emmaodet:


Abi, since money won't be coming in for the main time again and women are mostly a drain to ones pocket, before it will get to a stage whereby i will run broke and she will start insulting me, become cold, moody, secretly flirting with her ex for money or start sleeping around, it is better i cut her off.


As company is cutting cost and reducing workers, i have to cut down my expenses and over-head cost too.
The problem with we men is that we hardly take hard and harsh decisions. Rather than doing that, we will keep struggling trying to form i need to feed my family as a man while dying slowly and then one day, you slump and die and the same woman will keep banging other guys when you are dead and your kids will somehow somehow survive and move on with their lives.
Women are not that committed, immediately no more money or you lose your job, sooner or later you will lose your wife when you are fully aground.
So before that happens, please let-go her into the water to light your ship for proper stability.

Agreed, but how will you handle family interference?

Raalsalghul:


Agreed, but how will you handle family interference?

Are they all blind? can't they see there is no more money coming in? well, unless they will either get me a good reasonable job or a good amount of money to start a biz so that there daughter won't come back to their house but if not, they all should just shut up and go to hell for all i care

toscolee:


The balloon payment: Female predatory instincts come into play in this type of relationship, as a woman fakes love for a man until such time as she can “cash in” on him and dispose of him in the court system.








Janet Jackson comes to mind.
She used this tactic on that Arab Prince without pity.
There was a stipulated length of time in their pre-up, that she must remain married to the guy before she can divorce and receive settlement, she did not allow the time to even exceed a year before filing for divorce.

Yea bro.

Another women made sure until she was heavily pregnant which was immediately when her husband got a huge contract then she filed for divorce.

She was demanding for money from the contract, spousal support, child support and half of his property.

There is nothing new under the sun.

To me, being a red pill man, court marriage is a NO! of course you can commit yourself, but court marriage is a NO!

I would even advice my fellow men to marry more than one wife if the opportunity presents itself.

Dpsychologist:

Yea bro.

Another women made sure until she was heavily pregnant which was immediately when her husband got a huge contract then she filed for divorce.

She was demanding for money from the contract, spousal support, child support and half of his property.

There is nothing new under the sun.

All these happened because of the court vows involved.

Dpsychologist:

Yea bro.

Another women made sure until she was heavily pregnant which was immediately when her husband got a huge contract then she filed for divorce.

She was demanding for money from the contract, spousal support, child support and half of his property.

There is nothing new under the sun.

Chineke!

TheUndercover:

All these happened because of the court vows involved.

is alimony applicable in Nigeria? How then do you get your marriage documents if you are asked to present your marriage certificate probably when you need it for travelling across seas?

chukshobayo:


is alimony applicable in Nigeria? How then do you get your marriage documents if you are asked to present your marriage certificate probably when you need it for travelling across seas?

Yeah of course, I think it's applicable in Nigeria also but not quite sure. Most of the things we do are also copied.

And about the one of travelling abroad, it's not a must, there's a way you can do it.

Dpsychologist:
PETE'S PRINCIPLES
Veteran Nollywood actor Pete Edochie has advised young men against bending the knee to propose to women.
He described this act as an insult to manhood .
Pete's principle states that "any man who gets down on the knees to propose to a girl is not just an idiot but a bloody fool."
Pete Edochie is of the conviction that an African man shouldn’t emulate this western practice and methods of life.

He explained that, it’s the whiteman’s culture and traditions to submit to a woman through the means of kneeling down especially when they wants to propose marriage to them.

What this means to the woman is simply that you’ve surrendered to her instead of she surrendering to you. That’s why whenever there is a marital issue, the wife sacks the man from the house.

I've already told myself I won't participate in that rubbish. Only weak men with low SMV participates in that rubbish.

Nice one Pete! The Man is Redpilled from the onset

TheUndercover:


I've already told myself I won't participate in that rubbish. Only weak men with low SMV participates in that rubbish.

Nice one Pete! The Man is Redpilled from the onset

This is the way it is suppose to be:

88.) INTUITION
Trust your instincts: if someone's behavior seems suspicious, it probably is. It may turn out to be benign, but in the meantime it is best to be on your guard. —Robert Greene

Have you ever encountered a situation or person, and despite what was going on or being said, you sensed that there was more to the story than what your eyes could see?

And as time goes on it becomes crystal clear that whatever you were sensing was right? Well of course you have… In fact, we all have.

That my friend is called INTUITION.

We are often familiar with the five senses of sight, touch, hearing, taste and smell. However, what we are not very familiar is a sixth sense which is invisible known as intuition

We get rare glimpses of this elusive sense. Such intuitive perception bypasses the sensory nervous system and the intermediary step of conscious thought.

Just like how Logic lives within the framework of the conscious thought and is linked to the information gathered through the five senses. Intuition is subconscious and is gathered via the six sense.

POWER OF INTUITION

The so-called ‘gut feeling’ is something that many of us may have experienced more than once.

It is what we use when we are unknowingly in the face of danger, or when we don’t have the words to express what is truly in our hearts.

It guides us even when the thinking mind can’t make sense of its own thoughts. It’s the feeling (often subtle) beneath the surface that ultimately points us to truth without the need for reason.

My story
When i was in high school, after a test in our final year our class rep was keeping malice with me while i was oblivious it.

Everyday i will talk to him and thought everything was fine, however my subconscious was taking notes of the irregularity and changes in his behavior.

In the night i dreamt that, we had a fight with him and he promised to never talked to me again. The next day i started observing him and i noticed that he was not really comfortable i was around him. Whenever a situation warrants me and him to walk alone he refuses.

After 2 days i had a dream that we reconciled, and to my utmost shock the next day he was very free with me. I was surprised till date at how accurate my dream was.

He then told me that he was angry with me and refuse to talked to me because. We shared answers during test but i ended up getting higher marks than him.

It was then i noticed something new, the power of gut feelng.

observation
You need to understand it doesn't matter what a woman most vociferously babbles about in describing herself for she may be the polar opposite.

Whenever a woman accuses you of something it is very likely it is because she is the one guilty of said crime. She is protecting what she is capable of doing or has already done.

Sometimes she will make you promise her you will never leave her but she will be the one to end up leaving you.

If a man listens objectively to a woman and her inane small talk, it is very easy to discern minute details about her personal life and psychology.

If he sharpen his mind without any bias he can see all the facade she uses to hide her real self.

Trust your instinct


During relationships signs are always there to observe inconsistencies in our partner's behavior but being clouded by emotions we never take them too serious that we become blind to see these things staring at you in the face.

Sometimes a woman says she is with a friend, our intuition has observed verbal cues from her tone of voice and has detected she is lying ( she is with a guy) but we mostly assume that we are over reacting and it may be a female friend. 99% that this has happened to me, it has always been correct, it's an subconscious reaction.

Another subconscious action is when they are lying and we are watching them closely, their eye tends to look towards the left. But instead of paying attention we tend to dissuade ourselves into believing them.

On a girl will only shows you messages from guys she doesn't like who are disturbing her but tends to deletes messages of those she likes so you won't find out, only for you to find out she is getting married in few months.

Sharpen your mind
You need to sharpen your mind to pay less attention to the words that people say and greater attention to their tone of voice, the look in their eye, their body language—all signals that might reveal a nervousness or excitement that is not expressed verbally.

If you can get people to become emotional, they will reveal a lot more.

Payying deep attention, you will pick up cues from them that will register with you as feelings or sensations.

Trust these sensations—they are telling you something that you will often tend to ignore because it is not easy to verbalize.

Dpsychologist:
Trust your instinct

After 2 days i had a dream that we reconciliated, and to my shock the next day he was very free with me. I was surprised till date at how accurate my dream was.

However, i noticed something new, the power of gut feelng.
During relationships signs are always there to observe inconsistencies in our partner's behavior but being clouded by emotions we never take them too serious that we become blind to see these things staring at you in the face.

Sometimes a woman says she is with a friend, our intuition has observed verbal cues from her tone of voice and has detected she is lying ( she is with a guy) but we mostly assume that we are over reacting and it may be a female friend. 99% that this has happened to me, it has always been correct, it's an subconscious reaction.

Another subconscious action is when they are lying and we are watching them closely, their eye tends to look towards the left. But instead of paying attention we tend to dissuade ourselves into believing them.

On a girl will only shows you messages from guys she doesn't like who are disturbing her but tends to deletes messages of those she likes so you won't find out, only for you to find out she is getting married in few months.

Sharpen your mind
You need to sharpen your mind to pay less attention to the words that people say and greater attention to their tone of voice, the look in their eye, their body language—all signals that might reveal a nervousness or excitement that is not expressed verbally.

If you can get people to become emotional, they will reveal a lot more.

Payying deep attention, you will pick up cues from them that will register with you as feelings or sensations.

Trust these sensations—they are telling you something that you will often tend to ignore because it is not easy to verbalize.

Ok

Dpsychologist:
88.) INTUITION
Trust your instincts: if someone's behavior seems suspicious, it probably is. It may turn out to be benign, but in the meantime it is best to be on your guard. —Robert Greene

Have you ever encountered a situation or person, and despite what was going on or being said, you sensed that there was more to the story than what your eyes could see?

And as time goes on it becomes crystal clear that whatever you were sensing was right? Well of course you have… In fact, we all have.

That my friend is called INTUITION.

We are often familiar with the five senses of sight, touch, hearing, taste and smell. However, what we are not very familiar is a sixth sense which is invisible known as intuition

We get rare glimpses of this elusive sense. Such intuitive perception bypasses the sensory nervous system and the intermediary step of conscious thought.

Just like how Logic lives within the framework of the conscious thought and is linked to the information gathered through the five senses. Intuition is subconscious and is gathered via the six sense.

Interesting! Yeah you're right, sometimes the signs are staring right at us and we tend to ignore them.

*Sighs

TheUndercover:

Interesting! Yeah you're right, sometimes the signs are staring right at us and we tend to ignore them.

*Sighs

i concur

Happy red pill Christmas to you all

TheLionofLasigi:
I just found out that my dad was a beta male with lagos maddness.....and my entry into the world of finance suddenly made me some sort of alpha but really am someone who hates social interactions...nice thread anyways.

Uwc

In a relationship,a guy's main babe enjoys the most while a girl's side guy enjoys the most.

Dpsychologist:
In a relationship,a guy's main babe enjoys the most while a girl's side guy enjoys the most.

Irony

4gunners:
Irony

Lol arrh tell you

89.) BIRTH CONTROL
It’s called birth control because someone is ‘controlling’ the birth.—Rollo Tomassi

Many guys trust their girlfriends to take birth control pills and that she “doesn’t want kids” only to be an unprepared father nine month later after the so-called ‘accident’. Thats why we have alot of runaway fathers, its not always their fault, they were not just prepared for it.

Their major fault was not being in control of the birth themselves.

I will like to emphasize that Men need to use extra caution especially when in a long term relationship, as the ease of getting complacent is high. Just when you thought everything is under control and then boom she is pregnant. God help you, and you are broke as at then, you will be running helter skelter like a mad man looking for 5k.

Or worst she told you she won't abort the pregnancy you will have to start begging. Thats when you will see a 40 year old man begging a 19 year old girl.

Don't be deceived when she says she love it raw, that's how Chinedu became a father after much pressure from her family to take responsibility. I have seen quite number of my child hood friends experience this.

You need to stand firm even when she says “take that thing off I want to ‘feeeeel’ you.” When women are in the heat of the moment emotions cloud their reasoning as such they do not care about future consequences.

You will be held responsible for succumbing to her irrationality unless you run away or vehemently deny that you had anything with her.

In fact if you are not careful she might pin another man's child on your head.

The accident

Never completely trust a woman for birth control

Accidental pregnancy is more common now than ever before. The “unplanned” pregnancy for a woman with or without an education or a degree can be a pretty good prospect, if she can trap down a millionaire with a child.
Accidental pregnancy is rampant this days with the outbreak of baba mama culture.

Women can now use it to cash out money from men . For a woman without education (or even with) and without means, an ‘unplanned’ pregnancy may be a pretty good way to trap a man of high status.


For example, one of wizkid's baby mama, narrated how she always had a crush on wixkid. When wizkid came to her school she pirposely fillowed him to his hostel and have sex with him raw. One thing that never cease to amaze me was that she said she was pregnant for 2 months and was not aware and when she discovered she had to find wizkid and tell him the news. Today she is his baby mama and i think she gets paid every month. She she is now both famous and financially stable.

THE IRONY

The sexual revolution was majorly as a result of development of hormonal birth control. This resulted in the shifting of birth control into the hands of women from men who put the rubber on and do so correctly.

However, even with the vast variety of birth control methods available to women today , we still see an increase in single mother families and abortion rates. One would think that these statistics would be lower in light of all this modernization.

In fact the single mother birth rate has skyrocketed and abortion is just as popular as ever even when new methods such as the ‘morning after pill’ are readily available.
In Comparison , there were far less unwanted pregnancies or single motherhood before than after the advent of the pill.

This shows women are unreliable in birth control.




POWER IN BIRTH CONTROL

Whoever has the birth control has the power.

There is a level of power that the woman holds when she is controlling the contraceptive, for there are various forms of contraception that woman have available.

There are about 40 different types of contraception available for women, men have only 2: vasectomy and condom. Infact to me it's only one because most men are not comfortable with vasectomy.

Utilize condom wisely. It will safe you alot of stress.
No matter how uncomfortable or expensive condom is, it's not as risky and expensive as abortion or taking care of a child you are not ready for.

Make sure when using a condom it should be from you. After using a condom make sure you appropriately dispose it yourself. Be careful of women who seem desperate or emotionally unstable.

Women are very unpredictable, and they usually have ulterior motives beyond having sex with you. Proceed with an abundance of caution as some may even try to put a pregnancy on your head especially if you are financially capable even if its not yours.

90.) Sex, women and money

Unnecessary lavishing of money on a lady to impress her so you can get sex is the classical definition of a simp. It is putting pvssy on pedestal.

Pussy is an anatomical feature just like a d1ck which comes narurally as such does not warrant waste of huge amount of money for it is koboless. There are guys out there getting it at almost zero naira. Be one of these guys, if she is trying to manipulate you just let her go.

If you spend alot of money on pussy it means you are not sexually attractive to the said women. However, since they can benefit from you, they will keep demanding so that you keep spending higher. Till you end up getting broke while upgrading her till she is above you. Then she dumps you.


Alpha simp
I define alpha simp as someone who is an alpha in simping. Being rich doesn't automarically transition someone's beta mindset. If care is not taken, money actually accelarates the simping by raise to power of 10.
The more you chase sex the more you spend on it. Whatever you chase becomes harder to find as such you spend more to get less sex and you end up becoming broke.

Our "politricians" are the biggest simps. Majority of the money they embezzle from our budget goes to women. They use it to impress women and end up spending exorbitant amount of money on pussy that they cannot bang well. You don't expect an old pot bellied man to bang a lady well. Some of them have to lie down while the lady is on top.

The most annoying are lecturers. Some of them try to use grades to get sex from ladies. All through their 20's they were unable to get ladies now that they have made it in life they are trying to use inrimidation to get it.



To The make money crew

Making money is necessary for a man but using it as an facade to avoid making yourself a better man may be catastrophic. I have seen men with money who do shameful acts that make me wonder.

How will you spend alot on a woman and still end up begging her for relationship. Any body doing this is not just a simp but a sissy. He will has to endlessly use money to keep her, this gives her the temerity to misbehave. He will be the one begging her for forgiveness even when she is at fault.

While he is busy taking care of all her bills and doing all her biddings, she's begging another man of value for attention, a man that's already gotten his shit together.
And when she breaks up with the nice guy he will feel like dying, saying she left him after all he has done.
If you spend alot of money and end up devoid of sex, i think a prostitute will be better.

Side effects of Pedestalizing women


1. Man reveals how fiancee cheated on him with a sugar daddy
He gave her 150k a month,pays her brother school fees and even got her an iphone 11 pro when he's using an X max,sponsors her friends and even rent an apartment for her yet she cheated on him with a sugar daddy.

https://www.nairaland.com/6313153/man-reveals-how-fiancee-cheated


2. Man Buys 99 Iphones To Propose To His Girlfriend; She Says No
With “Singles’ Day” looming in China (Nov. 11), one man thought the time was right to try to tie the knot with his girlfriend, preventing them both from having to participate in any future 11/11 festivities.
As a keystone of the young programmer’s marriage proposal were 99 iPhones 6’s placed on the ground and arranged in the form of a heart. The setup, as reported by The Nanfang, cost the love-bitten chap two years’ salary (about $82,000).
But that evidently wasn’t enough. She said no.
https://www.nairaland.com/6257517/man-lavishes-n2m-iphone-meant


3. I Find It Hard To Leave My Cheating Girlfriend, Help
Please advice needed ..
I find it hard to leave my cheating girlfriend, upon say na me dey spend o ... wen we quarrel na me go still beg, upon say no be me Bleep up .
I've read books on red pills and tried being an alpha Male all to no avail, this has bin going on for like 3 years now ..
Advise me on this simping, real niggars in the house . Just want to get my life back to normal


4. Look at the story of that Doctor that was falsely accused of rape, he negotiated $1000 for common pussy. I wonder the hype in banging a celebrity.


Money game

If you want to use money to get a lady use it ruthlessly, see the way Ned Nwoko does. No emotions involved.

And do not be faithful to any lady.

Turns out the only reason we thought women were complicated was because women really don't understand why they were so illogical and ended up telling us that they were complicated. Never tell a wan the truth and never believe a woman's narrative. Use your cerebral cortex not your amygdala

okrikaboi:
Turns out the only reason we thought women were complicated was because women really don't understand why they were so illogical and ended up telling us that they were complicated. Never tell a wan the truth and never believe a woman's narrative. Use your cerebral cortex not your amygdala

Word

Dpsychologist:

THE IRONY

The sexual revolution was majorly as a result of development of hormonal birth control. This resulted in the shifting of birth control into the hands of women from men who put the rubber on and do so correctly.

However, even with the vast variety of birth control methods available to women today , we still see an increase in single mother families and abortion rates. One would think that these statistics would be lower in light of all this modernization.

In fact the single mother birth rate has skyrocketed and abortion is just as popular as ever even when new methods such as the ‘morning after pill’ are readily available.
In Comparison , there were far less unwanted pregnancies or single motherhood before than after the advent of the pill.

This shows women are unreliable in birth control.




POWER IN BIRTH CONTROL

Whoever has the birth control has the power.

There is a level of power that the woman holds when she is controlling the contraceptive, for there are various forms of contraception that woman have available.

There are about 40 different types of contraception available for women, men have only 2: vasectomy and condom. Infact to me it's only one because most men are not comfortable with vasectomy.

Utilize condom wisely. It will safe you alot of stress.
No matter how uncomfortable or expensive condom is, it's not as risky and expensive as abortion or taking care of a child you are not ready for.

Make sure when using a condom it should be from you. After using a condom make sure you appropriately dispose it yourself. Be careful of women who seem desperate or emotionally unstable.

Women are very unpredictable, and they usually have ulterior motives beyond having sex with you. Proceed with an abundance of caution as some may even try to put a pregnancy on your head especially if you are financially capable even if its not yours.

Wow! Very deep analysis. You should be the redpill godfather of nairaland.

91.) BODY COUNT

A man wants to be a woman's first while a woman wants to be a man's last.

Just like we have established in madonna-wh0re dichotomy, men will sleep with ladies with high body count and marry ladies with very low to Zero body count.

A lady with zero to low body count attracts men who will want to wife her.

But a lady with high body count despite being beautiful and curvy attracts men who "chop and clean mouth".

This is evidenced in Instagram and twitter where you will see many ladies showing their curves and their beauty and complaining that no man wants to marry her. What she didn't understand is that men see her as a slut and don't want that kind of wife. Sure she is fun to be with and can give mind blowing sex but marrying her will be risky to him.

However, some simps will surely marry them that is always certain, most times its because they do not have options. She is the only girl he can get.

Beauty is not the sole criteria for marriage for men but good character and also a low to zero body count. Women understand this thats why they lie that they Were molested when they were young to cover up their promiscuity.


Hiding the fact

Women have learn to never truly disclose their body count. The previous men she was honest with by disclosing the number were disgusted and gradually left her.
She has to keep telling lies, for telling the truth will be to her disadvantage.

Ever wonder why most ladies who marry tend to marry those outside their vicinity or neughbourhood.She prefers a place where people do not know her body count this saves her from ridicule or being exposed.

They prefer to get married to someone oblivious of their past as such she can tell him she is a virgin even though her body count is 50. Until on his wedding night, he then discovers she was never a virgin and the marriage disrupts.

I know of a prostitude that after being a sex worker for 20years went back to her state and pretend as if she is a saint. A pastor got interested and married her only to find out she is a retired prostitude.

Body count favors men, not women.

A woman's virginity is important to men but useless to women.

Even virgins do not really want to get deflowered by a male virgin who is inexperienced. Their fantasy is to be devoured by the guy they love who is good in bed.

Women are gate keepers of sex, narrating her escapades make guys feel disgusted and discourages him from marrying her. Thats why when an ex wants to tarnish a girls image, he will send her nudes to her parents or fiancee. The reverse won't have much effect.

Men are gate keepers of commitment as such narrating his escapades doesn't get her disgusted, infact in most cases it gets her excited.

This is the mistake girls made when telling her female friends about her boyfriend's sexual prowess. This ends up making her friends eager to bang her boyfriend and before you know her bf has cheated on her.

Some might say this is not fair. Fair it is not but true it is.

Dpsychologist:
91.) BODY COUNT

A man wants to be a woman's first while a woman wants to be a man's last.

Just like we have established in madonna-wh0re dichotomy, men will sleep with ladies with high body count and marry ladies with very low to Zero body count.

A lady with zero to low body count attracts men who will want to wife her.

But a lady with high body count despite being beautiful and curvy attracts men who "chop and clean mouth".

This is evidenced in Instagram and twitter where you will see many ladies showing their curves and their beauty and complaining that no man wants to marry her. What she didn't understand is that men see her as a slut and don't want that kind of wife. Sure she is fun to be with and can give mind blowing sex but marrying her will be risky to him.

However, some simps will surely marry them that is always certain, most times its because they do not have options. She is the only girl he can get.

Beauty is not the sole criteria for marriage for men but good character and also a low to zero body count. Women understand this thats why they lie that they Were molested when they were young to cover up their promiscuity.


Hiding the fact

Women have learn to never truly disclose their body count. The previous men she was honest with by disclosing the number were disgusted and gradually left her.
She has to keep telling lies, for telling the truth will be to her disadvantage.

Ever wonder why most ladies who marry tend to marry those outside their vicinity or neughbourhood.She prefers a place where people do not know her body count this saves her from ridicule or being exposed.

They prefer to get married to someone oblivious of their past as such she can tell him she is a virgin even though her body count is 50. Until on his wedding night, he then discovers she was never a virgin and the marriage disrupts.

I know of a prostitude that after being a sex worker for 20years went back to her state and pretend as if she is a saint. A pastor got interested and married her only to find out she is a retired prostitude.

Body count favors men, not women.

A woman's virginity is important to men but useless to women.

Even virgins do not really want to get deflowered by a male virgin who is inexperienced. Their fantasy is to be devoured by the guy they love who is good in bed.

Women are gate keepers of sex, narrating her escapades make guys feel disgusted and discourages him from marrying her. Thats why when an ex wants to tarnish a girls image, he will send her nudes to her parents or fiancee. The reverse won't have much effect.

Men are gate keepers of commitment as such narrating his escapades doesn't get her disgusted, infact in most cases it gets her excited.

This is the mistake girls made when telling her female friends about her boyfriend's sexual prowess. This ends up making her friends eager to bang her boyfriend and before you know her bf has cheated on her.

Some might say this is not fair. Fair it is not but true it is.

This is soooooo on point