Glawrie:
Well, when we say we don't like boring guys, it's not as if we want a talkative o. But as a guy, you should be able to keep up a conversation with your girl and make every moment spent with you to be lively. Do something to make us miss you more (not just sex).
As for me, I like a calm guy with a little bit of fuckboyness (a good bad guy). Balance the two, calmness and badboyness.

I like your comment,you are real lady,not pretender..

Eileene:
Hmm let me see
Asking for permission all the time
Always having the same line of conversation day to day instead of just going with the flow.

I don't understand let me see? Permission as in? Don't you know having the same conversation all the time,is just like gathering I formation,about something,or planning for something or achieving something.. Having the same conversation means different things to different peoples..

Minemrys:

lol, guys d0n't get the memo abt these girls. They d0n't like you. A girl that does wouldn't be that way. Hence, no matter how hard you try, she w0n't be obliged to input. Those kk, oh etc is trying n0t to snub you or act nice. And atimes, s0me guys are really dull in chat. I happen to go through my sis' whatsapp, and i see texts like 'hi baby, how was ur nite, have u eaten, what did u eat, i like ur pics can u share it, hey my luv etc", n0w how do u expect a girl n0t into you to reply this? I mean, it's even hard for a girl who doesn't kn0w or like you to reply you. Other times, them get serious guy and them no send you.

Even the ones who do don't know how to keep the flow, that's that

missimelda01:

Nobody said you shouldn’t ask..just be creative.

Please what exactly do you mean by "be creative" with a simple question like "when can I see you"?

So the guy should instead, turn to shakespeare and ask

"when may thoust permits I to behold your exquisite countenance fairest maiden whom hath stolen the essense of existence"?

Was that creative enough for you?

Chii59:
Unintelligent men.
See, as a man, try to be intelligent.
Not just head knowledge about Stuffs, be emotionally intelligent. Be sensitive, choose your words, know when to back off, and please, don't ghost. And for the love of God can you stop asking "have you eaten?"

Sister not all men can be intelligent, emotional,and sensitive,we learned all these above through experience, learning,and exposure..Not all men,have the trait..sister

CalliDora1:


Nope. Im a young lady.

There are very few ladies under 30 that know that name Mr Spencer.

toprealman:

Having mentioned Mr Spencer.....you maybe not incorrect.

exactly my thought.

joyousever:
He's boring when he can't hold an interesting conversation.

He's boring when he's quiet to an extreme.

He's boring when he only wants to hear you talk or wants you to initiate/ lead a comvo.
He's the same thing when he doesn't joke or laugh, amounting to taking life too seriously. Hian!
He's like that when he wants to jump into your pants without even knowing jack about you.
He's also boring when you telling him your problems/ challenges and he's telling you his own too in this dry January. Deris Godu!!

I don't believe that a guy will not like an interesting conversation, Is either,he didn't have much knowledge of the subject matter, or not interested in it..when a guy quiet.. something must be wrong or just too busy..No matter how he thinks about life, he must laugh and joke..Be serious is been determined to achieved good things of life..Not all guy are like that!!!You just have to understand..sister..

fuckaholic25:
I find guys that use memes and stickers in between conversations boring and disgusting, like are you mad or som'n?

Meme and sticker are part of writing communication, especially if you don't feel like writing..using mad or something means that guy as a tendency of domestic voilence..No matter the conversation,you don't need to utter such words..

booblacain:


There are very few ladies under 30 that know that name Mr Spencer.

Lol... Since I'm not yet married and don't have children, I can't be called a woman now. Im still a lady.

booblacain:


There are very few ladies under 30 that know that name Mr Spencer.

Lol... Since I'm not yet married and don't have children, I can't be called a woman now. Im still a lady. Biko

Oracleforce:
Another pointless thread....

Lemme see and pass

And you commented...smh

TemmyT002:
Most ladies lack content actually.
All they do is talk and talk.
Talk that has little or no value.
We appreciate the intellectuals who raise great topics and discourse and teach guys what they don't know.

Cyndylove64 is very interesting, she reads Alot, she is vast, imagine an art student who could challenge doctors, pharmacists, sportsmen, businessmen, force men, even computer programmers, entertainers, she is vast and she is very very young. She has a sound mind. She could even service a generator, even to piston and rings... Art student o. She dey try.

zexy2030:

Cyndylove64 is very interesting, she reads Alot, she is vast, imagine an art student who could challenge doctors, pharmacists, sportsmen, businessmen, force men, even computer programmers, entertainers, she is vast and she is very very young. She has a sound mind. She could even service a generator, even to piston and rings... Art student o. She dey try.

Wow

Khenga1:


Please what exactly do you mean by "be creative" with a simple question like "when can I see you"?

So the guy should instead, turn to shakespeare and ask

"when may thoust permits I to behold your exquisite countenance fairest maiden whom hath stolen the essense of existence"?

Was that creative enough for you?

Now this is both funny and creative

Ladies have a thing for guys with good sense of humor

Olaideolayemi:
I don't understand let me see? Permission as in? Don't you know having the same conversation all the time,is just like gathering I formation,about something,or planning for something or achieving something.. Having the same conversation means different things to different peoples..

I was just thinking aloud @let me see
Having the same conversation every time kills the vibes today you discuss about work and still repeat the same the next time at least the next time you meet or chat you should have learned to be free and spontaneous with that person building on the little kowledge you might have known about her.

CalliDora1:


Lol... Since I'm not yet married and don't have children, I can't be called a woman now. Im still a lady. Biko

haha. If marriage and children determines if one is a woman or not, then my mother's younger sister who is clocking 60 soon is still a lady.

From my review, ladies too like excitement. They just want to be friend and notting more.

shadowmancer:

That emotion you're experiencing is one you all continue to mistaken for love... you're all dumb fvckz with no brain...calling love what has nothing to do with no fvcking love. It's infatuation. 98% Nigeria girls are confused, useless, grievously materialistic and super-egotistic. One useless boy will be using the word love to decieve hundreds of girls on WhatsApp and facebok, all of who fall heads over hill by his crudely typed sweet loving english while each one of those emotionally disturbed beeches would be doing shakara for one or two real guys trying to win their hearts in the real sense of love and genuine relationship. Fvck you all. From igbo to Yoruba to fulani,Hausa you're all maaaaad aswear!!!! Selfconfused unintelligent disgrace of the feminine creature.

you may have a point but what you just said in no way relates to what the girl you are quoting just said. She just said finding s0me0ne boring is relative, and if she has feelings for s0me0ne, she'd never find the pers0n as a bore. What's her offense here? Probably just u being in a bad m0od while typing or transfer of aggressi0n. Easy oh.

Tajbol4splend:



Even the ones who do don't know how to keep the flow, that's that

i disagree. If it's true, then na all these village girls or the topic doesn't interest her. Or there is no real chemistry btw both. If there's real chemistry, them go flow.

CalliDora1:


Yeah you garrit.

You begin to like what they like and sometimes you wanna even talk or do things the way they do so long as it reminds you of them .

Love is a beautiful thing.

lol, it is. People just mistake lust to mean love atimes.

Minemrys:

i disagree. If it's true, then na all these village girls or the topic doesn't interest her. Or there is no real chemistry btw both. If there's real chemistry, them go flow.

Well with chemistry I think I agree shaa

Infolenka:
We ofte hear ladies say that they don't like a boring guy. But the word boring means different things to different ladies.

So I'm asking the question to ladies, what exactly makes a guy boring?

If he doesn't know how to make a good conversation
If he keeps asking questions like, 'what did you eat' ?, what are you wearing?
If he doesn't dress well
If he's not confident
If he's broke
If he's stingy.

Princeofasia:
typical naija olosho

It doesn't matter. We still want the cash.

The question is, "*Ladies,* what do you find boring sbut guys?" And boom! Some Nairaland men are all over the place to shalaye. That alone is boring. Your hatred for women will be your undoing, as if y'all don't have mother's and sisters.

Infolenka:


Can you just shut up. The question I asked is directed to ladies. Take your stale crap to another thread.

Another SIMP

The question is, "*Ladies,* what makes a guy boring?" And boom! Some Nairaland men are all over the place to shalaye. That alone is boring. Your hatred for women will be your undoing, as if y'all don't have mother's and sisters. Someone will post a topic and ask a simple question...you start insulting women. I've noticed most of you talk alot. Nigerian ladies are yen yen yen yen yen yen yen...when the majority of you are married to Nigerian ladies. I laugh when they brag with foreign ladies, una no get the liver sef. Which foreign woman will take the rubbish you dish out to your Nigerian ladies in the guise of being married or wanting to stay in a relationship? For starters let's try Ghanaian ladies...

Tajbol4splend:




Well with chemistry I think I agree shaa

see, for a girl to be dull in chat, it's either she doesn't like you or in the m0od to chat, or there's no chemistry. A third opti0n is, una no dy the same level, and she dey form efizzy. Make guys ma self dy respect themselves. Aside these 3, the other opti0n is the guy's approach.

missimelda01:

Nobody said you shouldn’t ask..just be creative.

What's the reward for this creativity?

Some girls say guys that acts too mature, some said guys that are immature. Some said guys that don't initiate chat, some said guys that talks too much. Conclusion, u girls are a confused species

Candycrushy:
We start talking for a first time and you already asking when I can come see you...as innnn
I wonder how guys do that when you don't even know if the girl is a ghost or not

LOL, that doesn't exist

apple30:
ALWAYS ACTING TOO MATURE,
BORING COMPANIONSHIP ,
ZERO ROMANCE,

One said, acting immature. You said, acting too mature.

Lols, We all know girls don't know what they want right?