Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Mandela27: 11:36am On Feb 18, 2021 |
mosdii: Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them baba don show again 6 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by mosdii(m): 11:43am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:
Good to have you back again to spice up our threads. NL romanceland was getting dry. The message must be preached Twale baba, respect! 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Powerfly(f): 12:02pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:
I have seen her, tried to persuade her, but she isn't bulging, I ask then, why can't things go the way they should, why can't people be with the ones they so desire, why must there be complications, cause I'm sure no man on earth will love her the way I do, I know it. You sound like a water sign guy. If that girl is an air or fire sign. Just forget about it.. On a serious note.. Just forget it. But if she's a water or earth element sign.. Then there's still hope.. Btw. She can't be a water sign sef. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Saintmary(f): 12:11pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:
I have seen her, tried to persuade her, but she isn't bulging, I ask then, why can't things go the way they should, why can't people be with the ones they so desire, why must there be complications, cause I'm sure no man on earth will love her the way I do, I know it. I can only empathize with you on this,three years is not beans. Please try to find your own balance if she's not cooperating with you. Take time to heal. All will be well. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Dreyton36: 12:11pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
There's no shortcut of moving on from someone you love
The only reason why you have to move on is to remember the fact that a lady who's meant for you can never leave you
If she's meant for you she won't leave , she isn't meant for you so she's gone so move on , yours is coming y'all only had some good memories so knock it off with time man Light up some kpoli like I always do and make money then get yo self a life and you'll see your soulmate come calling for you
Lights up my kpoli in peace 12 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by NobleDeSage001: 12:21pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
An average young man is meant to have at least minimum of two heart breaks before he finally settles down.
A wise man once told me, whenever a girl you cherish and hold dearly to your heart decides to dump you, let her go. Don't ever struggle to hold her back. If she truly belongs to you, she will someday come back to you. But, if she belongs to someone else, she will never come your way again.
One thing you must know is that if you ever beg a girl to marry you, you will forever beg to keep her in the marriage.
Perhaps, your girl does not see any future with you. What plans have you been making for marriage? Three years is more than enough for you to start making plans for marriage. Pull yourself together and move on.
Try as much as possible to forget everything about her. You will see that in a few months time, you will come to the realization that the world does not revolve around your ex girlfriend. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Mpeka(m): 12:27pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
You pinned down someone for three good years; say what happen? The lady is free, also free yourself. Prepare for marriage and then pray to God to show you the right lady for you. Stop playing the slave master. 5 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by NobleDeSage001: 12:31pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
You were smart enough to have beat her to her game before she dumped you.
Anytime your partner starts singing this melody-"you are perfect, you are kind, you are the best, blah! blah!! blah!!!", BUT... Forget it, they are subtly telling you that they are already on the move to jump ship.
If you are a very smart person, catch it early and severe ties. This way, the pain and hurt will be on the person and not you. 8 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by debbydams(f): 12:36pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and feel like she is the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
I feel for u, its not easy but make it easy by letting her go, stop chatting, stop calling her, forget all the good memories u shared together, alot of girls wants u nd they are betta than your ex, what is yours will neva leave u, u dont know what God has done, every disappointment is a blessing, what if u marry her nd she leta kill u ? .I had a breakup sometime ago, I cried asif the world � has end, I went for prayer I was told to leave the guy im dating nd I must not marry him, alot of warning, I got home nd I started thinking � God,, woman � plenty, man � plenty, if no do another one go do.. Move on jor she no deserve your time 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 12:47pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Powerfly:
You sound like a water sign guy. If that girl is an air or fire sign. Just forget about it.. On a serious note.. Just forget it. But if she's a water or earth element sign.. Then there's still hope.. Btw. She can't be a water sign sef. Wait, what's with the air and water sign, please expatiate! |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:49pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
mosdii: Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them I will make sure you get banned again. This time you won't be commenting shit for a very very long time!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by lagusboyyy(m): 12:55pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
I know its hard bro,but you have to move on. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Donkastrow: 12:56pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
Having tried talking things through with yet to no avail, you've just got to learn to live without her. You don't stop loving someone, you only learn to live without them. 7 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by mardis: 1:41pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
She ticked all your boxes, are you sure it is same for her? Because if it is, she wouldn't listen to that young pastor. I am sure you're not ready for marriage sef.
I have a sister who dated a guy for 8yrs, good 8yrs i tell you, right from her diploma days then undergraduate. He loved her very much but they didn't get married. Infact she married a guy they met barely 6month after and they're living fine. She was almost clocking 30 and the lover guy was not ready to settle down. 5 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 1:58pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
mardis: She ticked all your boxes, are you sure it is same for her? Because if it is, she wouldn't listen to that young pastor. I am sure you're not ready for marriage sef.
I have a sister who dated a guy for 8yrs, good 8yrs i tell you, right from her diploma days then undergraduate. He loved her very much but they didn't get married. Infact she married a guy they met barely 6month after and they're living fine. She was almost clocking 30 and the lover guy was not ready to settle down. This is different, she is 23, yet to do her nysc, we could get married next year or after her service year, however she wanted it, if she has moved on as I find it difficult to believe, I need to move on too, but I'm stuck here, that's my issue. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by mardis: 2:33pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:
This is different, she is 23, yet to do her nysc, we could get married next year or after her service year, however she wanted it, if she has moved on as I find it difficult to believe, I need to move on too, but I'm stuck here, that's my issue. Ok if that it is the case, just give her time, avoid all communication with her, block her from all your social media handles. Just avoid anything about her. Then get busy, be friends with people, with time you'll begin to move on. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by JERRY1925(m): 2:53pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
debbydams: I feel for u, its not easy but make it easy by letting her go, stop chatting, stop calling her, forget all the good memories u shared together, alot of girls wants u nd they are betta than your ex, what is yours will neva leave u, u dont know what God has done, every disappointment is a blessing, what if u marry her nd she leta kill u ?
.I had a breakup sometime ago, I cried asif the world � has end, I went for prayer I was told to leave the guy im dating nd I must not marry him, alot of warning, I got home nd I started thinking � God,, woman � plenty, man � plenty, if no do another one go do.. Move on jor she no deserve your time Mehn. A girl did this to me. Called telling me a pastor said ill leave her after 3 years of marriage. I love this girl so much. But she left. Not easy moving on, but am trying. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Erums(m): 3:21pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
Guy.. Bleep some new pussy.. No dey dull |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by debbydams(f): 4:28pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
JERRY1925:
Mehn. A girl did this to me. Called telling me a pastor said ill leave her after 3 years of marriage. I love this girl so much. But she left. Not easy moving on, but am trying.
I understand, its not easy o, me sef I v spent over a year crying ,, las Las I move on.. |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:32pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Move on and let her be.
Just see it as, since she doesn't want to be with you, why would you wanna be with her. Then forget all these talks about ticking all the boxes because she clearly doesn't otherwise she would have ticked the "stay with me forever through thick and thin" box for you. So, stop tormenting yourself and erase her from your memory. If you have to pray about it, pray. Prayer works too.
Finally, stop stalking her. I know you do it. 9 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Powerfly(f): 6:20pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:
Wait, what's with the air and water sign, please expatiate!
Tell me your birthday and month and hers too.. Then i'll explain from there. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 6:26pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Powerfly:
Tell me your birthday and month and hers too.. Then i'll explain from there. I'm april while she is june |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Powerfly(f): 6:31pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20:
I'm april while she is june
April what? June what? |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Killertune20: 6:35pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Powerfly:
April what? June what? April 24th, june ist. |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by DaInferno(m): 6:41pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
hustle and jet out of the country, maka! 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by 400billionman: 6:53pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
Don't you know the effects men of God have on women ? She already thinks she is doing the work of God by marrying the pastor. Women are generally defenseless, when they hear, "The Lord told me," garnished with love stories. They have weak brains.. 12 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by BlessedNuel: 6:55pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Speechless |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by West2019(m): 6:57pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
madridguy: Do you want her back at all cost? hmmmmm |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by stupidmod3: 6:59pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
soo question u think shes banging d pastor also |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Patented: 7:00pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Las las , u go dey ok. It will only take time. Nothing that time cannot heal but sha dey determined to move on no matter as e dey pain u Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Zaraoga: 7:00pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Sorry o |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by AgentGoat: 7:00pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
jonaifame22: This things happen bro, my own gf left me since august,although God has kept me very busy as my logistics business is really paying off, but still yet I still think of her alot,eventhough people say she's not my type,but sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants, cheers! How's she not your type? |