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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Candycrushy(f): 11:27pm On Jan 15, 2021
Mcslize:


Lol it takes me at most 2 to 3 days to invite a girl for s meet up. If I chat her for one day straight, the next day she is already thinking of seeing me.

It doesn't have to take long to vibe with someone. Some guys jump the main step and go straight to inviting a lady without building connections first. It doesn't work that way.

I first build connection before even thinking of inviting any lady. If I jump that step, she won't feel the need to see me.

Wise man
I wonder how most guys do that anyway....and most girls will gladly jump at it, then the next day, we hear about girl murdered in a hotel room by her Facebook lover...lol

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Candycrushy(f): 11:28pm On Jan 15, 2021
zudozz:


Na you fvck different different pryk pass!
Who's this thing again
Smh
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jan 15, 2021
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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Benohio(m): 11:31pm On Jan 15, 2021
shadowmancer:

That emotion you're experiencing is one you all continue to mistaken for love... you're all dumb fvckz with no brain...calling love what has nothing to do with no fvcking love. It's infatuation. 98% Nigeria girls are confused, useless, grievously materialistic and super-egotistic. One useless boy will be using the word love to decieve hundreds of girls on WhatsApp and facebok, all of who fall heads over hill by his crudely typed sweet loving english while each one of those emotionally disturbed beeches would be doing shakara for one or two real guys trying to win their hearts in the real sense of love and genuine relationship. Fvck you all. From igbo to Yoruba to fulani,Hausa you're all maaaaad aswear!!!! Selfconfused unintelligent disgrace of the feminine creature.


Lol. Nigerian girls don't really have sense like that na. Na manage we dey manage them.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by joyousever(f): 11:31pm On Jan 15, 2021
He's boring when he can't hold an interesting conversation.

He's boring when he's quiet to an extreme.

He's boring when he only wants to hear you talk or wants you to initiate/ lead a comvo.
He's the same thing when he doesn't joke or laugh, amounting to taking life too seriously. Hian!
He's like that when he wants to jump into your pants without even knowing jack about you.
He's also boring when you telling him your problems/ challenges and he's telling you his own too in this dry January. Deris Godu!!

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Eileene(f): 11:33pm On Jan 15, 2021
theForth:
I thought women love consent, isn't this what separates rapists from men?
I'm not talking about sexual consent rather simple things a guy becomes boring when he doesn't take the lead.
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shadowmancer(m): 11:40pm On Jan 15, 2021
Chii59:
Unintelligent men.
See, as a man, try to be intelligent.
Not just head knowledge about Stuffs, be emotionally intelligent. Be sensitive, choose your words, know when to back off, and please, don't ghost. And for the love of God can you stop asking "have you eaten?"
You may sound smart but why does 98% of the whole lot of you prefer silly guys who love to toy with your emotions, and not those who engage you lots intelligently. If a guy is a dumber than a dumbass but has money or is even perceived to reek of it, una mumu sisters go dey follow am like say Twitter wan shutdown. With all those things you've highlighted, naija babe no dey like am. A guy is wasting his time trying to be mature with them and it's not even about different strokes different folks, naija babes just mumu wan kind, if babe perceive you say u no hol, na so so kk, ok, gd, fyn, nyc, hwu, gm you go dey recieve but if these self-centered bimbos reason you say e be like say you gather well even the dumbest would bring herself to respond well and better....like wtf! Rich babe or poor babe, na the same mentality dey their airhead, the remaining two percent are the smart ones anchoring adorable positions in life as found in TV/Radio anchors, OAP, who are dope!

Again Bleep em all....(except for the 2%)

Truth is they aren't to be blamed. It's the foolish guys and men I blame for the mess. I'll tell you if you ask why.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by 2dice01: 11:40pm On Jan 15, 2021
missimelda01:

Nobody said you shouldn’t ask..just be creative.
Even with all the creativity
A lady who isn't interested will still give you Capital No

So why the stress
If he/she aint feeling you

Just bounce

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by ringi82(m): 11:44pm On Jan 15, 2021
Infolenka:
We ofte hear ladies say that they don't like a boring guy. But the word boring means different things to different ladies.

So I'm asking the question to ladies, what exactly makes a guy boring?
You not asking the right questions here. It should be the other way round. From my years of experience conversing with the opposite sex, right from 2go days to Facebook, WhatsApp and then to real dates, I've discovered that most ladies are actually boring. They may chatter all day with themselves but when a man comes into the picture, they are suddenly short of words.
Words like, kk, how was ur night, have u eaten, lol etc bore the heck outta me. And when u don't contact them in a day or 2, they will be like, 'you've forgotten me', u did not even ask of me'

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Ay04z(m): 11:46pm On Jan 15, 2021
missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content grin

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see? Wen can. We see is a good tin. Is not always abt sex to me. But at least have some face to face conversation. Before we proceed to real deal in d next visit grin





Also check my signature. Thank you kiss
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 15, 2021
Eileene:

I'm not talking about sexual consent rather simple things a guy becomes boring when he doesn't take the lead.
Why should he, aren't both genders equal?
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by providencia(m): 11:51pm On Jan 15, 2021
Eileene:

I'm not talking about sexual consent rather simple things a guy becomes boring when he doesn't take the lead
i feel like slapping those calling for gender equality.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shadowmancer(m): 11:51pm On Jan 15, 2021
joyousever:
He's boring when he can't hold an interesting conversation.

He's boring when he's quiet to an extreme.

He's boring when he only wants to hear you talk or wants you to initiate/ lead a comvo.
He's the same thing when he doesn't joke or laugh, amounting to taking life too seriously. Hian!
He's like that when he wants to jump into your pants without even knowing jack about you.
He's also boring when you telling him your problems/ challenges and he's telling you his own too in this dry January. Deris Godu!!
A balanced exhibiting of all these important peculiarity from a naija guy doesn't guaranty a normal respond from a naija babe ooo!!! Anyone of them could result into an unexpected reactions. Naija girls, butty or pako, thinks and gauges everything you do or say, at that early stage of a prospective relationship or friendship by processing them all through the thoughts of her pvssy to which her responses are shapened by. Abi I lie ? Tok true

...not blaming your fellow dumbos. Its the useless men and guys we have to blame for rendering our babes into bimbos
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by izzyybothe17: 11:52pm On Jan 15, 2021
missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content grin

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see?



Like , is that you ? When can we see? How can I get closer ?

Also check my signature. Thank you kiss
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by jericco1(m): 11:53pm On Jan 15, 2021
Candycrushy:
We start talking for a first time and you already asking when I can come see you...as innnn
I wonder how guys do that when you don't even know if the girl is a ghost or not

Aunty leave that to us
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by missimelda01(f): 11:53pm On Jan 15, 2021
collinsuchendu:


smiley Should I up my game or.. what do you think?
What are you ‘catching’ sir grin

Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Splitmind: 11:57pm On Jan 15, 2021
Candycrushy:
We start talking for a first time and you already asking when I can come see you...as innnn
I wonder how guys do that when you don't even know if the girl is a ghost or not

Because in sane societies and before the advent of smartphones that's how people get to know each other, by you know actually going on a date instead of chatting on WhatsApp and asking the dude for money.
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by jaxxy(m): 11:57pm On Jan 15, 2021
Infolenka:


The question is directed to ladies, not guys.


Most gals don’t know what they want and even when they know they can’t say it as it really is. They are very confused people to a large extent.

U do all what she says and still end up boring.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by swift25(m): 11:58pm On Jan 15, 2021
Glawrie:
Well, when we say we don't like boring guys, it's not as if we want a talkative o. But as a guy, you should be able to keep up a conversation with your girl and make every moment spent with you to be lively. Do something to make us miss you more (not just sex).
As for me, I like a calm guy with a little bit of fuckboyness (a good bad guy). Balance the two, calmness and badboyness. wink
owkay thx
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by ravensckar(m): 11:59pm On Jan 15, 2021
A guy is boring when he keeps screaming; 'Baby come and visit me' all the time. Bros, shey you get Malaria ni? cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Splitmind: 11:59pm On Jan 15, 2021
hardon1:
To some ladies, if your conversation is not about:
*how you will send them money
*how you will take them out for dinner or lunch
*how you will take them shopping
*how you will take them clubbing
*hhiw you will Cruz round town with them etc

Then you are boring
Which is why men are going for house maids and foreigners to marry instead.
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shadowmancer(m): 11:59pm On Jan 15, 2021
missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content grin

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see?

Dear 9ja women, what were the fate of the pre2021 men who were creative and meticulous not just with their questions but also in their manner of approach and standards of engagement? No be men are scums una take finish dem, werey lema like. Eti ya were se!

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by MOVIC6: 12:06am On Jan 16, 2021
What’s wrong with that question...?
missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content grin

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see?





Also check my signature. Thank you kiss

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shadowmancer(m): 12:10am On Jan 16, 2021
Splitmind:

Which is why men are going for house maids and foreigners to marry instead.
Dem don twist the mind of the once reserved village babes too, they have succeeded influencing them into their mentality of material gratification and emotional confusion. I ask, why do Nigerian girls tend to insult and disrespect a guy whose real only to fill into the well laid traps of a souless pvssy ravager? For no reason ooo ...girl wey one simps dey spend money ontop go still dey throw him slight jabs of disregardful snides.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Splitmind: 12:16am On Jan 16, 2021
theForth:
Why should he, aren't both genders equal?

Biggest lies feminists will ever tell you. They say men and women are equal yet women continue to uphold what they constitute as "toxic masculinity" and cast men who don't show those traits aside. Which is why we always say "Look at how women act and don't listen to what they say".

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Nobody: 12:17am On Jan 16, 2021
shadowmancer:

You may sound smart but why does 98% of the whole lot of you prefer silly guys who love to toy with your emotions, and not those who engage you lots intelligently. If a guy is a dumber than a dumbass but has money or is even perceived to reek of it, una mumu sisters go dey follow am like say Twitter wan shutdown. With all those things you've highlighted, naija babe no dey like am. A guy is wasting his time trying to be mature with them and it's not even about different strokes different folks, naija babes just mumu wan kind, if babe perceive you say u no hol, na so so kk, ok, gd, fyn, nyc, hwu, gm you go dey recieve but if these self-centered bimbos reason you say e be like say you gather well even the dumbest would bring herself to respond well and better....like wtf! Rich babe or poor babe, na the same mentality dey their airhead, the remaining two percent are the smart ones anchoring adorable positions in life as found in TV/Radio anchors, OAP, who are dope!

Again Bleep em all....(except for the 2%)

Truth is they aren't to be blamed. It's the foolish guys and men I blame for the mess. I'll tell you if you ask why.
Yawns

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shadowmancer(m): 12:17am On Jan 16, 2021
Benohio:



Lol. Nigerian girls don't really have sense like that na. Na manage we dey manage them.
Whether person get money or not, dem suppose create men wey dey behave like dem. My standard is way too high than to dey try manage them. I tried to but they are all pathetic. That pvssy wey them think say dem carry as gold na him dey cause am... no be their fault as I don repeat, na how those yansh salivating useless guys take dey misbehave if dem don see fresh laps, big yansh and boobs na him dey cause am.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shadowmancer(m): 12:18am On Jan 16, 2021
Chii59:

Yawns
Fault it na, u no fit, na yawning you dey form

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Splitmind: 12:19am On Jan 16, 2021
MOVIC6:
What’s wrong with that question...?

It doesn't involve money or an activity she can use to brag to her friends on social media. It implies meeting for a one on one event that may have physical intimacy involved and Nigerian women usually aren't interested in intimacy without cash being involved.

A better question to ask would be "do you want to go to the club?" or "What is your account number?" to get their interest.

Keep in mind that because you give women money doesn't mean they like you, if you aren't fine to an extent they will use and dump you.

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Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by Lanmonfishery(m): 12:23am On Jan 16, 2021
Infolenka:


The question is directed to ladies, not guys.
Thank u oh
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by shantti(m): 12:24am On Jan 16, 2021
Bar1941:
When he's broke.
Best answer ever
Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by phazotron(m): 12:28am On Jan 16, 2021
felong:
Ladies who can't sustain a logical discussion and use words like kk, hmm, oh, ah like someone having a seizure.
Ladies who talking to them looks like an interview, if you don't have any questions to ask, they don't have anything to say to you. I hate these kinds of ladies.


A lot of these girls are not creative conversationists

An interesting convo is a joint effort btw both parties

It can not be interesting when one party is busy giving close ended replies

Give open ended replies that spur follow up questions

Endeavour to know the person you're chatting with

I no wan upload screenshots abeg

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