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Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 7:05pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
This is a conversation I had a while back. This gist is this, I only want 2 KIDS, just 2 KIDS. I dont care about the gender, 2 girls, 2 boys, a boy and girl or a set of twins but it must be 2. So I told my partner from the start when we started dating and we both agreed just 2 and she keyed into it. Some few weeks after she was like 'what if its 2 girls?'. I was like we agreed on 2 kids and that gender was not a problem. She was like if its 2 girls can we try for a 3rd child? I told her we already agreed on this at the onset of the relationship. Personally I dont care about a child's gender, same as my nuclear and extended family, and if we dont have one 'it's my fault as a man cause I have the XY chromosomes and not hers'. Seems she wants a Male child if we dont have any after 2 trials, so we havent reached a new conclusion yet. So just incase we cant agree, is this a good reason to leave a partner? Have you had a similar experience? 1 Like |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by EmptyGarden(m): 7:08pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
My broda you don chop belleful true true. 24 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 7:10pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by dawnomike(m): 7:21pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
You guys problem is that you do not have problems... ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by thesicilian: 7:29pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
dawnomike:Lol |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by thesicilian: 7:32pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
dawnomike:Lol. Some things are better discussed beforehand sha 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 7:36pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
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Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by dejio42(m): 7:38pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Make the two of una get sense na,haaa. LET THE CHILDREN COME FIRST BEFORE ALL THIS CHILDISH FORMATION. ARE YOU GOD. Bobrisky PAPA sef do plannings BuT GOD OVER EVERYTHING 12 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 7:42pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
dejio42: So in order words make we no plan for the future? I no be God but I know God supports advance planning. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
She's not smart and she's even wasting her time arguing with you.As long as your erection isn't failing you she supposed to know that she's indirectly the sole decider of how many kids she wants to have, it's just to touch your reckless prick at night and the did is done then she should report you to her parents if you dare ask her to do abortion 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by mascot345: 8:00pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Zzor: u get brain abeg. 15 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 8:07pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Zzor: Lmao. Terrible terrible thoughts. It's not that easy. She self know. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by helinues: 8:31pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
If you guys are already having misunderstanding regarding how many kids and gender while dating, then the future problems could be disastrous 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
She feels like you have a child somewhere that you've not told her about and she also thinks it's a female child. She wants a male child so that he can inherit all your everything when you die(92years). You know African and their over importance for a male child. |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Nazgul: 8:50pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
How old are you op? Cos only teenage boys with no plans for marriage in the next 5-8 years make such childish arguments. ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by addictiv(m): 9:34pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Very Easy.. After 2 kids, do a vasectomy.. God help her if she gets pregnant after .. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 9:42pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Masonkaycares: Lol...I find this funny. I dont have a child anywhere. My family have their wealth, mine is too small compared to theirs, so inheritance of my property by my kids isn't s problem 1 Like |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 9:42pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
helinues: Hmmmmm |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 9:45pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Nazgul: I come from a large family, so too many kids arent my deal, I know first hand the stress involved in it. Mind you, thanks for attacking me o ![]() |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 9:47pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
addictiv: I can't live 50 more years of my life suffering from erectile dysfunction and low libido. Vasectomy can cause that. |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by jimmyolasun: 9:51pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
needanswer: at least have the child first. what if you are sterile ?? have you thought of that too?? 1 Like
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Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 9:53pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
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Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Reex12(m): 10:23pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
una never strt to dey born pikin yet una don dey tear cloth ontop whether e go be girl or boy, 1 or 2 .so childish btw didnt you guys do courtship to discuss these issues so why the fuss |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Run! I have left a guy because of that too. We were discussing and I told him I want only one child and he began to tell how he loves kids and that I should not talk like that cos he wants more than one. I stylishly avoided him and eventually blocked him on all communication medium. Can two walk except they agree? She has just hinted you what She'll do if the two turn out to be girls and such people end up having a battalion in a bid to have a particular sex of baby. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer: 11:25pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
CalliDora1: I thought so too...hmmm |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by 444croopy(m): 2:45am On Feb 11, 2021 |
Man proposes God laughs |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Bola146(f): 4:15am On Feb 11, 2021 |
No, I can't. But only God knows tomorrow. |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by femi4: 5:53am On Feb 11, 2021 |
needanswer:Not a good reason . Mind you, the third one will come when both of you least expect it. |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Ahmad62(m): 6:15am On Feb 11, 2021 |
She's more sensible than you... I'll always strive hard to get a male child no matter how many Female children I have.... Even if it means adding another wife.... Yes I'm that Desperate! 1 Like |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by Nobody: 6:20am On Feb 11, 2021 |
As a man, no. If my wife wants less children than I do, I will just marry a helper for her to complete the required number. Of course, women don't have that option. Since men are (or should be) the ones financing the kids, they should be the ones to set the number needed; because they control the budgetary allocation. |
Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:25am On Feb 11, 2021 |
With her kind of mentality, be ready for 9girls and 2 boy. Na her type go dey met pastors and prophets up and down in search of a male child and Las Las na pastor for father some.of your kids cos some of them might need to anoint her womanhood with their holy walking stick in the name of prayers. 1 Like |
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