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Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 8:42pm On Feb 05, 2021
I broke up with my girlfriend of 2years today. I feel no fvcking guilt about my actions.

For some reasons, I felt I deserve better than my ex girlfriend. She's quite intelligent and beautiful. But then, she lack ambition and a strong sense of life purpose.

My ex have been too careful and afraid to lose me, something I detest as I hate it when people are too attached to me. I spoke with her about her attachment and how uncool I was about it, she remained the same. She's too satisfied with her current job. She's earning a quite decent amount though, but she isn't thinking or willing to stretch farther. She doesn't align with my life goals and aspirations as I dream to become enormously Rich due to my Keen Desire to cater for the needs of Humanity.
When I talk my Great Dreams in her ears and how we should be a Blessing to our Generation, she reacts like it's too big to be achieved. Of course, she loved me absolutely. But the 2 Great things that gives me reasons to live is been the major differences between us.

I stayed in the relationship for that long for 2 reasons. (i). cos of sympathy that she loved me and she'll feel heartbroken. (ii). I mumuisticly thought I could change her, I was wrong.


One of my loyal female customers who got me more jobs and referred me to more customers in Lagos caught my attention with her charitable efforts. I praised her efforts and my admiration for her works. We started relating from there until we both discover we best compliment each other.

Ever since myself and the said lady got close, my sense of reasoning have exploded. She helped me get better in every areas of my life. She helped me expand and multiply my keen desire for success. Her presence in my life gave me a better understanding of my Purpose on this plane. I asked her out last week and she inclined.

Then I thought I can't double date. Without giving it much thoughts, I brokeup with my ex girlfriend today. She was shocked and in tears. But then, man don't give a fvck cos my future and life Purpose are what means the most to me.


If your current mate isn't giving you what you deserve and peradventure you met someone of your heart, kill sympathy and guilt, just let the relationship slide.

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Re: Just Let It Slide by jawalis(m): 8:45pm On Feb 05, 2021
Get the Fvck off bro.
All these sugarcoated words just because you met a new lady and broke up with the one you are currently dating. And suddenly you realize you can’t continue with her just for some silly reasons you gave up there. Your eye go clear when your new so called charitable and ambitious b!tch dump your sorry asss. You’ll realize you lost a gold in search of stone.

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Re: Just Let It Slide by padi94(m): 8:53pm On Feb 05, 2021
Simp, whose eyes just opened
Re: Just Let It Slide by Aliii(m): 8:54pm On Feb 05, 2021
Bro sorry you are an idiot ,you are giving silly excuses just because you meet a diff girl ,with your write up you never love her in eternity, she deserve better, I thank God for her life from the liberation of your selfish love.. May God heal her .may she never find a man like you again .

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Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 9:17pm On Feb 05, 2021
jawalis:
Get the Fvck off bro.
All these sugarcoated words just because you met a new lady and broke up with the one you are currently dating. And suddenly you realize you can’t continue with her just for some silly reasons you gave up there. Your eye go clear when your new so called charitable and ambitious b!tch dump your sorry asss. You’ll realize you lost a gold in search of stone.


Now read carefully child.

Ain't afraid being dumped by a vagina person and never will I feel sorry for myself if Kiki Osinbajo dated me and decide to let go. I don't attach emotions to things that might slip off.

If at the end of the day, myself and my new girlfriend brokeup for some reasons unknown to me now... myself and her would have become better humans that we were before we met.

I'm a goal getter. Ain't gat no time for nonsense emotions.

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Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 9:21pm On Feb 05, 2021
padi94:
Simp, whose eyes just opened

Only children plays love in this age and time.

Ain't get time for shitty display of love and affections. I'm all about the money, dive many more pussies and give back to society.
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 9:26pm On Feb 05, 2021
Aliii:
Bro sorry you are an idiot ,you are giving silly excuses just because you meet a diff girl ,with your write up you never love her in eternity, she deserve better, I thank God for her life from the liberation of your selfish love.. May God heal her .may she never find a man like you again .


grin
I can see childish emotions all over your submission. But then, he who is to make it to the top of the ladder of success must master his own emotions where he make bold decisions that'll uplift him forever.

Worshipping your emotions won't bear you so many goods. Your emotions should be your servant, not the other way round.
Re: Just Let It Slide by TypicallyBrunt(m): 11:07pm On Feb 05, 2021
Great.
So should we dance or what?
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 11:16pm On Feb 05, 2021
TypicallyBrunt:
Great.
So should we dance or what?

Dig the Earth with your bear hands.

Re: Just Let It Slide by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:30pm On Feb 05, 2021
SouthNigerian:


Only children plays love in this age and time.

Ain't get time for shitty display of love and affections. I'm all about the money, dive many more pussies and give back to society.

I get your logic my guy, am equally not much of an emotional creature, but reading your narratives give me two thoughts.

1. Having to ask a girl out while you were in a relationship, that ain't cool bro. End things before you begin new ones.

2. I have been in your shoes before now, but one thing I have realized is that when a lady truly loves you, she will make changes to please you, equally I never knew the growth plan both of you had while dating, a relationship is a platform for growth by that I mean she seeing your aspirations on a piece of paper and seeing where she could fit in and same goes to her aspirations for you as well. And making the necessary changes to accommodate those aspirations.


When people lack drive in life, it has to do with their growing up process and temperament coupled with believe system, two years is too early to write her off on that if you have diligently worked together to push her off the her comfort zone.


Now practically speaking ambitious men like you and a host of us need offsetters, by that I don't mean people without drive, but people who are more contemplative on issues.

Well na you know how e do you and Calling things off may seem best but I hope you exhausted your options with your ex, not to change her, you can't change someone without their consent. All the best.

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Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 11:39pm On Feb 05, 2021
Yusufisraelj:


I get your logic my guy, am equally not much of an emotional creature, but reading your narratives give me two thoughts.

1. Having to ask a girl out while you were in a relationship, that ain't cool bro. End things before you begin new ones.

2. I have been in your shoes before now, but one thing I have realized is that when a lady truly loves you, she will make changes to please you, equally I never knew the growth plan both of you had while dating, a relationship is a platform for growth by that I mean she seeing your aspirations on a piece of paper and seeing where she could fit in and same goes to her aspirations for you as well. And making the necessary changes to accommodate those aspirations.


When people lack drive in life, it has to do with their growing up process and temperament coupled with believe system, two years is too early to write her off on that if you have diligently worked together to push her off the her comfort zone.


Now practically speaking ambitious men like you and a host of us need offsetters, by that I don't mean people without drive, but people who are more contemplative on issues.

Well na you know how e do you and Calling things off may seem best but I hope you exhausted your options with your ex, not to change her, you can't change someone without their consent. All the best.

Your reply is born out of Great Intelligence.

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Re: Just Let It Slide by TypicallyBrunt(m): 11:39pm On Feb 05, 2021
SouthNigerian:


Dig the Earth with your bear hands.

'Bear Hands' - Nice group
You must like rock �
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 11:44pm On Feb 05, 2021
TypicallyBrunt:


'Bear Hands' - Nice group
You must like rock �

gringringrin

You must be on cheap drugs from Wuhan.

Re: Just Let It Slide by gideon66045: 6:02am On Feb 06, 2021
Great.So should we dance or what?
Re: Just Let It Slide by Nobody: 7:25am On Feb 06, 2021
You belong to the Streets
Re: Just Let It Slide by SavageBoy: 8:49am On Feb 06, 2021
Mr goal-getter the thing go surely end in tears for youundecided
Re: Just Let It Slide by luminouz(m): 8:59am On Feb 06, 2021
Jawalis and Alii....

Why are you guys pained

Surely,it's painful to the girl but it's OP's choice.
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 12:33am On Feb 09, 2021
gideon66045:
Great.So should we dance or what?

Re: Just Let It Slide by Jirehz(m): 12:41am On Feb 09, 2021
You are an African man cool

YOU’LL SOON BREAKUP WITH THE NEW LADY FOR BEING OVER AMBITIOUS grin






We await the story! grin
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 12:49am On Feb 09, 2021
cchub:
You belong to the Streets

Yeah! I'm street. So?
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 12:51am On Feb 09, 2021
Jirehz:
You are an African man cool

YOU’LL SOON BREAKUP WITH THE NEW LADY FOR BEING OVER AMBITIOUS grin






We await the story! grin

Lol... grin

I've mastered my emotions such that nothing breaks my heart anymore.

Modified.

Myself and my new gf is got qualities that compliment us really well. She's got the connections I nees while me got the ideas she's lacking.

Even when we break up in the future (cos marriage is not really my thing), we'll both be thankful our time together wasn't a waste.
Re: Just Let It Slide by SouthNigerian: 1:01am On Feb 09, 2021
luminouz:
Jawalis and Alii....

Why are you guys pained

Surely,it's painful to the girl but it's OP's choice.


Eep me an hask o. grin his eat there break hop?

Breaking up with my ex is an opportunity for her to find a man of her class, cos I don't belong to the same class as hers.

If I fail to let her go now, I'll do it in the future when it will be tougher for her to find a man of her heart. After all, she's damn hot and endowed.
Re: Just Let It Slide by luminouz(m): 7:51pm On Feb 09, 2021
SouthNigerian:


Eep me an hask o. grin his eat there break hop?

Breaking up with my ex is an opportunity for her to find a man of her class, cos I don't belong to the same class as hers.

If I fail to let her go now, I'll do it in the future when it will be tougher for her to find a man of her heart. After all, she's damn hot and endowed.
Good point

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