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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by pocohantas(f): 9:27am On Feb 17, 2021 |
SegFault: You can very well live in your brother’s house and even access the kitchen, I really do not have issues with that- even though I would rather third parties stay away (and yes, it includes mine!). OP should drop his superiority complex for a start, else she is just starting with him. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by phlame(m): 9:29am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Hotbutt: Wait till U get married before U assume. When U go for marriage class, U would have a better understanding. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 9:30am On Feb 17, 2021 |
pocohantas:Na Nigerian men now, they believe Nigerian women are useless when they are just as useless as them. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Maobichek: 9:35am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Nwodosis: It depends on the family OK, but I have come to realize that most wives that are happy in their homes are those who have good relationship with their in-laws. in my family, we are not super rich but we are comfortable, my mum virtually taught all of us how to cook and everyone can go to the pot but don't take more than one meat except she permitted you. All my brothers, in their houses, I can go to their kitchen and when they come to my house, they are free to go to my kitchen (cos that was how we were trained and our wives understand very well) This issue of women saying that kitchen is their own, no one (wife) tries that in our family. That is why I said: it depends on the family. The only place we don't enter is bedroom but not kitchen, pot, fridge, etc Everyone in my house can cook so we help our women (wives). I say this again, most wives that are happy are those who relates well with their in-laws, pray and strive that everyone is comfortable and kitchen or food won't be an issue, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by favinvest: 9:35am On Feb 17, 2021 |
how old are u first? if u re less than 25yrs based in Nigeria.. it's wrong for the wife to do that... but if u re above 25yrs, she very very right to do that.. because it's very wrong to still b chopping ur brother`s food above 25yrs.. and also it's wrong for any man to b chopping his parent's food above 30yrs oo.. Ladies, can b pardon and understood..but not a man.. try and take responsibility for ur life... ur mates in the western world at 18yrs have already started 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Mom007(f): 9:39am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Entertaining a friend, cooking and serving him in your brother's house, in the presence of his wife...? And you think you have sense? You disrespected yourself, your brother, and your brothers wife. If your friend is hungry, escort him to a restaurant to buy food to eat. See how you just loose guard then you come here to post rubbish. Better go and apologize to that woman and try to do better. She even respected you sef, I would have walked that your hungry visitor out of my house before reporting you to your brother. 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by od501: 9:39am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Nwodosis: Which kin mumu reasoning be this? 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Myself2(m): 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Nwodosis: I agree with you, whether the guy cooked the food himself or not. Whose foodstuff/condiments did he use, whose utensils and kitchen did he use a d with whose permission. From the OP's language, it's obvious he's been taking the sister in law for granted. Watch how he said when the guest left his brother's wife started "ranting'. Can you imagine? I woman waits courteously for your guest to leave before confronting you about your invasion of her kitchen and you say she was ranting', there are so many women who will confronting you even with your friend around. Bia nwokem go rent your own house, then marry your own wife, that way you can go in and out of her kitchen and pot of soup without qualms |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chris51(f): 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Going to cook for your visitor without discussing with your brother's wife, is wrong. It's her home and her kitchen. What you could have done could have been to buy drinks for your visitor. She respected you by not embarrassing you in the presence of your visitor. If you want to entertain visitors, go and rent a place and move out. 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chris51(f): 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by HRMK: 9:43am On Feb 17, 2021 |
YES,SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT BCS ITS HER HOME!UR BRO WULD ONLY OVERRULE HER AT HIS OWN RISK!! |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chris51(f): 9:43am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Maobichek: 9:44am On Feb 17, 2021 |
freetheking: Don't generalize OK, some wives are happy when their husbands can cook and dish out the food. Kitchen is not a wife's birthday right in my own understanding, pls don't relegate women to kitchen, let responsibility be flexible even in the kitchen, thank you. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kennyz247(m): 9:52am On Feb 17, 2021 |
chris51:ur thinking really need updating |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kennyz247(m): 9:57am On Feb 17, 2021 |
this can never happen with a well cultured Yoruba home.....d very day my wife will try such with my blood broda without my permission,den she too must b ready to leave my house before I come back home... what's wrong with my brother going to kitchen,if he feels like cooking for hmself,.... 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by wayodude(m): 10:00am On Feb 17, 2021 |
short answer is yes. sorry my guy. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: keep furmin, no worry poco will be back someday from where we sent her ![]() |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Lexusgs430: 10:02am On Feb 17, 2021 |
MLTR: I am a free giver........ ![]() If Samson could fall for delalia, siena could fall for missmercedes........ Who ayam not to fall for poco........... ![]() |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NikAustine: 10:03am On Feb 17, 2021 |
thymm50:I guess so but others might see it so |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by khia: 10:06am On Feb 17, 2021 |
capitalzero: Yes to all questions asked. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by LawyerEmilord(m): 10:12am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Teleprompter:This is it. Well painted. I think there are many wise and smart people on Nairaland than any other social media. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 17, 2021 |
I'm only here to read what the females have to day |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by bukhety(f): 10:18am On Feb 17, 2021 |
pocohantas:I followed you on nairaland for a reason. May your wisdom never fade! 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Lovelyperson(m): 10:31am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:Woman is the owner of her home If she said u can't stay then leave in peace. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kolade560: 10:32am On Feb 17, 2021 |
How do people feel comfortable living with their married siblings ![]() |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by 24kmagic: 10:48am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Shokoloko: Lol Nah I just want to have free access to the kitchen in the house. I don't joke with my stomach. I cannot be starving when there's foodstuffs and ingredients in the kitchen. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by seanwilliam(m): 10:56am On Feb 17, 2021 |
This might be fake story .. But however if it was real, dem no born any of my brothers’ wives well make she follow me do that rubbish when she is not mad. If she does and my brother was also in support of her , I will block them both and I WILL NEVER forgive them till the day I leave this world .. If my wife does that to my brother ( even if my brother is wrong ), I will send her packing till she comes back to her sense and I go scold my brother too but not in the presence of my wife.. Las las na see finish Dey cause all these things.. me wey be say all my brothers wives Dey kneel down greet me anytime I go there.. most of them even love it if I sleep over ( it might be fake love though ). Op if you and your brother joined hands buy the property then u need to demand your share with force before u leave.. I’m a gentleman but never a fool 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Xandelle: 11:09am On Feb 17, 2021 |
crackhaus: My brother, they still want to remain in the kitchen. Let us help them naa... what's your own naa 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Dagz007(m): 11:15am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Sorry Bro, Your Brother's wife has all the right to send any of your family members that failed to understand privacy and culture out of her �. That house is hers and if she allows you to stay there then you should understand what is called boundary , you don't go to a woman's kitchen to serve your friend without her consent, you goofed their, my brother. If your brother must enjoy his home pls I'll advice you to just stay away since you already know that the woman of the house doesn't like you. Command some respect by staying away and go become equally responsible. May God bless your hustle. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Funkybabee(f): 11:20am On Feb 17, 2021 |
the future of some uncultured generations will be determined based on the comments above some people don't remember the trying times the time you will need the said sister, there is nothing much peace can cost to reign in a family.. just be remembering that one day she will surely go to her husband house to learn and face the law of karma, because what goes around comes around, what we did today is what shall be spoken tomorrow such q guts and authority to send her packing out, oga oooo |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by userlucky: 11:40am On Feb 17, 2021 |
seanwilliam:Small boy thinking,u will still grow. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Do us a favour and save the confession till poco finish are sentence, exclusively coverage to ashewo thread. |
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