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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by cricifixo: 7:28am On Feb 17, 2021 |
No mind am, let him be dragging kitchen in another woman's home payloader: |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by omoola32(m): 7:33am On Feb 17, 2021 |
That's her house bro, you either respect her or you leave the house... |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by juniorstar(m): 7:34am On Feb 17, 2021 |
yes she does! |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 7:40am On Feb 17, 2021 |
ibkayee: See jamb question, abeg for what reason do people go n squat, if there is money to get her own place and setup will she be managing under them and be fighting over who cooks in the kitchen or who owns the pot, somethings are so downgrading and it all boils down to a poor mindset. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by freshboi88: 7:40am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Question no 1 is asking is the food stuffs u cooked, did u buy it yourself or u used the general house foodstuffs for your guest without permission from madam of the house? If u did, go and apologize to her n your brother. She doesn't hate u, she is prolly just tired of your disrespect... She is not an enemy, she is supposed to be a friend. My elder brothers wife, not like we r talking buddies but we have a very cordial relationship. Cos I respect myself n respect her when I visit their house. When she is cooking, I will go and ask her, how can I help out. She will now day ahn, brother no!...don't do anything it is fine. As she serves my brother food, she also serves mine. Plus I don't live in her house, I just go visiting. Pack to your own house bro for respect |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Angelawhite(m): 7:41am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Right now, I have 3 sister in-laws. All have their unique boundaries. It only took little interaction with them to understand their boundaries. My first in-law (wife of our most senior brother) is like my blood sister. I could enter her kitchen and literarily any part of the house with little to no constraint. I would go to the market, shop for her and when she’s too busy, I’d cook for her. In fact, you would think we’re siblings. My 2 other in-laws are the exact opposite. I understand their boundaries and don’t have to interfere with them and everyone lives peacefully. I wouldn’t dare enter the kitchen, not necessarily because they’d object but more because I personally don’t feel free doing so. Life is easy if you make an extra effort to study the people around you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Lordbinsmar: 7:41am On Feb 17, 2021 |
franchasng: I swear I can't relate to this kitchen palava. Kitchen naa shrine ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Lexusgs430: 7:41am On Feb 17, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: Because men like you have refused to marry them..... Not cutting of families, but respect your space and their space..... From the way he spoke, his sense of entitlement is massive........ Widows got no right to suffer, if their husband's put his house in order....... So blame the clueless husband's..... He waits for his own life to happen, when his brother is not a bachelor.......... So if his life never happens, he becomes a lifetime pest and pet........ |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Osashalom: 7:41am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:Before I comment I want to ask you a question first. Are you the one that created a thread two days ago that you came back from travel and met your brother and his wife having sex in your room and you were angry because the wife didn't wash the bedsheets? If yes, I am not surprised, your days in that house were numbered because you sounded too petty. Back to the present matter, you said you and your brother laboured for everything he has, to me this is where your problem started from. You arrogated too much relevance to yourself in people's home . I think the wife is trying to cut you to size, before you also start claiming that you also laboured for her acquisition too. However evicting you is your brother's role maybe she feels your brother is not Manning up enough on this matter. 3 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by IAMPEDRO: 7:45am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:You self get small sense you dey stay with your brother, you come carry friend come house cook chop together for woman present, you no know say no be all women fit take that kind thing. For the woman she over reacted, which is not good at all. I see where you say you both struggled together, I don't argue that fact but, you see, now he is married, he is one flesh. I think you have to leave your brother to enjoy his marriage, so you too can enjoy your life. I have stayed with couples, some husbands we give you rules if you are ok with the rules you stay but if it's the other way you go. There was this one that plainly told me, my brother you don't go to the kitchen yourself then after hearing will I still go there? No. if I do go then am only going to cause trouble for the couple. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Geenosko: 7:48am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Nwodosis: Current or savings?? ![]() You hit the nail on the head!? |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ume1000: 7:52am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Katier00:marriage should never separate brothers Before she got married to him he has always been his brother Just imagine the audacity the lady has to send her husband's brother packing That's a boundary you should never cross as a wife Believe me only a simp would pat her on the back for that To me that alone could lead to divorce |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kense88: 7:53am On Feb 17, 2021 |
freetheking:They don't tolerate anything from the husbands family period. As for the op, just look for a new house. You can't stay with them |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chipet67(m): 7:54am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Please get out of the house ASAP |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kense88: 7:57am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Twoclans: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by annyberry: 7:59am On Feb 17, 2021 |
If us story is true,u did nothing wrong jus dat she already had bitterness in her heart for u,who goes into d kitchen should nt b a problem for d fact u give her her maximum respect...i kip wondering y we ladies drag kitchen alot. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by BRATISLAVA: 7:59am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: It is cutting off families. If you only see eat Christmas, you might as well be strangers. If they cannot live with you, they must be strangers. He could be entitled because he says he owns what his brother owns, maybe he's the one who pushed his brother and helped him, so much that a woman got interested in marrying him. You talk as if everyone is destined to become wealthy, if so, why are widows suffering and why are there poor people. Let's be realistic here. People aren't clueless because they couldn't get money in life. Allow him to wait for his life to happen. He can't force things that don't come to him or do you think wheel barrow pushers don't fight for financial freedom, though it may never come? If they die and their widows suffer, they aren't clueless. If his brother doesn't want him, he can leave for him. Everyone is a tenant in the life of another person while they wait for their lives to happen, not always physically. Not everyone is fortunate, no matter how much they struggle. Let's be realistic again. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ume1000: 7:59am On Feb 17, 2021 |
cricifixo:unfortunately my father would never choose a vagina over his own flesh and blood Seeing your post alone makes my blood boils It reminds me of what Joseph suffered in potiphars house You are a disgrace to men worldwide IN FACT IF foolishness COULD BE MEASURED YOU WOULD BE USED AS it's SI UNIT |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ghettogirl18(f): 8:00am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 8:02am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Toks2008: She has no right to throw out her hubby lil sis .... lets stop been foolish because we want to have undenied access to pvssy @ night. You return from work n see your lil sis luggages outside, does that show your wife respect you, does that depict you are in charge of your home. Women will alway want to put a man in the middle, the best way to handle it is prove to both side you own yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ume1000: 8:03am On Feb 17, 2021 |
pocohantas:was he supposed to build an altar to. Worship her These control freakish maniacs called women 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 8:05am On Feb 17, 2021 |
cricifixo: would this guy accept his brother in his house when he get's married - why do people want to over-stay their welcome and think it is an entitlement |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Rebelsquad: 8:05am On Feb 17, 2021 |
bros, no vex but its not your house ooo. marriage is a union. your brother is someone's wife too to answer your question, she can actually throw you out its her house as much as it is her husbands however the intricases of your beef with her is not something we can judge we werent there when it started |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 8:06am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: I am not surprised, you that met abuja gurl within two days we know as you they behave on NL .... i just hope your friends & family stay far away from you when you marry cos your mumu for women is on another level. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by enocholumide: 8:06am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Your brother is the first person to be blamed, followed by you. Your brother knows his wife very well and knows your character, yet he allowed you guys to live under the same roof - thats a mistake. Also he failed to give you the share of your so-called "combined" hustle. And you, you worked all your youth for him, you did not think he ll get married and have children? You should leave their home and make something for yourself instead of fighting on meat and pepper |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by benqo01(m): 8:09am On Feb 17, 2021 |
The question should be can she throw her brother bag out of the house if he did that? Or would she be happy if her husband does the same. I understand the point the op is coming from. And I know the kind of ladies we have now,they don't want to see their husband families around. They cherish their own, and habour hatred against their husband families,Yes Its what am experiencing. She doesn't have the the right to do that only your brother can. Alots of ladies claim to love their husband, and show fake love to the husband families. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by cricifixo: 8:10am On Feb 17, 2021 |
You are the world standard benchmark for stupidity. ume1000: 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ume1000: 8:10am On Feb 17, 2021 |
NotFarFrom:her house because she open leg abi contribute financially to its errections 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by ume1000: 8:14am On Feb 17, 2021 |
SAVAGEBETS:that's how brothers get separated because one of them is a simp whom can't call his wife to order 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by FManager(m): 8:15am On Feb 17, 2021 |
She dey craze be that ooo, tho am happy you did restrain from slapping sense into her dumb head, who does she think she is, na marry dem marry, she has not right to do that and since she could to that to a blood Brother how much the parents. If I be that brother I go firsr beat craze commot for her body next na her Papa house she dey go Once they marry they start to misbehave I don't blame men that are been strong handed to them. Yeye certain Nigerian women. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kense88: 8:16am On Feb 17, 2021 |
aroundtheearth:Are you going to kick your brother out of your house assuming he is still struggling to find his feat in life ? The same brother that has been there for you during your struggling days, just because your married ? Let me tell you something, that same woman would have felt insulted and humiliated, if the brother in law had asked her to serve his visitor. You women are just too difficult to leave with. I will never ever turn my back on my family, who has been there for me all my life, for any lady, whose love and affection is clearly conditional. |
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