maikbanj Bro abeg no matter wat u shouldn`t have let them tow the car atleast atleast till ur colleague come back frm the store

thatigboman:
Op, u made certain mistakes.
Means the lady left her key. Why did u sit inside a packed car? What if it were bad boys that came. They would have carried u and d car.
Why did u tell her that the task force say u should pay N120k? Are u the one that packed the car? U should have taken her to the station, point her car and hand her over to the task force.
Since u knew she packed wrongly, why didnt pack the car correctly when she left, rather u sat inside the car pressing phone. Wasted ur time and ur money meaninglessly for something that has nothing to do with u.

All the discussion was happening at one side of the station when she came to the station. Anyways, lessons has been learnt

001spice:
maikbanj Bro abeg no matter wat u shouldn`t have let them tow the car atleast atleast till ur colleague come back frm the store

It wasn't towed. I pleaded and even tried tying them down till she comes but she wasted much time. At a point the Police attached with guns came down and said I should hand over the key so they drive the car to the station. I tried my best

[quote author=AishaYesufu post=99556598]Looking at your thread history, you have been having problem with women since 2016.

In March 2016, you were having crush on your cousin
https://www.nairaland.com/3004031/pls-having-crush-cousins-cousin

April 2016, a girl refused to call you but let you do all the calling

https://www.nairaland.com/3036449/what-could#44512113

August 2016, a girl always come to your room

https://www.nairaland.com/3267792/what-being-nice-caused-me
June 2017, you went to a girl's house and another guy came to take her to his room

https://www.nairaland.com/3879937/what-should-girl#57798557

September 2018, a guy was flirting with your GF
https://www.nairaland.com/4734281/what-guy-flirts-girlfriend

December 2019 your guy's girlfriend got married to another man.

Now this...

Obviously, your problem with women is spiritual hahahahahahahahahaha ���������������

maikbanj:

Number 1 lesson in life: Never so depend or feel so relaxed when been assisted especially when you can improvise. It is always much more better paying for services and enjoying the comfort.

2special:
You're the real definition of shame

How is he a definition of shame, explain

candygist:


What advise do you want us to give to you now ?

I wonder ooo.
Does it mean that our youths don't even have their own wisdom any longer.
Every little issue, they will run to social media to seek for advise.
How will a person that doesn't know what to do in a simple situation like dis know what to do in a family complex issues.

Ikjosh04:
Sorry to say but in Broda Shaggi voice "you're a mumu man"

How is he a mumu man

AishaYesufu:
Looking at your thread history, you have been having problem with women since 2016.

In March 2016, you were having crush on your cousin
https://www.nairaland.com/3004031/pls-having-crush-cousins-cousin

April 2016, a girl refused to call you but let you do all the calling

https://www.nairaland.com/3036449/what-could#44512113

August 2016, a girl always come to your room

https://www.nairaland.com/3267792/what-being-nice-caused-me
June 2017, you went to a girl's house and another guy came to take her to his room

https://www.nairaland.com/3879937/what-should-girl#57798557

September 2018, a guy was flirting with your GF
https://www.nairaland.com/4734281/what-guy-flirts-girlfriend

December 2019 your guy's girlfriend got married to another man.

Now this...

Obviously, your problem with women is spiritual

Guy, you be FBI?

Op if joining her to work saves you stress and some quid forget what happened and continue following her home, in no time you will have your own whip to cruise around. Next time try to be more assertive when she's about taking wrong decisions while on the road.

I have a similar one at home her own sasa_sabi nobi here oo and if it goes wrong she blames me for not telling her.

Handling women takes special kind of perseverance. It is not like they are not aware of their excesses they cannot just help themselves it's a DNA thing.

AishaYesufu:
Looking at your thread history, you have been having problem with women since 2016.

In March 2016, you were having crush on your cousin
https://www.nairaland.com/3004031/pls-having-crush-cousins-cousin

April 2016, a girl refused to call you but let you do all the calling

https://www.nairaland.com/3036449/what-could#44512113

August 2016, a girl always come to your room

https://www.nairaland.com/3267792/what-being-nice-caused-me
June 2017, you went to a girl's house and another guy came to take her to his room

https://www.nairaland.com/3879937/what-should-girl#57798557

September 2018, a guy was flirting with your GF
https://www.nairaland.com/4734281/what-guy-flirts-girlfriend

December 2019 your guy's girlfriend got married to another man.

Now this...

Obviously, your problem with women is spiritual

hmmm... "Detective Fash"

Your digging prowess eehn. Hell, you can even help Borno people discover oil in Sambisa with your digging experience.

All these task force are agberos,must they ak
Always deflate tyre,wetin wheel clamp mean. Oh this great day is coming,una wey like to dey show power for tyre. No wohala



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WwUwZ0Fvro

AK481:

One question, if na your car, you go allow them carry am comot for there go station ?

Baba I did my best na... Them wan less tire I no gree. As them call price wey I go pay, Wetin I for negotiate na? A whole 120k? I had to delay dem small but as owner no come I didn't have an option rather than creating a scene in public we had to go to the station. Not my fault

elmagnifico411:
Bros, if I were u, I won't follow that lady again! I'll keep to public transport levels to save my self from being disrespected.

We know their type. They don't take corrections once they're behind the wheels. u dey even try drive the car sef.. me I won't drive it oh, if she like make she use ma jam people.

Well, u don learn, and she don learn too. For one to park in Lagos, one must be very very careful.

But, I no go follow her again. And I go cut the relationship if the husband like make him dey aware. We go talk am over for beer parlour.

Where pesin go come park for this Lagos so?

Fear don even begin catch me to drive for this Lagos sef. Be like na only inside person compound pesin go fit park so

@ poster, so you kept quiet when u could have driven the car away when they came. You'd have said u just packed to make a call and move elsewhere. Seems u have a bad mind and wanted her punished for not obeying ur orders.
Your type of friends are dangerous cos u even contributed after it all.
You are not a nice person.

Traininghub:

I'm sorry for what you had to experience.
If I were in your shoes, I would definitely quit riding with her, I'll forgive her but make she dey her dey with her car and make I dey my dey with either Uber or public transport, I don't have energy for toxic, incorrigible and hot-headed people. However, I will not fail to greet her, if she likes, she responds, otherwise make we both dey our dey.
Do not tell the husband unless he calls to ask what really happened.
Don't worry, God will give you your own car ehn.

He needs to let her husband know what happened and also stop using her car henceforth.

AmazingELixir:
Op if joining her to work saves you stress and some quid forget what happened and continue following her home, in no time you will have your own whip to cruise around. Next time try to be more assertive when she's about taking wrong decisions while on the road.

I have a similar one at home her own sasa_sabi nobi here oo and if it goes wrong she blames me for not telling her.

Handling women takes special kind of perseverance. It is not like they are not aware of their excesses they cannot just help themselves it's a DNA thing.

The woman self. She never listens. Anyways thanks Boss

Save urslf some dignity
Stop entering her car

Sparkle777:
@ poster, so you kept quiet when u could have driven the car away when they came. You'd have said u just packed to make a call and move elsewhere. Seems u have a bad mind and wanted her punished for not obeying ur orders.
Your type of friends are dangerous cos u even contributed after it all.
You are not a nice person.

I wasn't on the driver's seat. That was the mistake. I didn't drive the car. I was on the passenger seat. But I did my best so I can't be blamed after I showed her a place and she refused

maikbanj:


It wasn't towed. I pleaded and even tried tying them down till she comes but she wasted much time. At a point the Police attached with guns came down and said I should hand over the key so they drive the car to the station. I tried my best

Bro i understand u bt maybe u were scare or something bt i won`t ave release the key to them until the owner of the car come.did u place a call to her to let her know wat going on am sure if u deed that she would have rush out and that would have safe you the attitude she displayed.

Both of you made the mistake, you should have entered the driver's seat as soon as she stepped down. The deed is done, don't withdraw now but gradually plan and get your own car to avoid ruining the relationship as you said

CharlesRyder:




You did good by keeping calm.

You could have re-parked the car tho....since she left the key and you sat inside, because there are a lot of place where it's almost guaranteed your vehicle would be towed if you parked there.

Lagos na wa. E mean sey no stopping for there be that. From slow motion to full speed...ma duro! Gbera!!!

001spice:
Bro i understand u bt maybe u were scare or something bt i won`t ave release the key to them until the owner of the car come.did u place a call to her to let her know wat going on am sure if u deed that she would have rush out and that would have safe you the attitude she displayed.

Her phone was in her bag in the car ringing. To be honest I tried not releasing the key because they saw it already. I didn't want no scene with them in public so had to just release since the station was just a stone throw

GodisFirst:
Both of you made the mistake, you should have entered the driver's seat as soon as she stepped down. The deed is done, don't withdraw now but gradually plan and get your own car to avoid ruining the relationship as you said

Mistake learnt. It can't even happen again. Thanks

Avoid her. since she doesn't like to heed advice, such is likely to happen again.

Stop following her up and down. Get your own transportation to work. Issue resolved.

crafteck:


I just flashed through the writeup so maybe missed some points but she expects you not to be docile, i will assume its lagos since you no out direction so she expects you to activate madness when needed, she probably has a husband like that and has seen people doing that, to an extent she is right, cos if not shit like that will keep happening. If you are using just this day to judge her temper you are wrong, she simply expected more alpha masculinity from you.

It's Port Harcourt.. Well, I can't display such madness in public as my profession won't allow that .I was corporately dressed and of course the task force people even gave me my rep and nicely attended to the case. I pleaded bro. But got tired at some point

if u can't quite at this point that means you love your second job which is......... driving and receiving insult.....kpele go sameritan.....

Boy! Boy!!

OP! the way she categorize you, na only the second coming of Jesus go deliver you.

But it is all your doing.

Psoul:


I wonder ooo.
Does it mean that our youths don't even have their own wisdom any longer.
Every little issue, they will run to social media to seek for advise.
How will a person that doesn't know what to do in a simple situation like dis know what to do in a family complex issues.

Mr. no one knows it all. I made a decision already. but just wanted to seek advise here. At some point we all need people to advise on some certain issues in life

AishaYesufu:
Looking at your thread history, you have been having problem with women since 2016.

In March 2016, you were having crush on your cousin
https://www.nairaland.com/3004031/pls-having-crush-cousins-cousin

April 2016, a girl refused to call you but let you do all the calling

https://www.nairaland.com/3036449/what-could#44512113

August 2016, a girl always come to your room

https://www.nairaland.com/3267792/what-being-nice-caused-me
June 2017, you went to a girl's house and another guy came to take her to his room

https://www.nairaland.com/3879937/what-should-girl#57798557

September 2018, a guy was flirting with your GF
https://www.nairaland.com/4734281/what-guy-flirts-girlfriend

December 2019 your guy's girlfriend got married to another man.

Now this...

Obviously, your problem with women is spiritual

hahahah my Belle oh.....nairalanders with mouth