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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Shortyyy(f): 8:12pm On Jan 31, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:


What's wrong with you, why are you so obsessed with men?
You need help, and get it fast

On the contrary, I'm flabbergasted with the level of y'all reasoning. I cringe whenever I see posts like this. Every day it's about sex, virgins, women.

Like, is that what your life is all about?

I'm just glad women don't go about lamenting like y'all.

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 8:46pm On Jan 31, 2021
Boxer007:




first questions sir
: is your elder sister lightskin sir?
smiley
you
No sir
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Sewa90(f): 8:48pm On Jan 31, 2021
Cos she uses waist chain/beads doesn’t mean she’s not a virgin,OP focus on what’s important,understand each other first,her love language and all,aside sex and beauty,what do you like about her,go for marriage counseling
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Scream(m): 9:00pm On Jan 31, 2021
Those two will use the whole of the dating period discussing hymen...when they finally get married, hymen will be broken, nothing else to hold on to...fight will start. Adults at 36 and 30 behaving like teenagers... touching genitals and closing eyes... lipsrsealed

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Boxer007(m): 9:12pm On Jan 31, 2021
Dufil:
you
No sir


Why not? Bro I love lightskin chicks like Nmezor! angry
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by SavageResponse(m): 9:41pm On Jan 31, 2021
osemoses1234:
You dey fine virgin wife... you nah virgin man? Bastard

grin
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jan 31, 2021
Smh
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Ishilove: 4:12am On Feb 01, 2021
You want to marry a virgin but you aren't a virgin yourself. So who are you leaving the ones you have slept with for? I sincerely hope you meet Ibadan express way when you enter there. That will serve you right.

So after the nacks what next?

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by 1beat(m): 4:26am On Feb 01, 2021
this girl is more wiser than you , sexually expose than you and we'll prepared for you. therefore, there is much tendency that you will regret. from her response she as experience more than 1 or 2 relationship before you come to the picture. don't rush because more will be review soon
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Collegelove: 4:38am On Feb 01, 2021
Dufil:
Last year during lockdown, I told my elder sister, I need a good(virgin) girl for a wife, I'm 36.

She recommended a girl for me, who she has been observing for 5yrs and has informed her about me.

But she bluntly refused she would marry me. Then she was in a relationship with a guy.

So she never gave a thought about me because i'm from the south while she is from the west.

She wanted someone from the west.

So, she was in that relationship for 4yrs but unfortunately that guy got married to another girl last year before lockdown, she was not told, coz the guy relocated from that area to another state.

She reported the guy was broke and she truly loved the guy then.

Now, my sister appears to know alot about her, so she vouched she has never known a man.

So I was excited that a girl close to 30 is still a virgin?.

My curiosity drew me closer and we got talking.

Though we stay in different states, we talk on phone.

So, I asked why didn't her ex marry her, she said, he was asking for what he can't get, that was sex.

So, as the discussion proceeded, I asked how were they able to cope in such romantic relationship for 4yrs without sex but there was kissings.?

She replied: They only kiss and nothing more. I said just kissing fir 4yrs? She replied, "yes, though he ask for more, he sucked my breast just once., then I voluntary oneday told him to disvirgin me but he said No, it was not coming from my heart".

So I asked what other thing did you do to keep me, because I noticed you loved him more than he loves you.

She replied "there was a time, he would be naked, telling her to touch his dick, she couldn't say the rest.

I asked : no bj, no anal? she replied she hated those things", disgusting she said. "

I asked if she has ever seen a man nude, she said yes, her ex and porn. Because when we met, I attempted having sex, I was nude n erect she covered her eyes, I struggled yet she refused but later allowed cuddling and kisses , if I had tried harder, it would have been n a rape, because she refused to pull off.


So she said emphasized that she wants to keep her virginity for the man who will pay her bride price. She was very confident about her virginity. She was ready for medical tests.

So I stopped doubting.

But that day I wanted to make out with her, I noticed beads around her waist. Being a lady from a strong christain background, I felt she was not supposed to wear such, she told me she was using chains before the beads that she bought it herself. I told her immediately that it's only runs girls that wear such, that i am doubting ing her virginity claims.

Anyways, she emphasized tests. We can go to be sure she has not lost it. I was like how is she this confident.

So she told me that sex will only happen her wedding night, that I should come to see her parents.

Pls NL don't you think, she is manipulating me.

Can it be true she is a virgin. She told me she gets Hot sometimes. I asked how does she express it, she claims, she gets busy.

She is an extrovert.

Pls should I go ahead with the introduction the relationship is just 7months should I test her patience for 1more year.?

Pls advice what should i do?





Damn! grin

That gurl is no longer a virgin and she is manipulating you. Generally, women are manipulative in nature.

A lady played a similar trick with me but after getting her laid, I lost interest in her. What you see is not always what you get. grin

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 10:44am On Feb 01, 2021
Ishilove:
You want to marry a virgin but you aren't a virgin yourself. So who are you leaving the ones you have slept with for? I sincerely hope you meet Ibadan express way when you enter there. That will serve you right.

So after the nacks what next?
Ishi..did I meet them virgin, those girls were disvirgined since 14, I only came into them to do my part as thsy came accross.. But.. IshiI take papa God beg u, no too dey put mouth 4my matter still trying to recover from ur last ban.

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 10:47am On Feb 01, 2021
Shortyyy:


On the contrary, I'm flabbergasted with the level of y'all reasoning. I cringe whenever I see posts like this. Every day it's about sex, virgins, women.

Like, is that what your life is all about?

I'm just glad women don't go about lamenting like y'all.
Most women discuss money n materials as sex is their only means of exchange in a world dominated by men.
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 10:47am On Feb 01, 2021
Sewa90:
Cos she uses waist chain/beads doesn’t mean she’s not a virgin,OP focus on what’s important,understand each other first,her love language and all,aside sex and beauty,what do you like about her,go for marriage counseling
Thank you

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Anfield247(m): 1:05am On Feb 02, 2021
4yrs relationship without sex! He will suck ur breast and you will rub his dick, abi? u try oh! I love listening to lies whe I knw the truth!

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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 4:17am On Feb 02, 2021
Cerebellum:
Scam

Made up write-up

Arindin OP
Sorry, this is my experience currently.
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 4:18am On Feb 02, 2021
Anfield247:
4yrs relationship without sex! He will suck ur breast and you will rub his dick, abi? u try oh! I love listening to lies whe I knw the truth!
I asked again last night, she insisted we should go for a test.
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Anfield247(m): 7:15am On Feb 02, 2021
Dufil:
I asked again last night, she insisted we should go for a test.
But do you believe her?
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 10:15pm On Feb 03, 2021
Anfield247:

But do you believe her?
Yes I do.
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Anfield247(m): 10:19pm On Feb 03, 2021
Dufil:

Yes I do.
Both me too, I believe her because I'm virgin. it may look strange but that is what it is.

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