when they start to overreach. Talking excessively, grinning stupidly, putting themselves in her friendzone, as beta-orbiter, emotional dumpster and personal comedian. 18 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Degrezhaa: 7:40pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Skepticus:Spitting real facts here 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:35pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
84.) MAN AND EMOTIONS Power, seduction, strategy, mastery, fearlessness and philosophy are what a man should master in this game called life—Dpsychologist Ever wonder why man is said to hold his emotions and act like a man? It is because emotions are fickle and unreliable. It makes men weak. Moreover, men are bad at handling emotions. When humans are emotional they become irrational and succeptible to manipulation, seduction etc. The feeling of fear, anger, pain, laughter, sadness etc makes himans to be easily controlled. When you read for exams and you enter the hall with tension. You tend to forget most of what you read but after the exams you remember. What happened is that the emotional part of your brain at that time is in control. When a girl breaks a guy heart before exams it has similar effect. Your last semester results was released today and you had your first carryover plus tomorrow you have a test. You will lose focus. This is because your brain shifted concentration from logical part of the brain (cerebral cortex) to the emotional (amygdala) part. You find it hard to be logical, can't assimilate or remember what you read. Men are also very emotional. When it comes to issue of love, relationship and marriage then man becomes clouded by emotions. Whatever you do make sure you are not clouded by emotions. Emotions are fickle and when they wear off you are left to face the consequences. Use your logic, for logic is more reliable. 23 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:37pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Handling emotions You are your greatest enemy. Life is battle and struggle, and you will constantly find yourself facing bad situations, destructive relationships, dangerous engagements, manipulations etc. How you confront these difficulties will determine your fate. Every day you face battles but the greatest battle of all is with yourself--your weaknesses, your emotions, your lack of resolution in seeing things through to the end. You must first conquer yourself before anyone. As Xenophon rightly said, "your obstacles are not rivers or mountains or other people; your obstacle is yourself." Everything depends on your frame of mind and on how you look at the world. A shift of perspective can transform you from a passive weak beta male into an active Alpha male. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:39pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Face your emotions As a man instead of repressing your emotions , you must face them down, do battle with them. Look at things as they are, not as your emotions color them. You must see your emotional responses to events as a kind of limitation that must be remedied. Anger and impatience will draw you into rash actions that will cut off your options. Love and affection will blind you to the treacherous maneuvers of women you encounter. Even the subtlest gradations of these emotions can color the way you look at events. The only remedy is to be aware that the pull of emotion is inevitable, to notice it when it is happening, and to handle it. 14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:40pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Judge actions not words Judging women by the results of their actions, the deeds that can be seen and measured, the maneuvers they have used to gain power. What women say about themselves does not matter; women will say anything. Look at what they have done; deeds do not lie. You must also apply this logic to yourself.. You are responsible for the good and bad in your life. Women usually perform strategic maneuver, an attempt to gain victory. Most times, women who accuse you of being unfair, for example, who try to make you feel guilty, who talk about justice and morality, are trying to gain an advantage over you just like in a game of chess. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:42pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Be tough This is how it is in life for everyone: people will take from you what they can. If they sense that you are the type of person who accepts and submits, they will push and push until they have established an exploitative relationship with you. Some will do this overtly; others are more slippery and passive aggressive. You must demonstrate to them that there are lines that cannot be crossed; they will pay a price for trying to push you around. This comes from your attitude—fearless and always prepared to fight. It radiates outward and can be read in your manner without you having to speak a word. By a paradoxical law of human nature, trying to please people less will make them more likely in the long run to respect and treat you better. 20 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by OLUWABIG(m): 12:52am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Abeg who get the Audiobook version of Rational male by Rollo Tomassi |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:55am On Dec 16, 2020 |
SIMPs are operating on another level. See What i found... 5 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: The Red Truth by DEMZEE(m): 9:27am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Madness!!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 5:50pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:Drink urine? Wonderful |
| Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 10:27pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Haaa......the guy no get eye. The make up is even heavier than red Indian war paints. The girl is a bloody liar! |
| Re: The Red Truth by youngreezy(m): 1:07am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:how do you contain emotions boss? |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:59am On Dec 17, 2020 |
youngreezy:I have just discussed it on this page. Check man and emotions. |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:38pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:Power dynamics is out. Kindly go back to page 49. |
| Re: The Red Truth by rymalex(m): 4:24pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
A woman posted on her Instagram "Be patient, somebody will give you the world without you asking". Word. 5 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by youngreezy(m): 11:16am On Dec 19, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:emphasize on this part bro...kudos for what you are doing |
| Re: The Red Truth by DeusMagnus: 11:54pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
rymalex:Simps will do it 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:48pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
85.) OBJECTIFICATION Objectifying someone is when you see them only for a specific purpose. You can objectify people as sex objects, sucess objects, social objects, or none of the above. Who are those who twerk on music videos? Who are those showing their butt and boobs online? The answer will be women. The truth is that women will dress provocatively, display their unclothedness online etc and then turn back to complain they are seen as sex objects. In essence, they act as sex object but get upset when they are treated as sex object but also seee men as success object. Go to social media, forums, blogs etc and see how women shame broke men, unpopular guys and gus with low status. A Question by Patrice O Neil “Ladies, how would you keep your man if you lost your vagina?” the late comedian Patrice O’Neal used to ask audiences. When women in the audience would invariably respond with oral and anal sex, O’Neal would respond, “See, I gave you the chance to talk and you qualified yourself as a series of holes. I’m supposed to treat you special but you’re just a bunch of holes to yourself.” This happened every time O’Neal popped the question on an audience. Hilarious as O’Neal was, the awakened man knows how right he is. Women innately know how right he is, too, even if they vehemently deny it. Given the chance to bring something else to the table other than sex, women automatically turn themselves into sex objects. This is why men are always asking “ why is she so clingy, why does she nag so much, why does she become so dramatic and overbearing at times?“ whilst women are asking “ why is it that all men think about is sex, why can’t they look past that and see women [as people] and not mere sex objects?“ The difference in male to female perspective is simple, women don’t need to use men for their bodies to fulfill their gender imperative and thus it is not their psychological inclination to do so. They are wired to use men for their resources and commitment and a one-sided friendship where a woman has a man in the friend zone which fulfills the needs of the woman to some or all ends whilst not being mutually beneficial for the man in any similarly equitable capacity. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:53pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
THE TRANSACTION Men desire sex from women and women desire resources from men Men do care about sex, youth, submissiveness and beauty and not really on women carriers, social status etc. If you want to monopolise a pussy then you have to pay for it. If your encounters with women is to the realm of fun and pleasure. You can get pussy for free or almost free. When relationships come into play, financial responsibility comes in. They want money out of their dealings with men, since money is the source of status and power. This pay for play behavior is not only seen in humans, but throughout the animal kingdom. It seems a vagina really is nature’s credit card. It is supreme irony that women claim they’re exploited for sex, when the very basis of human sexual relationships revolves around the fact women exploit men for material gain on a daily basis. Yet, modern society’s “protect the pvssy and exploit the dick” position Who really has the power here? The female or the male? The female of course even as she feigns victim status. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:57pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
THE BARTER The long and short relationship of the human mating game is that a woman has her price. You pay either prepaid or postpaid. Countless of time, women trade their sexuality for money in society. Whether for selling pop records. Whether it is paying for movie roles, car, promotion etc. women use sex to get what they want. Most men never get a ride for free, except "the masters" who successfully and temporarily short circuit women’s natural predatory instincts towards men by either being naturals at seduction or by using PUA. Some women demand more than others. Some are more up front about the human sexual interchange. Most try to be coy and pretend a man’s wallet or social status isn’t what interests them using the natural female talent for what Schopenhauer called dissimulation. THE 3 CATEGORIES Generally, female sexual relationships with men break down into these 3 categories: The short-lived freebie: A woman develops a temporary infatuation with a new man(Alpha) , but her lust for him short circuits her predatory instincts. The male is disposed of as his novelty value wears off and she gets “bored” with the relationship. The pay as you go: Beta males rely on this tactic to keep women in their lives; women tolerate men who provide dependable financial resources while often enjoying the company (and sperm) of Alpha bad boys on the side. The balloon payment: Female predatory instincts come into play in this type of relationship, as a woman fakes love for a man until such time as she can “cash in” on him and dispose of him in the court system. Women with jobs or those in high class have higher hypergamic intincts. Since she takes care of her basic needs on her own, she won’t be forced out of need to give sex to men who don’t provide her with the hypergamous socioeconomic status she desires. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:58pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
THE VOW AND THE WEDDING In a vow, a man promises to give his wife all that he has in exchange for her anatomy. If you’re ever in doubt about the veracity of this claim, cut off resources from your wife or girlfriend and see how long she sticks around. The realm of relationship is a different ball game. Those who mostly enter relationship are those who find it difficult to get sex and those who most have constant sex find it difficult to enter a relationship. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. Women barter for material things and consumer items, and men barter for sex. The symbolism at weddings helps reveal the reality of marriage The entire concept of marriage has been more about barter than love for at least 5,000 years. Let’s analyze the typical wedding. A bride dresses in white gown – which is supposed to reflect her virginity at the wedding – and offers herself to a groom in exchange for a diamond ring, a promise of financial stability, and all the other trappings of marriage. Marriage is for women the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than when single Additionally, the history of marriage has shown us the arrangement has been more about practicalities, i.e. sexual and reproductive barter, than the concept of “love” for at least 5,000 years. Almost always, across every society that has instituted it worldwide, marriage has been about land and property deals between families, aggrandizing wealth, and creating offspring rather than the silly idea of spending a lifetime chasing a fleeting emotion. Men trade labor and resources for female sex and fertility. Hypergamy is as innate a behavior in females as looking for sexy legs, asses, and boobs are for men. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 6:16pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
WOW! I wanted to say that you haven't updated this thread in a while and I saw this! Nice one! Indeed speaking the truth is a revolutionary act 2 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:10pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
86.) SEX AND MARRIAGE Men that marry because of sex end up being frustrated. It is evident in threads on FP where men cry how their wives do not give them sex. Marriage is not a sex guarantee. Most beta males devoid of sex are of the expectation that in marriage, there is freedom to have sex anytime, anywhere and try on new techniques. Must end up getting frustrated at the end. For the marriage end up not being as rosy as it seems. A man was complaining that his wife do not want him to do doggy style, she only allows him do missionary and he is bored. Another was complaining his wife doesn't give him sex only to find out she was cheating on him. The best sex a man can have is beyond the confines of marriage for there is no holds barred. Take the case of campus marriage. A lady will stay in a room with a guy and bang the dude everyday for a month despite lectures but will complain to her husband that he wants too much sex. She is very tired and can't handle his sexual urge. 80% of Men are sexually attracted to women they marry but 80% of women are not sexually attracted to men they marry. When the desirable is not available the available become desirable. Many Women marry one who is ready not whom they love. They love the fvck boys, the bad guys, the guy that can bang her well but because her parents as well as society will not like a guy with a mohawk or dreadlocks hairstyle she will go for a guy that dress responsibly and is ready for marriage. Women date who they love and marry who love them. The guys they love are who they end up fvcking while the ones they don't love are the one's they end up marrying. 20 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:13pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
CONCEPT OF LOVE What is often forgotten is that until quite recently marriage and relationships were a pragmatic decision often made by the families of the couple, not the couple itself. The concept of love based on emotions is beneficial to women. Man is weak when emotional as such he will be willing to do anything. Women use sex to get what they want from men… but since sex is often a temporary thing as in a one-on/one-off situation. Women needed a more permanent/ long-term solution. The reason why women need men to fall in love is because “in the name of love” men will DO THE 3S’ (SHARE, SACRIFICE, SUPPORT). Men will SHARE their time, wealth, resources and wisdom… voluntarily SACRIFICE their hobbies, friends, opinions and dreams, even their very safety and security and SUPPORT her materialistic lifestyle. Sure I can list many others but you get the point. When a man falls in love he will beg, borrow, steal and kill for his woman… this is why women push love over sex… because sex is just a physical thing, so after the sex, you’re gone… but love, love is an emotional thing, lasting much, much longer..it’s the thing that makes you stay and pay her way. At best, women can ONLY love a man conditionally. Unconditional love is only reserved for her child, never the man. Love is the greatest tool a woman has in her “Trifecta,” to control and manipulate a man (the other two being sex and deception). 19 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 12:00am On Dec 21, 2020 |
The balloon payment: Female predatory instincts come into play in this type of relationship, as a woman fakes love for a man until such time as she can “cash in” on him and dispose of him in the court system. Janet Jackson comes to mind. She used this tactic on that Arab Prince without pity. There was a stipulated length of time in their pre-up, that she must remain married to the guy before she can divorce and receive settlement, she did not allow the time to even exceed a year before filing for divorce. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by emmaodet: 5:01am On Dec 21, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Personally, i don't even have a problem with the sex-money arrangement of marriage provided they do their DAMN job without complaining because am keeping my end of the contract for food and other material things instead f deceiving us with the yeye scam cum dummy called Love. And least we forget, she better be ready for a sack letter immediately i receive a sack letter from work because i won't want a situation she will keep tagging along to drain me of my last resources when i am struggling to float and get back on my feet before she spits me out. Immediately i receive sack letter from work, she will receive her retrenchment letter too at home. Her services are no longer needed 9 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Mide3367: 6:15am On Dec 21, 2020 |
emmaodet:lol soro soke....  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Raalsalghul: 6:40am On Dec 21, 2020 |
emmaodet: Oga Emma, This one harsh oh. Sack letter ke? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Raalsalghul: 6:41am On Dec 21, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: I realized this fact about three years but some people still no wan wise. |
| Re: The Red Truth by dermmy(m): 6:56am On Dec 21, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Choi... Indubitable truth |
| Re: The Red Truth by emmaodet: 8:00am On Dec 21, 2020 |
Raalsalghul: Abi, since money won't be coming in for the main time again and women are mostly a drain to ones pocket, before it will get to a stage whereby i will run broke and she will start insulting me, become cold, moody, secretly flirting with her ex for money or start sleeping around, it is better i cut her off. As company is cutting cost and reducing workers, i have to cut down my expenses and over-head cost too. The problem with we men is that we hardly take hard and harsh decisions. Rather than doing that, we will keep struggling trying to form i need to feed my family as a man while dying slowly and then one day, you slump and die and the same woman will keep banging other guys when you are dead and your kids will somehow somehow survive and move on with their lives. Women are not that committed, immediately no more money or you lose your job, sooner or later you will lose your wife when you are fully aground. So before that happens, please let-go her into the water to light your ship for proper stability. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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