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Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Nobody: 10:08am On Feb 07, 2021 |
chumaZ: Hahaha, u claimed she seduce u, u never mention to me till u were exposed and now u want a meeting, bastard soul what u sow is what u go reap. Upload whatever u want, I don make up my mind on how 2 handle did issue. It was a privilege being ur friend abi ![]() Ruggedboy01 |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by LadySarah: 10:12am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Offorken: lol. That's what she told you? I won't say what's on my mind. At this point, I bow out.Just read #1 of the wife's lies,you will understand what your girl just did . https://www.nairaland.com/5587753/tired-marriage-want-out#85013934 My humble submission, allow a neutral 4th party handle this issue or the police force. The truth will be unveiled. Unbridled and unrestrained passion has led Chumaz into a problem, Offor Kennedy is still hurting. Chumaz, apologize profusely and let the investigation go on. Apuom! 2 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by rs172(m): 10:12am On Feb 07, 2021 |
chumaZ: Hey bro, I understand your plight, make sure you keep all evidence of your chat with the said lady, also don’t go violent with your friend, be careful with yourself, avoid picking calls from numbers you don’t know or chatting with unknown person, safeguard yourself until this issue is sorted out. The only mistake you made was blocking that girl, you could have ignored her and sent all your chats to your friend, to let him know the kinda relationship is in. 2 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Joanney: 10:16am On Feb 07, 2021 |
But how can someone be a fiancee for more than 4 years?That's the part am concerned about.And Chumaz if you still have the nudes and screenshots of the chat,then there's nothing to worry about. 1 Like |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Ishilove: 10:17am On Feb 07, 2021 |
ChumaZ, which yeye name are you trying to clear? The only thing you're innocent of here is the rape accusation, but the rest? You're guilty and complicit. You came here to put all the blame on the girl but see ehn, the worst kind of deception is self deception. It is destructive. When you kissed her the first time, your brain could not minister to your wayward preek that this girl is trouble, but no, you still went ahead to host her for a full week and now you are here crying. When your preek was erect your body was doing you goingoin, but after cumming your body don come down waaaaaaaaaa, eye come clear. You are very irresponsible. Anyway, it has happened. Like most people have said, use the available chats and photos with you as evidence of mutually agreed, not coerced nacking as she accused you of. 9 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by ruggedboy01: 10:19am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Offorken: no no no, none of you should mention me in this public of shame, if the offline disgrace is not enough, you both are wrong so I am not taking any side. I only called your attention to this thread so you hear his own side of the story, I am not saying he's right but you're going about this the wrong way, if you have given him audience, I don't think he'll bring this topic here, as for you chima call me and forget about the lawyer nonsense, don't waste money over this issue... Peace fall on you people, I won't reply any mention here again... One love brothers 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Joanney: 10:20am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Offorken:You should thank him for saving you from that LovePeddler. 2 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Nemesis0147(m): 10:23am On Feb 07, 2021 |
elipheleh:oga behave!you know op from somewhere? 4 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by yetunsbay(m): 10:30am On Feb 07, 2021 |
The only mistake was that you should have stood your ground of not accommodating 5 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by chumaZ(m): 10:30am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Offorken: Oga you have push to wall, not after making attempt on my life, so whatever I say to you, you caused it. Besides you have created enmity between our families knowing fully well we attend the same church and from the same community. Now the fight have been extended to our families, are you happy now, yet you still want me to be cool, Never. Michael is even aware of this, means you have told the whole anambra state what's up.. I wish you well bro 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by ikbnice(m): 10:45am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Your friend trusted you and you fvcked up. There are some boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. If one of our best friends just mention say she likes a girl, everyone else steps down among us. Not to talk of havin sex with her and you still claim he's your friend. Me and one of my best friends are roomies in school, his gf had issues where she stay and she came to stay with us towards the end of semester. Na me and the girl resumed for the next semester while my friend resumed after a month because of certain issues. I no dey follow her play any useless play and I let her know say na bcux of my friend I indulge her. You don't snitch on best friends and you MUST never break thier trust. True friends are rare to find, you just confirmed it. 17 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by purples25(f): 10:50am On Feb 07, 2021 |
I kinda want to support you on this, cuz I've almost been in this kind of trouble before. These relationship people, if their relationship is getting boring, they start pushing their partner of the opposite sex on their friends. Its better to avoid couples that are always sending you to their significant other, or causing you to be around their significant other. They are looking for a factor of chaos in their relationship, to spice it up, and they want to make that person to be you. The annoying thing is that he kept sending you to that girl. He also forced you to take her in, when he should be respectfully and decently keeping her away from the opposite sex. What's the point of pushing her to you, who is a guy, is he showing her off to you? And you didn't even want to be close to her in the first place. Now they put their wahala on you. Well, I wish you luck in extradicting yourself if you are innocent. As for me, i can nearly slap any girl that brings her boyfriend close to me and keeps trying to keep me around her guy. 5 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Nemesis0147(m): 10:51am On Feb 07, 2021 |
chumaZ:sue that girl if you have enough evidence!! Just imagine!! 1 Like |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by SouthSouth1914: 10:53am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Soulmender: This guy is unrepentant and a wicked friend! The lady stayed with him for one week, obviously she must have been giving passes at him. He could have called his friend back home telling him about his fiancee’s advances! Besides, this is his own side of the story and we all shouldn’t believe him. There are always 3 sides to a story. 3 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by SpiritFree: 11:02am On Feb 07, 2021 |
You raped her, as long as she didn't give full consent. From all indications you persuaded her to have sex in your apartment. See how kpekus wan lead you to early grave? If the girl truly sent nudes to you on several occasions, she wouldn't be bold enough to say you raped her if you didn't. Fake friend! You put yourself in this mess, leave us out of it. |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by mosdii(m): 11:05am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 6 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 11:09am On Feb 07, 2021 |
This sitn is really a messy One. Offorken u really need to calm down. I understand how angry and disappointed u re cos ur friend failed u. OP meseed up by breaking bro code truly but ur reaction by stabbing him was too much. Trust me if he had died at the scene where u stabbed him, beliv me u wld be rotting in jail currently and d girl u re fighting for would move on with her life. Though I understand dt ur reaction must ve been based on what ur fiancee told u and perhaps d narration dt he raped her. ChumaZ has narrated his' own side of d story. I wld want u to think it thru if truly he was reluctant having Ur fiancee in his' apartment and if he made effort to provide alternatives. If truly he did, u may want to think it all over again and try to reason it out if ur fiancee was truly d 1st person dt made advances to him or d sex was a consentual sex and not a rape thing. If so, ur only anger shld b dt he broke bro code and trust me if dt is it u shld b happy u didn't end up with a cheap LovePeddler. U may not be able to rekindle ur friendship but learn to mge ur anger and a woman shld not be d reason u will end ur life in a prison. My little cent 9 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by SouthSouth1914: 11:11am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Juliearth: The OP is a wicked human being. He must have been eyeing his friend’s fiancée from the start. He doesn’t have any nude of the girl in question. He just made that up. From his story, you would deduce that he is lying from the start to paint himself in a good light. He said he invited someone over to stay with him for 1 week and the person mysteriously left because of some reasons whatsoever! Does it mean the OP don’t have a girlfriend? When his friend’s fiancée is giving him green light, can’t he call his friend to let him know about the situation? In cases like this, can’t the OP leave the house and stay out for a few days? Couple of days ago, a friend’s girlfriend came to my place to spend the night without him, my house is very big but I had to leave to sleep in a hotel for the night. I don’t want to hear stories that touch! Everything the OP did was intentional and he needs to apologize sincerely to his friend if he gives him the chance. Most of you blaming the OP’s friend do not know anything about trust! Sleeping with someone’s fiancée is like sleeping with someone’s wife!! 14 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 11:22am On Feb 07, 2021 |
SouthSouth1914: It's like u know something we don't know or u ve something against the OP. He has narrated his' side of d story and u kept on hammering he did intentionally Was he d one dt invited d friends fiancee? Did he not provide alternative? Did he not suggest dt his friend shld gt an hotel for her? Wld he ve done dt if he had sinister motive? If he invite my sister to my house and so. Etching suddenly comes up dt she needs to attend to wld I ve tied her down? What if he couldn't afford to lodge in an hotel at dt time? See ehn dre re many things attached to dis story. Give everybody benefit of doubt 8 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Xxx123xxx(m): 11:24am On Feb 07, 2021 |
chumaZ:..Go and suffer the repercussions of you stoopid action , even you FAM no believe you na me go come waste my advice on you. You deserve whatever you get go and sin some more. |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Xxx123xxx(m): 11:30am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Orlaoluwayimika:. Look his benefit of doubt ends after kissing the gal after that he is guilty as charged...He could have cleared his OG about the girls actions with him vis-à-vis evidence to be on the safe side but he chose to hang himself. 3 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by SouthSouth1914: 11:37am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Orlaoluwayimika: Was he d one dt invited d friends fiancee? These are flimsy excuses! What about dignity and trust, friendship? Maybe someday you will understand. Just an example! This is like sending money to your uncle abroad to buy a car for you, and he says he spent the money paying his rent! How would you react to this? 3 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by tnerro1(m): 11:38am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Op na wa for you, the Bible says flee from temptation not avoid or manage temptation. If a lady way sabi says she will get you to sleep with her and you don’t want to, my brother just run sharp sharp, no Dey there dey form strong head say e no go happen. Fear women, you know how many boys don die because of woman, you know how many guys don broke because of woman? Respect and fear them oooo 1 Like |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by heniford2: 11:39am On Feb 07, 2021 |
elipheleh:true talk bro buh hm d reason hw u go react based on if hm tell you |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by chumaZ(m): 11:46am On Feb 07, 2021 |
I might not be able to reply all the quotes here, but the truth is my friend Kennedy is here, let him narrate his own side of the story and that of his fiancée. I have no reason to lie and ye all condemning me are no saint.... I never broke any bro code, I wanted him to figure out himself because I don't think I am the only guy she's cheating on him with because I stay with this girl for a whole year in abuja, I didn't want to look like a relationship destroyer till the whole stuff escalated. Noted if I had opened up to him, he would have still believed his girl over me, Kennedy you girl is a manipulator I don't owe you any apology not after making an attempt on my life... Meanwhile I am not the only one she made advances to, just that our friends involved don't wanna be involved in all this.... If you ever carry out your threat towards anyone related to me, heaven will let loose 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 11:47am On Feb 07, 2021 |
SouthSouth1914: No doubt OP failed his' friend and breached friendly trust. But d narration dt it was intentional was what I was trying to talk about and d narration that he raped her. Rape ain't small thing to take with levity. It's a big stain that kill one's career and reputation. If the sex was a consentual sex then both OP and the friend's fiancee are at fault. Both of them shld share d blame 1 Like |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Bola146(f): 11:48am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Help2020: I said all of them are mumu! Morons ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by AmazingELixir: 11:49am On Feb 07, 2021 |
elipheleh: ![]() ![]() ![]() What kind of a human_beans are you..? 2 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 11:53am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Xxx123xxx: Trust me his' friend won't ve believed him. The fiancee cld ve claimed he made the 1st move or perhaps forced her just like she has jst claimed he raped her. 6 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by ruggedboy01: 11:54am On Feb 07, 2021 |
chumaZ: guy I am so disappointed with you bringing this up here and still went ahead exchanging words. Are you trying to create more problems... Oh! you want to get other people involved in this mess so you can prove a point, be guided what you say here, you should be feeling remorseful for what you did, I am not saying ken is right but you two should act matured 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Pro125made: 11:54am On Feb 07, 2021 |
The friend has mind sha. I can’t even send my fiancé to stay with a male family member, talkless of with a friend. 7 Likes |
Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:00pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
This is how they would have killed you because of a girl who doesn't know the difference between her fiance and his best friend. I hope after this you will learn self control and discipline. You can't go sleeping with everything in skirt. Now they are judging you based on the way yius lived back in school. Which they are not wrong cos from all indications you have not changed. What you have to do now is to unblock her. Chat her up and pray she doesn't black you. Don't be hash so that she won't block you. Make sure you get something to use as a prove of innocence. Pray you come out from this one, repent and stay away from other people's women. 3 Likes |
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