92.) THE GREAT FEMALE CON
How can women control men who are physically strong and aggressive than them. For men use hard power via intimidation, violence and strength. The only way is to use soft power to control men via manipulation.

Manipulative intelligence
Given the emotional-dominant nature of women, it should surprise no one that they are far better at manipulation than men are. This is due to their manipulative intelligence.
Manipulation is changing another person’s behavior by arousing emotions in them.

A good example is the woman who praises and compliments her man excessively not because she feels genuine respect for him, but because she’s trying to convince him that she’s nice to have around. Appealing to his ego in the belief that this will make her appear more desirable.

The flip side to that example is in questioning his masculinity rather than reinforcing it. If a man falls short of the woman’s expectations, usually by failing to perform some desired behavior, then she may question his masculinity.

This is a common and surprisingly effective tactic: “Be a man and demand for a salary raise!” Put in those terms, if he doesn’t ask for the raise, this proves he’s not a man. We’ve all seen this.

But it’s not always so obvious. She may instead opt to be subtle to the point that the man doesn’t recognize that he’s being manipulated. Women are extremely good at this; it seems intuitive for them. Even stupid chicks can do it.

To illustrate, if a man doesn’t make enough money for her tastes, she may point to her girlfriend’s husband as an example: “Kunle just bought her a new car. What a great guy, don’t you think?”

She won’t actually say it, but will imply that Kunle is the better man. This is intended to result to push her husband to earn more money and buy her car so as not to appear inferior to kunle. The woman comes off as simply complimenting a friend, but her motivation is entirely self-serving.

She also wants the resources

Women commonly portray themselves as complex in order to excuse their own irrationality. When a guy doesn’t understand what she’s doing, or talking about, it’s because she’s too complex for a mere male to understand.

This places the problem on the man’s shoulders. If he had the fabled intuition that women supposedly possess, then perhaps he could grasp the subtleties.

We hear meaningless phrases such as feminine mystique and women’s intuition all the time to gloss over all manner of inconsistencies and flat out bizarre behavior. And when she changes her mind about something for no apparent reason, well that’s a woman’s prerogative. Men have no such prerogative.

Of course, there are other terms more associated with men: My gut instinct, for example, tells me that all this feminine mystique stuff is bullshit, and that women are simply irrational, unreliable, and flighty. They have proven this to me over and over again. Yet we are told that we just don’t understand. I’m going to go with my gut on this one.

Bait and switch
Women are good at bait and switch behavior. You could also apply this to sex, in that women will provide lots of sex in the beginning of a relationship, implying that this will continue to be the norm as long as the man makes a “commitment” to her.

As virtually all married men know, once that commitment is made she will no longer feel obligated to continue providing sex with the same frequency.

The promise of sex (to you) is rendered null and void because the benefit (to her) of marrying her has already been rendered.

The issue seems to be that women fail to grasp a concept that most men readily understand: Honor. They simply don’t have any, and so hypergamy reigns. The very word honor immediately conjures up images of men. Think of a woman who exemplifieshonor. Go ahead, I’ll wait. (Fictional women don’t count.) Not easy, is it?


When con artist get conned
Women are con artists as such even when they know a guy is a player, they still want to go and con him. They want to be the woman that makes him commit and make him repent from being a player, in the process they end up falling for him and get their hearts broken. The player has successfully conned a con artist.

demmymoney:

This is soooooo on point

Too much fire.

SEXUAL WILES
Over the years women notice that most men do not like having sex with virgins and have pity for ladies who were molested. As such they use this as opportunity to manipulate guys.

1. She lies she is a virgin: Ladies can lie to get away with anything. Women are the gate keepers of sex and men the gatekeepers of comitment. However if a lady wants commitment without sex, one of the strategy is to claim she is a virgin and declare no sex till marriage. If the guy wants sex then he has to marry her. I do not have problem with this if it were true and she is truly a virgin. The problem is that most are lying and may be cheating on you with another guy while you are left in a relationship without benefits.

I know of a guy who while in a relationship is relagated to only hugs, she can't even kiss him. The funny thing is that the guy has been lying to us that he gets sex constantly until they broke up before he confessed everything.

Example :
https://www.nairaland.com/5895723/after-waiting-four-4-years


2. She was molested
Another technique is for her to claim she was molested . If he tries to demand sex she will call him evil man without a sympathy to her predicament making the man feel guilty.

3. She has repented
The worst of all is claiming she has repented. She is not a virgin and has had sex with her exes but when its your turn she has repented and learned her lessons. In essence, you are paying for the sins of her exes.

4. She hate sex
Don’t mind most ladies uttering this statement. They hate sex but love your money. A lady once confessed that she uses this tactic to scam guys. Any time the guy demand sex she will be telling him she hate sex and if the guy insist on the sex, she will be crying while having sex. The guy has no choice than to stop sexing her.

5. She makes it difficult to have sex.
This doesn’t work on all men. The catch is that the man has to like her or feel some type of attraction for her powers to work on him.

Giving up sex easily is the exact wrong way to use the power, because it renders you powerless. —Kara King
Kara king cautions women that they will lose the power of knowing a guy’s true intentions when they give sex easily and will kill their opportunity to become the woman he falls for.

To create a committed relationship with this man, she has to delay having SEX WITH HIM.
As such the correct way to use the power of the pussy is to not allow any man access to it until he has earned the right.

That is why women take their pussy in high value for they know it's power .

5. She entices with sex
This is a common tactic used by women. They dress provocatively with half their boobs outside. This stimulated lustful cravings in a man and in an attempt to see her nude, he ends up emptying his Bank account. The promise of sex is far greater than sex itself for imagination is more arousing than reality thats why porn sells and is a billion dollars industry.

6. Use sex as bait then withhold: This is their last manipulation tactic when all else fails. She will have sex with you and just after giving you mindblowing sex then she starves you.

7. Demands before sex :
Men are weak in moments of passion and as such women use this opportunity to cash out.
Anything she wants she will demand before the sex.
You will have noticed that when you have remove all her clothes and wants to have sex she will tell you to promise you will never leave her. Thats how many guys end up entering relationships when all their intentions was to chop and clean mouth.

The Greatest con

When men can be convinced to participate in women’s social conventions half their work is done for them.—Rollo

Beta men are made to think women are innocent, delicate and are the object of men aggression.

Women are always the victims while men are always the aggressors.

This social conditioning is what is called the matrix or female imperative (this has been discussed previously).

93. SEXUAL ATTRACTION

Desire cannot be negotiated

A woman decides if she wants to Bleep you or not.
It is women that decide if you are fuckable or not.
A woman that chooses you will not give you unnecessary excuse for not fucking you. And as Rollo Tomassi right said, desire cannot be negotiated.

When she is negotiating desire with you, she is not sexually attracted to you.

Types of attraction

From the girl on the street to a celebrity, women do not associate with men who provide no benefit to them.

Two types of men ladies are attracted to

1. The extremely handsome guy blessed with godlike genetics which women crave for sex.

2. The hardworking man who work hard, gets a “good” lucrative job or is an enterpreneur. He has financial value and/or their power and status that elevates them over “lesser” men in society.

The former is what i term Primal Attraction while the latter is what i term Mental attraction.

There have been rise in incels i.e those who have been completely cut off sexually as female attention is towards the top 1/5 of men. They are the forgotten men, the men who are neither sexually attractive nor are they financially capable/lack status to hypergamous women.


PRIMAL ATTRACTION
Primal is biological as it is based on your appearance. The way your face looks like, your height, your fitness, your unique body featues. In Primal attraction it’s sex first, then relationship second, not the other way around.

If you have sex on your first hookup or a same-night-lay, in all likelihood she’s really hot for, and into, fucking you based on physical criteria alone.

If you have sex after 2nd or 3rd hook up, she’s into fucking you and probably wants a relationship, but she wanted to give you a token impression of her not being ‘easy’.

Primal attraction is sexual

Many women find sex to be the deepest form of love and connection, and women are very sexually oriented.

A woman’s love is lust to her. She has to feel sexually attracted to you before she can truly love you.

If a girl ever chased you vehemently, you will understand what i am saying. Unfortunately, most guys live their lives and never has a woman chase them.

AS early as 14years i have had a lady (16 years) nearly rape me because of sexual attraction she has for me. She was willing to do anything to get my dick.


If a girl is that into you she’ll want to have sex with you regardless of not knowing your name or having others present in the room.

To get this kinda attraction from ladies you have to be fuckable rather than likeable.

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

When a woman intentionally makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority.

From the first day of meeting a woman determines whether you are fuckable.

Sexual attraction is a spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation.

There is no comfort in sex, it is a turbulence of emotions.
A woman who wants to Bleep you will find a way to Bleep you.


MENTAL ATTRACTION
Mental attraction is termed so because a woman needs to consciously be attracted to you. This attraction is not biological but rather external. It has to do with a man's achievement.

Dual mating strategy explains that women are sexually attracted to bad boys and mentally attracted to nice guys.

If a woman has to negotiate her desire then it means she is considering what benefit you have.

In mental attraction it is relationship or marriage first before sex.

You have to go on many dates with her, you have to pay her bills, you have to put her needs first.

If a girl tells you she needs to be comfortable and wants a relationship or marriage, she is not primally attracted to you.

What I mean is that if you’re still trying to figure out what the magic words are to convince some girl that she ought Bleep you after 3 dates – or longer – you’re negotiating desire.

How do you make a woman to be sexually(primal) attracted to you?

Learn lessons from male strippers.

Male stripper effect

I have also seen a strip show by men aimed at women where the performers literally come out with scratches and their clothes torn from their female audience.— A Woman

While people are more familiar with female strippers. By contrast, male strippers—a group existing in much smaller numbers—have existed since the 70s.


Male strippers are sexually attractive men, women pay money to see them naked and sometimes have sex with them.


What make women pay money for this is that such men are rare. Majority of men they come in contact with are either pot bellied, fat, bald headed, ugly, unkempt, poor fashion sense etc. Most women live their lives not sexually attracted to most men. Thats why women seem like they have lower libido.

For Male strip clubs criteria for its participants is to be physically appealing, physically fitted, have six packs, shaved legs, big dick, etc.

Many women go gaga when they see them and many women usually attempt to date them.


When the movie, Magic Mike debuted The movie was so successful that a sequel was released. The movie was about male strippers.

I noticed that guy's who are sexually attractive are not only limited to stripping but usually do work like massage therapist/masseuse, gym instructor, gigolo, models etc.

In sexual attraction its all about the looks, How his hair is, his lips, his voice, his face, his chest, his legs, his perfect teeth, his flat tommy/his six pack, his facial hair, his hairy chest and even his dress sense.

@Dpsychologist what do you think about building a frame like you already own the woman and not necessarily chasing her. More like domineering but in a sexy way.

94.) PRE-SELECTION

Women desire a man that is loved by other women then they steal him from others and make him faithful to them.

The celebrity effect

Women clamour for celebrities because other ladies do same for celebrities. This is female herd mentality.

If other ladies are not after you, she assumes you are not attractive.

I believe the rise of mass entertainment over the past century has skewed female desire upwards towards a tiny tier of top-rank men.

Women are less interested in men than social status. Contrary to popular myth, women are also far more competitive than men internally, whether or not it manifests externally. The old adage that most women hate each other unless there is something to be gained from not doing so is fairly close to the mark.

When a woman desires a man who is desired by other women, what she really desires is the desire of a man that other women desire. It's the envy of other women she's after, as that is perceived as an indicator of her worth and value compared to other women.

Feminism was initially an attempt to free women from this. Problem is, status and worth are not properties of womanhood to be traded in the sexual marketplace or 'rights' to be fought for politically with men who supposedly have the power to dispense these. Men are naturally dominant are endowed with power.

When you are walking alone, women won't even look at you but when you are walking with a woman or two women, they start glancing at you.


A Committed man is an attractive man

Unless your girlfriend is not truly attracted to you, but if she does her friends will ogle at you. Even if it means to lie, she will tell amazing things about you.

Being married can make younger ladies attracted to you believe it or not. It tends to make women see you as responsible, attractive, ready made man etc

Aside that being a single dad also attract women.

There was a time my cousin sister gave me her baby to take care of. There was this new lady that came into our compound. She was forming for all the guys.

One day my cousin came and left her baby. When she saw the baby she started complimenting the baby cos the baby is very cute. She said we look alike and asked if we are related. This is a lady we have never talked before.

I told her yes and he is my son, that i am a single dad. Before i knew it she started coming close to me, telling me she love fine kids.

Thats how i got free vjay. She even went to the extent of buying baby clothes and gift for the baby.

okrikaboi:
@Dpsychologist what do you think about building a frame like you already own the woman and not necessarily chasing her. More like domineering but in a sexy way.

Yea building frame is important, i discuss this in the first Page of this thread.

Frame is being stressed because it gives the aura of dominance. It gives the impression that you are not needy and she is the one to be chasing you.

You Should interact with her with the mentality that you are the prize. This makes her think that you must have abundance of women and gets you pre-selected.

Well analysed and explained!. Good one!

95.) THE VOID THEORY

Opposites attract.

From my years of Red Pill knowledge i came forward with a theory known as Void theory and it states that we are attracted to what we do not have or lack.

The void in us is what we want to fulfill.

That is why you here a man say " she completes me" or a woman say " He completes me".

High levels of chemistry usually come from opposite yet complementary qualities in people.

Void can either be psychological or physical.

PSYCHOLOGICAL VOID
A woman who is energetic will tend to have a high degree of chemistry with a guy who is relaxed, mellow, and open.

Surprisingly Introverts often have natural chemistry with extroverts.

People who are orderly and intense planners sometimes work best with people who are spontaneous and unorganized.

PHYSICAL VOID
Seduction is about giving someone what they want.

If a woman exclusively wants money, for your seduction to be complete you have to lure her with money or the illusion of it.

Ladies understand the game and once she knows you are explicitly after sex she lure you with the promise of sex but won't give you. The more she tease with sex the more you spent your resources.

Alot of ladies are after money and as far as they know they will get money from an affluent man they will do whatever it takes to get more of that money.

This is evident in women who have achieved high status on their own, they see no reason to marry a man since they have fulfill their void.

WHEN THE VOID IS FILLED
We use each other

If you are popular most people coming close to you want to be popular, likewise if you are rich they are coming close because they want something from you.

That is how the circle goes, we need each other for something.

When a break up happens one or both parties find out they no longer need each other.

After draining a man with her extravagant lifestyle a lady will decide to leave him for he no longer has benefit to her. Likewise a man that has tried all the sex style in kamustra on a lady and has made her do countless abortion can decide to leave her because his void has been fulfilled and want to get it from somewhere.

Most times hats how we humans behave, we use each other and then dump each other.

96.) SELECTED

Many approach but few are selected. A lady usually reject most guys that approach her.

Allow a lady to do the selection it makes it easier for you than to approach alot of ladies and get rejected.
All you have to do is get her to notice you, if she chooses you or not its her choice. It is better than she see what she wants from you herself.

Approaching random ladies gives you opportunity to choose among variety of ladies but it usually gets complicated.

Some one might say...

But the ladies are not the type i want. It does not matter.


The type of ladies going after you now, shows where you are on the SMV and your environment can also contribute to that. If unattractive ladies go after you, it shows you may be inexperienced, have poor social skills, have poor looks, low status etc.

The hotter ladies want hotter guys. You, not getting hotter ladies shows you need to upgrade yourself.

Meanwhile use the validations of those females that select you no matter how ugly or less appealing they are to improve your SMV and get noticed/valued by other ladies.

If you are not successful with ladies before and you are complaining about the kind of girls you attract then you must be joking.

You have to start somewhere while you working to improve yourself, you can bang those ladies to improve your confidence and bedmatics. Afterall when having sex her face does not matter.

The less appealing one may boast about your sexual prowess or how great you are and you may end up with an attractive lady. It has worked for many guys.
Thats the power of preselection.

However, try as much as possible to improve your self both dress-wise, status-wise, money-wise and other wise. This increases your SMV.

There are many ways to get you selected.

SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME
You have to expand your social circle this makes it easier to get ladies. When a friend imtroduces me to a lady, i get her very fast. Most of them know me but i don't know them when we meet for the first time.

CELEBRITY GAME
Check out Celebrities. They don't go after ladies but ladies go after them. All wizkid babymamas were his fans.

Majority of sex celebrities get is after their show, when they are going to a hotel many ladies follow them.

Leonardo Dicaprio once went to a club shouted, "who wants to party in my house" and all of the ladies in the club followed him to his house. He didn't approach them he told them to come and fortunately.

I happen to be a rapper and a apoken words artist and i can testify than i got alot of ladies through this means.

CHURCH GAME
Lets say in your church you are a nobody. You will have challenges atrracting many ladies. Most of them don't know you and some may deny ever seeing you even if they see you every sunday .

If you are an ordinary member, there is likelihood that going after a girl in choir might undermine you. To be in a Choir is a status in church, most of the ladies see people in the pew as ordinary people and as such see them lower than them.

It will be better if you join choir, or even ushering department. Don't be like a statue. Actively participate in subgroups such as youth fellowship. Lead programs, participate in discussions, make presentations. Ladies interested in you will find it easier to approach you when you are active than when you are dormant.

After choir rehearsals thats how i corner them and they have the excuse that our hanging out is choir related to suspecting eyes.

STATUS GAME
If your purpose is to be attractive to women, and increase your chance of being selected. You have to play the status game.

1. Use hypergamy to your advantage: in starting, set your goals in such a way that the women you seek are those who are lower than you in status - power, , looks, money. Your choices will grow as those things improve.
You don't just improve yourself overnight, start gradually.

2. Go to where the girls are and display your status . Athletes do the same on the field. Actors, politicians and CEO's too. The whole world is playing the status game and you have to be in it to win it. Remember: even low status is status - aim lower and as you get better you go up.

3. Follow the basic rules of Game. Make sure there's attraction before getting close to a woman. There should be sign that she is interested before you approach .

Women are social creatures, men need to be able to socialise in order to interact with them. Go get some friends, then start playing.

Generally interact with them and keep them as acquaintance, any one that shows she is interested them you go for her.

LOOKS GAME
Get in shape. Be healthier. Don't worry about the size of this or that. Work on the things you can change. Keep fit. Smell nice. Dress well.

Doortun:


Wow! Very deep analysis. You should be the redpill godfather of nairaland.

Lol i am still a learner o.

OLUWABIG:
Abeg who get the Audiobook version of Rational male by Rollo Tomassi

So far i don't think you will easily get that except the ebooks.

rymalex:
A woman posted on her Instagram "Be patient, somebody will give you the world without you asking".

Word.

A woman can get away with that.

What a woman gets for just being a woman, a man gets with sweat.
Fair it is not but true it is.

97.) GOLD DIGGERS/PLAYERS

The Gold-digger phenomenon, which used to mean an exceptionally attractive, young woman hooking up with a much older rich guy, has been expanded to mean any woman who is looking for a free ride from a man.
Take a gold digger out on a date, and she will immediately begin evaluating your potential, not based upon your character or personality, but on your financial status.

She’ll note what you drive, how you dress, where you live, and what kind of watch you wear. She’ll inquire about what you do for a living, not because she’s interested, but to estimate your income.

This is done under the guise of “getting to know you”. If you’ve ever been brushed off after what you perceived to be a successful first date, chances are it was because you didn’t pass her screening test.

Golddiggers avoid most young guys from 20 - 29 because they don't bring the kind of money they want to the table.
Gold-diggers are everywhere these days. Ironically, most aren’t even attractive.

MINDSETS OF A GOLD DIGGER
Gold digger (also fortune hunter ) is slang for a greedy person (stereotypically a woman ) who only dates (and subsequently marries) wealthy partners with the (typically) sole intention of exploiting said wealth.

Gold diggers understand that The more a man gives away his C. A. R( commitment, attention and resources) to a woman the more he gets addicted to her. That is why you hear stories of men getting addicted to a prostitute.

Gold diggers understand that you can get a man to do anything for you if you can get him to invest heavily. This is why golddiggers are at the upper echelon, they understood the game. Kanye west spend 10million dollars diamond ring on kim Kardashian after she was robbed he has replaced it with another ring. Kanye has invested so much on Kardashian such that if she is to leave him he might go psychotic.

Robert Cialdini in his Six Principles of Persuasion explained that, by having people make a small commitment early on, you increase the chances of them agreeing to make a larger commitment at a later date.

Gold diggers are essentially people with the ability to “use others for what they’re good for” rather than value them for “who they are as personalities.” It is Briffault’s Law on steroids: they prioritise what a person can do for them over forming emotional bonds.

Gold diggers last strategy is sex

GOLD DIGGER TACTICS

LOOKS TACTIC
One situation where it can be challenging for men to keep things in perspective is when the woman in question is highly attractive.

I think it’s safe to say that beautiful women are better equipped for manipulating men than less attractive women are. They know this, which is why most women put so much effort into maximizing their visual impact. Hence the use of make up, cosmetic surgery, and fashion to make the most of a female’s appearance.

Men easily conflate beauty with virtue and will become vulnerable to gold digging from beautiful women. Girls that gold dig guys the most are attractive ladies.
A woman's gold digging instinct is directly proportional to her hotness. It’s no secret that hot chicks are higher maintenance than not-so-hot chicks.

It’s also no secret that attractive women can get by on their appearance. Just look at the info-babes and weather girls, hired in large part because they look good on camera. Pretty girls also make better pop stars, regardless of talent, or the lack thereof.

If a woman is attractive, she’ll usually get a pass in life, because she will automatically be perceived to have value. She may be uneducated, unintelligent, lazy, and self-absorbed, yet when she meets a guy’s friends or parents they’ll proclaim, “She’s a Keeper!” As long as she has aesthetic appeal and is reasonably pleasant, that’s enough.

In the case of women who really are attractive, they can get away with MUCH more than other women, as long as guys are willing to put up with it, which most of them are. That situation isn’t likely to change.

SEX APPEAL TACTIC
Women knew that men have weakness for sex but gold diggers also know that the illusion of sex is far greater than sex itself. Thus, they dress provocatively to get men to do favors for them without getting anything in return.
As i will always say, be weary of ladies dressing provocatively. Those ladies believe in money thats why they dress sophisticated and posh.

MARRIAGE TACTIC
A bride and groom are standing at the altar. The guy is thinking, “This is great!I’ll get to have sex whenever I want!” The woman is thinking, “This is great! I won’t have to have sex anymore!” Yeah, it’s funny because it can be true.
Women know that men need sex, and that this can drive a man to make some very bad decisions…including getting married. They use this to their advantage.
Then she divorces him and gets half of his property.

FRIEND ZONETECHNIQUE
Women want male friends because they’re better company. More interesting, more entertaining, less crazy, less annoying – all of that good stuff. Likewise they know if they’re pretty they can leverage that into favour whilst giving you nothing, so this is the scam most even moderately pretty women are working.
Most Men want to be friends with women because they are ignorant and think friendship is the first stepping stone to sex.
Women profit from this false belief because men waste time, passion and energy on an endeavour which eventually yields nothing but but hassle in return. When a man figures out friendship is not the path to sex with women, he ceases to see the point in having female friends.

MIXED SIGNALS TECHNIQUES
A key gold digging technique is when a gold digger realises a man has potential. She keeps him aside and go with others guys while still giving him hope. When you are still in school or you are broke, she will be confusing you but when you have graduated and established SHE starts feigning interest.

That why you see guy chasing a girl for 5 years before she finally agree to date him.

A heard a story of a guy who was a final year student going after a girl but she was forming hard to get confusing him with mixed signals as she heard that after he graduated and is now in the US she payed someone to collect his number so she could call him.

FEIGNED SUBMISSION
This is the exact way in which calculating women destroy great men. There is a mixture of submission and puppeteering involved, and when she tires of her toy she will abandon it or break it in half.

In relationships with such women the man is “the provider” because “she’s submissive” and “needs him.”

She takes and continues to take from him, money, wisdom, energy, time, everything. She’s a parasite, a black hole, but she frames herself as a willing accomplice who needs investment to return dividends to an eager, naive, hopeful investor.

Eventually the man in question has nothing left to give and is dried up both spiritually and financially. Now he’s been drained for his utility she becomes aware that although he elevated her self-development, she has become more valuable than him.

Better yet with the taster she’s had and the strides she’s made she believes she has the opportunity to become even more. Thus rather than return investment she will betray and abandon her prior mentor to repeat the process with a new one.

One who she considers to be more worthy of directing her. Effectively, this means finding an even higher level man to surpass her newer, more recent elevated status.

Gold diggers don't go lower their perceived standards, starting as a broke girl she aims for a man making tens on thousands, then she jumbs to one making hundreds of thousands, to millions and if possible billions.

Its always about upgrade. Gold diggers hate broke guys.

PEAK TACTIC
Men are at their weakest when they are in passion.
When men get aroused and want to have sex with a woman they can foolishly do anything to ladies that's what Kara King called PEAK. PEAK is Pre-Ejaculation Ass Kissing.
It’s during PEAK that women have the most power. PEAK makes men do crazy things!
At this point she start making excessive money demands and make him promise heaven and earth to her.

The technique i observed is that just when he has started removing her clothes, she gives him her phone to credit her account. If he refuses to credit her account then no sex for him.

Woman can demand fwhat she want during PEAK. He’s either going to say yes or no.If he denies her what she want, then she tells him “access denied” and move on to the next man. Chances are, however, when he’s in PEAK mode, she's going to get every last thing she ask for.

MISCELLANEOUS
If all else fail a gold digger can resort to blackmail especually if he is a High status man.
Some ladies are into voodoo to get money from rich men.

OBSERVING A GOLD DIGGERS

When a woman proclaims, “I’m not materialistic” you have to wonder why she feels compelled to say it.

You can’t rely on what they say; you have to look at their behavior.
This behavior has dragged so many men down for so long that we’ve stopped listening to their endless denials and doublespeak.

A person's past will tell you something about his present and future.

I read two books that i think may help.
1. The power of pussy by kara king
2. Ho tatics

A PLAYER

A player does not get all ladies he targets ladies that are attracted to him.

Gold diggers bring nothing to the table and in some cases their vjay while a player brings his dick to the table.

A player is a con artist. His aim is to get what he wants from a woman no matter how.

Just as when a gold digger sees money when she meets a man thats how a player sees pvssy when he meets a woman.

A gold digger is a con artist and a gold digger is also a con artist.

When a woman is after money and a player understands. He decides to play the money game on her .

He entices her with a nice car (which might not be his) and expensive clothes etc . He purchase those things that will give them an edge with her.

With his smooths words and her expectation of cashing big time with this maga she gives him sex and he disappears.

The con artist has just being conned.

A woman dazzling men with her beauty, provocative dressings, surgery(boobs job, ass job) and other antics to cash out is no different from a man pretending that he makes more money than he does, or lying about what he does for a living .


The only difference is that the man will be called out as a liar while the woman won’t.

Dpsychologist:
FEIGNED SUBMISSION
This is the exact way in which calculating women destroy great men. There is a mixture of submission and puppeteering involved, and when she tires of her toy she will abandon it or break it in half.

In relationships with such women the man is “the provider” because “she’s submissive” and “needs him.”

She takes and continues to take from him, money, wisdom, energy, time, everything. She’s a parasite, a black hole, but she frames herself as a willing accomplice who needs investment to return dividends to an eager, naive, hopeful investor.

Eventually the man in question has nothing left to give and is dried up both spiritually and financially. Now he’s been drained for his utility she becomes aware that although he elevated her self-development, she has become more valuable than him.

Better yet with the taster she’s had and the strides she’s made she believes she has the opportunity to become even more. Thus rather than return investment she will betray and abandon her prior mentor to repeat the process with a new one.

One who she considers to be more worthy of directing her. Effectively, this means finding an even higher level man to surpass her newer, more recent elevated status.

Gold diggers don't go lower their perceived standards, starting as a broke girl she aims for a man making tens on thousands, then she jumbs to one making hundreds of thousands, to millions and if possible billions.

Its always about upgrade. Gold diggers hate broke guys.

PEAK TACTIC
Men are at their weakest when they are in passion.
When men get aroused and want to have sex with a woman they can foolishly do anything to ladies that's what Kara King called PEAK. PEAK is Pre-Ejaculation Ass Kissing.
It’s during PEAK that women have the most power. PEAK makes men do crazy things!
At this point she start making excessive money demands and make him promise heaven and earth to her.

The technique i observed is that just when he has started removing her clothes, she gives him her phone to credit her account. If he refuses to credit her account then no sex for him.

Woman can demand fwhat she want during PEAK. He’s either going to say yes or no.If he denies her what she want, then she tells him “access denied” and move on to the next man. Chances are, however, when he’s in PEAK mode, she's going to get every last thing she ask for.

MISCELLANEOUS
If all else fail a gold digger can resort to blackmail especually if he is a High status man.
Some ladies are into voodoo to get money from rich men.

i was once excaped that peak tactic thing i was in a room with a girl to have sex after romancing for about 20 mins im fully aroused and ready to penetrate she stopped me nd said if i will not give her 10k then forget abt it we wont do it mind was telling me to just give her nd continue then i rememberrd how hard its to get 10k that time i quickly use her unclothedness to jerk offf and walk away

aminu114:
i was once excaped that peak tactic thing i was in a room with a girl to have sex after romancing for about 20 mins im fully aroused and ready to penetrate she stopped me nd said if i will not give her 10k then forget abt it we wont do it mind was telling me to just give her nd continue then i rememberrd how hard its to get 10k that time i quickly use her unclothedness to jerk offf and walk away

LOL! Women keep inventing new manipulative, deceit and cheating techniques.

Good thing you didn't let your emotions overpower you.

Skepticus:


The clown even added a laughing emoji to something that wasn't really funny.

The average male don't have their mind engaged in a lot, hence, don't know the value of their time and attention given to women. It's bigger than just being busy. Attention to women is almost as equal as money. Even though they won't openly admit it, a girl who steps out a day without getting cat-called, stares and any other form of undue attention, from the male folks is always worried.

Not advising guys to act stoic or "too serious" with women, but sometimes learning to ignore them and not giving undue attention is what a lot of guys need to learn to do. It's quite hard for them. Women are good at this, being cautious of open attention they give to men and can always say NO when they really mean it.

Females admire humour and playful teasing as they themselves, are boring, but some guys don't know when they start to overreach. Talking excessively, grinning stupidly, putting themselves in her friendzone, as beta-orbiter, emotional dumpster and personal comedian.

i know a girl that get hypertention because whenever she goes out guys dont even look at her talkless of following her to talk to her she 27years

98.) SETTLING DOWN

A marriage is like a car hanging off a cliff, it requires the man driving to accelerate now and again to ensure the car does not tilt and fall into the ocean below. Just as it was in courting, in marriage the burden of performance is man’s to bear.

Women do not fear marriage because they have no reason to, men do because they have every reason to.

The success of a marriage is of course dependent solely on the parties involved, if they both want it to work it will.
Marriage is like fire it has advantages and disadvantage.


MAN AND MARRIAGE

Marriage is no longer a religious institution that holds people accountable for their behaviours as marriage oaths have become nothing but ceremonial pleasantries rather than promises which hold both parties accountable.

As the world keeps changing so should a man adapt.
You must vet a woman rigorously and if possible carry out a paternity test just in case.

As a father, a man has increased responsibility especially in the presence of children. He has to take care of himself, his wife and children.

Marriage is full of responsibility and thus the higher burden of performance rest on the man. He can no longer hangout and come back late night like he wants compared to when he is a bachelor. And now instead of being alone he has a partner. As such He must work hard to fend for his family.

Thus, a man should not be pressured and cajoled into starting a family, he should do so on his own terms, not on the terms of those with a plan for him.

A man should not be bullied into marrying, by his religion, his family, nor the woman manoeuvring to get a ring on her finger.

A man may be cajoled or duped into marriage with babies which may initially fill the dissimulating woman with maternal glee, but such weak marital foundations do not go well for the future of their marriage.
A man should make his decision to marry free of external devices and with full mental clarity.

MEN AND MARRIAGE
Most women get the aesthetics, but don’t cultivate the personality traits needed to secure long-term commitment from a high value man.

Men are the de facto gatekeepers to commitment. A woman’s ability to keep a man lays in her personality traits.
If she doesn't seem like a good deal, if he doesn’t enjoy her company or he finds her to be shallow or annoying then why should he keep investing in her? Because otherwise he’s an asshole.

If a woman want long-term commitment, she has to work for it. It doesn’t just drop out of the sky, nobody’s entitled to anything. But the concept of earning commitment seems lost to most women, they rely on their looks too much – then they get old and lose their looks.

Many women are simply undatable and not relationship material, however physically many are quite bangable so they’re whats crudely referred to as a “pump and dump.” That’s her value, she’s hot enough to Bleep but doesn’t have the qualities needed to secure commitment.

If she want a life long monogamy, her looks are going to die out around age 35-40 and there will be far prettier younger women around trying to catch her man’s eye, so she need to possess other traits which makes her seem like a good investment and set her a part from others.

DETERMINING A WIFE
Women that make the best candidates for family and childrearing are those whose hypergamous instinct has been kept in check.

Materialism and promiscuity are hypergamous behaviours, they’re indicative of a “constant need to upgrade,” which is hypergamy at its core. These kinds of women should be avoided for serious commitment.

The importance of resources made men cautious about which women they invest their resources, which makes men very choosy about long-term partner choice. Further, men and their families desire certainty about paternity to avoid investing other men's offspring ( paternity assurance ). This then result in going for easily controllable, cute and obedient women.

The value of a young woman extends beyond the appeal of her physical youth and fertility, although both are covetously desirable in and of themselves, it is her malleability to be formed into a woman who complements a man that is her main draw. Alot of older women are, much to the dismay of men everywhere, not solely lacking in beauty, but largely irredeemable in that they lack the pliability archetypal of young women.

Do not invest on women who are not worth it. Man must be careful, for the more he invests, the more he loves, and the more he loves, the more he is prone to holding an unworthy and toxic asset.

A WOMAN'S WORTH
A man must be tactical in discerning a woman’s worth.
Due to woman’s pressing emotional wants, a relationship almost always serves her.

Marriage is a riskier affair for man, for the likelihood he receives equal or greater benefit is improbable.

A woman is often a burden posing as a partner, and many men are fooled, when in reality, she is almost always little more than a dependant. Although there are exceptions.
The question that should be asked is “will she be enjoyable enough to be worth the burden she will impose?”

Sex can be and often is withdrawn without notice, and so a man cannot rely on either quality or quantity of sex as an indicator of womanly worth, and even where sex is certain, such narrow scope in the evaluation of woman would lead to blunder in mate choice.

THE VETTING PROCESS

SOME things to look out for, this is by no means exhaustive add yours

This INCLUDE:

#1 She can’t stay at home. / She’s a party girl.
These kind of girls seem fun and interesting at first, but their lifestyle gets old fast. Plus there’s no telling how many intoxicated guys have taken their shot at her.

She is more likely to be a drinker / She does recreational drugs.

Contrary to popular belief, human beings are not inherently good. And when given the choice, we will always be inclined to do what’s morally wrong. However, our conscious thought overrides this inclination and keeps make us feel guilt as such be remain good
But whenever alcohol or drugs are involved, that inhibition goes out the window.

The point here is she allows herself to be tempted. And why would you ever trust a girl who intentionally lowers her self-control through alcohol.

You are playing with fire and you know it.


#2 She has too many male friends.
What it means: She’s addicted to male attention.
There’s nothing wrong with a woman having a conversation with a man. And if you do have a problem with that, you’re too possessive. A woman making small talk with her male coworker isn’t cause for concern.

But if she has close relationships to other guys, and she consistently talks to them about personal issues, that’s when you should be worried.

The true number of platonic male-female relationships is very small, and most of them only exist due to special circumstances. But for the most part, men and women do not just become friends.

Any girl who has tons of guy friends is bad news because almost all of them are attracted to her. And since she hasn’t made an effort to turn them down, it means she’s addicted to their attention.


#3 She has tattoos or piercings on interior body parts.
If a girl has tattoos or piercings on any interior body parts (i.e. her upper thighs, torso, etc.), it is not a good sign. And here are only a few reasons why:
1. Someone had to put it there
2. People don’t get tattoos to cover them up
3. She makes long-term decisions based on short-term results
It’s just a terrible choice all around. Why would you taint the natural beauty you have with a man-made ink and worst on all on an interior body part. .
It's red flag

#4 She’s a man hater
What it means: She lacks healthy relationships with the men in her life.

“All men are blah blah blah…”“Guys only care about blah blah blah…”“Men don’t deserve blah blah blah blah blah…”
Man haters are the worst. I understand that some of we guys are really terrible, but if every guy she meets is like that, take a look at the common denominator, her.

You can’t let the good ones convince you that all girls are sweet and innocent, and you can’t let the bad ones blind you to the praiseworthy women either.
The same is true about our side.
So if a girl always complains about the men in her life, she’s either still bitter about a failed relationship, or she presents herself as an object for men to lust after.


#5 She’s comfortable in revealing clothes. / She’s insensitive to male touch.

What it means: She’s used to it.

Do you really think she dresses that way for you?
Do you honestly believe it’s normal for guys to hug and hold her like it’s no big deal?

She’s used to it, man. And even if she isn’t promiscuous now, it won’t take much effort for her to get that way.
But going back to her style of dress, you might believe her choice of clothes doesn’t matter anymore. You think that times have changed, and this girl is different. So different in fact that she’s above all of human nature.
Yeah, keep believing that.

The reality is that men are visual creatures. And both men and women instinctively know that the way a women dresses determines the type of attention she gets. Don’t buy the “I’m-proud-of-my-body-so-I-need-to-be-half-naked” excuse.

People who are comfortable with a fit body, or great wealth, or whatever else they have don’t feel the need to show it off. The only people who show off are the ones who need validation. And they always need it from multiple people.
So if any girl shows too much skin, or if she’s fine with being hugged or touched any kind of way, you need to reconsider.

#6 She uses profanity.
What it means: She doesn’t value purity.
Pure speech is something you should value, and profanity usually indicates that something is off in her life. It just shows a lack of class. If a girl doesn’t have the decency to control something as simple as her conversation, think about how ugly the rest of her lifestyle is.

#7 She’s friends with known promiscuous women. / She takes an interest in promiscuous celebrities.
What it means: She won’t be shamed for sleeping around, and she will probably be encouraged to do so.

Men compartmentalize their friends. Of course not every guy is the same, but usually he’ll have his videogame pals, his study group, his boys from work, his football crew, and so on. They usually include men from all walks of life. From mart guys to dumb guys, you get the point. But as long as they all have that one thing in common, they don’t really care about much else.

Women are different.

Almost every girl I know has friends who are very similar to her. Everything from the way they dress, to the grades they get, to the income they earn, to the guys they like, and even their political stance—it’s almost always the same. Women focus more on similar lifestyles.

You may not be able to tell if she sleeps around, but if you know her friends do, it’s a giant red flag.

Even if this girl is completely innocent, she knows her friends won’t look down on her if she does indulge, and that’s why she’s surrounded herself with them. It’s even worse if she takes an interest in promiscuous celebrities. They’re just like her friends who get around but with additional influence and social status.

#8 She has no discernible skills outside of her physical appearance.
What it means: She’s going down the wrong career path.
Everyone needs money. And if that need is not met, people will resort to all kinds of evil to meet it. If this particular girl doesn’t have any marketable skills outside of being “hot”, she is going down the wrong road.
Eventually she will…

A. Find some way to make money off her appearance
B. Get bailed out by another man, or…
C. Be left in a financial hole when her beauty fades
Now you could argue that A wouldn’t be too bad of a scenario depending on the work involved (e.g. innocent modeling), but none of these are favorable to her developing a solid set of skills when she had the chance.

Not only has she put herself in a position where her beauty can be abused, but she’s also shown that she’s fine with being a drain on people’s resources.
That’s not good.
Everyone needs a strong work ethic, no matter who they are. And if she doesn’t have one, she’ll be pressured into compromising situations.