Yippeedaniel:
And she no be deeper life mind you. She's not deep. Deeper no dey marry outsider and she dey school too � Na Street oo

Yusufisraelj:


Lols, I mean if they have ground rules in the church, and equally in the relationship for no sex, then coming with her sister's is the best course of action. Her excuse is no carry weight.

ThiagoKid:
Deeper life is sister,
Sister life is deeper...

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Wtf, na my church be that na

I won't be surprise if she's a chorister sef

Yippeedaniel:
Young king.. Be street wise, ths religious girls can be so ghetto.. I pray what happened to me don't happen to you. E go shock u

Righteousness2:
That's a special woman you have there.
You may not know or value her now.
She is doing all she can to help you, herself and the Family you two will become.

Coming to Know your House might look harmless and innocent, but that harmless action could cause you two to Defile your marriage and open the door for the devil to strike.
The devil is smarter than what you know. That guy could Collaspe your glorious destiny in less than 2mins.

As for your gifts to her, you are not bound to give her. It's your choice to make. But if you know she is really the woman you wanna marry and you have the cash, I Advice you to give it to her.

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Komu1048:
Please give her everything, since she has accepted to marry you. You should not put limit to any thing you will do for her, sell the phone u used to type this epistle and give it to her. You are her helper beo

boom99:


Everything way get advantage get disadvantage. In deeperlife courtship you are not allowed to touch yourself or cook for the guy. Because after 6 month courtship if you don't like yourself you go your separate ways. The lady won't feel cheated cos you no use am dump

Billyonaire666:
Makes no sense.

Why should anyone get married to a woman without having sex first to see if she is great at it?

hardon1:

A woman who is genuinely interested in you would be eager to at least know your place. Not necessarily sleeping there. Imaging, you even asked her to Come with others as an assurance she is safe yet she refused

pocohantas:
By the way, they use money to register for Carry Overs? Is it a new development or it has always been like that?

Judolisco:
tell her to come and collect d 50k in your house na... Problem solved

Tuns20:


Not yet him go learn ...My only question is this as SU as she is..where is her brains? Because throughout my time in unilag all the SU sisters that we knew all passed even though they didn't graduate as the best graduating student.. They passed comfortably and took their studies serious... This one to be is not serious with her academic.. It is not even course.. It is carry over courses..Brother use your head..let her pay for her carry over courses by herself..Period..

HenryThegreat1:
But some churches rules about dating and courtship shall.
What of if the lady in question does not know how to cook or do other important house chores.

Wondermumsy:
you are not right.l was a deeperlife and i married outside my Church.

Wondermumsy:
you are not right.l was a deeperlife and i married outside my Church.

Kaldakinn:


My fellow billionaire. You sef dey here

Vickym1:
U're the one wearing the shoe so u know where it pinches you.

Yippeedaniel:
Young king.. Be street wise, ths religious girls can be so ghetto.. I pray what happened to me don't happen to you. E go shock u

Katier00:
special wetin? Na this kind woman de cry on her wedding night say her uncle raped her when she was 12 cos there don become Lagos ibadan express way.

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.