My mother's secondary school mate(very close friend then) have been in the UK for a very good number of years, let's say 30.
Recently, she's gotten my mother's contacts and they gist on the phone like good old days.
She promise to help my mother but now she neither pick nor return her calls.

Go and sit down
She said she would help, so what?
You people weren’t living before they started talking?
Another entitlement mentality
Help is help, whenever it comes
She doesn’t owe you people anything
Irrespective of anything she must have said

Sadiqali24:
My mother's secondary school mate(very close friend then) have been in the UK for a very good number of years, let's say 30.
Recently, she's gotten my mother's contacts and they gist on the phone like good old days.
She promise to help my mother but now she neither pick nor return her calls.

She owes your mother nothing! You think it’s easy for her over there?


You’re in the right position to make your mother understand all these, but, seems your entitlement mentality has taken half of your senses.

Privatepart00:
Go and sit down
She said she would help, so what?
You people weren’t living before they started talking?
Another entitlement mentality
Help is help, whenever it comes
She doesn’t owe you people anything
Irrespective of anything she must have said

why would she say she will help in the first place

Let me see what I can do.

TheStakeHolder:
Let me see what I can do.

haha.. Bahd guy.
On a serious note, mother didn't ask her for help.
What makes my mother upset was she doesn't pick nor return calls.

Sadiqali24:
why would she say she will help in the first place

Maybe she don join Stingy Women Association, UK branch.



Abeg you and your mum should calm down.

Privatepart00:
Go and sit down
She said she would help, so what?
You people weren’t living before they started talking?
Another entitlement mentality
Help is help, whenever it comes
She doesn’t owe you people anything
Irrespective of anything she must have said

Just shut the hell up!
The mom never ask to be help, it was the friend that promise to help and now refuse to call or answer call.

The friend mom has rise the hope of the mom by willingly pledging to help.
Its the hope that will kill you.

It not a entitlement mentality, it a fail promise!

When people in UK said they want to help. just forget na mouth. They can only help your mother with just 30k that's the Highest Fund a UK person can give out.

they are always damn broke...

When a UK person said they will help. just tell him or her Pga keep your help am Okay....daskia

abeniagbon:
When people in UK said they want to help. just forget na mouth. They can only help your mother with just 30k that's the Highest Fund a UK person can give out.

they are always damn broke...

When a UK person said they will help. just tell him or her Pga keep your help am Okay....daskia

Yea... But the 30k is something.

chinchonglee:

Yea... But the 30k is something.

A Typical Nigeria man or woman won't see that as help. so either say you want to help them. just make the money a surprise for them when it festive or whatsoever or you mention it to them to let know how much they will be expecting.

I will send you 20k just manage it.. I pray if I have more than this I would do more... he it she will appreciate