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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
prizlezzlalasky:You would have bought her a gift instead, like an expensive pen with a short note on it with your new phone number and by God grace you would have access. I went for an health, safety and environment training, one of the tutors shared similar experience, this is what he did to get the attention of the HR manager and he got the job, the only difference is that he did not apply as a cleaner. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
FuckAllTheMODs:Quota system in Nigeria will cause this country to surely separate. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by prizlezzlalasky(f): 3:58pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
onyechez:. Noted, thanks |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by DMerciful(m): 4:01pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
You could have sent her a letter using DHL. It would have been delivered straight to her. prizlezzlalasky: 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by cicikhemy(f): 4:02pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
The forth one will be a success for you in Jesus name. CryptoClub2018: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by BarrElChapo(m): 4:05pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
prizlezzlalasky: Jesus ! And someone will say you don't need to pray & fast when job hunting, so sorry for your loss hope you're in a better situation right now 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by BarrElChapo(m): 4:09pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
CryptoClub2018: Any experience that happens repeatedly is a cycle and not a good thing in my humble opinion. You might wanna get closer to God as in full blown close to God and the force of faith, prayer and fasting will defeat any force of hell.. I wish you all the best ! |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Nobody: 4:14pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Kunja2:You need to open yourself up a little bit, I acted same way some years ago, I guess it is due to the nature of people you want to be around you and you become very selective which I think isn't ideal. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by BarrElChapo(m): 4:17pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
spencekat: I'm an introvert but I doubt if the best extrovert can sell a product better, I've done marketing and sold the highest consistently all through the period it lasted. I maybe wrong though but introvert make good salesmen 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by spencekat(m): 4:20pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
BarrElChapo:Well,appearance can be deceptive.You know your ability better than anybody.I always tell my colleagues that being introverted is not equivalent to dullness. 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by CSTRR: 4:22pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
prizlezzlalasky:If I were in your shoes, I would have dedicated one day to wait for her outside the gates of the company. Wait from morning till when they close, she will come outside. It depends on how desperate you are. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Incognitress(f): 5:02pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
I almost lost a job because my boss said I was too quiet.. He called me aside one day and said if I didn't start talking to customers, he'd have to let me go. I went home feeling very bad and thinking about how I'd manage, coz I really needed the job. Next day, he set me up with a customer. Mehhnn.. It wasn't funny at all. He told me I had to convince her to get a product.. When I walked up to her,greeted, told her to have a seat and then I blanched! Thankfully, she was a nice elderly woman, maybe she noticed my unease and just took over and started talking about her son. I smiled, nodded and gave monosyllabic replies when needed. At the end of the day, she bought plenty plenty, not because she needed it, but because she liked me My boss couldn't stop laughing after the woman had left. He just had to leave me to continue with my actual job as a secretary and leave the talking and convincing to my colleagues. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Viicfuntop(f): 5:24pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: With what she described up there, she is an introvert. That’s not courtesy she lacks. I do not see any part of the post that provided that assumption. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Juliearth(f): 5:47pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Juliearth(f): 5:48pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
[quote author=prizlezzlalasky post=97324419][/quote] You are welcome, sisterly. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Juliearth(f): 5:48pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
waploger: Wow! The sentiments these employers attach to the process is uncanny. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by RIDOO: 5:51pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
I have to resign a job.....cos l'm not the solo makinde type and my oga like it when you tell her both the ones you see n didn't see.She didn't see me as a loyalist cos l don't do sho,sho,sho for her. At a point in time she started seeing me as a treat to her n she doesn't know it's not in my blood.l don't know how to do it. Then...she started frustrating me...l had to leave her job for her.. but thank God l'm better off now. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:52pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
waploger: This kind of job would need you to be very vibrant, active, and chirpy if possible. Overall, you just need to be a people person to be an effective sales representative which most times, many, or if not all introverts lack. I generally avoid applying for the forefront jobs when I am searching for jobs. I prefer to be at the administrative office typing away my soul, or just be somewhere doing something nerdy. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:56pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: Where in her post did you deduce that she lacked courtesy? |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:03pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Viicfuntop: Don't mind him. I don't understand how some people come to a nasty conclusion about other people. Pathetic. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Uncle93(m): 6:28pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Read. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Uncle93(m): 6:31pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: She admitted that when the lady was talking to her, she just had her shades on more like midning her own business.. you Nigerians too dey claim one stupid introvert, word wey u sabi less than 4 years now you go dey shout introvert up and down. Perosn wey no apply manners no apply manners. Me self be introvert. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:34pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: I did read and still couldn't find out where she lacked courtesy. If you had said she was socially awkward, I would've agreed. Now your own definition of lacking courtesy is not returning vibes or jokes. Judgemental human being. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:38pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: You lack understanding, honestly. I will suggest you read that post over and over to get a better grasp. You have lost your cognitive ability. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Uncle93(m): 6:40pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Meaning of courtesy: behavior marked by polished manners or respect for others : courteous behavior. a courteous and respectful act or expression. Now she said the woman was talking to her trying to be funny and carry on a conversation but she just ignored it all with her shades on. Being socially awkward shouldn't be a reason to appear rude or mannerless. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Uncle93(m): 6:41pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You're not smart enough to win this case, but if you think you've got the balls , lets go chicken head |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:51pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: I will be damned to go that route with you. I gave you a simple task. Read. Not just that, understand. You may be on the path of losing your discernible ability, too. Pity. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Uncle93(m): 6:55pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You're already dammed ! Why would you need to be again ? Oh well, YOU and the girl have that in common. Both mannerless. You're lucky im tired today, this is me giving YOU and this matter only 40% of me.. go pick a struggle elsewhere |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:56pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: Lol. And you had to define the word "courteous" to me. Like I told you I never knew what it means? Anyway, to buttress the point of the whole rigmarole, her post never defined her as a mannerless or rude person. |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:00pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Uncle93: Lol. When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Job Or An Opportunity Because Of Your Personality?. by Uncle93(m): 7:01pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Well , thats just a tip of the iceberg of the setbacks her mannerless ways costed her. If it continues, it will wreck her.! Being socially awkward is a thing, being mannerless is another thing. People with no courtesy tends to appear socially awkward too. Beacuse they dont have regard for other peoples kind gestures . They woman was being kind by acting friendly . |
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