sparko1:


He is very right, deeper life doesn’t marry outside, even if you’re a member and you are not a worker, no marriage for you.

Mrlouis:


Take this singular advice and be blessed

Paramount01:




who will now refund all expenses the guy has incure in the cause of the relationship.



if what u are saying is true,I think I need to tell my younger sister to start going to deeper life so that one mumu brother can toast and and pay her school fees then break up after 6months

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Harmlesspill:
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After the breakup, in 6 months,if things didn't fall in comfortable places for both, won't the guy feel cheated after spending small or large amounts on something that didn't do him good?

mperornero:

who con teach you how to Bleep?

Yippeedaniel:
Young king.. Be street wise, ths religious girls can be so ghetto.. I pray what happened to me don't happen to you. E go shock u

Paramount01:


u mean,before u say yes to my proposal to date me or to marry me? if we both.meet outside the country nko?

simplesearch:


And what do you want her to go and do in his house that can't be done elsewhere if the intention is pure and genuine and not for a show off?

Pelxmiye:


The beautiful girls in most deeper churches are secretly dating one prayer warrior brother , or choir leader or one youth pastor in most of their churches, I noticed this cos I attended deeper life in university becos it was close to my hostel in school, most of their chicks nah supposed serious brothers in church ,who are workers dem dey marry, the funny thing is they know how to keep their relationships in church under wraps, so u won't even know anything, until you just see that they're married, the same brothers would be like they'll be monks forever, nah dem dey carry their most beautiful chicks, the courtship is just like those old local, cultural Korean movies.Though I rep them for having some really decent girls, character wise ,but then you'd have to fake your love for working in the church so you can even get their attention, a lot of them are already taken by top top brothers in the church, so yeah, you won't find girls who are liberal minded there, I'm not saying girls who are wild, I'm saying girls who are free thinking, I'm not saying girls who are not spiritual ,yes they're spiritual but even their pastors can spoil whatever relationships you have or intend to have with them, but it's easy to get them, just be very close to their pastors or top brothers or maybe lie...they don't want you to ever be real with them, so just toe the lines they want you and you'll get their girls, but I must say, I don't think they're fun, before u even approach their girls, they've psycho-analysed and have already made up their mind, you can rarely change that about them...so good luck

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

CalliDora1:


Not really.

The last relationship I had, ( I won't lie) I visited and even cooked.

Today, if I get into any relationship, and I'm sure we are heading to the Altar, I will visit and try to put a few things in order, to suit my taste. Though I'll be careful not to sleep over and it has to be a trusted bro.


If you both are spiritually mature, you can handle it. She can and should in fact visit and try getting herself used to the new environment. Simple!

Paramount01:


u mean,before u say yes to my proposal to date me or to marry me? if we both.meet outside the country nko?

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

MickzyDonald:
I respect deeper life girls like mad, the way they handle cucumber will chase the demon out of it,OP she's simply pretending

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

lanreonplanet:
A deeper life member will involve the marriage committee in your quest to marry her. They will insist on genotype test, check whether you as a man is potent, HIV test. Both of you can only meet in a public place, no exchange of gift or money until you're married. This your babe may be attending Deeper life, but she is not a member

FashionCookie:
You are dating a greedy person and a dullard. She can collect gifts but doesn't want to know your place. Good luck to your relationship.

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Onyi22:
Why mention the name of her church without mentioning yours?

Babara1994:
Don't be surprised she has a nigga somewhere
that is giving it to her steady.

Your job is to buy her gifts and send her money, while the other guy's job is to smash her.

Be wise, guys. Don't spend a dime on any woman you're not yet married to.
I cum in piss

Bigfish121:
Before I marry anybody I am dating,she must live with me for at least 6 months or 1 year.let me see if I can endure her.i nor want hear story.
To me that girl nah loose.fkrget those her plenty talk.