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Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by OMOJOHN001: 9:50am On Jan 13, 2021
I met this lady when I was in 100level. We started dating since then, though I tried to having sex with her but due to the fact that she is a virgin then. I refuse to have sex with her cuz I don't disvirgin ladies. Since I am not sure of marrying them.

fast forward after two years she lied to me of been rape by one of her boss. which make her to loose her virginity of all a sudden. I stop talking to her cuz of that, Cuz I know she is lying but I didn't bother. We start acting like friends she will come to my place, cook for me but I won't eat it, tried to wash my clothes. and lots she pleaded to me to have sex with her so I can forgive her,which I refuse to.

Towards ending of last year she then got engage to one guy, they haven't had their wedding yet.

I stop talking to her since that last year, that I notice she is seeing another man.

Now she keeps calling and chatting me, without me returning any of this, just yesterday I decided to reply her message.
she then tells me that she wants me to please have sex with her that she can't survive without me talking to her.
she keep pleading that even if its once she won't mind. .she only wants to feel relieved.

I then asked her what about her man, is she not engage already. Her reply was that She is not married yet, engaging to a man is differing from marrying to a man. I was shocked.

Now Guy's, this thing is turning into Fipa for me and she keeps looking me and taking me for granted already.

I am confused, should I have sex with this lady or I should just move on with my life.

She won't stop calling and chatting me up. please guys what should I do.

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by vicmbosowo: 9:54am On Jan 13, 2021
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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by emorse(m): 9:56am On Jan 13, 2021
Move on man. Cut her out of your life completely. Stop calling her or even taking her calls. If you sleep with her now, there's a high chance you'll sleep with her after she gets married. And I don't subscribe to sleeping with married women. That's just me anyway.

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by OMOJOHN001: 10:00am On Jan 13, 2021
Please guys drop your comment.

I don't want a situation where by she will be forming and making me feel less of a man later in the future.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by DoubleEngine007: 10:01am On Jan 13, 2021
Op avoid her to avoid stories that touches the deepest part of the heart. Can't you see that she is confused Pussy is ruining lives,take a clue from Uyo copper incident, the burnt Benue lover.

Many more to come..

If you want to have peace,avoid hoes.. I repeat avoid hoes.

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by OMOJOHN001: 10:02am On Jan 13, 2021
emorse:
Move on man. Cut her out of your life completely. Stop calling her or even taking her calls. If you sleep with her now, there's a high chance you'll sleep with her after she gets married. And I don't subscribe to sleeping with married women. That's just me anyway.

Thanks so much, I will do as you say.

I will even delete her number today and block her on WhatsApp.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by OMOJOHN001: 10:03am On Jan 13, 2021
DoubleEngine007:
Op avoid her to avoid stories that touches the deepest part of the heart. Can't you see that she is confused Pussy is ruining lives,take a clue from Uyo copper incident, the burnt Benue lover.

Many more to come..

If you want to have peace,avoid hoes.. I repeat avoid hoes.

Hummmmm, In fact I am blessed to have you Guy's around.

I have avoid her with everything. I even change my hostel because of her and now she is on the mission of knowing my new location.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by DoubleEngine007: 10:13am On Jan 13, 2021
OMOJOHN001:


Hummmmm, In fact I am blessed to have you Guy's around.

I have avoid her with everything. I even change my hostel because of her and now she is on the mission of knowing my new location .
Please in whatever you do,don't let her know where you relocated to.. Avoid her and be safe. God bless you bro!

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Freestainworld(m): 10:15am On Jan 13, 2021
You already know the answer, cut her off else you will regrate it.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Nobody: 10:16am On Jan 13, 2021
It time to move on bro don't reply her text or calls.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by CuteMike01(m): 10:16am On Jan 13, 2021
For a guy who have been to the university your grammar is too poor.

Well I have no advice but this - Don't let blood flow from your brain to your dick

Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by collinsfhk(m): 10:22am On Jan 13, 2021
OMOJOHN001:
Please guys drop your comment.

I don't want a situation where by she will be forming and making me feel less of a man later in the future.

What make you a man is 'upholding your integrity before God' which sleeping with someone you are not married is not part of. Be focused and get married when you are ready. Dont allow your virtuea to be drained. Thank you!
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Kayberg: 10:45am On Jan 13, 2021
Will you take my advise?
Don't touch her.
Let her go, or else, the same she that begged you to touch her will tell her man you touched her.

I know what I'm saying.
So in order not to give yourself a bad name, I'll repeat, don't touch her.
Rather, tell her to channel same energy on her relationship and nurture it.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Anfield247(m): 10:46am On Jan 13, 2021
Guy, use your head! As u no fu*k her that time wey every dey good, no fu%ck am again. Girls get demons wey dey follow each of them. We wey be nairalanders, we dey see things different ways, but once almost everybody don dey tell u the same thing, guy, you just need to do as them don tell you because as wey we be, we don see the dangers!!!

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by dodoisk(m): 10:52am On Jan 13, 2021
OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady when I was in 100level. We started dating since then, though I tried to having sex with her but due to the fact that she is a virgin then. I refuse to have sex with her cuz I don't disvirgin ladies. Since I am not sure of marrying them.

fast forward after two years she lied to me of been rape by one of her boss. which make her to loose her virginity of all a sudden. I stop talking to her cuz of that, Cuz I know she is lying but I didn't bother. We start acting like friends she will come to my place, cook for me but I won't eat it, tried to wash my clothes. and lots she pleaded to me to have sex with her so I can forgive her,which I refuse to.

Towards ending of last year she then got engage to one guy, they haven't had their wedding yet.

I stop talking to her since that last year, that I notice she is seeing another man.

Now she keeps calling and chatting me, without me returning any of this, just yesterday I decided to reply her message.
she then tells me that she wants me to please have sex with her that she can't survive without me talking to her.
she keep pleading that even if its once she won't mind. .she only wants to feel relieved.

I then asked her what about her man, is she not engage already. Her reply was that She is not married yet, engaging to a man is differing from marrying to a man. I was shocked.

Now Guy's, this thing is turning into Fipa for me and she keeps looking me and taking me for granted already.

I am confused, should I have sex with this lady or I should just move on with my life.

She won't stop calling and chatting me up. please guys what should I do.
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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by phranklyn92(m): 11:09am On Jan 13, 2021
The level of grammatical blunder on this thread is enough to drive the said lady away.

Geeez!
cry cry cry
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by emorse(m): 11:15am On Jan 13, 2021
CuteMike01:
For a guy who have has been to the university[u],[/u] your grammar is too poor.

Well I have no advice but this - Don't let blood flow from your brain to your dick
It would have been much easier to simply address the topic?

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by CuteMike01(m): 11:26am On Jan 13, 2021
emorse:

It would have been much easier to simply address the topic?

I did. Check second paragraph
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Esteve24: 11:39am On Jan 13, 2021
Simple arithmetic, she want to taste your "D" and add it to number of D she has tasted in her life. Since the offer is coming from her,my brother Handle such offer with care,u never can tell STD is Real.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by joxxy01(m): 11:44am On Jan 13, 2021
OMOJOHN001:
Please guys drop your comment.

I don't want a situation where by she will be forming and making me feel less of a man later in the future.
and that's exactly what she will feel when u eventually sleep with her... Just ignore her totally. Remain a mystery to her.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Nobody: 11:57am On Jan 13, 2021
this guy already made up his mind to sex that lady, all ur advice for him is a tale of the night, na only God fit change his mind.

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Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by OMOJOHN001: 12:33pm On Jan 13, 2021
CuteMike01:
For a guy who have been to the university your grammar is too poor.

Well I have no advice but this - Don't let blood flow from your brain to your dick


My grammar is not poor bro. I need to write that way to make the story short. If I am to punctuate,use the right words all through. I will have epistle at the end of the day.

Thanks so much for your advice though.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by djproofficial(m): 12:35pm On Jan 13, 2021
OMOJOHN001:
Please guys drop your comment.

I don't want a situation where by she will be forming and making me feel less of a man later in the future.
yeah
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by OMOJOHN001: 12:36pm On Jan 13, 2021
Thanks to you all.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Nicepoker(m): 12:40pm On Jan 13, 2021
Flee from daughters of Jezebel.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by superemmy(m): 1:21pm On Jan 13, 2021
Don’t Fvck this girl. I can tell this is bad market and will not end well
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by shomutuski(m): 1:30pm On Jan 13, 2021
Bro how you no take no sey that babe nah scammer.

cut her tf off from your life and move on.
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by KingAlayinde(m): 2:53pm On Jan 13, 2021
OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady when I was in 100level. We started dating since then, though I tried to having sex with her but due to the fact that she is a virgin then. I refuse to have sex with her cuz I don't disvirgin ladies. Since I am not sure of marrying them.

fast forward after two years she lied to me of been rape by one of her boss. which make her to loose her virginity of all a sudden. I stop talking to her cuz of that, Cuz I know she is lying but I didn't bother. We start acting like friends she will come to my place, cook for me but I won't eat it, tried to wash my clothes. and lots she pleaded to me to have sex with her so I can forgive her,which I refuse to.

Towards ending of last year she then got engage to one guy, they haven't had their wedding yet.

I stop talking to her since that last year, that I notice she is seeing another man.

Now she keeps calling and chatting me, without me returning any of this, just yesterday I decided to reply her message.
she then tells me that she wants me to please have sex with her that she can't survive without me talking to her.
she keep pleading that even if its once she won't mind. .she only wants to feel relieved.

I then asked her what about her man, is she not engage already. Her reply was that She is not married yet, engaging to a man is differing from marrying to a man. I was shocked.

Now Guy's, this thing is turning into Fipa for me and she keeps looking me and taking me for granted already.

I am confused, should I have sex with this lady or I should just move on with my life.

She won't stop calling and chatting me up. please guys what should I do.



devil is liar ! na ya village people send her come to have ur dick at all cost,,,,, japa fun omo yen joor,,,,, alakoba type she be
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Solsix(m): 3:15pm On Jan 13, 2021
Op I see u opening another thread but with premium tears
Re: Should I Have Sex With Her Or Not by Bioles1187(m): 3:19pm On Jan 13, 2021
Run away from the girl. Something like this happen to me and am still feeling the pain till this moment. It will surely end in tears

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