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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by mogbolade43693: 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Mcslize: 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
missimelda01: For the bolded, I have discovered that most ladies want a guy to lead. I discovered that when I try to give them avenue to make decisions on their own by asking a question like when can we see? The reply is always like "I don't know". After figuring that out, I always make it a habit to lead. Instead of asking her when can we see? I go by saying : let's fix a day to see this week. I will be inviting you over on Wednesday. 90% of the time, that seems to work better for me than asking her when can we see. By leading that way, if the day I mentioned doesn't suit her, then she will speak up by saying Wednesday won't be ok. But most of the times when you ask a lady a direct question like the one you gave as example, they really don't have a clue. They love it more when a guy leads rather than taking permission from them. Guy: When can we see? Girl: "I don't know o". Guy: Let's see this week. I will be inviting you over on wedsday. Girl: Ok, what time? That's just the best trick that works. Ladies prefer guys that lead. Guys that are in control. 46 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Naijaarchive(m): 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
It's not worth the stress... There are some ladies you meet and ideas will run out based on vibes and first impression... .. And there are some that everything will just click.. You will always have something to chat about when 2geda.. You can't get universal answer for people's opinion or feelings... It will always be heterogeneous 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Princeofasia: 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Dirakamara:typical naija olosho 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Princeofasia: 10:03pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
bluefilm:see finishing 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Djuggernaut(m): 10:04pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
missimelda01: Since we are here; guys what makes a girl boring? A girl that can't communicate! Eg; How's your day? Ans; fine ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by fati2001(m): 10:06pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
For me what makes a person boring is living a sedentary life without variety. |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by missimelda01(f): 10:07pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Mcslize:My guyyy you’ve learnt ![]() The lady is still allowed to make some adjustments even with that approach. Providencia see this 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by missimelda01(f): 10:07pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Djuggernaut:Create another thread for that...not under my comment. |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by bukatyne(f): 10:09pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
When he is not a good conversationalist, open-minded, imaginative and willing to learn. 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Mcslize: 10:15pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Candycrushy: Lol it takes me at most 2 to 3 days to invite a girl for s meet up. If I chat her for one day straight, the next day she is already thinking of seeing me. It doesn't have to take long to vibe with someone. Some guys jump the main step and go straight to inviting a lady without building connections first. It doesn't work that way. I first build connection before even thinking of inviting any lady. If I jump that step, she won't feel the need to see me. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by womenareapes: 10:16pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Infolenka:rather be boring to those piece of black shiit called Naija women ![]() no interactive sense no innovative sense no communication skill just nothing! a 10yrs old foreign girl has good intellectual and interactive skill than our 20-40 yrs old black piece of shiity women ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by BRASH: 10:17pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
bukatyne:How will you know if he is a good converationalist when you keep giving monosyllable responses to his questions and can't say anything if he doesn't ask you a question, making the whole thing look like an interview? This kind of attitude to conversation puts me off. It means the girl has nothing upstairs to contribute other, hair, nail, chicken, icecream, sharwama and clubbing 16 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by bukatyne(f): 10:20pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
BRASH: Are these questions to me or the OP? The OP asked a question, I gave my opinion. You can take it up with him. And if you pick a girl that has nothing upstairs to contribute than hair, nail, chicken, icecream, sharwama and clubbing, it is on you. ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by sammysmiles(m): 10:20pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
felong:Honestly even when you are chatting with them,,, they can't bring up a concept that can be deliberated upon.... So you jxt find your self asking questions that you sometimes realize are not necessary... 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Macelliot(m): 10:23pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Especially ladies that don't know how to let conversation flow naturally. Something like, hmm, ahh, so, kk, ok, gd, k, very very boring ladies.. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by ihimiray(m): 10:28pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Mcslize:oil dey ur head... U very right on dis |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by blazepascal(m): 10:29pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
guys know the answer , but some females here don't want to comment on the post. let me tell you the answer. when a guy is too nice to a girl he becomes boring to her. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
The only thing that can make a guy boring is if I don't love him. ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by blazepascal(m): 10:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
ihimiray:naso |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Mexyz(m): 10:30pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Bola146:Hian, how can body odour makes a guy boring? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:32pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Guys who talk too much are a complete turn off. They'll want to impress you by asking you to talk about yourself, but the minute the table is turned on them, they either fly off a tangent telling you their ancestral history or end up replying your question with another thing entirely. Guys who are boring are the ones who can't seem to shelf their sexual interest for later. First chat and they want to know your body count and sex experience, and how quick they can convince you to come have sex with them. Guys who are boring don't know how to switch between topics successfully. It's hard to keep interest when talking with them cause they end up dragging a particular topic out for too long. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:34pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Mcslize: Do you throw out the 'when can we see' on your first time chat with the lady? |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Lazykulture: 10:34pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
When he can't hold an intelligent conversation, like all he talks about is sex and himself 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:36pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
LabelKiller: You are right... Have been there before. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by blazepascal(m): 10:36pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
CalliDora1:how true is this |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Coolgent(m): 10:38pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
missimelda01: 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:39pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Macelliot: Half of these times, they give you those monosyllabic responses because you're boring too. If you're good at conversations, even people who loathe you will want to converse with you. |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by womenareapes: 10:43pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Mcslize:you need to step out of your local area government and stop believing this chicken crap ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:44pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
missimelda01: A lot of you too are not creative enough to keep the conversation flow, you kind of place that onus on men too much 2 Likes |
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