Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for NYSC on Abuja 2017. Unfortunately for me, I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bonded till one day she asked to know where I stay in Abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place....

One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rushed down to Apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. She didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after NYSC and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée has an event to attend in Yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her.

A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar (venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me.

But you slept with her or you raped her You didn't think of that before you accommodated her alone in the house, who does that? Who be the mumu lady self Your friend want to kill you because of public toilet All of you are I just pity the useless goat sleeping with two friends, haba! Wonders shall never cease It's a matter of time, your friend will soon come down if she never used juju on him. Go far away from your friend's area for now.

When it comes to rape no one believes the male , sorry about that and as for your bestie he is a pussy why kill over a girl

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

Maybe she got pregnant and had to lie about the rape
But u Bleep up sha, if your no is no u won't be looking for our advise.
One thing that keeps me going is I am never close or friendly with brothers or friends girlfriend. E not dey reach gist at all.

Well as it Don happen now u don't have evidence to refute the fact that she lied about the rape. But asking your sister to come around is a little defence because she did not stay all through, also if you have chat evidence it will help.

God help u, next time keep your penis u not go die, worst-case carry one babe to act as your girl for period she will be around. U were no serious about not wanting to touch her, the thing hungry u n u not get control

If you still have the your chats with her, you can start from there

Big issue already... You can't explain things to your OG right now... Because you broke the bro code already....... Unblock the girl in question. Chat her up and ensure your conversation are straight and honest about happenings when she came visiting/stayed at your home.... This will serve as your defence and maybe evidence as the case unfolds...nothing you can do right now.... Get GBwhatsapp activate message invoke... So she can't chat and delete her conversation... I hope you clear yourself finally.... Be security conscious now.... Hope you understand.... If you lusgard.... Sorry...

From now on, you will learn to maintain your ground on some issues, you should have told your friend that you where out of town when he asked you to accommodate his fiancee, if really you wanted to avoid all these mess, just trap the babe on WhatsApp, make sure you are still having her nudes intact, that one alone will make your guy to believe you.

I suspect
Babe:please no, I am your friends fiancee
Guy:No worries he won't catch us unless you tell him
Babe:please no
Guy:you know how we were then na, if he did not date u I would have dated u
Babe:but but stop na uhh Ahhh unnnn

You still have the guts to call the idiot your best friend...Too many peeps with different problems sha ...My own sef dey my body ...

Penis has put this one in trouble.

Just pray very hard for your sake that this your problem won't end in Weeping and gnashing of Teeth for you

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Let me laugh first before anything

First

If what u said is true
Then you are a fool and also wise
You chop ur friends babe and u no tell him say he wan marry ashawo bro u no dey smart


The girls was the person that set u up because she thought u blocking her will blow her bubble so she acted faster and smarter than you


Secondly
God will punish you for chopping that girl like mad dog

Deceiving her with ur small car , I doubt if this Girl is not from nnewi or closer village


Solution

Bro this is why u hustle for money get contact of a well respected person in ur village buy him expensive gift and pay him a visit tell him ur story and watch how this case will be gone


I mean person with money and respected in ur community

Until then fear pussy it is better to be caught self raping ur self aka shampoo,vaseline crew than be accused by a woman of a rape na only God go save u here if care is not taking and also avoid village for 2years coz of ur life ur friend might be planning other things

Na the guy wey allow his girlfriend to stay alone with you mumu pass..

Mumu trust.. As long as they are not siblings, things are always likely to happen between boy and girl staying alone..

Let your NO be NO.

Infact there are some calls you should not pick. The guy used you to get a place comfortable for his girl to sleep and still wants to kill you for his stupidity.

I once purchased a goat and placed it in my car boot compartment along with some yams. I remember what I saw when I got home even with the turbulence of the car and the goat being unable to stand up in a sedan boot.

Don't allow people use you. Learn how to ignore some phone calls. No is No.

She accused you of rape? What an heinous crime. And now you don't have any evidence against that. SMH.

See if your whatsapp chat with the lady can help you out.

And you are a violent person, right? Show me your friend....... A man tryna kill a friend cuz of a gal. SMH. You could be dead now you know and your friend in jail all cuz of a daughter of jezebel who's been f****** other strangers while claiming to be your friends fiancee and would continue to after you both gon. Call your sissy of a friend and help make a man out of him with very hurtful and abusive words. Goodluck

She has been a fiancee since 2016 till now, okay naa. Your mistake was sleeping with the daughter of Jezebel because all they do is set guys up with one another. The deed has been done and the friendship has been broken between your friend and you. Your friend is a simp to have believed the olosho's version even before hearing your own side of the story though it is equally ugly. Just make sure your lawyer gets him to sign undertaking that he will never harm you and as for your friendship, forget it and move on.

Your OG is actually a fool, simp and a imp.
You mean he intend spending the rest of his life in chains all because a hoe has his mumu button. I don't know why some guys fall for emotional blackmail without listening to the other party side of the story..
Well I don't blame him.. he stays in the village and hasn't experience civility..
From experience, I've learnt to always expect the worse when in a relationship.. so nothing will ever surprise me.. even if she fvck the whole community, I'll simply let her go and move on with my life..

elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

Mumu learn to read..see as u Dey rant o top story when fit be fake..if you like go kill another man cos of Toto na tears go end ham for you

bugatti02:
Big issue already... You can't explain things to your OG right now... Because you broke the bro code already....... Unblock the girl in question. Chat her up and ensure your conversation are straight and honest about happenings when she came visiting/stayed at your home.... This will serve as your defence and maybe evidence as the case unfolds...nothing you can do right now.... Get GBwhatsapp activate message invoke... So she can't chat and delete her conversation... I hope you clear yourself finally.... Be security conscious now.... Hope you understand.... If you lusgard.... Sorry...

Nor be only bro code na sis equation..if na me be the op I go find the gal fvck her again record video send give the idiot when want kill me on top Toto

Guys don't use the word 'bestie'

elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

what about the fiancée? even the Op fúcked up



you sex the girl because you want to, if you don't want to, you could have recorded the scene and send to your friend and use that as the reason her fiance can no longer stay with you


hiding her manipulative drama from your friend will surely put the lady on great advantage over your explanations


the only thing you can do now even though it won't change the fact that you sleep with the lady, is to get evidence of chats and the nude she sent then meet a trusted sibling of your friend and explained to him, this is just for your own security

But Bro @ d first ecounter, u suppose don let ur bestfriend knw abt dat Girl issue and her advancement towards you. See as u just fall into d trap. But all is well, i thing to do nw is to pray, pray make she receive open disgrace wer go reaveal evry tin wer happen in secret. Nah dat time u bestfriend go believe u.

Read what u wrote slowly, this time exchange roles. Be ur bestie, and ur bestie, U....hope u see how painful it is, hoe or not.

Ur bestie get time, when he 4 call ur name 4 one strong shrine den allow the gods do justice.

U don't deserve any good!

Record whatever you guys discuss from now on. You have to call her

Mr man you have no case show them the nude pictures the gal use to send to you only if you have not delecte them and you will that they will b the one to beg you

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

o since u said she sent u nudes, use that against her, send the nudes and chat u both have to your friend and tell him she seduced you

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

I understand how desperate some women can be but you messed up. Why didn't you threaten to call her boyfriend when she locked you up and said you must kiss her before leaving? When she was making advances at you in your own house, why didn't you lay down ground rules...something like "If you don't behave yourself, I would throw you out"? When she started sending you nudes and explicit chat, why didn't you save them up on your phone for posterity sake (such as this one). To be honest with you, if you had tamed this girl's excesses right from when you were serving, all these wouldn't have happened. You were a worthy target because she perceived you as being weak.



Do you still have the chats and nudes she sent to you? Forward them to her boyfriend for starts. Then let your lawyer handle the situation. Learn your lessons from this experience.

bugatti02:
Big issue already... You can't explain things to your OG right now... Because you broke the bro code already....... Unblock the girl in question. Chat her up and ensure your conversation are straight and honest about happenings when she came visiting/stayed at your home.... This will serve as your defence and maybe evidence as the case unfolds...nothing you can do right now.... Get GBwhatsapp activate message invoke... So she can't chat and delete her conversation... I hope you clear yourself finally.... Be security conscious now.... Hope you understand.... If you lusgard.... Sorry...

In addition to this, op, when chatting with this girl, make it look as if you still have your past chats (the xrated chats and nudes) that would make her conform to your tone. Don't dull on this one oh as that is your only ticket at vindicating yourself.

bro code broken...

you should have told ur OG about the hoe he intends settling with...
ur OG is a pussy for tryna kill his fellow niqqa coz of these vagina people

Freestainworld:
From now on, you will learn to maintain your ground on some issues, you should have told your friend that you where out of town when he asked you to accommodate his fiancee, if really you wanted to avoid all these mess, just trap the babe on WhatsApp, make sure you are still having her nudes intact, that one alone will make your guy to believe you.

I don't think op has the nudes. If that was the case, then this issue would have long been forgotten.