Sharjah woman seeks divorce after 25 years of marriage; court tells her to return to husband’s house

The woman applied for divorce saying she just wanted to be free, stay with friends.

The Sharjah Sharia Court has turned down a divorce plea of an Arab woman in her 40s after she filed a divorce case against her husband to whom she has been married for 25 years.

The court has ordered the woman to return “obediently” to her husband’s house and asked her to show respect to her husband and his family.

The judge also ordered the husband in his 50s, who used to give his wife Dh25,000 as monthly expense, to bring down the amount to Dh6,000.

As per court records, the case unfolded when the wife approached the court seeking divorce on the ground that she just wanted to be free, stay with her friends and travel widely,

The husband’s lawyer said that the husband showed great love for his wife and was taking good care of his family which lived in a villa. He was even paying his wife Dh25,000 monthly and had bought her a luxury car.

But the wife said she wanted freedom and told the judge, “I cannot live with him anymore, and want a divorce.”

The husband, in turn, told the court that he loved his wife and did not want to divorce her. He added that she (wife) was used to going out with friends without his knowledge but he did not object to it because he loved her. However, she was showing no respect to him.

Based on the testimonies, the court rejected the wife’s divorce plea and ordered her to return to her husband’s house.

InfernoNig:
Her excuse is stupid. There is a guy already fucking her, she just want to divorce to be free of guilt.

thorpido:
Good judgement.
If she insists on getting the divorce,then she should be made to pay the Dh 25,000 monthly she has been receiving.

LordKO:
Her action is typical of a self-absorbing and or opportunistic woman (or man); to her type, it's always about her happiness first instead of what's right. Anyway, her husband was partly an enabler of her unhealthy attitude through the condoning of nonsense from her; reward unconscientious acts at your peril.

glowingflame7:
Sharjah woman seeks divorce after 25 years of marriage; court tells her to return to husband’s house
The woman applied for divorce saying she just wanted to be free, stay with friends.

The Sharjah Sharia Court has turned down a divorce plea of an Arab woman in her 40s after she filed a divorce case against her husband to whom she has been married for 25 years.

The court has ordered the woman to return “obediently” to her husband’s house and asked her to show respect to her husband and his family.

The judge also ordered the husband in his 50s, who used to give his wife Dh25,000 as monthly expense, to bring down the amount to Dh6,000.

As per court records, the case unfolded when the wife approached the court seeking divorce on the ground that she just wanted to be free, stay with her friends and travel widely,

The husband’s lawyer said that the husband showed great love for his wife and was taking good care of his family which lived in a villa. He was even paying his wife Dh25,000 monthly and had bought her a luxury car.


But the wife said she wanted freedom and told the judge, “I cannot live with him anymore, and want a divorce.”

The husband, in turn, told the court that he loved his wife and did not want to divorce her. He added that she (wife) was used to going out with friends without his knowledge but he did not object to it because he loved her. However, she was showing no respect to him.

Based on the testimonies, the court rejected the wife’s divorce plea and ordered her to return to her husband’s house.


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bukatyne:


Hahahahaha





I am happy the wife stated the true reason for wanting the divorce.

I give her points for that.

An Arab woman interested in no-fault divorce? Aye n dori kodo.

Since the husband still wants the marriage, he should engage his wife on what she means by 'freedom' and reach a compromise.

The Law unfortunately cannot force anyone to be with their partners when they have checked out of the union.

If not for the court, babe would divorce Oga and request for monthly alimony of D25k so she can maintain her 'current' standard of living.

"Signs*

bukatyne:





I am happy the wife stated the true reason for wanting the divorce.

I give her points for that.

An Arab woman interested in no-fault divorce? Aye n dori kodo.

Since the husband still wants the marriage, he should engage his wife on what she means by 'freedom' and reach a compromise.

The Law unfortunately cannot force anyone to be with their partners when they have checked out of the union.

If not for the court, babe would divorce Oga and request for monthly alimony of D25k so she can maintain her 'current' standard of living.

"Signs*

Saccharine:
So,basically she is being forced to remain married when she doesn't want to.

She is alleged to be disrespectful and yet the man is insisting on continuing and im seeing comments that are even projecting what she might have done if she got the divorce.

Same set of people would cry 'why did she not divorce' if she does something harsh to this man now just so that she can have this freedom that she went to a court to acquire..

Last I heard,marriage is not by force.

Y'all are funny individuals.

LordKO:


Common sense didn't tell you that mutual sense of right (not what makes one happy), and mutually doing so at all times, is the soul of the sacredness of marriage and that once the law makes it obvious that one can wake up one morning and decides to divorce their spouse unjustly, marriage will automatically lose its sacredness. Wherever a court grants a divorce request based on irreconcilable differences, both parties involved wittingly or unwittingly gave their consent to it.

That "marriage is not by force" doesn't encourage self-absorbing and opportunistic acts. It's the same as freedom; freedom doesn't negate decorum. Leaving shouldn't be at her discretion at this point, but that of the husband; and, of course, granting her the leave will be done after subjecting her to some pains, if I were the husband. It's insanity for one to think that she/he has the right to walk into another's life with a set standard in place, disorganize/wreak them and unjustly leave at will scot-free.

frozen70:
I think she wants freedom and to enjoy life

If the husband can step up his romantic game, she can still remain there

The men outside knows how to handle women more than the ones inside with them

This life is not balance, you just want to have it all

JovialJune:
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Da hell!!! See nonsense this one typed abeg, a woman is willing to leave a marriage so that she'd stop disrespecting her husband, you're saying she cant leave cos marriage bla bla bla, see talk abeg, she said she wants to be free, she has the fvcking right to leave a marriage where she feels caged, marriage hlas it is in this century is not sacred anymore, at least for some, you hear husband and wives commiting disgusting atrocities in secret when they can easily divorce and do it freely with no guilt,

The lady should better go to a better Judge or court where she will be granted her divorce abeg, marriage is not by force, everybody has the right to leave a marriage they are no more interested in, regardless of whoever is enjoying it or not.

LordKO:



Come on, stop visiting your frustration on me. Of course, direct your further mention to your fellow low-lives because I'm not the cause of your frustration.

aroundtheearth:

JovialJune:



I honestly see nothing wrong in having it all.

bukatyne:


Hahahahaha





I am happy the wife stated the true reason for wanting the divorce.

I give her points for that.

An Arab woman interested in no-fault divorce? Aye n dori kodo.

Since the husband still wants the marriage, he should engage his wife on what she means by 'freedom' and reach a compromise.

The Law unfortunately cannot force anyone to be with their partners when they have checked out of the union.

If not for the court, babe would divorce Oga and request for monthly alimony of D25k so she can maintain her 'current' standard of living.

"Signs*

glowingflame7:


I was just laughing as the judge even said that her husband should reduce her upkeep money. Correct judge.

That also got me laughing too... The judgement was very funny..

It was as if the judge was implying that assuming she doesn't have that much every month, she wouldn't have known the way to the court house.

thorpido:
Good judgement.
If she insists on getting the divorce,then she should be made to pay the Dh 25,000 monthly she has been receiving.