mistakes many girls make and the trait of Nigerian girls. although it might be influenced by what the society think about them and in the past, but things have changed so why are they still lagging behind?

1, you ask her out and she never give the yes reply no matter how you tried to hear it from her mouth. we guys are really trying because we continue base on assumption that we are already dating and she only give you the signal and green light to continue.

2, you are the one who always called her and the least she does is flashing and probably when she waited and didn't see your calls her heart begin to beat and she would just flash at first to see the outcome

3, you always tell her you love her and how much you miss her, yet she will just smile and never said anything in return. too shy to say I love you or anything close.


this act put many guys in doubt and most times the girls only do it when the guy is fed up and probably breakup with her. then she start crying and start telling the guy how much he mean to her and how much she love him. being the fact the guy is hearing it for the last moment and obviously will transfer the power of the relationship to the guy and the guy start doubting and maltreating them anyhow as he likes.


because the guy mentality has changed that she start loving him only when he maltreat her, he will continue to mess her up and the more she will be begging him because she is in love with me already. there is the notion that girls love bad boys that treat them bad it all started like this.

just tell him you love him at once and how much he means to you. don't keep it or waited longer it backfired at the ends.

cc: lalasticlala, seun.

Nice write-up bro
But these foolish nairalanders will all just view and not comment

The word I love you is a complicated word for those who are cautious of their words.

When it's right, it flows freely

Because they dont love you! simple!!...

The bible makes it clear...

"Husband love your wife, Wife submit to your husband.."

If God that created women didn't demand that they love their husbands.... who are you to demand love...

Women aren't designed to love their husband's... they aren't truly capable of that. They only love their children.

speak for the small girls u have been with!!! I call my man and he does too!!! try and date mature ladies mtcheew

fuckaholic25:
speak for the small girls u have been with!!! I call my man and he does too!!! try and date mature ladies mtcheew

It's not about maturity. Women don't and cannot genuinely love their spouses with no strings attached. Men should always operate with this understanding that they can never be genuinely loved by their women. No matter what.

bigDickson:



It's not about maturity. Women don't and cannot genuinely love their spouses with no strings attached. Men should always operate with this understanding that they can never be genuinely loved by their women. No matter what.

true tho... same as men!!! men dont love genuinely too so why the fuss?

Because they don't really feel love. And if they don't care about you, they won't waste time pretending to love you. They only do that if they think you're a good catch. So maybe the ones you've met don't consider you a good catch. Be satisfied with the sex they give you in exchange for your money and your 'love'.

Men on the other hand, often use professions of love to pay for sex. That is why they can say it so easily, in the misguided belief that this will make it easier for them to have their way with her.

Its not hard.

Its either she doesn't love you or she's still getting to know you.
Give her time.

fuckaholic25:
true tho... same as men!!! men dont love genuinely too so why the fuss?

Men can. Not all men do but most men can love a woman unconditionally... that's why we do some reflex good gestures towards women.

But women can't love a man unconditionally... maybe that's how God wired you people

Funny enough..
I hardly call my girlfriend..
Even when we are both seeing each other online..
I don't message 1st...

I only Call when I urgently need something from her..
Or call to scold her on y she hasn't called me for 2 days...
U need to hear me when I de Para 4 this girl...
N she go just the beg...


Chai women

bigDickson:


Men can. Not all men do but most men can love a woman unconditionally... that's why we do some reflex good gestures towards women.

But women can't love a man unconditionally... maybe that's how God wired you people

So true. That's why a woman can kill the same husband she claimed to love yesterday if she feels offended enough.

Girls wahala too much for this life..

All the things way bros op write all Nah true

My girl friend hardly tell me say I love you

I tire for her

don't worry, they'd say at the right time

fuckaholic25:
speak for the small girls u have been with!!! I call my man and he does too!!! try and date mature ladies mtcheew

What nonsense are you spewing
Women love conditionally and opportunistically
Men love sacrificially and idealistically

You are not excempted ,that your nature
All of You

It hasn't been hard for me, hearing such.

Didn't read the trash you wrote up there but I can say I love you whenever I like


Op I LOVE YOU

See no big deal

bigDickson:
Because they dont love you! simple!!...

The bible makes it clear...

"Husband love your wife, Wife submit to your husband.."

If God that created women didn't demand that they love their husbands.... who are you to demand love...

Women aren't designed to love their husband's... they aren't truly capable of that. They only love their children.

loud it

Kanoski:
Funny enough..
I hardly call my girlfriend..
Even when we are both seeing each other online..
I don't message 1st...

I only Call when I urgently need something from her..
Or call to scold her on y she hasn't called me for 2 days...
U need to hear me when I de Para 4 this girl...
N she go just the beg...


Chai women

I really need to hear u or idontbelieveit

BLOODYSPERM:

What nonsense are you spewing Women love conditionally and opportunistically Men love sacrificially and idealistically
You are not excempted ,that your nature All of You

well, somebody more sensible has replied me!

perkyB:
Didn't read the trash you wrote up there but I can say I love you whenever I like


Op I LOVE YOU

See no big deal

my sister lol

bigDickson:



It's not about maturity. Women don't and cannot genuinely love their spouses with no strings attached. Men should always operate with this understanding that they can never be genuinely loved by their women. No matter what.

Lie.

If woman love you true to say I love you go easy pass to make money

merieam16:
I really need to hear u or idontbelieveit

Doubting thomas

merieam16:
loud it

See ya mouth

phazotron:



Lie.

If woman love you true to say I love you go easy pass to make money

Women fit talk say they love you... but I'm reality that don't.. na why them dey leave their husband when they become broke ..

You guys really need better women in your life if your wives and girlfriends don't say "I love you" to you. I suggest you start making changes for the better and meeting girls online on https://www.upforit.com. There are tons of great looking chicks there who will appreciate and love you, so don't be shy and go on a few dates, it's not as scary as it seems.

Bible says women submit, Men love your wife.

so you see only men that loves