anochuko01:

Lol
You that went to school but still asking if you should remain with your fetish bf nko? You even claim to be "Pentecostal" but still follow him to his white garment church. Can you see how learned and wise you are?


Maybe you should table this before your church pastor and parents to hear what they're gonna say

Okay.. thanks

Our elders use to say that
" A MAN THAT DECIDES TO MARRY THE DAUGHTER OF AN HERBALIST SHOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF HE IS ONE DAY FEED WITH CONCOCTION"

use ur head!!!

No stay there till e begin use Red Soap baff. gals no need advice na lessons dem need

If u are not comfortable with him, break the relationship and go ur way.

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
ve in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

Madam you are not overreacting ,it is normal to be sceptical.
Moreover it should be expected because it is very rampant in a church like his.
I think you should talk to him about it after all he is your bf.
Or you can carry out your own private investigation lol,it will be sweeter sef,ask elderly people what the ritual could mean.
You can even visit a church like his and ask questions.


Moreover don't mind those stupid comments, many mad people on this forum,only 40%of us are mentally stable.
Sensitive topics like this shouldn't be discussed here.
Were po ni bi.

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

Run away from such people. If they hit their lef on stone they will blame it on devil .. If anything happen to him in future be ready to be the witch that's responsible for it o..I can never have anything to do with such person. Tufiakwa

He has a soap fetish

Fmghewzy:




Moreover don't mind those stupid comments, many mad people on this forum,only 40%of us are mentally stable.
Sensitive topics like this shouldn't be discussed here.
Were po ni bi.

Thank you very much

Headlesschicken:
Calm down baba go soon blow....

Lol

If u are not comfortable with him, break the relationship and go ur way.

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

he is actually into fetishness..it's not too late for u to retrace your steps backwards..he is actually deep into these things and this might take a bad toll on your destiny in life..be wise dear sis

Zzor:
Quit if his habits and way of life is making you uncomfortable, don't manage or endure what you'll later regret

No mind dat zzor o, she deh her bf room as she deh type.. Na there she deh stay.

Zzor:
Are you living with him? Just quit if you ain't comfortable with what he does.

Money allow her quit.

Run...not gud

Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

Kriss216:

Dudu osun doesn't smell nice.
I bathe any time with Dudu osun, the black soap.

Actually dudu osun smells nice nw. I think they've started adding fragrance to it..

i do take my bath in d midnight too

⏩Spiritual baths & candles are big part of
white garment churches.


⏩He may also start thinking of busting
your matter when he hears you
blabbing gibberishly in 'tongues' & shouting
"Holy ghohhhssstttt fayahhhhh' �� at night.


⏩One man's meat is another man's
kpomó..

Madam op there's nothing fetish about burning candle and all that, prayers are usually potent at midnight
I burn candles, I pray with salt, palm oil and other stuffs I'm not a ritualist.

Better run before Dem use you for ritual

Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

this Na better lie. You just wan clear your name

The guy sincerely needs a breakthrough. Call him and express your mind about how uncomfortable you are about the whole situation. Tell him to focus his attention only on prayers, and not spiritual materials or substances that can make him lose his soul to the devil.

Distance yourself from him if he doesn't listen.

I am a Celestial church member, and I'm not into rituals or fetish practices; those things will becloud your thinking and block you from being realistic.

Using white candles in prayers is a symbolic representation of light and is an indication of light over darkness. Remember, God is light and He supersedes the darkness. Genuine celestial frowns at anything that contradict the manifestation of light. God says, 'let there be light, and there was light and darkness cannot overpower it'. As such, using candles in prayers does not necessarily translate to being ritualistic. It all depends on the individual and his/her spiritual orientation and /or evolution.

For example, in the track "Ji Irawo", Tope Alabi emphasized that as a 'STAR' that you are it is paramount that you rise up from your sleep and put on your 'Imole' (that is, Light or Candle) and pray to God for you to achieve your goals in life.

Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals

do you use Dudu Osun to bath at a specific time of the night?

Zzor:
Are you living with him? Just quit if you ain't comfortable with what he does.

i think u are lesbian or a feminist ur always against men

Date someone you're compatible with spiritually to avoid all these long stories.

Sixfeetbelle:


Does dudu osun smell bad?
Do you routinely wake up at midnight just to bathe with that particular black soap?

she better leave asap.

My Dad always tell me that the worst thing that can happen to a man or woman is to marry an unbliver. Is better you quit than sleeping with one eye open.

You're looking for an excuse to leave the young man after lavishing his money abi?

scofield114:
i think u are lesbian or a feminist ur always against men

I don't support that kind of relationship,tag it whatever you want

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

What's wrong in black soap?
People wake up in middle of the night to pray vis a vis incarnation.

To know if his jazz is for you go to the market, buy black soap and make up 1am and tell him you want to bath too. If he's comfortable continue with him of not pack your shoes and japaaaa.

What's good for the goose is also good for the gander

EmmySparky:
Lol u and I knows that you can't leave that guy...the money is like a magnet...so see ur own white garment...if he carry blAck soap u follow am with sponge...all na hustle

Fact!

carry your cross ...

I don't like fetish people, I have had to ask a girl to leave, cus she was into all these fetish stuff with waist beads and all that shit.
Not that I believe in them, but can't be with someone soo myopic.
My advice is to ditch him and find someone more exposed, someone that faces his fears heads on, not hiding under some fetish stuff like a wuss.
Soon he will start seeing you as his problem.