I need advise. My situation is a bit complicated.

I have 2 girls that are in love with me and want me to settle down with them. I have known the first girl for about 15 years during university days, but she was married because i wasn't close to her and she told me about it. The marriage didn't work and she left the marriage. she is professing love everyday to me and i love her as I had wished to settle with her initially before she first got married but we were very far from each other.

I have known the second one for about 4years now and we have been dating but her family is always at her back pressurizing me to do what they want. This girl don't give me peace of mind and she is pestering marriage. I went ahead to do introduction to know the family. After the intro, she and the family started to misbehave to me. she doesn't care about my well-being and she is having issues with my family most especially my mother.

Now am confused who to tie the knot with that will give me peace of mind.

By the way, these girls' know I have all it takes to make them happy but the concern is my peace of mind.

How can two women fall in love with you at a time? You better make a good choice before making the wrong choice. Go into good prayers and do your physical check on the both.

fake story

I wish I can unread this.... Young man, you already know what to do, The second lady is a no-go area, and I hope you know what made the marriage of the first girl not to work, because same plight might befall you....

In summary, you have two time bombs waiting to explode, either a grenade or a C4, so choose the kinda damage you want carefully....

Okay...




The first lady left her marriage and is now professing love to you. Perhaps you find it surprising for her to do such. Since she's a woman who can always get a man. Right?

Permit me to point out that you're entangled in outright delusion. Why won't she return to you? When probably, you have some good qualities in your possession, and she could be left with little edge over getting another man. She knows you beforehand, and a little sprinkle of "love profession" will hush you in.

Perhaps you need Odumeje to disclose to you that the second lady doesn't love you after you have pointed out that she doesn't care about your wellbeing.

Verdict : None of the ladies loves you. Except you mislay love to be something else.

Xscape1993:
How can two women fall in love with you at a time? You better make a good choice before making the wrong choice. Go into good prayers and do your physical check on the both.

its note fake story, i need advice please!

atseyi01:
I need advise. My situation is a bit complicated.

I have 2 girls that are in love with me and want me to settle down with them. I have known the first girl for about 15 years during university days, but she was married because i wasn't close to her and she told me about it. The marriage didn't work and she left the marriage. she is professing love everyday to me and i love her as I had wished to settle with her initially before she first got married but we were very far from each other.

I have known the second one for about 4years now and we have been dating but her family is always at her back pressurizing me to do what they want. This girl don't give me peace of mind and she is pestering marriage. I went ahead to do introduction to know the family. After the intro, she and the family started to misbehave to me. she doesn't care about my well-being and she is having issues with my family most especially my mother.

Now am confused who to tie the knot with that will give me peace of mind.

By the way, these girls' know I have all it takes to make them happy but the concern is my peace of mind.

^^story.

Bro juss gimme the lightskin one & u keep the dakskin one..Preach!!

merieam16:
fake story

Its not fake story, I need advice please!

Guy the second one does not love you.. look for a third one

My brother the good advice I will give right here is! Its better not to mess with a good friendship.


Let those girls be and start to look for your wife.

atseyi01:


Its not fake story, I need advice please!

okay o....Frm ur story, i can see u love the first one more than the second one, so d choice is urs

Most girls these days are just after marriage.

Slynation:
I wish I can unread this.... Young man, you already know what to do, The second lady is a no-go area, and I hope you know what made the marriage of the first girl not to work, because same plight might befall you....

In summary, you have two time bombs waiting to explode, either a grenade or a C4, so choose the kinda damage you want carefully....

Thanks for the advice but this just scared me.

atseyi01:
I need advise. My situation is a bit complicated.

I have 2 girls that are in love with me and want me to settle down with them. I have known the first girl for about 15 years during university days, but she was married because i wasn't close to her and she told me about it. The marriage didn't work and she left the marriage. she is professing love everyday to me and i love her as I had wished to settle with her initially before she first got married but we were very far from each other.

I have known the second one for about 4years now and we have been dating but her family is always at her back pressurizing me to do what they want. This girl don't give me peace of mind and she is pestering marriage. I went ahead to do introduction to know the family. After the intro, she and the family started to misbehave to me. she doesn't care about my well-being and she is having issues with my family most especially my mother.

Now am confused who to tie the knot with that will give me peace of mind.

By the way, these girls' know I have all it takes to make them happy but the concern is my peace of mind.

Are you sure you are old enough to get married because you still reason like a child if at this moment you don't still know whom to choose between the two dames.

Slynation:
I wish I can unread this.... Young man, you already know what to do, The second lady is a no-go area, and I hope you know what made the marriage of the first girl not to work, because same plight might befall you....

In summary, you have two time bombs waiting to explode, either a grenade or a C4, so choose the kinda damage you want carefully....

You're Wise Sir

Authority1o1:
Okay...




The first lady left her marriage and is now professing love to you. Perhaps you find it surprising for her to do such. Since she's a woman who can always get a man. Right?

Permit me to point out that you're entangled in outright delusion. Why won't she return to you? When probably, you have some good qualities in your possession, and she could be left with little edge over getting another man. She knows you beforehand, and a little sprinkle of "love profession" will hush you in.

Perhaps you need Odumeje to disclose to you that the second lady doesn't love you after you have pointed out that she doesn't care about your wellbeing.

Verdict : None of the ladies loves you. Except you mislay love to be something else.

Candid advice, thanks

atseyi01:


Candid advice, thanks

The situation with the second girl now is that she is insisting marriage because we did introduction and the family is also trying to force it.

Nna mehn. What is happening to these crop of men? How can a full grown man be using his hands to ask useless questions?
Men of these days can't even make firm decisions again.
Op you are a confirmed simp.

None of those girls love you. Stop deceiving yourself. First one is about to use you as last plan. The 2nd clearly has no repeat for you, your mother and family and her family clearly doesn't repeat you either.

None of those girls is good. First one surely won't tell you what character chased her out of husband house. The 2nd has zero training. And from dysfunctional family too.

None of those girls are young and fresh. The first is a badly used product. The Second is clearly advanced in age that's why they pressure to offload her on you.

I can go on and on.

Get out of here with your simpish behaviours. You're not a real man.

bluefilm:


Are you sure you are old enough to get married because you still reason like a child if at this moment you don't still know whom to choose between the two dames.

Well am old enough but i need advice.

elipheleh:
Nna mehn. What is happening to these crop of men? How can a full grown man be using his hands to ask useless questions?
Men of these days can't even make firm decisions again.
Op you are a confirmed simp.

None of those girls love you. Stop deceiving yourself. First one is about to use you as last plan. The 2nd clearly has no repeat for you, your mother and family and her family clearly doesn't repeat you either.

None of those girls is good. First one surely won't tell you what character chased her out of husband house. The 2nd has zero training. And from dysfunctional family too.

None of those girls are young and fresh. The first is a badly used product. The Second is clearly advanced in age that's why they pressure to offload her on you.

I can go on and on.

Get out of here with your simpish behaviors. You're not a real man.

Not that i don't know what to do, like I stated - confused and need third party advice, thanks for the advice.

atseyi01:


Well am old enough but i need advice.

I doubt.

If not, why is it still difficult for you to leave a girl who is troubling your life?

U remind me of Tony tetula song back in the days

Don't make hasty decision. Don't pressurize yourself.

If you go for the first lady; there is no assurance that she won't leave you again or she will make a good wife, love is not enough.

It's obvious the second lady has changed her ways after the introduction. And you are more likely to dump her.

Your happiness and peace of mind is more important, distance yourself from both of them for a while and reevaluate yourself.

Then come back and decide weather to choose one of them of dump them both.

Remember you are responsible for every decision you take and every action you take right new has future consequences.

merieam16:
okay o....Frm ur story, i can see u love the first one more than the second one, so d choice is urs

hi please pm me thank

You're caught in a wrong web. None of them is fit for that position.

atseyi01:
I need advise. My situation is a bit complicated.

I have 2 girls that are in love with me and want me to settle down with them. I have known the first girl for about 15 years during university days, but she was married because i wasn't close to her and she told me about it. The marriage didn't work and she left the marriage. she is professing love everyday to me and i love her as I had wished to settle with her initially before she first got married but we were very far from each other.

I have known the second one for about 4years now and we have been dating but her family is always at her back pressurizing me to do what they want. This girl don't give me peace of mind and she is pestering marriage. I went ahead to do introduction to know the family. After the intro, she and the family started to misbehave to me. she doesn't care about my well-being and she is having issues with my family most especially my mother.

Now am confused who to tie the knot with that will give me peace of mind.

By the way, these girls' know I have all it takes to make them happy but the concern is my peace of mind.

Go 4 D 1st Lady.

Marry the third one(the very One God has destined for you) because truth be told, none of the above two you mentioned is fit to become your wife.

Don't rush into marriage all in the bids to satisfy your partner and then remain unhappy for the rest of your life.
Dem no dey catch latecomer for marriage.

Op,I'm jamming *soledad by west life* with my MP3 player right now,just to wish you a happy heartbreak in Addy.....

Op,you think you're smart, right? But lemme tell you something,you ain't smart one bit....

In as much as you think you're wasting their time, simply know within yourself too that you are also wasting your own time...

Las las,you may lose the two of them and what you're tagging as love today may likely end up being your worst nightmare tomorrow...

Op,use your brain tay think without your emotions intervening..

Slynation:
I wish I can unread this.... Young man, you already know what to do, The second lady is a no-go area, and I hope you know what made the marriage of the first girl not to work, because same plight might befall you....

In summary, you have two time bombs waiting to explode, either a grenade or a C4, so choose the kinda damage you want carefully....

atseyi01:

Not that i don't know what to do, like I stated - confused and need third party advice, thanks for the advice.

So, you know what to do.
Then,why are you seeking advice
How can you be confused and aware of what to do at the same time?
These things don't add up.
Also, I think there are things that can ruin a marriage.
Consider those things before you marry anyone.