providencia:

How do you want someone to be creative about that? Give examples

Obarofrederick:
if you are a girl you would not reason this way...the reason why you say so it's because you are not a girl

Dirakamara:
1. Most we ladies are naturally boring

2. We see a guy as boring depending on if we like him or not. We all have priorities in our male list

3. When the guy is too naive and sounds immature.

4. We want u talking cash.

Wunna:
Unfortunately enough they abound in this shithole part of the world.

womenareapes:

rather be boring to those piece of black shiit called Naija women

no interactive sense no innovative sense no communication skill just nothing!

a 10yrs old foreign girl has good intellectual and interactive skill than our 20-40 yrs old black piece of shiity women

Candycrushy:
We start talking for a first time and you already asking when I can come see you...as innnn
I wonder how guys do that when you don't even know if the girl is a ghost or not

Bola146:
Lack of good communication, body odour, etc

bukatyne:
When he is not a good conversationalist, open-minded, imaginative and willing to learn.

Mcslize:



For the bolded, I have discovered that most ladies want a guy to lead. I discovered that when I try to give them avenue to make decisions on their own by asking a question like when can we see? The reply is always like "I don't know".

After figuring that out, I always make it a habit to lead. Instead of asking her when can we see? I go by saying : let's fix a day to see this week. I will be inviting you over on Wednesday.

90% of the time, that seems to work better for me than asking her when can we see. By leading that way, if the day I mentioned doesn't suit her, then she will speak up by saying Wednesday won't be ok.

But most of the times when you ask a lady a direct question like the one you gave as example, they really don't have a clue. They love it more when a guy leads rather than taking permission from them.

Guy: When can we see?

Girl: "I don't know o".

Guy: Let's see this week. I will be inviting you over on wedsday.


Girl: Ok, what time?

That's just the best trick that works.

Ladies prefer guys that lead. Guys that are in control.

felong:
Ladies who can't sustain a logical discussion and use words like kk, hmm, oh, ah like someone having a seizure.
Ladies who talking to them looks like an interview, if you don't have any questions to ask, they don't have anything to say to you. I hate these kinds of ladies.

missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see?





Also check my signature. Thank you

CalliDora1:


Absolutely true.

If I love someone dearly, if he likes let him be clumsy like Mr. Spencer, he won't bore me out. Instead, I'll begin to like Mr. Spencer's character just because of him.

You don't know what love can do... Don't worry.

Sixfeetbelle:


Half of these times, they give you those monosyllabic responses because you're boring too. If you're good at conversations, even people who loathe you will want to converse with you.

missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see? sorry for quoting you, what is bad,when a man ask a lady,when can we see? Isn't not better than see me tomorrow,when you aren't comfortable with?





Also check my signature. Thank you

missimelda01:

Nobody said you shouldn’t ask..just be creative.

corike:

Better oil dey ur head,life shouldnt always be he/she has to be like this like that NO sometimes we "ve got to do some adjustments to accommodate others.

booblacain:


I find this your comment pretty interesting and refreshing.

I reckon you are not a girl but a woman.

Candycrushy:
We start talking for a first time and you already asking when I can come see you...as innnn
I wonder how guys do that when you don't even know if the girl is a ghost or not

apple30:
ALWAYS ACTING TOO MATURE,
BORING COMPANIONSHIP ,
ZERO ROMANCE,

Tajbol4splend:




A lot of you too are not creative enough to keep the conversation flow, you kind of place that onus on men too much

Bola146:
Lack of good communication, body odour, etc

CalliDora1:


Absolutely true.

If I love someone dearly, if he likes let him be clumsy like Mr. Spencer, he won't bore me out. Instead, I'll begin to like Mr. Spencer's character just because of him.

You don't know what love can do... Don't worry.

Debbyblahempire:
A guy that talks too much

ehix89:
What if I ask "what have you had for the day?" often, do you guys tag that as boring questions as well?

Minemrys:

damn! U are one intelligent girl. Did u study psychology? When u like or love s0me0ne, you just l0ok for that thing that attracts you in the pers0n, u start to like s0methings in that pers0n no matter how weird. As u go, u start to discover things abt them and so forth. I was never into f0otball or telen0vela till people i like got me into it.

bukatyne:
When he is not a good conversationalist, open-minded, imaginative and willing to learn.

CalliDora1:
The only thing that can make a guy boring is if I don't love him.

Sixfeetbelle:
Guys who talk too much are a complete turn off. They'll want to impress you by asking you to talk about yourself, but the minute the table is turned on them, they either fly off a tangent telling you their ancestral history or end up replying your question with another thing entirely.

Guys who are boring are the ones who can't seem to shelf their sexual interest for later. First chat and they want to know your body count and sex experience, and how quick they can convince you to come have sex with them.

Guys who are boring don't know how to switch between topics successfully. It's hard to keep interest when talking with them cause they end up dragging a particular topic out for too long.