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Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:10am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state. Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor. Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me. Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much. I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't. Now my question, how do people get over people so easily? Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended? Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on? The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare. 62 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by madridguy(m): 9:11am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Do you want her back at all cost? 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Saintmary(f): 9:14am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:Be using us to catch cruise 50 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:15am On Feb 18, 2021 |
madridguy: Yes I do 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:17am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Saintmary: Catch Cruise? Wao, unto say I no get work 35 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:18am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Go to her place this weekend,buy big speaker play boys to men,I will do anything for you, kneel in front of her house and sing it with a loud voice with tears in your eyes hold flower for one hand. Scream it loud . Since you want to be an ozuor. She no do mean say she no do again. How else do they say it? Better enter street find another hanty. Bros them plenty outside. Even better ones. 380 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Tenshades(m): 9:24am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Focus on self development and your future. I bliv you won't want to be someone's plan Z or a doormat. You are more than THAT bro. Be a man! 277 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:25am On Feb 18, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: Guy, try to be civil with your response, this is a built up emotion, it's not something to get over easily, maybe you haven't been there, but it can happen to anyone 105 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:26am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Tenshades: Thanks bro 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jonaifame22(m): 9:27am On Feb 18, 2021 |
This things happen bro, my own gf left me since august,although God has kept me very busy as my logistics business is really paying off, but still yet I still think of her alot,eventhough people say she's not my type,but sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants, cheers! 239 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Tenshades(m): 9:32am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Mine happened a week ago when she told me she's confused about marrying me but didn't give any reason. Rather, she was just 'hyping' me about how good I have been, how I have made positive impacts in her life and blah blah blah... I quickly jumped into 'NO CONTACT' rule. Now she has been on my neck with threats trying to make me feel guilty for moving on. The worst thing a man can do is to be a woman's back up plan or a doormat. 338 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Pricelessruby(f): 9:38am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Date someone else 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Tenshades(m): 9:42am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Pricelessruby: I don't think he needs to date any lady for now. It's emotionally disastrous because he will bring in the hurt energy from the previous relationship into the new one. He will keep seeing the face of his ex whenever he's with a new lady unless he takes time to totally forget the said ex. 86 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Saintmary(f): 9:48am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: If you're serious about her, make efforts to see her, then if she refuses, either give her space or get someone else, you will be fine. This is nothing new. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Boxer007(m): 9:53am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: juss go n smoke weed sir! 26 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:54am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Saintmary: I have seen her, tried to persuade her, but she isn't bulging, I ask then, why can't things go the way they should, why can't people be with the ones they so desire, why must there be complications, cause I'm sure no man on earth will love her the way I do, I know it. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by FalseProphet1(m): 9:55am On Feb 18, 2021 |
I you want her back at all cost I can help you, just send me her pictures and I will give her some spiritual command and she shall be yours for life. This I have seen. 25 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:56am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Boxer007: I saw someone asking a question the other day about people who don't smoke or drink, unfortunately, I'm one of them. So I guess nothing to drain the pains away. 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 9:56am On Feb 18, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: Bro, with this your user name? I want to laugh but I can't. 41 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by NaijaBoy213(m): 10:00am On Feb 18, 2021 |
There are over 7 billion women in the world. That's all I hav today. Broke AF, Is there anyone kind enough to help me with 1k. It's been really difficult this period walahi....God bless ❤️ UBA 20 927852 47 7 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by FalseProphet1(m): 10:01am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:Don't be deceived by my username, power exist and I can prove it to you by giving you command over that girl playing with your emotions, the ball is your court. 8 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 10:06am On Feb 18, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: Thanks bro, but I really want her to love me consciously and not by coercion or jujuism 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:09am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Your problem is ONEITIS. Deal with it and be free 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Pricelessruby(f): 10:11am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Ok, if you say so Tenshades: 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Randy100: 10:16am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Go on a fucking spree. You will be fine eventually. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jimmychang: 10:20am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Las las ....maybe she always dreamt of being a pastor's wife ......Have you guys ever discussed this before 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Boxer007(m): 10:53am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: ...bro..smoking weed is good for forgetting problems...I used it any time babe reject me...the other option is juss pay for prostitutes...they will giv u student discount & truss me..they will take u to another planet wiT BJ. PREACH!! 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Dangrace01: 10:56am On Feb 18, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: I hate nairaland I swear 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by willyo(m): 11:11am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Emotional issues are very difficult to counsel someone on... Cos the volume of emotions draining is almost non-understandable by others. My suggestion, "No Pain, No Gain"... "No Guys, No Glory". It's hard but don't ever talk to her again. Bear the pains. It dies with time. 63 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by DirtyGold: 11:24am On Feb 18, 2021 |
It surely hurts but, know that you should never try to be with a woman that doesn't want to be with you. Thrash whatever sweet memories and good sides of her that you're consuming your emotional energy on right now and focus more on her bad sides and exaggerate them to make her less surreal. Infact, imagine that some dude is fuçking her silly each time you think of her and that she's moaning hard too. It will sting at first but, it will get better with time. Whether she What's tha business? 56 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:35am On Feb 18, 2021 |
mosdii: Good to have you back again to spice up our threads. NL romanceland was getting dry. 13 Likes 1 Share |
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