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| Re: repent by VictorUSA(m): 11:56pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
baralatie:The matter is hard but some signs can give a glimpse of the truth.The question is this: did she buy a gift for him on his birhday? lovers cherish each other in wealth or poverty.Any sign opposite to this should tell that there is "NO LOVE" 1 Like |
| Re: repent by baralatie(m): 12:06am On Jan 25, 2021 |
VictorUSA:very deep! |
| Re: repent by shege45: 12:22am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash:If there man gives you money, what can you offer him? Abeg e better for two of una. No sex , no money. He knows what he is doing. I for one won’t give any girl i am not sleeping with money unless shez a friend or my family 1 Like |
| Re: repent by shege45: 12:22am On Jan 25, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo:exactly 1 Like |
| Re: repent by danilmo: 12:45am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash: Bitter truth is immediately u tell a man no Sex, he automatically become a SMAN, the taught of after spending on u then boom u both broke up what would b his gain is the question that ll keep roaming his mind?? a father Christmas or a maga  3 Likes |
| Re: repent by Liposure: 1:24am On Jan 25, 2021 |
You two are just friends with no benefit. |
| Re: repent by Nobody: 1:31am On Jan 25, 2021 |
He told you "he will see what he can do", that's my guy for sure. You are keeping your virginity for your future, why not keep your demands for him too? You want me to believe you are independent and testing your boyfriend.Testing ko testing ni. Nonsense  |
| Re: repent by YourGrandfather: 2:20am On Jan 25, 2021 |
I know him, he is our secretary at Stingy Men Association (S.M.A). He is a very diligent and responsible member. I will contact him to tell him 7K is too much. 1 Like |
| Re: repent by Judybash93(m): 2:25am On Jan 25, 2021 |
What you have is an entitlement mentality and yeah things have to change. Why not focus on what you can contribute to his life like most independent ladies do instead of focusing on what you can get from him. Is there any said rule that puts men in a position to provide for their girlfriends? Are those girls disabled or are they children? Why do i think this post is fake though? |
| Re: repent by Judybash93(m): 2:26am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Liposure:
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| Re: repent by Mrscarter(f): 2:40am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash: I get wat Ur saying. It's not bout the money he doesn't seem to think of you. Like forgetting to even call on Ur birthday or doing sumn sweet or romantic for you. He's probably not the romantic kind. Personally ion see how U can love someone n not want to surprise them on occasion with a gift or a romantic outing n such n especially to talk to them on their birthday. I guess with you, you just have to decide if that's the kinda man you want. 1 Like |
| Re: repent by loswhite(m): 3:29am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Kobicove:Lol dating? How is she dating the guy? She is keeping sex for her husband and trying to use the guy by just being friends and calling it dating. |
| Re: repent by gregyboy(m): 5:04am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash: You can blame him tho, most Nigeria lady trade men money in return for sex, when sex is not there money will disappear But the truth is the man doesn't care about your virginity he just want sex, sister run I only support virgins who agrees sex before marriage which you're Look for another guy who would value it Being a virgin is one thing keeping it to the due date comes the problem I would be happy to meet a virgin with no sex before marriage |
| Re: repent by Emu4u2c: 5:14am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Baba done be grand patron of stingy men association for a long time. 38years and he is still single. Do you think you are the first 22 year old girl he is meeting? Baba read the signs early and You are being played at your own game Lmao I checked your profile. True True Na Only Uniport Girls fit dey run something like this I'm very sure you are taking steady gbanshing at Helena hotel or with one fine boy at alakahia or Aluu every now and then. Sister swerve joor 1 Like |
| Re: repent by Emu4u2c: 5:21am On Jan 25, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: So in essence summarise all she has to offer in the relationship since she isn't offering up the only thing that matters in a relationship between a 22year old girl and 38 years old man |
| Re: repent by femi4: 5:30am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash:You're dating yourself This is a serious red flag. Birthday not remembered even after dating for 2yrs? Quit now, cos it seems he's not really into you |
| Re: repent by coming2america: 7:36am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash: How can someone be wealthy and he is sending you 7k? When you even requested 10k. And.you are not shagging him,so why are you feeling entitled? You want to keep your virginity for your husband, he wants to keep his money for his wife. If hin no vex, why you dey vex? For me, tho- I cannot even date a woman like you- once you say no coochie on first, second visit..i tell you shift and move you along. Siimplicita. Anyway, know that you are dating yourself. And if i was him too- i will not give you anything. Inshort, like I already said i wont even date you |
| Re: repent by Olayetan(m): 8:15am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash: At 38 and he's still behaving unserious, definitely he's not responsible. There's no love BTW u both and you also need to eliminate the thought of entitlement off your mind, you aren't married to him yet so he's not responsible for anything over you. You want to eat his money but you don't want him to eat something in return. |
| Re: repent by KenBen217: 8:32am On Jan 25, 2021 |
You jeje on your own you said no sex before marriage,he agreed but you expect him to be giving you money simply because he's in a relationship with you. Men need to learn from this guy,stop lowering your standards to be with entitled ladies who always think about just themselves in a relationship. it's always what you can do for them. your time,your attention,your money,your emotional support and they just need to do the barest minimum to qualify for effort. if he sleeps with another lady now you'll still open mouth waaaa like whale and be complaining.... mtcheeeeeew 1 Like |
| Re: repent by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 8:34am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Very soon una go get accident. Na there I go deh when u go come tell us say truck don jam una.. Arise. 1 Like |
| Re: repent by KenBen217: 8:36am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Denique:This is what females say when the man is rich...if he's a poor man they'll say he's "predatory" |
| Re: repent by EmmySparky(m): 8:43am On Jan 25, 2021 |
hahahah Op wanted a Maga...nonsense... |
| Re: repent by kizwid(m): 8:50am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Warrgidanairala: haya.... see how dumb and stupid you sound... "waiting for a yes from me"... abeg which love we get for chicken than kill and chop when she grow up... stop feeling your self upon toto way shape niggar just won chop, it's 2021 already |
| Re: repent by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Mrscarter:I believe the guy was wrong for forgetting her birthday . If you go through the post you'll discover that on no account has the OP done anything romantic or special for this guy , why should she expect the same ? if you also go through the post again you'll discover that the OP has never said anything about loving this guy , all she talks about is how he doesn't give her money , the OP doesn't look like someone who has romantic interest , she only has financial interest in him . In summary : the OP is one of those women who expect men to move mountains for them but won't offer anything in return . 2 Likes |
| Re: repent by DaInferno(m): 9:00am On Jan 25, 2021 |
kweenfash:... By redflags, I thought you were about to mention how he maltreats you, sees other ladies, or something of that sort, but your major concern boils down toMoney. Money money money!!!  even though you claim to have a very Lucrative business. I can't really point out how you both behave towards each other though, but considering the age difference between you two, permit me to guess that this isn't really a relationship. I can sense that there is nothing going on between the both of you, most likely you guys don't hang around, get to know each other, have fun and all. it's like it's a "Good morning my king" kind of relationship , hence nothing can happen. know this, since you pointed out he's wealthy at 38, I don't think what you do will affect him more or less. Most men would rather handle a lady the way she handles him. Your birthday? he didn't call or celebrate you and that's bad, but what did you do for his own birthday if I may ask. When you begin to ask yourself this questions without sentiment and a clear mind, you'd see your self answering them properly with the same energy. what's good for the goose is good for the gander, treat people the way you want to be treated too. lastly I wonder why you'd use money to test him, should he test you as such? what kinda mentality is that? see ehn,just Be lackadaisical about the relationship too and focus more on your business, leave another mans money after all, you ain't married. the only reasonable thing from here is the fact you wanna keep your virginity,keep it up, maybe one Bobo who understands you will locate you! 1 Like |
| Re: repent by AreYouMadOrSome: 9:02am On Jan 25, 2021 |
OP are you mad or something?? You're dating someone up to 20years age difference? And you're also stating No sex before marriage. Do you think he'll be a fool at 38? |
| Re: repent by Denique(f): 9:18am On Jan 25, 2021 |
KenBen217:Oh really?! Didn't know that.  |
| Re: repent by juniorstar(m): 10:52am On Jan 25, 2021 |
op don't feel entitled cos if you decide to leave him he would have given you the money he should have invested and given some of the proceeds to the bone of his bones and the flesh of his flesh...so no vex. 1 Like |
| Re: repent by Kinkykinky: 11:08am On Jan 25, 2021 |
baralatie: ;Dshey u get? Morons everywhere!!1 Like |
| Re: repent by CHoccolaTE: 11:15am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Emu4u2c: The man nko? What is he offering in the relationship to her? |
| Re: repent by KingAlayinde(m): 11:20am On Jan 25, 2021 |
[quote author=kweenfash post=98403025]Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this? [/quot Takes it easy angel, this country so hard right now for a man to remember every pieces of art,...... So don't be mad at him yet cos he might still made it up to you..... As I'm here now it only food I no dey forget to chop no matter the drama |
| Re: repent by purples25(f): 12:25pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
Been there, know exactly what will happen. If you are going to make the mistake of thinking that, maybe you are being unfair to him, maybe he should get your body so he can be caring and loving you (i know you want love and not just money), you're in for a nasty shock. Let me prophesy for you. This is what will happen if you actually give him your virginity. I see guys here saying its because you held your body. I laugh. And i laugh again. Here is what will happen: - You will send romantic texts, do everything nice for him, remember him, pay for outings, love him. But you will be secretly feeling like the final touch is to give the the virginity. Shey you don't want to lose him now? Shebi you love him? Okay - You will give him the virginity. After which, according to these men's posts here, that is when he can also invest or LOVE you. Abi? Nl guys - Surprise. Rather he ups his nasty game. He still doesn't call nor text you. He still doesn't remember your birthday. He will be forming like you are the man and he is the woman. You will be the one steady toasting him. Bringing more money on dates. It will be exactly like you are 38 and he is 22. You will drop in esteem. You are now the one chasing an old man. And with all his age and money, he will still be using your emotions to flex like a little kid. - Eventually you grow distant. Oga doesn't care if you come or go. Yes, dear. That's how it goes. The relationship is like you dating yourself. You stop wooing him, like the man he has turned you to. Eventually, after losing weight, getting ill due to heartbreak, suffering in solace, you leave without telling him relationship is over. Let me add, when he sees or hears you are hoing round with other guys, to get over him, he won't forget to quickly label himself a victim. Call you a cheat. Over a relationship that never existed. - Last last, you become one more of the girls nl guys say are hoes. The ones they say, oh, we can't marry, but they are here saying, no sex, no love. A bricklayers wife who depends on him, has no money, set up a birthday surprise with paper and balloons for him. If this guy loves you, why can't he text, call, say happy birthday, do small things that don't need much money. - When someone doesn't love you, he gives excuses over simple things like texts and calls. Well. This is all i have to say. If your story is true, and you don't want this future, leave. I'm like your future self coming to warn you. You love him but he won't change. Men pick who they want. If you pick a man but he hasn't picked you too, you have to leave. Men do the picking. That's the secret truth. 2 Likes |
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