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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by cooooooks(m): 6:42pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
This might be kidnapping (legally taking children without your consent). I fear the only way to seriously approach this is to get the police involved. If your husband could plan such a heist without your knowledge, he is likely ready with evidence he belives will favour him in the event of any legal issues. You should probably contact the British High Commission. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by 1x2x3: 6:43pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
greatness77: Don't take threats lightly as a man. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by authority2006(m): 6:44pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Germi9: Was he doing the processing in his room or what? |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by dejol88: 6:46pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
My take on this matter if true is to be sure the OP is really into the lives of these kids? I have seen mother's who only bear such title but neglect the affairs of her kids. If I am to draw deduction from OP I think she only bears the title of mother and not putting it into practice. If my deduction is correct, I think the kids are better staying with their father for proper upbringing. If the kids get deported and handover to the mother, what is the assurance the kids will get better care from her? Will this not lead to having another problem in our country due to failed upbringing? I think in this matter the welfare of the kids should be a priority before making a decision. It is obvious the marriage is gone. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by authority2006(m): 6:47pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
tunapawizzy: It doesn't matter whether she replies that post or not, the husband was wrong to have done what he did. He is self centered, simple. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Jaqenhghar: 6:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
PedroEastman:If you call it that |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Openbusiness: 6:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
For those people claiming they can deport the man, this is UK Embassy info for you below. Oya show your power fast fast and go an deport him na, shebi u be Superman. You will tell me whether the man passed through Libya desert to go to the UK, or whether he passed through UK Embassy itself and they stamped a VISA for him and minuted on it that he is carrying his children with him on flight. Whether he didn't submit his fatherhood documents at the embassy, you will tell me. Whether immigration at Heathrow airport didn't check his papers and check his children before granting him entry into UK, you will tell me. Mtchwwwww!!! Oya go and deport him na, shebi na u get power wey pass UK govt wey give am legal entry with his children. Nonsense! British Deputy High Commission Lagos 11 Walter Carrington Crescent Victoria Island Lagos Nigeria Telephone+234 (1) 277 0780/ 0781/ 0782 Use our contact form for consular enquiries: www.gov.uk/contact-consulate-lagos Access to the Consular Section is strictly by appointment only. Please call +234 (1) 277 0780/ 0781/ 0782 and select the consular option 24/7 for consular assistance or an appointment. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by UDUJ(m): 6:50pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
cococandy: hahahahhaa ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Gofwane(m): 6:51pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:this woman, you're a liar. Firstly, you don't have 2 boys and a girl. You have 3 girls. Am I right or wrong? I don't want to reveal too much but I think I know you. You are in Ilorin. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Kelvinhunta: 6:51pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
May not be in Nigeria but definitely not in UK. He knows mentioning d country would be easy to get him so he would just mention a random country benjijosh: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JustforMen: 6:51pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
EFABBES: Why did you remind him na? |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by humilitypays(m): 6:52pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Openbusiness:I don't know what the immigration law of the UK says about this, that was why I made my initial statement but reading your comment brought joy to my soul knowing that those kids will never return back to Buhari's damaged Nigeria to suffer in future ![]() My sincere advice to the op is for her to forget everything and go and remarry. At least we have so many able suitors in this Nairaland looking for a working class wife like her ![]() |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by membranus: 6:52pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
AltCtrlDel: You are not a man. You are AltCtrlDel, a bot. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Kelvinhunta: 6:53pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
I respect ur opinion but I honestly think this will land d woman in more problems except she has made up her mind for divorce dominique: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 6:54pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
thesicilian:Her kids went for visa interview with their dad, came back and never said to her, mummy some white people were asking us questions? They must have seen some movements or activities by their dad and yet never discussed with their mum? Terrible mother alert. A man she says that gets drunk, smokes and abuses his wife but still care enough for the kids to the extent of absconding with them to a land of the unknown must have been a good father and by extension, not too bad as husband. For him to believe he had the capability of raising them alone shows he possibly had been doing that. By the way from my experience, I no longer believe or trust women who lament about their family wahala online. 9 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by humilitypays(m): 6:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Gofwane:pls spill it ![]() |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by cococandy(f): 6:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
UDUJ:doesn’t change the fact that the embassy lines are miles long. If all the men in USA are emasculated, why the rush to come over here then? |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GboyegaD(m): 6:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
authority2006: I never supported his behavior if you read my post well. The very reason I said she can approach the British High Commission. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
thesicilian:I have heard about someone this happened to. If I didn’t know them I’d be judging like you are. Her husband was just a bully who felt he could get away with it because of how much she loved him. Many men dream of a submissive wife but don’t actually want one. They treat them badly 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Kelvinhunta: 6:56pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
U said it all! Plus is he is over smart he can also get a written consent letter authorizing him to travel with d kids signed by d wife, though he will forge d signature and make it look real. That will nail it above any question Openbusiness: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Patrioticman007(m): 6:57pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Openbusiness: Ignorance is not an excuse in law, but Nigerians will always display publicly, allow them educated illiterate to display some. First of all the guy is a responsible father for moving his children out of this toxic environment. Let her feminist pals donate funds for the litigation in UK, for her. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by jice(m): 6:57pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home.[/quote] You gave him the formula. Often threatening a man and often begging you and you think he a fool? Quiet unfortunate. I feel your pains anyway. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by humilitypays(m): 6:57pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
J111333:in fact the case is closed! If op was a great mom to the kids, they will definitely tell her about being interviewed by some white people like my friend here said, bro you are six much ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 6:58pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:You’re far too judgmental and this is just harsh and inappropriate. Always wait to hear the other side of the story. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 6:59pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
humilitypays:There’s no visa interview in UK visa applications. It is done via a third party company who employ mostly Nigerians and a few Indians. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 6:59pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
until you are deep into marriage - you never really understand why the ups and downs never showed up while you were dating. -life must carry on either way e don be 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Kelvinhunta: 7:00pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
She will still fail. Her best bet is to make peace with her husband which I know is 99% impossible now, anyother plans will fail. For a man to go this far u should understand that enough has been enough. Am talking from experience cos I did similar Truth234: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by jice(m): 7:00pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: You gave him the formula. Often threatening a man and often begging you and you think he a fool? Quiet unfortunate. I feel your pains anyway. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by humilitypays(m): 7:00pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Patrioticman007:No need for litigation, she should just remarry and start another family. There are many Nairaland guys who love working class feminists, they will be wiling to wife her asap. Wishing them a happy married life in advance. Those kids must not come back to Buhari's Bandit and herdsmen terrorists damaged Nigeria 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by dejol88: 7:01pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Deportation is not easy as discussed here. You think with this covid 19 when all government offices are working in snail speed your case will be treated as priority? In fact the case might not be treated self only to be kept in archive for reference purposes. Madam, go and make peace! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Kelvinhunta: 7:01pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
True but this type of decisions r not taken because of just d regular Ups and downs of marriage. There r more to it. Someones life is in danger LaEvilIMiss: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JustforMen: 7:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Openbusiness: Wetin come bring Jesu enter this yeye matter? It's such attempts to relate everything to religion to that makes nonsense of sense and reason. Jesus did not bear the name of any father, my friend! Stop being crazy. |
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