| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by jay2smart19(m): 12:02am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. You think say you make sense with this plenty bleep? 1. He only has money for the children's Christmas stuff. 2. He is worried about food for the family. 3. Himself, wife and kids are five. 4. 4 more came over without his notice. 5. He lives in a room and parlour apartment. Did you ask how much he makes and how soon the bills will be due? Obviously your brain too small to process stuff like this. I don't pray you are friends with my sister. As for my woman, if she keeps your type, Na her loss. I won't be surprised if you still can't process this. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by DMerciful(m): 12:03am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Why are you taking pride in your ignorance? RedPanthar:
Why not tell him to grab a knife and go kill them.
Simpleton.
Get lost. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by jay89: 12:11am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Me wey like my privacy. Hmmm my wife tries this kind of thing na she go hear am, no be ooo cus I am leaving the house for her and her family. I hate nonsense. Na y select the family wey I marry into oooo. Can't imagine having my wife's younger siblings staying at my house. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Stanchez(m): 12:12am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Wow so you are the one telling the gist abi |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Blackdisciple(m): 12:12am On Dec 25, 2020 |
lolz Well that her clothes and hair money use it to do Xmas for her siblings and the change remaining use it to buy more palliatives simple. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by DMerciful(m): 12:12am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Is this all you can say? ModestGal:
That's good for you, shebi you said you like your wife to be full house wife ni, just because of your useless ego. Your wife doesn't even know how you earn, your monthly income because you think husband should not inform their wives, now she thinks you are a millionaire.
Sorry, I don't have any good thing to say to you, you are the architect of your problem |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by DMerciful(m): 12:15am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Are you sure your brain is not upside down? Tenshades:
I can 100% say you don't love your wife and you have been angry with her silently before this scenario popped up.
Your excuse is just a lame cover up.
Mind you, I have been a victim before and I know what it is.
Tell the world the truth!
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| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by DMerciful(m): 12:18am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Sincerely, I'll send them back. I cannot accommodate 4 additional persons at the same time in a room and parlor self contain DukeJoe17:
T817 listen to this very carefully,
Don't ever in your life again express your dissatisfaction towards a woman with words because it will makes you a weak and a nagging husband especially if talking things out had failed in subsequent approach.
Just be yourself guy,
Don't increase your budget beyond what you had planned to spend during this Yuletide,
Allow your wife to feel the scourge of her insensitivity,
Leave the house and go to your work so that you won't see the anguish on their faces.
Since she is trying to make you uncomfortable kindly turn the table against her without any harsh argument,
Action speaks loud.
Your happiness should be Paramount because life is to short to waste and not even your wife should treat your life carelessly.
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| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by BabylonCruise(m): 12:27am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
You lots should keep deceiving yourself.
The wife also got the treatment, love and care she has to reciprocate as a kid. She didn't drop from the sky.
Marriage is for men, not boys.
Get lost Why do I have the feeling that You either know the OP or You are just not Mentally Sound? Either way....I believe you need serious Psych evaluation. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by properties4sale: 12:55am On Dec 25, 2020 |
T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.
My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.
Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.
What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.
My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.
Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.
What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please When them tell una to marry women when get brain inside head una no go gree!!! Will decide to keep causing mystery to yourselves... ride on oh!! |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by saintruky(m): 1:01am On Dec 25, 2020 |
One senior man draw my ear say ma no make d mistake marry FIRST/SENIOR DAUGHTER... Especially d one when get many younger siblings...
Na now i see y d bros give me such advise...
@op ur wife nor try sha... Cos na she grant her sibs permission to come d house... 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by dorin27(f): 1:31am On Dec 25, 2020 |
xolocious:
Wahala be like BICYCLE...
The truth is, THE SIGNS WERE THERE BEFORE YOU MARRIED HER. YOU TOOK IT FOR GRANTED OR SHOULD I SAY, "YOU WERE BLINDED BY LOVE". IT'S STILL NOT TOO LATE. YOU CAN TALK IT OUT WITH HER AND LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT. DON'T BE SCARED ABOUT HOW SHE OR THEY'LL SEE IT. YOU NO FIT USE SHAME CHOP SHIT. FOR THE TIME BEING, LET THEM STAY TILL THE NEW YEAR BUT LET HER KNOW THEY'LL BE LEAVING AFTER THE NEW YEAR CELEBRATION (INFACT, THE FOLLOWING MONDAY BEING 4TH OF JANUARY).
SPEAK OUT! Talking to her about it is one thing....she listening is another thing |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Dbeautifulme(f): 1:31am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. Mumu... Elder brother to mumuni Personally assist the op with just 5k to support her large family now, you won't You just Open mouth waaaaah.. Like pit and utter gibberish. Get sense brother. You truly got comprehension issues. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by NoToPile: 1:34am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Ehyah I feel your pain from the write up bros, feeding extra 4 mouths for 2 weeks is not easy even without lean resources. I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol. This quoted part got me, that's the impression younger siblings have.most of us were once like that till we started earning. This too shall pass, 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by xolocious(m): 1:38am On Dec 25, 2020 |
dorin27:
Talking to her about it is one thing....she listening is another thing It begins with a step and the first step is letting her know how you feel. Whatever you will do if it doesnt works lies on you but its best you take the first. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by colestephan86: 1:40am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. Please , are you married? 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by dorin27(f): 1:44am On Dec 25, 2020 |
xolocious:
It begins with a step and the first step is letting her know how you feel. Whatever you will do if it doesnt works lies on you but its best you take the first. we are still saying same thing na. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by BarrElChapo(m): 1:54am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. You are crazy and dumb.. and surely unmarried paint this scenario to your dad and see his reaction.. P.S. I didn't even read past your first paragraph now I have You are a Bastard and a Buffoon, I bet you didn't grow up with a father so you don't have any of such traits. Anuofia Ezi, You and everything you represent are disgusting. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Microwhy: 2:02am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you. You're probably still single that why you can't understand his rant. Most people feel happy when they have enough to shower on your in-laws. Why would she not inform him her siblings would be coming. Bro. You will understand when the time come. Not everybody is buoyant to entertain a surprise guest. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Microwhy: 2:09am On Dec 25, 2020 |
BarrElChapo:
You are crazy and dumb.. and surely unmarried paint this scenario to your dad and see his reaction..
P.S. I didn't even read past your first paragraph now I have You are a Bastard and a Buffoon, I bet you didn't grow up with a father so you don't have any of such traits. Anuofia Ezi, You and everything you represent are disgusting. The guy is very foolish and immature. His comment are just too annoying. He probably grew up without a father else he would understand principle and how home/ family operate. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by sexuential: 2:13am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. All u spewed here is total rubbish. If u do gud based on getting back from the same person and/or ur forced to do gud, there is no reward in that. Instead of professing so ethong better or shut up, ur attacking the poster. If e easy, go marry and feel his pain. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Microwhy: 2:13am On Dec 25, 2020 |
BabylonCruise:
Why do I have the feeling that You either know the OP or You are just not Mentally Sound?
Either way....I believe you need serious Psych evaluation. The first thought that came to my mind was maybe he is the 20yo wife sibling because the comment sound as if he knows the OP personally. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Microwhy: 2:23am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Small rice moni won't aggravate debts. Those are distractions to attract pity.
Trust me. They're his in-laws. If na to eat alone, no qualms but when going back, his pocket will feel the heat. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Nobody: 2:25am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. Chai! People dey this life. A probably educated old man sat down and typed this after reading this post by OP. He even stayed back to reply those mentioning him. Should I call this inability to read and comprehend, mental disorder or he was just seeking the attention he is getting now? Chai! SMH 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by BarrElChapo(m): 2:26am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Microwhy:
The guy is very foolish and immature. His comment are just too annoying. He probably grew up without a father else he would understand principle and how home/ family operate. As in eh the audacity. I agree with you 100% 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Nobody: 2:36am On Dec 25, 2020 |
BarrElChapo:
You are crazy and dumb.. and surely unmarried paint this scenario to your dad and see his reaction..
P.S. I didn't even read past your first paragraph now I have You are a Bastard and a Buffoon, I bet you didn't grow up with a father so you don't have any of such traits. Anuofia Ezi, You and everything you represent are disgusting. Admin should have banned that fool and also ban his IP for 600yrs. Don't know why they allow kids in this forum 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by gunpoint(m): 2:39am On Dec 25, 2020 |
T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.
My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.
Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.
What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.
My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.
Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.
What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please Use your head bros  
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| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Nobody: 2:55am On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Nobody: 3:02am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Op when your child is at least 6 months, all of you should be going to the shop together. Let her be in the shop while you run around for other side hustles. Don't leave her at home again. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by fof1: 3:04am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. YOUR RESPONSE IS TOTALLY UNWARRANTED AND INSENSITIVE TO D OP'S POST. U ARE NOT DIFFERENT. HE HAS VOICED OUT HIS CONCERNS AND THEY ARE VERY GENUINE. HE MAY HV OVERREACTED BUT,THAT IS D HUMAN BEING. The Wife and her Family should be Considerate and Restrain themselves from this over Expectations. |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by kapelvej: 3:06am On Dec 25, 2020 |
phorget:
See as you take compose full statement yet you didn't bother to ask for the OP's account number so you can transfer small change in solidarity to your the epistle you wrote up there. God bless you |
| Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by Gordieshegz(m): 3:40am On Dec 25, 2020 |
RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.
You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.
YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.
I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.
There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.
Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.
7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.
Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.
Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money
Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.
You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.
There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.
It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful. Actually you have some salient points. But summarily, your argument was riddled with so many indiscretions. If you read his epistle quite well, you would realize the man's concern wasn't having his family around, but at a time he was bankrupted. From the way this sounded, he's not an affluent man: He BORROWED 30k from a friend to sponsor his MIL's bills amidst recession. His wife shouldn't have added to his travails by bringing home 4 siblings, particularly when he wasn't informed and especially when she wasn't going to be responsible for their expenses. While it was important of him to be tolerant of his wife's family, she should be considerate and objective of his financial standards as well. 1 Like |
I would have sworn this level of stupidity doesn't exist in the world. I can't believe your species are still on the planet. You sound like you evolved mentally from baboons. How do you live with yourself?